_nf ____ iff.. .. ,.> ¢»-.-,- Kel. T gi i? -> 5 l in.».¢¢n- 2 rr I _ml ' the (le: ne es( ril’ 11| I the -_ Iam in on Ba! Wh Gls 'ivol lol hoe rip; ‘ _ il" N Nl" if - a ~ .__ .-1. V ' ~- ~. .._ _ - rr.-=~ _ _ ,., ,.,. ._ ,_ ... ._ _.~.-ls.-,nffrsrif.e1r»»r<»»&»¢-_=n:¢.~~:,»=r:=.=iivm...:h..r.=i--arf. -l.-ss... . f 1 _ - _ ,_ -.- _ __'.;_ l _ r_ --~ ~~-~~ --I - 1 A °_"..=.......'“*""“E' _ ...--_r. ---___ 29.193 I .f7l”iWQman’s Realm -.°- Social and Personal -.°- Fashions, -.°- Literature " 4,...-» _ _ _ ‘:=u_»_ .__ -__-»~» itffiéifii Fa./nemesis are u7§¢fz;ig ` ” ° ‘ |” e like ii. F A Dorothy Dix Letter Box Why Can’t Mothers Let Their Married Children & Run Their Own Lives? Cries One of Victims " of Maternal Interference; Will a Dear Dorothy Dlx-Twenty years ago when we were married my hus band and I were very much in love with each other. very congenial and had every prospect of happiness. Now we have lost interest in each other, have nothing in common and have settled down io an en durance of marriage Neither one of us has done any thing wrong We sre just alienated from each other and I blame this state of ai.'Isirs on our respective mothers My mother had been domineered over by my father, so she urged me not to let my husband rule me, not to trust him, to spend all the money I want- ed and keep him working hard; not to let him run' with the boys, etc. I thought she knew and I follow- ed her advice. She killed my faith in my liusbandl ans caused me is be suspicious and in do the things ` that must have made me very hard to live with. _ mother began by disliklng me simply because I had mar- ried her son, and she, too, advised. lhe told my husband never to let me ‘ know what his income was, never to consult me in business, never to give me any money of my own, never to consider my pleasure in anything and to make me give an account of many lnconiings and outgoings, and always to remember that he was the head of the house and that I must obey him. I feel that our mothers have mined our happiness and that they have made a breach between us that would riot have been there but for the:-n.‘ Why cant mothers keep their hands of! and let their married children run their own lives? R. E. L. \ nm Answer: _ I don’t know. Perhaps it is because mothers never realise that their children are grown-up and are capable of inanaging their own affairs. Per- .haps it is the meddling instinct that is inherent in most women and that fmakes it impossible for them to keep their fingers out of other people‘s pies. -Perhaps it is the mlilsh desire of every mother to see her own child be the little tin god in s marriage and enslave the party of the other part. ,‘ Most likely it is just mother jealousy that strikes out blindly at the one who has taken her child from her, but any way it happens, it is true that (mothers are oftener the heads oi’ the home-wrecking crews than they are _'the captains of the salvage corps, and that nine times out ol' ten the vnwt fdancei-ous advice inet any yoiqg riiQierl couple can take is that :lvrn by 'their mothers. ' ‘- No one can explain why s woman who loves hcl' children and desires ite see them happy will urge them to do the very things that she knows will lbring disaster upon them. Probably not one woman in 10,000 wants her child- iren to live in e perpetual right with their husbands and wives, or wants their fhomes broken up and thcm divorced and their children half-orphaned. Yet untless mothers do everything ln their power to bring down these mis- ,goortunes on their ch1ldi'en's heads and when they fail it is just the mercy of Bod, and not for lack of their own evil influences. i but tells daughter not to give in and advises son not to lei any woman run _‘ It is the rare mother who turns the spotlight on her sen-in-law's vir- ov tues instead of his faults; who urges her daughter to greater eiiorts to please E11- husband and reminds her that there must be give and take in marriage; , ocounsels her daughter to _be a good housekeeper and ii. thrifty manager 1 'Waster Work After Marriage? \ Hoiv easy to make GOOD tea! ld out and eat the teapot with a little qi' the boiling water Empty teapot and put in one small teaspooisliil of King Cele Tea for escliparaeu to be an-ved Pour on boiling water, but be sure it ie boiling briskly This is meet important You cannot make good tea unless water is tially boiling flat Allswtea te steep at least Ive nlaiitubaf¢repouring.butneee¢ put teapot when the tea could boil. Simple, ian't it? And ilyoii faithfully observe the rules, you can have delicious tea every time. Use. pmferably, an earthen er crorkefy teapot-it is the best lea maker. Draw fresh water and bring to a brisk boil quickly ss possible. Bea li _ _ --_l_l__lll lended for good tea-makers King Cole can be made ex- actly the same way as any other tea. But it holds a hidden re- ward for those who make tea well. The better the tea, the more important it becomes to make it properly. - The flavor, fullness and strength hidden away in the carefully selected leaves of King Cole are put there for your enjoyment. It is up to you to -bring them out. I allot: him A ' You’ll likethe flavor Of M; l v Eid give nothing, and to consider themselves poor persecuted martyrs bee- fnnd to live well within her husbsnd's income and who, when the hard' sled- On the contrary, most mothers' advice to their daughters is to take all Of liohrse, it is hardlfor mothers who have always told their children t to do in every emergency to keen tongues on alter they are married. dine comes. bucks her dsuzhter to stand up and do ber duty of throwlns but ir they sesire thewelnrefoi their sons and daughters they will make the up her hands and quitting. 'lu . sacrl flcc. For mother's advice has wrecked more homes than drink and \’l\m‘P5 vomblned. DOROTHY DIZ. < - 0 - U O O O O Dear Miss Dlx-I am deeply in love with a handsome young mari. but he use they have to put up with 2- husbands weaknesses and keep house and puts pleasure above everything else. He woirt work and ne nys there is no 56°’ ¢h11df°“- ‘ use in settling down until after marriage. Do you think that if he won't ‘ And it is a rarer thing for a mother to praise her daughter-in-law to her Pen instead of knocking her, and as scarce as hens' teeth are the mothers who urge their sons to be tender and considerate to their wives and to do all In their power to make them happy and content/ed_ p f Many a man would never find out that his wife spent more on 'her lothes than she should if his mother wasnt continually harping on how hiother wasn’t always poking in the garbage can and telling him that Busan set Aris wer: lt has been done, but I earnestly advise you not te risk having s. miracle assed for your benefit and behoof. It happens too seldom to make it a ood gambling proposition, tle down and go to work before marriage he will afterward? !'lI!LEN. Occasionally, about once in a blue moon s man who is pleasure-msd and any new dresses Mary had and the scandalous number of shoes- Many idle and worthless does settle down and go to work after hs gets married. man vwuld never find out thlt his wife wsm't s sood hwnkeewr if hll but it doesnt happen that way emu. musty-nine times out of e. hundred the irresponsible butterfly goes on being a buticrhy to the end, dancing and eeled the potatoes too thick. Many a man would think his wife bright and -men-y-m|,\¢1n¢ without “king my thought 5°, th, fum,-,_ if’ C R Y |= o R iT i l £4 , ¢.. , ‘ ` ‘ " -=.== ~ "':a7a _.5 _. ____-,___ .f .. ';A»$u--..._ U . ` Av ez; . _ ,_ - .-_-.».a.. 1 .' I ' ‘D Eitertalnlng because she went around and always had something fresh to lk about, if mother didn't put it into his head tilt she was frivolous and [added too much. ' And it is mother who first destroys her faith in her husband in many a oman’s heart. It is mother who tells the young bride that no inan is to K trusted and that she will have to watch her husband and that girl he hvorks next to in the office. It is mother who eggs her daughter on to ending more than she should and makes her believe that her husband is gtightward when he says he can't afford this or that. And it is mother V o. when her children have a spat, doesnt urge them to kiss and make up I %=:_-,-_-.--;.- _-_--,-_f_-:.~_:~-fé_-_T--» -~.-_-_-f _ <1-_-4-_; H I EN i 'I' -- ' -.;__._==;1;.r.*r V -__;l;z_::v . '_ '___ '_-.-;__» ,, __ _ _I ,_ _ , . _ _'_ _l,-,ll iva million moqem mothers will ,| F tell you that children DO cg for """'-“"" Fletcher e Csstoris. For iiiotliere ways 3:-25 '.....e give a few drone of this pure vegetable preparation when a child has any of the symptoms that tell of sluggish bowels, colic, or other upsets. When 0.1:! tongues are coated and breath is b . When a child is restless: irritable. Always soo in an coin orting an ant- tli' g d f ' to inf yet it is effective for children in their teens. You never have to coax children to take Castoria; they love in tene. Be ready for the next case of sour f stomach, constipation, or other need for Castoriai When buying look for the signaturh of Chas. H. Fletcher on wrapper. lil ` I iii' ll, |...| _ "Ml ""# l As s matter of fact, many of these happy-go-lucky chaps cari't settle down to any serious work because they are poor weakllngs without the strength of character to stand up and fight the battle of life. They lack purpose and stability and a sense of responsibility. They are parasites, not sturdy oaks. They are playboys, not real men. 'I‘hey are poor things for a woman to lean on because they always isil her in her need. They are' the sort of men who are always out of a Job, and whose families are always on the ragged edge of want. They make the sort of husbands who are off on a wild party when the baby is born, and who drag their families around the country in battered ilivvcrs following some will-o’-the-wisp of fortune that they never catch up with. _ _-_»__A_ The world is full of wretched women who have married men who prom- ised to be different after marriage; of wives who are still fishing the drunk- ards out of the gutter who were going to be sober after marriage; of wives who are taking in washing to support the na'er-do-wells who were going to work after marriage; of wives who are still chasing the rounders who were going to settle down after marriage. Isn’t it about time for women to learn sense enough to marry men who are what they want in a husband before marriage, instead of marrying men who promise to be different aft/er marriage? DOR0f1'l!Y D13. O I O O O O Dear Miss Dix-Do you think a married man really loves his wife if he makes love to her most intimate woman friend? WONDERING. Answer: . No. If s man loves his 'wife, he doesn't need any other woman to make love to. She suffices. If a msn loves his wife, he will not hurt and insult her by having an `aUair with her friend. DOROTHY DIX. HOME ECUIIOMIG SIIURT 'CUIIRSE ' Beginning on February 16th, the Woinsn’s Institute Branch of the Department of Agriculture will conduct a three weeks course iii Home Economies. ’i‘l_idse wishing to .take advantage of this course, which is given free of charge, will please apply before Feb- ruary lltii, and applications will be considered ln the ` order received up to that data. _ 'Address all communications to the Supervisor of ~ Woiiien’s Institute, Box 128, Charlottetown. .. ~ ~~-__~& 3. 'f it f ._ < ; .- »t:`{;'§% -'_ , .i` _ _ \._ i | ya I 4. ’ ., ~ _,_.‘<_-1 ¢.`._,>';,.»' -';_<:=f'_ .j~',. -- _-;\ ~:f,» - f- , ~.“ -_ -v __' ’§=- _ ' Styles for children or the miss, the i"`1j'_z matron, the stout - and a series of _ ' -l . »-ii dressmaklng articles. lt is a book I -’ _ that ivillsave you money. " ¢_ I Be sure to llll ln the size of the 1:1. :;:" . ` yi . f ' e ’ / Daalurii: youth will enyoy this ‘ Illustrated Dressmaking Lesson Furnished _ _ With Every Pattern By Annabelle W°rtl\iiurton and DONALD ` -_"12-;t's sleeveless too, for the flatter- and ' I after anbther as you tum over the ...Q W _ . . . ~;<5l_i;_ gl 4 ‘ Z'-4 Price of pattern 15 cents. No. assi. sue _ I ......... ing shoulder cspelet provides audi cient covering for the arms. How- . ever, it also may be made with long sleevu or with short culled sleeves. x The cape may be discarded tow-and -. the neck nnished with applied band ` l and bow in siniple 'smart manner l shown in miniature view_ The circular skirt has so inverted plait at the center-front. Carried out in plain coloured crepe silk in the new lighter ahsdos. crepy woolen, wool jersey, tweed mixtures and novelty cottons, it is also most l attractive. Style No. 2881 may be had ln alles You will see one attractive style 'pages' of our new Spring Fashion 1 pattern. Send stompa or coin (coin preferred.) i Price of book 10 cents. Street Address sporlsy model of crepe printed silk. City State Poker - Faced , 1 Sandwiches 'rnessirnssiessoonsersexhavc a parhioiilar dislike fcrihose femi- mine dalntles called open-faced Ind. widlieswlillclivsiethe laltrltesof aitai'l\aonteaaiide.fternoongoadp. Neitllieriilicmasciiliaasppstita nor ilhsmaeoulinepatieiicewillholerake nlbbiuignniiinsei-air-bues.wlis,,e‘ manaaksdorse-ndwicheshemearc asenemsoisanawicn meant »o‘ iou¢egomeatanslii~eade-iidrhuty_ 0fit.'I1'lathrlwas¢lle0fllllll»l*M' oise.iuiivaliu.1ne my u will thattheyoungiiuinwaiso inten- A Morning Smile APPLICATION DUL1' NOTED A young man proposed to his sweetheart and was accepted. Being rather timid, he deeiderl to ring up her father on the telephone and uk his consent. "Is that Mr- -?" he ln- quired over the wire: "Yea" "Well, 1 have proposed to your dl-ll¥hl»°\‘ 1 and she has accepted- me, and I` would .lust liketo let your consent.” "Certainly," answered the father, "I will be most delighted-but wl'lo'| speskin"I" rely interested in the gaming table 1 that he did not wish to leave it for 1 food and so he callediorhlsineat and Pokerfacedaandwiches are e iuuswiuensomtreveel by mul faces what they hold. Let a man' mslmhisowossndwicheel-nd see; howthebreadiseutsndseehowthe meatisslloeds-ndlec howfastt-he, mu|iei'd» b°\'*-"dill “ld W* mites ni, 1 teaspoon baking pow- dlseppear. A jar of dill nickels woai't lest long either. The following breed eut in thick money slices Nady forthefilllngwouldpleaseahyman who was Planning I INK Party Best bran 'bread-1 yeast cate. 2 teaspoons salt. 1-8 wp blown augar| (or molasses), 2 1-4 cups luke- warm wear.. I euos bread flour. S cups all bran. 3 tablespoons short- the salt. I1-islr and water. Mix until a smoot3\.Add8cupaaf flour. Balt well. Add tht ehorfdnlng which offlour Mix thoroughly, keeping ingboardligtitlywlth flour turn into greased bowl and turn it ever sides 0! WWI clean- Sprinkle knead- 425 deg. F.) for 15 minutes, then , Od U oak UW with thin .coating of sliertmilng Allowtoriseuntildoughisdoibied in buikor until blisters or gas ssesbegintoappootiontep ofthe dough. Punch doilh down in center Iii 5 Weeks One *__ Thln Woman Gained 15 Pounds Dear Madam: Ifyoubeedniore goodaclidfieehtofilloutlmlielitly holloeniiirieohoheeksand chest whynetstertiodeytoletm hirtherdeisy maybedtalstoue netgeto-A-orshylive abeaeflledors lets-tbeyaro the ililiililiii gl Eigigégég _ li? iii’ lg* ‘iii .lil if thh k lryelieseeet _wane ees is|g_gg_es ooys. ""‘““"”’ -~ ».° enlng. Crumbie yeast into a bowl. add ‘ Le has been softened. Beet wall. Add utes. Shoe into loaves and let rise mee in as muy wuioie fem. I F0? 7718 C00k _ th ` Ill *Il iro tes and all-bran and the remaining 2 cups until light (about one hour) and bak C several tiinu until outside is covered is siven the bread to rise. Yield, one the onion. Use with mayonnaise end a erin lettuce lea! between slices of buttered bread. RICE POPOVEEB Halfacupofeooked rieeleggs (beaten), 1 cup milk, ‘A cup Hour, 1 teaspoon melted fat, 1 teaspoon _ der. ‘A teaspon salt. _ Mash the rice until smooth. Add beaten eggs, milk and melted fat. Mix and sift dour, salt and baking powder. Combine the two mixtures d beat two minutes. using a rotary -beater. Pour into hot greased ii munin pans and bake is minu- in hot oven. Serve immediately. nd punch. Turn the dough over. t rise 45 minutas. Punch again turn dough over. Let rise 15 min- e s moderate oven (400 deg. to uoe heat to 380 deg .l". for rie- ) may be used if a longer time 0-pdllkld 1061. ' | The following fillings offer variety: l Cheese and onion Itndwlobee-1 ` cup cream cheese, 1-4 cup chopped Bermuda onion, lettuce leaves, 1-4 cup mayonnaise. Mix the cheese with Ohicken. ham and celery send- wlches-1 eiip cooked chicken meat, 1-2 eip celery. l tableqioon green pepper, 1-4 cup mayonnaise, 1-4 cup ootked ham. Mllwe the chicken ham. celery and green peppers.. Mix with the mayonnaise and qiread on buttered bread.. Beef sandwiches-i 1-4 oims cold roast beef. 1 teaspoon salt. 1-3 table- spoon tmnato ostcliim, I-2 teaspoon Worcestershire seruce, 1 tablespoon melted butter. 'llo minced eoid reaet beer ldd the salt. tomato estonia., hater. Spread on buttered bleed., butted. Spread an buttered bread, cover with a second sliea..-ly Bar- bara R.. 310%. >-____ "Ate you a :look watcher?" asked the employer -.if the eendidile for a les. \ B, 10, 12, 14, 16, 18 and 20 yclrl. - - Q Have you discovered this pleasant-fo-fake form. of cod -liver oil F Gnlwr news, mothers! You don’t have to hound your children into taking cod-liver oil-for they like it. this emulsided way. Bere's real proof. When the __ Scott’s Emulsion reporter re- cently called on Mrs. E. M. McMu1li.n of 176 Jarvis St., To- ronto, he found that she didn’t believe anything could make her two sons. who are §ictured above, fake cod-liver oil. either of them liked the flavor of plain cod-liver _ oil. So ueturalli slie_wsntcd to see liow Scott’s mulsion of Cod- Liver0ilwou.lda°;apes.ltotlieboys. Theyeachtri someforus. . . ' "Say, I like it l" ssid Donald. “It tastes fine!" grinned Ivor. Pleasanter to take- A but that isn't all Pale, thin. run-iloivu children need rod-liver oil. Give them the pleas- antest form-Scott`s Emulsion. Scott’s Emulsion liasn`t that _ scoirs E “a Ggoilnil o*”ls°\\‘i°’°`il °°‘°` “vid a\‘°v`°‘ ° strong "iislBv"_ taste. It doesn`t upset even elicste stomachs. lt brings yo_u_purest Norwegian cod-liver oil mapei-feet emulsion. Eas_ier_ to_tal§e-easier to digest. Assimilation is complete, You get more good out of Scoit's Emulsion and you feel tlie_bene§ts quicker. Scott's E_mulsior_i contains no alcohol. It is rich m vitamin A, the growth-promoting vitamin that elgs guard against disease. It_is rio in_ vitamin D. the sun- shine vitamin that prevents rick- ets. It contains minerals that help form sound bones and teeth. So Scott's Emulsion is Hue for grow- ing children, infants, nursing and expectant mothers. Get Soott’s Emulsion of Cod- Liver Oil to-day. See youngsters gain new wciglit and vigor. .\l_ your ncercet. drug- gist, iii large liomi-_ size and small i.rl1\'<~l~ ing size bottles. Solo. Agents: Harold F. Ritchie & Company. was Limited. Toronto, .Mui LSION slramin-aicu R L Pleasanton' to take--lasler to digest Monkish _ wasrs . - ~-~~~ ~--- in - rg '__'-rf - ---- Capes 1 THE LATEST MODE IN EVlNlNG| Blouses __ --- l Paris also like the turquoise satin Among the distinctive styles .foil blouse, and she likes it especially evening. wear that is being featured; with the tailored black suit. Some- by Paris. is the hooded cape. lt is , times slie makes that blouse with a a mysterious alluring thing and the I little cape collar. which hl-S f°\11 wee is supports to have sem, from i sends or stitching round the -die li the inonklike figure; who direct] match four bands of stitching on the traffic in Paris, on rainy days. The result is striking and one can read- iry visualise hooded figures gliding into luxurious motor cars and slop- ping through snowy doorways into the theatre and Opera. It would make a wonderful masquerade cost- ume and one could so easily disguise oneself in one of these lovely soft satin a.ftair`s when cut on directoire lines Every bit of "My Lady's" gown would be hidden and the addition of a masqug would give just the touch needed. The cape has been designed by that French artist of the mode. Susanne Talbot, but lt is Lucille Paray, who has made so much of these garments at the autumn !ssh~ ion shows, in London, Paris and New York. Corinthe, a new fall color of deep bluish-lavender composition. which blends beautifully with the warmer' tones of brown wus used afgreat Y sown on was and xmas until malnder or mm; period uso is eonm, by ,my_’ ..°,,,,,, ,,,,,.“.. (5 dwlh 1| ¢\\°°t»h md °1“"¢ Pill '“”‘“l°°>- W* YW* "* “W “ "4 ‘ mock.) sn ensemble in this mymr- ious slime, use e mt or simplest lines with round collar of beige fox. The dress underneath was corinthe- colorsd crepe simply tailored to fit well over the hills, and with a drap- ed collar. llllsflowitl Sunflowers enrich one of the new- est Paris evening gowns. The gown itself is of greeny-yellow georgette. so long that it hides even the tips of the shoes. lying on the floor in many circular folds. The sunflowerl. little one, are made of brillianis. A slant- lng cluster of them ornaments the right side of _the bodice, while an- other cluster is set low on the left IUC Of ull lllllt. I `sleeve just below the elbow. Thea she puts one band 'of stitching a lzigzag across the front. and is all set. The Stoiing Question ln London l Silk stockings, woolen stockings oi no stockings. That is the question which is asitatlng feminine circles here now that the cold weather has arrived. There are those who inslntaln that silk is the warmest materiel. but many smart London women are wearing woolen stockings. at lcnst during the daytime. Just as many are lftlpclrtlis ill U10 evenings wearing no stockinll-S al IU- Their reason is not hygiene but econ- omy, they say. Clubmen are wagering how 1011! hardihood will withstand winter’ cold blasts. Household _ Suggestions The Maid's Room- Encourage the maid to KW N" robin clean :lid in~onier, even if your guests never see lt. Give her time ic attend to her own domain and she is much more apt to remain comen- wa, at the some time nelpuis 81°” the sanitary condition of the h0\l|°~ s sewing 'rin- oue seamstress nu opened 011° °“" of her tape measufo and inserted I corset steel the same width as th' tape measure. 'rms stiffened end ll indispeneibie when hsnsins Sk?" and is also a comfort in not h=“”“ to rumble nouns for the besimlllli of the measure. g r$1l.:.l=.=~_--:_~.'-'~ -- -if ' 5: '57 Q ' _ _I i .1 "KL I don’t lil; Mile 'eg-X, rm* a whistle liet.iaur.", ' " ' f ‘ll 1 Cuticura from pimplea! laialllwthtyelgaklacaa .=.-§g§.~:rz.'.".‘: -1-ri- i-»°°-ii'»f{¥¢' ` baebaeaueed slheneellreogbeei l \ / _ 5.-E".§='¢-'f-'fn-=i= ;,»_\., W/ s iq 1 I .