we Ina V7 Wm.- d:Ift3"iRLealm.. '1Ifuli.'oluaInisNlt mnnuaiw 9, 1931 ., iiluary For Wife is My Iliusliand Really Happy? For the woman who wants to build a really satisfying marriage - Ia much more important question than "Am I h8PDy?"Ii.s one she is ' RN01? 165! likely to ask herself. "'1: my husband happy?" The way to get the answer to .that one is not to uk your hus- : iband. For what can he say but. i"Su.re. I'm happy. why shouldn't I 'I be?" The way to get yourself a '. honest answer is to ask yourself 5a few questions and answer them honestly. Does my husband seem genuine- ly glad to get home in the even- ings and seem to want to Join the family circle - rather than to spend the whole evening. every evening. in some solitary pursuit? ' Does he seem proud of me. anx- ious for me to meet his new ac- quaintances and to go with him whenever it is possible for him to BRITISH DESIGNER CREATE8 take me? "MUSEUM PIECE" A new Museum of Costume being formed in London in time for the 1951 Festival of Britain will con- tain a model eventing gown design. ad to represent modern fashions. . I . Our picture shows an "after dark” ' gown which is destined to become a "museum piece" for future gen. eraticns to admire. The gown. designed by Victor Stiebel. at Jacqmar. London. is to be given to the new Museum of Costume, due to be opened in London in 1951, in time for the 1"es'vtival of Britain. The fitted black bodice of tune 80Wn has a rounded yoke out high It ilhe neck and heavily embroid- ered witih brcinze and jet beads. The spiral skirt is in cigar-colouiw ed crepe, which is swailhed at the waist and e-nds in a wide sa:1h- . scarf: this can be wom round the shoulders as an attractive alterna- rive. Considered as jartner Does my husband iegurd me as a partner, capable of understa:id- me his problems and at interested in his success as he is? Does he have some project in which he is vit.al.y interested, whether connected with his car- eer or with some outside interest or hobby? Is he proud of his home mid willing to take some of the respon- sibility for seeing that it is well kept up? is he as interested in the chil- dren as I am? Is he good-natured most of the time? Does he treat me as .-in attrac- tive woman he enjoys being with? Answer those questions honestly. and you can determine pretty well whether or not your husband is n ' happily married man. Care Of Childrenis Sight Parentsi Responsibility Says Welfare Folder OTFAWA. Fab. '1 - The import- ance of parerftal responsibility in guarding their chi.ld.r-en's eyesight is stressed in an illustratld folder "Eye Trmilble" isued by the De- partment of National Health and Welfare. Ohildrein do not complain of poor eight because they do not know that they are not seeing as well as they should. and paireinis usual- ly do not realize that the uhild .3? Morning Smile l w.:qx.v..zc:.-2c.va..u - Remember "What's that piece of string tied round your finger for. Bill?" "That's a knot. Forget-me-not is a flower. With flour you make bread, and with bread you have cheese. This is to rcmtnd me to buy some pickled onionA" Lonely Burglar: "I'm really not to blame. your worship. I was food- lass. friendless. homeless." Magistrate: "My man. you move me deeply. Food. shelter, and companionship shall be yours for the next nine months!" cannot see normally. the folder points out. "Every child Should have a primer eye examination by a medi- cal eye specialist as soon u the child is old enough to walk. A proper eye examination of all children should be made in any event before they start to school." Eye Trouble I Recent surveys. tine publication statu. have shown that about two out of five children in kindergar- ten and Grades One and Two in Canada have eye trouble of one kind or anoliher. lliurialghiedness The problems of shorisighted- ness and cross eyes are dealt with in some detail. The former comes on usually at about four or five years of 'age. Shortsighted chil- dren should wear glasses all the time and should not try to read small print or hold their work close to their eyes. The great majority of cross eyes or sq-uinfs make their ap- pearance between the ages of two and four aliihaugh some ex- ist at birth. a.nd a few cases de-' Long-Timel Bakery Contest velop during school age and in adult life. Winner at Stanley-Fair flaeimtbannivuaaryiof 3f.i.........u.unyu-no- tributetoFieiachmann'e aaat."AllthepriaaaIhava ' That Body Of Your: Q Ill W. Klf KI. & B3R&&3R9 ARTHRITIS AND T!!! MIRACLE DIUGI A jiysician friend .-- an arth- ritis specialist-recently courte- oualy asked me not to write any- thing more about the miracle drugs, A10!-I and Cortiaone. "We all recognize than as wonder druga." he said. "but why write about them when they cannot be obtained by the family iiiyalcian at present and for some this to come?" I I told him that while I had to publish the resultpobtalned in the various clinics. I also told. my readers that there were unfavor- able reactions in some cases. What should prove of help to arthritic: and their families is-a new pam- phlet called "Arthritis and Miracle Drugs." written by Alton L. Blakeslee and published by the -1-wo puns .. Nurses at Boston's Public Affairs Committee. a non- Audqbon Hwpnai mid me qugg'- mom educational 0l'l3h1lIl-l0lI- In rupieis mm were born to Mr. and ii. the medical and scientific com- M”, Robert J. Allen, of Hyde mittee of the Arthritis and Rheu- matism Foundation lists advice to guide you in this new era of op- timism and results in the stepped- up campaign against arthritis. In- stead of "just waiting" for ACTH and cortisone to become gener- ally available. the following ad- vice should be remembered: I 1. Avoid patent medi;:lm.-sufor rheumatism and use pa n-re cv- . III cmds to pi. ing drugs only under advice of qu:?'l;;'rF:bwZnd"g'ny prmnted bout physician.” kmmm whom shew fcamrmx mgh dnmn for day 2. Enough .. .. and i g based on the x line keeping arthritis patients free of wnhevflll” models "1. me pain and the prevention of de- I fonmlties to enable patients to nIpi)eId in I"h0uem ':;lm:9”d:; keep going about their normal lklftlmev "l MW d h bl daily pursuits. apron ha dkerchief an e no t .'l. Try to live free of the every- effects give H59? Ewlnil Ind KY9! day tensions and anxieties. Get as chic. muoh sound sleep as possible. A Predominatlnz 0010" 101” ”l"' rested body and worry-freq mind noon are black and Dink 01' 3" no a long way toward improving black, while beige stands on' its at-neral health and arthritic own throughout with a w der- joints. ful range of burnt orange to apri- 4. Make sure you have a well- cats and sands for sports. Bright balanci-d diet of meats. fruits. mpcoags go over white or dark vefzc-tables. juices and dairy pro- Sum, There is emphasis on ai- ducts. in diet rich in vitamins and DRCBSI shay-.gung3' mggnzas, heavy mlnarm "PPCNHV "0”- H3" fleece and chinchilla wools in tap- your physician outline an arthritis co”; A beuumul mwel ma; can. diet . t a coachman 5. Avoid strains but take exer- 5:”? 23183.0 eandh a:hm-5 guy”. in rise prescribed by your doctor. es- wddy be” neeceI ggclalilyofge hand:exercises. Keep Jacket buques nu nyumy Wm, WES P . 6. Avoid cold wet weather if 31m'ed tzamlgeuegvtmogld la: pwseihle. Wear sufficient outer ""5 l" I9 -1.11” stmened'me1on ”””ll"” of 3-me in P5? 1 nt of the basque 7. Don't' overeat or allow your- 59c"”"5 n 9 '9 mm pang self to become overweight. Newe” !””"'” ”fn5 jmh the 8. Don't try 'fancy" cures. At- POOH” Whlch "5 ma 1 3 "5 tend an arthritis clinic. luck!!! but WW ''9'- 39"" m"nI 9. R.emev.'r.'ber even If you start- and dresses had this new" , ed treatment late and have some merit. other two-Pl”? 5" u "5 deformity. much of this can now ture sunny pleat-ed -klr dlgo be corrected. fitted toPl- perfectly WM m.n.m...: summer afternoons. Swing panels. xxr&mm'- godets on one side in Wrlpover . - effects. small tailored collars- and Better English pushed up sleeves typify the xroup ' developed in dotted shnntunss. . 3! '- 0- "ml" 4 subtle mm IhIdO5. 1-wn. banana ' .: and white. p In wn bu The newea even I to I 1. What is wrong with this sen- a. deep fallle apron front on V-ha tence? ishe was delighted at the order of a amiti1y'l 1" W9 "0"" performance of her daughter." only; the underskirt is of pleated iatlon of iiithogrr-apher"? the wedding gown of satin and 3- which 0"? Oi "1939 Word! 15 pink chiffon elaborately embroid- mismelled? Harangue. harbinger. cred in pearls, shells and silver. -haphazard. hallucination. I. What does the word 'phleg- matlc" mean? 5. What is a word beginning with fa that means "ardent"? ANSWER! 1. Say. "ghe was delighted with the performance." 2. announce it- thog-ra-fer, i as in lit. 0 as in fog. aocent second syllable. 3. Ha.phsz- ard. 4. Not easily excited to action or passion. "He is a phlegmatic person." 5. Fervld. Restrained Taste Beehive jackets, governess dress- 3; ma triangular coats were dis- played when Jaoques Griffe cele- brated the opening of his new sal- on'on the swank Rue Roylle - 33 the old address of Captain Ed- VKm ' 2Houseliold Scrapbook Ily lobortalaa ' - The Stars Say -'-' NM .mm”h By Guanine Rumble I Try soaking the soiled blanket- overnight in a solution of cold water and borax.- Ind 9115 Wl" make the actual Job of washing them in the morning very easy. is the dirt will be loosened and ready to wash out. Vegetable Stains m&' For ibmorruw AN exceptionally exciting. en- thusiastic and expansive state of mind and emotions is read from the current astral incitement." The accent seems to be stressed on the personal. intimate and pos- slbly cultural or professional life. or in those relation: where pro- motion. preferment and financial factors figure. Personality. charm. subtle suasions seem to have atl- mulaiion and force. yet desired recognition from influential place: may be withheld. Cultivate friend- ship. the personal equation. If It II Yllllr Birthday Those whose birthday it is. may anticipate a most thrilling and ex- citing year perhaps in the realm of the feelings. and desires. hopes and wishes. Increase and expan- sion. rowarm and recognition of personality and talents. even though aome desired ciunlnaiion may be withheld. But there is so much of I compensatory nature. with a bounieous need of happi- ness, Joy and .rattflcation. A child born on will day. is bounteoualy blessed with talents. graces, personality and aspira- tions ulurlng a happy as wen u useful career. BABY'S CRY Iis NOT Atwavs rsuu-an vegetable stains on the hands will disappear if the hands are held in very strong tea for a few minutes. Then wash with soap and water. Sewing Mlchllle Belt the leather. magic. 2. What is the correct pronunc- chmon, This theme is repeated in” o,g....ay Place Mat.' the ...:....:.. ' v F -- Pa.rlr.iMass. Allen is a Boston :50- iioexnan. The quads. ivwo boys and two girls. will be named Timothy. Roberi, Kathleen and Karen. Nipped In Silhouette Fashion l Trendl In Paris ward Molyneaux. who closed down his fashion house last November. Griffe seems to inherit Moly- neaux's restrained taste, along with his salon, for most of his clothes this spring have the same sort of simplicity of line and sub- dued coloring the English design- er always favored. l-its beehive jackets are waist- iength affairs with fullness gath- ered into a sinall circular yoke the shape of a Peter Pan collar. Sleeves are hidden amongst all the fullness. Pencil-slim skirts so with these jackets which are made in heavy linen or black failie. t Griffe's "governess dresses" are mainly reserved for evening and are I mlniacent of the type of dress worn by governesses in the early liloos. They have demure "officer" collars and double breast- ed button fastening down a bodice which fits the torso nearly to the knees before winging into fullness. Triangular Coat .. His triangular coats. made up in grey flannel honey beige or bright red wool. are very nar- row at the top, splaying out to tremendous width at the bottom. Griffc shows a team of loose, hip-lemth Jackets that taper to- wards the hem. They are double- breasted with half belts act below waist level at the back. This low-placed belt is also seen on topcoats with enormous kimono . sleeves. Another designer who shows straight loose jackets and employs kimono sleeves for topcoats. is the up-and-coming young desgner, Alwynn. ' He shows one number called "peinard" (spinach). in coarsely- woven khaki colored wool that hasIext;a wide kimono sleeves dec- orated with two colossal patch pockets. Alwynn's fashion parade held here Saturday night 'modern art gallery. some of the oddities displayed .were suit jacket: worn back to front. The back of the collar cut sharply across the neck in front and lapeis closed at the nape of the neck. WIS I in II: lobarta lac mxs&m1. g Q. Do you consider it proper for 1 man- to criticize his wife's bridge playing in the presence of l guests? - l A. Never. It is not only ill-bre .but poor sportsmanship as well. ;He should remember that bridge 1!. after all. only a game and it is very embarrassing for guests to be fompclled to listen to his bidder- ng. I Q. If a girl is invited for a week-end visit and she is not sure lwhai kind of clothes to take. (what lshould she do A. The best thing for her to do under these circumstances is to ask her hostess what clothes will A new hole can bet pierced veryll” lIPW0Pl'llWo ' easily in the tough sewing mach- ine belt by heating a hat pin Vlry . hot and then thnisting ltthrourh It will work like Q. When one is to have a mail Iwedding in the minister's home, is it all right to mail out wedding annou;cemen :1 es. : Gfif hi; I i-ieu.su': illlllt Igoalliaanllaruarawlla Ei'iif.i”-its ital-iii? i 8,? 5 2 E S E 5 5 I I For James was away from. Aidei-lea today. having gone along the fields after the morning choring in answer to a aunrnons he had recently receiv- ed . . .not in words or writing. but one of those strange intangible messages which come to parents in a ' " ., often a presentimei-it of a happening to come. I O 0 Parents keep earn attuned to catch the like of these especially w James Ioinetl reminds us with a certain insinuation. "Good parents." We recognize a first call to this responsibility and accept it when a small helpless infant "bone of our bone gnd flesh of our flesh". newly arrived in this queer old world. utters a feeble wall. A echo of this, t.houg.h unspoken took James way along ihe' fields this morning. lie "just knew" as we breakfasted "that boy has a cold, and shouldn't be out in this dampness." go he must go to at- tend to-or as it turned out, only to assist in the busy choring there. Bob has a flair for keeping stables and sties fully tenanted. Indeed over-flows greet you from unlikely corners of the buildings until Karalyn declares hf don't know where we will put any more -unless it would be in the parlor!" And his days are full. and thus far neither strength nor spirit has faltcred over his chosen task. And what did ?ve'ao with this day of ours spent mostly alone. but not lonely? No one could de- scribe to the latter on a farm like this even though it is off the beat- en path - not with a house across - the lane to keep us company. We dined alone h :- ter, catching a glimpse of our pre- ferred frugal meal observed: "I think since my grandfather's away today. I'll have dinner at heme!" so we took down our , ' cup, all roses and gold and as quaint as an old-time valentine. as indeed we like to think it was. though our gift from another farm-wife and drank from it. our cup of tea - aalvnuring it well, lingering ovar.th.ia .inid-day meal. But soon we were back to our housework. hurryins it, and then .. . ay. then with a sigh. that was cousin to the kitten's purr. we drew an easy chay close to "the room" fire and in the exquisite silence provided for it. opened the covers of a. book. What delights are in this triad of words! Leisure. silence and a Book! True it is. that if unfortunate happenings have been known to. so also blessings come ''In threes." then? Un 1 tomorrow - - Diary - Good- lght. . . . ) Q; How Can Hit; - wwnmm--5 By Anna Ashley : Mgdern Efiqueff. assoc)-:.c;c;4-.:izs.w.?.c:a-.-xo;.ax2.-xs.:s:. Q. How can I make use of bacon rindn A. They can be used for flav- oring soups and dried peas and lima beans. sprad over the top of Boston beans while baking. they aka the place of the usual piec of salt pork. imparting flav- or and promoting the top layer of beans from burning. Q. How can I clean a Japan- ese tray? A. Wipe it. with a soft clotlu dipped in I mixture of powdered whiting and -vinegar. Polish with a clean cloth. How can I prevent the flour from lumping when making Dild- ding? A. Mix the flour and aunt well together before adding the milk. Childfen itPoker Faces"I To Show Their Emotions I children are re; aoberaidll. In - I Their small fac'ea.. so smooth and frank. are pans-" Two childrzi meet each other on the sheet. They are old friends and haven't seen each other for a long time. perhaps. But what do they do! rfua each other. he about and laugh? Not in the lust- Mayba they .lust'stare or at beat say. "Hello" and Dan on. Give a child a new toy. as may show intenla excitement. but he won't smile. The happier he II. the graver he looks. One would think he could be a little more dramatic about it. but he isn't. Perhaps it was to arouse some real effort at more cheerful reac- tion. that a certain teacher in a progressive school tried to coax smiles on her pupilr faces. Betty came home looking as glum as a rainy day. "What in! happened now?" asked her mother. "I-lumph. The teacher was try- ing to instill in us the spirit of galety." scowied Betty. - This. says the psychologist, tells the story. children want to wear masks. They are afraid to show their true feelings. "But children grow out of this seriousness." you lay. "Older D00- ple smile when they meet. express real Joy under happy ClY0"m-995' ces and say the right wants." The older person is unaw u of what to register. He cannot con- trol his feelings, always. but most of the time he can do so. Therein Moral In It. This is the moral. the expert says, to be taken from it all: Never trust a child's face for his feelings. He is as absorbent as a sponge. Nothing escapes hlm. 01' her. They can suffer and not show it. or be happy and conceal it. The best you can do is to put yourself in the place of the child and imag- ine how you would feel in the same circumstances. . ' FRENCH AIDA France. moat westerly country in central Europe. has an urea of 212,659 square miles. (( at V '2 Try Si Breaks Home DEAR MISS DIX: . world comes from talk? Dont you tragedy and save many a divorce? he aoothsayer))eB told that it was virtue consisted l bride returned to i which can't be re than the sword. claiming their secret sorrows to talk is no remedy for trouble. It what we need more than anythlnl pebbles for the use of arguing hue a married couple start in to debai ihlngl um they cannot forum and It is literally true husband and any wife could stop a little judicious use of silence. from wreckage, thousands wouldn't 'give .eaoh other backtalk. silence. SCHOOL Bill. COMPANION '1!-iara's no question about this mu-wt a modal min for school because it'. neat looking yet takaa almost no time for you to make. The weakit effect is new and dif- ferent; so is the young edition of the show! collar. 110.2211 laeutlu Ilaea2.(.o,I and, to. sin 4. iii yards I6-inch. land to for each PA'i'l'l:RN which include: complete sowing guide. Print Your Name. Address and style Number plainly. Be sure to atato also you want. Include postal unit. or none maniac your addraal. . Midi-on ramrn Dorothea: The Charlottetown ouardan. fsttsrn ago. 871 oonoinv DIX Slvs- , of the bride who consulted a wise womnn . with her husband and was given a nifllc Pebbh 10 hold in h" "'”"”' whenever . quarrel started? The ta 0! course. I know reciting their tales sport of a lot of people. esPeciaiiyhv:o;n:rI;a. why. on women. mm only depresses the unhlvliy llilfn" and makes his or her own burden harder to hear. I HIST All) T0 DIVOIOI It is also only too tnlrthat talk is first aid to divorce, and that not agree that one word leads on to another until they (h t it take . 'famliy fight in its first round by A Thousands of homes of children could be Ms being brought up in turbulent households if only husband: and W stead of talkers. and no friends are so conlonlll II "10" W” Continued on pit! 14 A -Needlecraft - FOR THE HOME - as! Malta 4' up am I limo: Pink 3.. forth in brkht range and b,.h",,.p shades to Illlf-c.ll'fI&lnII and ya. iage last fall. are now .5. ' more delicate lines for Iyl'lng,' By the tuna warm winds my. unfurled buds on flowering mg style-conscious woman wtu ym; shifted to a fragile. IPDle-bloisoin maka-up. - Navy II movine to the forefront as a basic color this season, wm, shades of mauve and lavender leading the field as costume ac. conic. Since Dink-toned complexio ." will beat complement these colors cosmetic firms are offering . wide array of clear-pink mm, and mauve-pink lipaticks. These will point up in. P...” ,.i-ettinau of skin: that have been given a poroeliln look with an un, dercoating of white powder finish. edmzith a final dusting of page); 0, D r g Cook's Corner SALMON A 1.! Qvlmlia 34 lb. can of salmon 2 cups mashed potatoes. hot chopped parsley. 2 tbs. Butter White sauce. 2 cups Fiakex salmon. strain liquor Make a white sauce (not too thick for it will thicken up in the oven.) Add salmon and liquor to sauce and mix. Salt and pepper to taste Butter an ovenproof dish. and at with salmon mixture. completely cover the mixture with final) mashed Potatoes. if Possible through a pastry tube for the add- ed touch of glamour. Garnish will dots of butter and ilnely choppel parsley. Brown in oven. and aervl hot. serves 4. lance Useless Arguing So Often And l-lean-is Don't you believe that half the trouble in th think silence would avert many a Do you remember the old story about how to live in FERN was so successful that the ging to buy the pebble. only to ll” juat an ordinary pebble Ind 9! n the fact that she could not talk while she held it in her mouth, and so all Mail- menls between herself and her husband died A natural death. Why talk about unpleasant things medied '.' PEACE LOVER t ANSWER: You are quite riahl in Win! "W uik mu up more trouble. brings on more WIN . wrecks more homes and breaks more hearts any other one thing in the world. The tongue is a far more it! of woe is the chief indoor who set a kick out of pro- a supply 01 lg when they d0 any the one in the world la bands and wives. For it . some subject on which that kill love. we to make a quarrel. and any could be llwfl saved the misery 0' Certainly in this restless. noise-ridden age a lot is to n llld No people are more popular than those who are in Int" h whom