~ ‘\" uasnrtaicr): was; ~ 83.1w _~ .-.-.~e n44; _> t»; t. _.,_ l‘ be does it. shipped. he bows the knee before her. mlflsh mothers are tor their children. pam inflate their egotism md foster their selfishness until they become and selb‘ ri'E: lllliiiiiiz Avkeélilil-t- Qléélhl..." sham.‘ rttlI.i!t5. ma‘ .14 '1 I one! a A‘; l. i3; '1 '9'.- Lite rrrtii 1'8 ham vvw~ l III Ilene IS 1 - G189 nselfihnees Should be a Fifty-Fifty Propo- sitionin Every Marriage, for the Wife Who Does all the Sacrificing and the Wife Who Takes All Both Bose Out in the End Are wives too umelfish? To this question all married men will arise and answer with one mice: "No. Certainly not. However did you get such a Q1106! 16H?’ But, on the contrary, we have it on the auth- orityofnolessa 00d trimonialex- purtthanldary Pieklonithatthegnatastmis- taha that wives ins-ks is in being too sell-ab- negating. She says that unselfish wives are the ruin- ation oi husbands, that they not only 511011 men but weaken them. and that when GeorBQ ilnds out that he can let Martha do it he lust stepslrom unldera-nddumpstheloadonher shoulders. Also she oping that husbands sel- dom appreciate the sacrifices that wives make tor them. and that you will look far and wide before you will ever find a man tying a blue ribbon around a nanny goat's neck and mak- ing s pet ol her. ' ~ v uvvqw Ihh Ahmall lpah lint lfi- DomtlcyDix I I In all of which there is, of course, a lot of truth. One of the most discouraging things about marriage w a woman is that she can't be as and kind to her husband as she would like to be without spoiling Bhe would like to grovei at his feet and burn incense before him. She would like to give him the tender-est bit o! the steak and the softest chair in the room. She would like to adorn him like Solomon in all his glory even ii she had to wear Cinderella rags. She would like to give him the beet of everything and take all the hardest knocks herself. But, good grief, it she does, she soon finds out that he takes it for granted that he is so superior to her that she is not good enough to be his wife and that he make s mistake in picking out such a worm of dust 1o: s mate. The mly place where the sell-sacrificing wives evw get what is coming to them is on their tombstonu. The world is lull of wives who have made their shoulders a ladder on which their husbands climbed to success. They married poor boys and went to live in cheap cottages or flats to save on the rent. They worked harder than any slaves to help their husbands get g sun, They pinch. ad every penny. ‘Iiiey went shabby so that their husbands might make a good appearance when they went abroad. They never indulged them- selves in any amusements. They simply immolated “‘ 0n the altar d their husbands. How have the husbands repaid this unselfish devotion? 8y lavish- ing upon them every expression o! appreciation and gratitude for their sacrifices? Occasionally it is done. Not very often. Mostly the un- aaliiah wile is collecting her reward in the shape of alimony, while he; husband ll Ell-limiting around with a new wife loaded down with emer- ald brscelets. Alas, it is sadly true that the best wives are not always the best-loved wives. It is not the meek wives who demand nothing for themselves, who pretend that they would rather stay at home at night and watch the baby sleep than step out to a play or a night club and who lie cheap simple little frocks. who have the adoring and considerate husbands. The ladies who have nudaands who continue to be lovers and to show them attentions after marriage are mostly the selfish, seif-oentereii. 980t- istio women who grab everything in sight and leave their husbands to make whatever sacrifices the situation requires. Husband may have to wear his clothes until they are threadbare, but they always have the latest thing lrorn Paris. Husband may have to toil through cold Winters and 0t Summers in his ofiice. They go to Europe or Palm Beach. 1t is band who gets up in the night and walks the baby with the colic, while they take their beauty sleep. And the 1111f" part of it all is that husband takes it and likes it and flainks wile the most wonderful woman in the world, and is proud t0 fiddle alony m her wake. Perhaps it is because women have discov ered that there is so little percentage in sell-immolation that unselflshness has become s ‘ virtue among wives, for they have observed that every wile writes her own m "an" numb“, ' e or and that hfl‘ husband tfbats her as m demands to ba treated. she makes of herself a doormat lor him to walk over and kick around, If she puts herself up on a pedestal and expects to be wor- Undoubtedly unselfish wlvea are as bad for their husbands Is un- They per and pet them and med: and tyrannical and not fit to live with. But, even so, the unselfish wile is the great bulwark against divorce, lor you can no more make a successful marriage without sweetening it with an unselfish woman than you can make a. cake without putting It. is when a selfish woman marries a selfish man and both many others who are daughters of the horseleech. 50mg women spoil their husbands. Others enslave them. 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