THE CADRE, TUES,. FEB. 19, 192.4 Page ’6. 
     
    
   
   
    
     For Ms.Con’t 
     
    
   
   
    
     is why I think that anyone 
     
     who needs make—up and roll- 
     
     ers to be well groomed is 
     
     phony. What is the matter 
     
     with the body we are born 
     
     with? Isn't the body a work 
     
     of beauty without cosmetics? 
     
     Also, another question to 
     
     ask is how much time does 
     
     your boyfriend spend put— 
     
     ting his make-up on? Does 
     
     he ever complain that his 
     
     thighs are too large, his 
     
     chest too small and so on? 
     
     Of course not. Since he 
     
     thinks he is superior he 
     
     does not have to worry that 
     
     his body is not alright. 
     
     Any man or woman who chan- 
     
     ges for the comfort and sec- 
     
     urity of their mate and has 
     
     done so freely, that is out 
     
    

    
     of love and concern is a 
     
     free act: whereas changes 
     
     which one feels one must 
     
     make to please or to con- 
     
     form to their mates wishes 
     
     is a product of oppression. 
     
     Therefore I'am not asking 
     
     for an independent relation— 
     
     ship but an interdependent 
     
     relationship where each par- 
     
     tner may grow in his Or her 
     
     own way. _ 
     
     Yes, Shirlene, I agree With 
     
     your statement of door open- 
     
     ing if the person for whom 
     
     you are opening the door 15 
     
     physically incapable (wheth— 
     
     er it be male or female) but 
     
     I also see it as a means for 
     
     'making females more depen— 
     
     dent on males. You are;able 
     
     to give me good reasoning 
     
     about the courtesy of open- 
     
     ing doors, but are all fe- 
     
    

    
     ' males incapable of lighting 
     
     their own cigarettes, taking 
     
     their coats off, and so on. 
     
     If these acts are real acts 
     
    
   
   
    
       
     
    
   
   
    
     1he 
     
     Chrisfion 
     
     Brothers 
     
    
   
   
    
     (De La Salle Brothers) 
     
    
   
   
    
     prayer and service 
     
    
   
   
    
     in community. Contact Father Wendell 
     
     Mac Intyre (892-7362) ~ 
     
     Room 136 Main Building 
     
     for an appointment. 
     
    
   
   
    
     fltes: "And all girls looking 
     
    
   
   
    
     Brother George Morgan FSC 
     
     _ will be on your campus 
     
     A“m°f from Feb. 18—20. 
     
    
   
   
    
     of courtesy toward someone 
     
     who is physically incapable 
     
     then I agree with you whole 
     
     heartedly. However, I feel 
     
     that many of the so called 
     
     courtesies are done for oth* 
     
     er motives. 
     
    

    
     You also state that the fe- 
     
     male graduate is at the age 
     
     where marriage interests 
     
     her. Could it be that she 
     
     now needs security because 
     
    

    
     I find it hard to actually 
     
     set down a certain age for 
     
     marital interest to begin? 
     
     Also your next sentence sta—. 
     
    
   
   
    
     for financial security..." 
     
     With these first two senten- 
     
     ces you lead one to believe 
     
     that girls are interested in 
     
     marrying a financially se— 
     
     cure person. Using this rea- 
     
     son for marriage, a univer- 
     
     sity graduate is a big risk 
     
     since they have a certain 
     
     debt before they start mar- 
     
     riage, and are incompetent 
     
     to work. Is this the proper 
     
     motive for marriage?. 
     
    
   
   
    
        
     
    
   
   
    
       
     
    
   
   
    
     "01!. 
     
    
   
   
    
     Your last paragraph is fan- 
     
     tastic. You give the impre- 
     
     ssion that females have to 
     
     catch a man and in order to’ 
     
     do this they must think of 
     
     sly, sneaking methods in 
     
     which to use their bodies 
     
     .for bait. Also our first co- 
     
     ntact with the opposite sex 
     
     should not be purely phy— 
     
     sical. After all if our 
     
     thoughts and interests are 
     
     not commonly shared, what 
     
     happens when we're old, » 
     
     wrinkled and slightly de- 
     
     teriorated? Of course we can— 
     
     not argue about the way our 
     
     bodies are built but there 
     
     must be more to life, love' 
     
     and marriage than sex. 
     
     ,Therefore Shirlene, I don't 
     
     think anyone can really be 
     
     a "natural woman" with the 
     
     ideas that you have given. 
     
     Until we really start to 
     
     question society's standards 
     
     and our own actions we are 
     
     destined to remain the-same. 
     
    
   
   
    
     Gil Brammer 
     
    
   
   
    
     cont. pg. 7‘ 
     
    
   
   
    
       
     
    
   
   
    
     HOLLAND COLLEGE 
     
     WINTER CARNIVAL FEB 20-24.‘ 
     
    
   
   
    
     wed. Coronation Ball 
     
    

    
     (no blue jeans) 
     
    

    
     Music by 'Sun Machine" $2 
     
     Thur. Casino Night ’ 
     
     Fri. Dance $2 , 
     
    

    
     Music by Zylan 
     
     Sat. Pig 'N Whistle 
     
     (9-12:30)v . 
     
     Music by Millers Jug 
     
     Irish type music 
     
     Bar at all functions 
     
    
   
   
    
       
     
    
   
   
    
     Did you know that there is 
     
     a licensed Day Care center 
     
     in the Barn with unbearably 
     
     low rates (like $4. a week)? 
     
    

    
     That the Day Care is avail- 
     
     able for all students with 
     
     children and there are vac— 
     
     ancies in the center? 
     
    

    
     That there are programs not 
     
     usually offered in Day- 
     
     Cares such as skating, play- 
     
     ing outdoors, campus tours, 
     
     as well as other recreation- 
     
     al and educational programs? 
     
    
   
   
    
       
     
    
   
   
    
     ,That if you are interested 
     
     you should contact Carolyn 
     
    
   
   
    
       
     
    
   
   
    
       
     
    
   
   
    
     in the Day Care in the Barn? 
     
    
   
   
    
       
     
    
   
   
    
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