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yellow flat crepe with scarf in tri-l
angles of white. gray and yellow.
Stitched bows of self-material fin-
ish the appliqued bands. ln n. mom-
ent of inspiration the narrow tailored
T98-lly al. nent little knot with two
snucy-ends. (2) Three colors-eggsheil
lllllll Pink. black-and three mater-
ials, carlton crepe and flag mm
with an appllqued conceit of leather,
semble. The jacket is of oanton crepe
while the two piece sports frock is
of fiat crepe. The ensemble is com-
pleted in the hat of black ballibunti
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How Can a Loving Wife Deal With Her Jealous
Mother.in-Law? - A Devout Prayer for
’ Guidance. Should This Girl Marry to
Please Her Mother ? .
Deg;--Miss Dlx._I am married to a wonderful man whom I adore and we
_lould be perfectly happy except for his mother. who considers that I should
lava no influence with my husband and that she should boss him as if he
were a little child. She says that the mother comes  -
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ls that when he goes alone she illls him up with crit~  , Q _
iclsms of me. She has another son who is married ~*. »_*""  _
to a wonderful woman and lhave heard her tell him _.,.._.__`__._<_f'_:"
all kinds or things against his wife when the wife was  ` 
absent. I don‘t want to lose my husband, and I don't ' 
want to make a break between him and his mother. 
What is his duty toward his mother? It is a moral 
obligation, as she has plenty of money. And what  ‘ I
Lhouldwe do under the circumstances? M. C. R.
Q There is nothing you can do with an arbitrary and tyrannical old woman,
because she has become a law unto herself and she thinks that all of her
opinions are sacrosanct. Also she is so self-centered and selfish that she
considers nobody but hersel1’._ She doesn't want to change and she couldn't
xhangg' if she would because she has hardened into her mold. The inability
to chaiige, to get a fresh viewpoint, is what age really is. As long as we are
open im conviction and to getting a new angle on a. situation and to conced-
ing that there is something to be said on the other side of p. question. we
are  It is not our stiff muscles that make us old. It is our stid
brsindi,
*dyes your mother-in-law will never adapt herself to you, you will per-
forcelh ve i.6`ad_lust yourself to her the best way you can and put up with
her fault-finding ‘and nagging with what philosophy you can muster. The
best way to get along with"her is never to get in an argument with her and
Doctors and Nurses
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Because it helps women to
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never, to defend yourself. Just receive her strictures in silence and pay
them no attention, as the qucrulous nagging of a disgruntled old woman who
? soured on life and who is taking out_her ill-'riature on all those around
er.
I grant you that the advice I am giving you is hard to follow, to do so
is the greatest proof of love that you can give to your husband and one that
he will be eternally grateful to you for giving him. For in the tight be-
tween a. man's mother and his wife, it ls the man who is the victim who is
torn in twain between them. He loves them both. He has duties and obliga-
tions to both, and he is miserable if he has to listen ‘ to their complaints
against each other.
In a case where a man's mother is kindly and friendly and human, and
where she treats his wife like a real daughter. I think the wife should not
only be willing but should urge her husband tp go ,alone to see his mother
every now and then. for naturally every mother would like sometimes to have
her married children alone with her, as they were when they were little boys
and girls. But lnyour case, where you know that your mother-ln-law is your
enemy. and that she is trying to make trollble between you and your husband,
you are Quite risht to be always on the around and at take every precaution
that you can against her stabbing you in the back.
There is something very pitiful, as well as terrible, in the fierce mother
jealousy that makes a woman willing to break up her children's homes and
bring sorrow and calumny upon them and half-orphan their children ln order
to gratify her own lust of possession. Your mother-in-law‘s.very soul ls torn
with this unholy passion. She cannot endure to see her sons love some
women better than they do her. She cannot stand the knowledge that they
consider their wives more than they do her; that they are more companion-
able with their wives than they are with her, and so she dlsparages their
wives to them in an _unfavorable light. '
Many mothers, driven by the same Jealousy, do the same thing. They
are alwaysltelling this son that his wife gads too much and that she neglects
her home, or that son that his wife ls extravagantand spends too much
money on her clothes, or she makes her daughters believe that their hints
and innuendoes that are at the bottom of innumerable divorces. l
Left alone. the sons and daughters would never have found out that
there was anything wrong with their mates, but they have the habit of child-
hood of thinking that mother always knows and mother is always right, and
the constant dropping of her little hints and fault-findings wears away their
iaith in their wives and husbands and makes them dissatisfied with their
bargains. '
As for the duty of a son to such I. mother. it is to be kind and courteous
and show her the proper at/tention, but it does not involve his letting her
break up his home and prejudice him against his wife. His highest duty is
to his wife and his children and he is a weakling if he permits his mother to
bulldoze him into falling in that. DOROTHY DIX.
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Dear Dorothy Dlx-Before marrying, my husband was quite e. shelk, if
you can believe him, and daily I am regaled with tales of his 'conquests and
of the extraordinary ability he had to make women pine away for love of
him. 1 don’t think he ilirts any now. but he has beautiful eyes with long
culling lashes, and whenever he meets a good-looking woman he stares and
stares at her in a way which is most embarrassing to me. Thh may seem
a small matter, but a wife dislikes to find that her adored one is interested
cnly in the looks of other wdmen and does not care whether there is an
ounce of gray matter under their permanént waves or not. God grant us
understanding of these menl BEWILDERED WIFE.
Answer:
Amen. sister. It ls a prayer that every wife in the world should put up
everlfdly of her life, because we certainly do need a divine dispensation of
knowledge in order to deal with the contradictory creatures to whom we are
married. V
Howelse.eevebye.miracleofinsight.arcW°fi0kl1°WW'h°1\i»°lPl-ill*
and when to kiss; when w shut our eyes and be as blind ss a bat, end when
to be sister Annie on the housetops with our gaze riveted on the little cloud
cf dust no bigger than a man's hand on the horizon? Whm 00 bo ¢l'¢¢l\ll°“l
as a fool, and when to let our husbands know we have their numbers; when
to jolly and when to lambast; when to forgive and when to hustle to the
_divorce court? _
How else, save through supernatural wisdom, is a woman to know that
a big. strong, husky man, who perhaps manages hundreds of other men.
wants her to treat him like a little boy and pet him and clill him baby names
and coddle him lust as his mother used to when he was 3 years old? How
elselsawomantoknowthstitisnoslgnthetemanhaloealedidlovehof
because now and then ha wants to have e little flirtotlon just as he used to
have to play hooky from school?
And how else 'is I women to know that whens. man has big, beautiful
eyes with curling lashes he lust simvly has to roll them at every woman he
meei.|,endthethedoesn'tmemsthih¢.\ndtheWllo i-\llIlIf°l’l\|lW1f°f»°
do is just to laugh at him. _
All women Join in-your prayer: God give us understanding 010168!
msn - DORJUFHY DIX.
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willneverG\1J¢!mymarriedlife. Whoilrifhh m¥l\\°l»l\¢l'0\'I?
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IMPROVING THE DRY SKIN
| Ordinarily a young girl's skin is
fairly oily if she is healthy. A suf-
ficient amount of natural oll is neces-
sary to the comfort and beauty of
the skin. The oil keeps the skin
from becoming prematurely wrink-
led and also protects it from the
ill effects of sudden changes in
temperature. The skin that does not
have normal amount of oil is slllow
and lacks the clearness or trans-
PBNDCY that should characterize a.
youthful and healthy complexion.
Semetlmes People who are still
young have dry. rough skins that
peel and look chapped about the nose
and cheeks, although there may ap-
lwar to be no external cause to ex-
plain the condition. Their hair fs
also inclined ti? be dry and wh-y
and dull. The fingemails may be
brittle and crack or split. In such
cases not only local treatments are
required, but it ls desirable to have
medical advice, A deficiency in the
thyroid gland is said to be respon.
sible for lack of natural oil in the
skin and its appendages, so that a
doctor should be consulted when an
abnormal degree of dryness_l_; no.
tlced.
Whatever the cause of the dryness
lilly be. efforts must be directed to-
WU-Y4 ¥'°m°Vi!18 lt. At the same time
the condition may be relieved by the
application of oil or creams. Not
lllffeiluehily 5 dry. scaly skin is due
P11111? to extemal causes, such as use
of harsh soap or to dry the akin
thoroughly. and io the use of l-in-d
water for washing face and scalp. ln
such cases a simple change io more
suitable methods of cleansing may
suffice to restore beauty and relieve
UN iwhihl and burning that occur
when the skin has become harsh,
cracked and flacky through exon-‘~~~
dryness.
Complexlons of the type we are
discussing should be cleansed always
It is sometimes necessary to use the
cleaner several times a. day to keep
the skin looking smooth, 0! course
cold cream should bc used as a
powder base and some sort of tissue
cream of an oily type should be left
on overnight. When the dryness ex-
tends to the scalp there is noth-
ing better than applicatlons of cas-
tor oil to lubricate the hair roots.
When excessive dryness is not cor-
rected promptly a skin condition is
likely to develop causing harsh, dry
patches along the hairline and on the
nose and lips. lf taken ln time these
unsightly patches may be removed.
but if neglected they become horny,
permanent spots known as keratosis
Tomorrow-Beauty Questions '
Answered
For The Cook
l*0'l‘A'l\') AND TOMATO SALAD
A nice substantial salad for the
luncheon platter, On crisp lettuce
place sliced tomatoes, then cubes of
cold boiled potatoes, then minced
parsley and minced green pepper.
Pour over all French dessing. Slices
of oold ham. tongue or spiced beef
complete a very interesting platter.
A Morning Smile
"Johnny," said the minister, “I'm
shocked to hear you swesrllig. It 2|
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time .1 hear a person swear a cold
chill' rum down my beck." _
"Well," said Johnny, “Ii you’d
been at our house last night when
pop jammed his finger ln the door, I
guess you‘d from to death." l
On one day recently 0000 children
and 96 teachers were absent from
Portsmouth, England, schools because
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Illustrated Dressrnaking Lesson' Fl , "
With Every Pattern
By Annebelle Worthington
Plain white pique is an excellent
A choice for the tennis courts. le ll
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.' E 2 Ombre horizontal stripes in tub
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izg; “g cloth, and gingham check that are
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Q.When accepting an invitation by
letter, should one state the exact date
and hour given in the invitation?
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attend your tea on Wednesday. -TU-lb'
l'ith, at four o'clock." This avoids UW
misunderstanding as to the time-
Q. snoula the norms llwlyl fi"
when greeting and also when taking
leave of them?
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Q_ lg lt permissible to leave the
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