A raoii rwo :lVom”an ls, Realm" A THE GUARDIAN AUGUST 8, 1950 True" success Story ay ir. ii. MacArthur Ralph Waldo Emerson once bald, "men sire made each with some triumphant superiority." True. And to some thousands the superior art is writing. law medi- .cine or farming. Those who have toiled while their fellows slept have found the talisman. and speak the sesame. Others still pursue the elus- ive things. But whoever intends eventually to possess the Holy icirail must be prepared to pay the fiddler. and. once the price has been paid the cask of gold at the rainbow's end invariably starts to fill up according to his vision. The triumphant superiority of Art Mcisaac who now operates the Eastern Investigation Bureau at 9 Prince St.. Halifax, is handwriting. Art has the distinction of being Canada's finest penman. He was born on the Souris-"Line Road a little over half ,a century ago. the son of a P. E. Islaiid, fairncr. I O 0 Art Mclsaac served overseas with the 105th Battalion. Upon his re- turn to Canada. he joined the Hall- fax Police Department, from which service he retired after twenty-fivel years. In 1943 he enlisted with the Auxiliary Service Canadian Lesion. in the capacity of Personal Service officer, with the rank of Major. Mr. liiclsaacs work during this period was so outstanding that men and women in the various services labor. Having U"-Welcd the hard road himself, Art is always willing to help. any deserving fellow, but his chief fame rests in his hand- writing parexcelience - penmfin. handwriting psychologist and in- temational authority on forged and disputed documents, are but a few of his attainments. All across Can- ada and the United States you may find. if you happen to be a, happy wanderer. poems. college diplomas, etc.; done by this clever fellow who, leaves a lasting trail in ink. Among this scribe's personal treasureshare 9. group of poems written and sign- ed by A. F. M. I am proud to add the name of Art Mcfsaac to my list of True Success stories. DAINTY PILLOVVCASES E7572 DESIGN N0. E-572 Little maidens dressed in quaint costumes are beautiful em- broidery on pillow cases. towels or Icarf ends. Hot iron transfer pat- tern No. E-572 contains 6,inoti.fs with complete instructions. To order. Send 20 cents in coin to Needlework Bureau, Charlotte- town Guardian. Design No. E-572 Tm . Name Address City Province -;.my ITSATH-FRESH” all day Sqfsir for Charm if 'ibiUg!.;..avi9K...sqsa- J vi "Thai Body Of Yours as James w. sum. up. i MANAGING A NEUROTIC IN A GENERAL HOSPITAL You are hearing and reading about psychosomatic medicina- "Psycho" means mind and "soma" body; thus "psychosomatic" refer.-. to symptoms due entirely or almost entirely to the effect of the mind on the body. Those who have no organic disease but who suffer with symptoms caused by the emotions are called functional cases because while there is nothing wrong with the structure of an organ. there is something wrong with the fu.nction or use of the organ. Thus. a heart that is normal in structure may be beating too rapidly. This would be a functional condition, whereas if the fast beating were due to some structural abnormality it would be an organic or true heart disease In Postgraduate Medicine. Dr.. Baldwin L. Keyes. Professor of Psychiatry, Jefferson Medical Col- lege. Philadelphia, states, "For a long time now we have given up the idea that a patient is eitirsr an organic or functional case. that he imust be one or the other. We -know well enough that all organic cases are also functional cases. There is no separation between psychiatry and medicine. It is the total patient in whom we are lgrieicsted.” The medical or surgical depart- lments and the psychiatrist should. wherefore. have frequent enough Lconferences and consultations sit- ting together and discussing the ipl”0bl8mS of the particular patient lso that all persons handling that ;patient have the same viewpoint ithat is, helping the patient as a whole. A good social worker can help greatly by getting fl more co'r.oiefn: history A home, dctncstlc affairs illness of members of the family. financial problems. ”There is no line that you can cut and say. This belongs to you and this belongs to me.' It is the, total patient. our mistake in mod- crn medicine in the handling .of these patients is that we cut them up into specialties." Dr. Keyes points out that with a group of physicians prescribing a line of treatment. the patient learns to .do a great deal for him- seif if the doctor in charge has patience. a lisieiring ear, and some explanations as time goes on to interpret to him the emofional problems that are the underlying cause of his symptoms. NEU ROS! S Believing you have a physical yallment when none exists is a nut rosis and is becoming increaslnglv lcommon. Write today for Dr. Bar- lon's informative booklet on this subject entitled "Neurosis." To obtain it. send 10 cents and a fi- cent stamp, to cover cost of llfIIKI- ling and mailing. to The Bell Syn- dicate. Inc., in care of this news- paper, Post Office Box 99. Station G. New York 19, N. Y.. and ask for your copy. i'K o2xm-uvxsnvoooexo. (I - ;;Houseliold Scrapbook By Iloberta Lee Canvu Auto Top Ordinary weather-,stai-ns on the canvas auto top, caused by soot. rain or dust, can perhaps be best removed by brushing with a hot soap solution and rinsing. -some weather stains on canvas can be lightened by using bleaching pow- der. or Javelle water. Mosquitoes Ideal breeding places for mos- quitoes are wet areaways, gutters, drains, tanks. bottles, barrels, cans. pails. kegs. tubs, buckets. and empty boxes - any receptacles that can collect wet".-. Paraffin Keep the paraffin ln-e.lipp.e(,l utensil, or cheap tin teapot, for cuick melting and convenient pour- mK- m l Sqfer for Skin' Sqfer for Clothes Celebrate Golden l ' Photographed while celebrating their golden wedding. Am. and Mrs. James Stuart, West Royalty, begin their second half century of happy married life. Mr. and Mrs. Stuart were married in Northern Scotland, and their first thirty years together were spent in that coun- try. They came to Canada in 1930 leaving three of their children who still remain in Scotland. Among the guests at the reception were their daughter and her husband, Mr. and Mrs. Duncan MacGill, Sackviile, several grandchildren and one great-grandchild. book's Corner ("71;)s9x'A'k7 SOALLOPED SQUASH WITH PEPPERS 3 cups sliced summer squash 1 cup sliced green pepper if cup sliced onion Salt Pepper 1.52 cup fine dry bread crumbs 2 tablespoons butter Arrange vegetables in layers lrl a greased casserole. sprinkling each layer with salt. pepper and bread crumbs. Dot top with butter. Cover and bake in a moderate oven 350 degrees F.. about 35 minutes. Re- move cover and bake 10 minutes longer or until crumbs are brown and squash tender. Yield: six serv- ings. lg Mornglnq Smile sl. slsaxux Deficient Nature Among the wonders of Mexico are hot and cold springs situated close together. There one may watch native women boiling clothes in a. hot spring. rubbing them in a spring of cold. clear water. . Watching this interesting spec- tacle one day, a tourist remarked to his guide. I suppose those women think old Mother Nature is pretty generous. eh?" The guide smiled crookedly "No. senor." he replied. "i-hey grumble because she supplies no soapl" 3&3” ? Better English By I. O. Wllllllll 'VCV&Vo '4: l. What is wrong with this sen- tence? "The coach claims that four miles are too far to run." ' 2. What is the correct pronunc- iation of "robust"? 3. which one of these words is misspelled? Effluence. efficacy. of- fervese. effulgent. 4. What does the word lindle- erect" mean? 5. What is a word beginning with be that means "hish-sound- ing"? ANSWERS 1. say. "four miles is too far to ruin." 2. Accent second syllable. not the first. 3. Effervesce. 4. Lacking in correct judgment: imprudent" Your behavior is very indncxeeih 5. Bombastic. ' The Stars Say - -' 5 By Genevieve Kunblo NET For Wednesday. August 9 Tim augurles are for difficult, tryine. testing, and frustrating ,wnditions, possibly with impedi- ments and postponement all along the way. While the inner urges 'i may be vital, perhaps hectic, rash. iv the mentality may not be up to the mark, may be confused. mie- leadlng. reckless, and it may be dlfficult to put over plans. There may be blocking and delays in all efforts and desires. At that--in a crisis. depression of disappointment. cherished there is .-in of BABY'S wllflnur sbeulfeehbeth baaditiuvbo ussefst-II """.'.'.-'.”o"'.'i.i'-RM 3.'.'ll's'a. T ekarlll 633 la shplebffeur by " substantial aid. unzlerstandiiig. HOT LITTLE iisan, g Modern Etiquette ; ll: lloberta Lee vvvvsa Q. In a restaurant. if a woman stops at a table to talk for a. min- ute with some acquaintances should the men at that table rise whether they are acquainte.i with her or not? A. Yes. and they should remain standing until she takes her leave. Even if the wedding is to be very small and informal, would it be all right for a bride to wear a white bridal veil? A. Yes, provided it is not her second marriage. Is it considered bad man- ners for one to sip coffee or ten while chewing on food that is al- ready in the mouth? A. Yes, this is very ill-bred. a willing hand in influential places. to further such aims. If It Is Your Birthday Those whose birthday it is, may be predisposed to tackle important projects. business, professional or public. as well as social. domestic. romantic, with verve. vitality and high ambitions. Perhaps a reck- less or impulsive tendency. with a beclouded or confused state of mind. or other delaying factors, may block the way of uesired plans and projects. when the impasse seccns final there is happy intervention from those in high places. sympathetic understanding and assistance in breaking through congcstions or a "oratlng prob- able eriors of instinct and judg- ment. A child born on this day may be prone to act on its emotions. instincts. personality and prestige. Poor insight. confused thinking. impetuosity or reckless drives. may menace. Brut friendly assistance from high places mav aid in crisis. First Ontario Man Wounded in Korea Cpl, Joseph G. Kenny. 21, of St. Catharines. Ont., shown above with wife. was listed as wounded in the Korean war. He is believ- ed to be the firot Ontario casualty. Wife and baby of Cpl. Kenny. are shown at right at the home of her mother in Fort Erie. Sliellut saw her husband on New Year's day when he left St. Csthsrines for social th EI.i.Eii'8 DIARY - -31 An Islsal farmers wu. 5jeO020e-200-aIhD0r&e0o-in Interesting indeed to us are the visitors.-these summer days bring to our door. flhe. young and than older, from near or far. "the Spud Island -Special.” blesued convey- aside to many. bearing them as it has back to beloved scenes of form- er years, has yielded us more than ' one of it's passengers. One - young matron, moth of two small maids brought the wide distance from Pacific to Atlantic to visit with her people, to see for the fiift . places which up to now h ve been only legend, to meet and enjoy their kin, "flesh of their flesh." And how did you fare?" we queri- ed sdmiringly, remembering that grandaughter would likely prove to be a restless and wearlsome com- panion on a lengthy journey. sweet as she is, "But they were good". she returned, "Yes. very good and entertainment was provided for them. And you must remember,” the chuckled, "we travelled in a truly fine company!" . . . . one woman, an Island school- teacher of the long ago, who with her son made the long trek from Calgary to spend the interval of holiday with those of her line, and friends, related that she had been laid before they set out: "This will be a lonely pilgrimage for you, be- cause so many you once knew are only memories now". "However. she smiled, "it's been quite the con- trary - Of course there are those I miss. That is to be expected. but "this chic alert lady declared, "am I not meeting many of. those I knew - much older than I. and still as smart as can bel And you'll never know what a delight it has been. and is. for me to meet again former pupils of mine, And how in most cases, lthe child' has been father of the man'i She was gown- ed in gray -s. pretty shade of it. that reminded us of the first touch of twilight on the far Summer hills. To further enhance it she wore a bewitching necklace and earrings of jet. These adornments, we con- fess, awakened a train of longing. which at once required us, earthy mortal that we are. to quell 'our disquiet with the reminder, "Ah. Ellen, thou shalt not covet! "A modish white straw crowned fash- ionably - coiffed silvery tresses to present an exceedingly attractive plcture.And her face? I-Iow shall we draw a lovely likeness with our poor words?.. 0 O 0 Island company we enjoyed as well, young and attractive matrons. and older and very gracious. . .those to whom it was obvious the world always had been. and is most kind- ly and others sweet-faced, who hav- ing oourageously battled the years -and won, deserve now the best the future can bring them in hap- piness. peace and content. "so you see. Ellen. I had to smile - there was nothing else for me to do!" one of this noble band chuckled. smile. . . and stooping pick up the gauntlet of some trying years. If as has been, and is sometimes sug- gested, the world- is heading for wrack and ruin because of the friv- olity and light-living of the women- kind of our day and agr,- it has been most encouraging for us to note that those in our number of visitors are apparently taken up as are we. with the affairs of home and family, maintaining as well, a healthy interest in Church and oomm ity life, and all the items that contribute to good living. And what of our stern callers? Those of the other sex. and equally inter- esting. who oomment, "And so you're James . . . poor fellow!" And is this Ellen?" What daughter of Eve would presume to even touch on the mystery and bewitchment of ese? But a very dear and singularly handsome masculine friend of ours sat in the dampness on the tele- phone wirea beyond a window. . . a dapper ruby-throated lad who flirts with the flowers. and us. . . when the truck bearing our offer- ing of fat cattle for market went out along the hill this morning. "It is a funny thing. Ellen", James re- marked at dinner. which was full of weighing: and breeds as well as firstlings of peas - and cherry pie, "it was a damp morning when the cattle went last year. Not so wet as this, but as I recall it, there was no work that day at the haying. Now in the larnplight. he looks up from a brown study in the old arm chair to offer with a lcng sigh: "Do you know what we've got to do now, Ellen? we have to buy a new binder - and they come mighty "expensive nowadays. I'm telling you!” Until tomorrow - - - Diary .. A iieiiiitry Gstilss l as in. 0.1.1 usuliiiu l Nature never did betray: The heart that loved her; 'tis her . mlvuegg . Through all the years of this our ' life. to lead Prom joy to joy; for she could so inform i The mind that is within us. so impress with illlletllell and beauty, and so end with lofty thoughts, that neither evil tongues. Rub Judgements. nor the sneer: of selfish men. Nor greetings where no kindness in. nor all The dreary intercourse of daily life, Shall e'er prevail against us. or disturb our cheerful faith. that all which we behold . Is full of blessings. . -Wordsworth. Fragrant Phlox and tall Holly- hocka in bright colors are making the izarden a pleasant place to see Just now. It is true that there are weeds to see as-well as fragrsnt flowers. but we try to avoid them in our garden tour. and we are not always successful in this attempt. Perennial Phlox is one of the finest hardy plants for our gar- dens. with long lasting bloom and increasing in size every year, so that divisions can he made and a large collection of plants for the garden is obtained in a short time. Phlox needs rich soil and an abun- dance of moisture in the growing season. - The new varieties are superior to the old, except for an early white by the name of Miss Lingard. this Phlox has the most beautiful foli- age of any that I know. Iovely lavender colors can be obtained in the hardy Phlox as well as all shades of pink, rose, and red. Early and late varieties make the garden fragrant for weeks in mid-summer and bright with color. C 0 C I-Iollyhocks are suitable for large garden and their height in the perennial borders contributes a great deal to the garden picture. Clematis Jaciunanni is now blooming in two places on the house wall. When dividing the vine last Autumn I was a bit fearful of the result. but the effort was. worth while, as the old vine had become too heavy for beauty and it now looks very well with the lvely pur- pie-blue flowers; these are beauti- ful for decoration and are long- lasting. More seeds have been sown of Sweet William, Foxglove, Iceland Poppy and other biennlals I O O Violas and other things will be sown ,as soon as the seed is gather- ed from the garden and it is an easy way to obtain many plants for the garden borders. This is the time to take slips of Geranium: for winter blooming. and I find it easy to break branches of the plants that I need and plant them in a shady place or in a win- dow box. then in the Fall they can be potted up and will give color for the Winter season. Annuals have been brought from the field and planted in the border to extend the blooming period. it is important to have some plants to take the place of those that have finished bloom- in and Cosmos and zinnlas are very good for this purpose. A dear old lady of ninety-four summers visited the garden last week, and I was so very sorry to miss seeing her; being absent from the garden for is couple of hours. At this season of the year, it is is delight to stay at home and meet the nice folk who come to the gar- den, and the very old are special- ly elcomed. I hope she will come again. The early morning is the loveliest time to see a. garden. Give me at sunrise a garden of beautiful flowers where I can walk undisturb- ed Give mi; solitude -- give me nature - give me again. 0 nature, your primal sani- ties. -Walt Whitman. ' xK'K W1 How Can l I l ! By Anna Ashley i Q. How can I prevent ingrow- ing toenails? A. shoes and stockings trust are too short are very often the cause. of ingrowlng toenails. It is far bet- ter io have both the shoe and the stocking is half inch too long. Q. How can I extinguish an oil blaze in the home? A. When oil is burning. never 9 "N2- Good-nllzht . . . . re-enlistment in U.S. forces. throw on water. as this spreads tn: a authority over their wives. City flames and increases the danger Throw on meal. flour. sand. earth. or gravel. time a recipe calls for it? I dosen lemon at s time and keep refrigerator? It will prove a great convenience. I , Ideal Male - Soak Mvai-rlago .Pari'n'o'r Wiili Treiitle Which Fill Your Particular Needs DEAR MISS DIX: Do you believe that there is a certain mate created by Nature for every person. or do you believe that it is up to us to select our own mates? s '1'; A. . ANSWER: I am sentimental enough to believe that there I. a mate or e on of us somewhere in the wide. wide world. someone who i I ., is our counterpart who would sltilly 0111' every need of soul and mind and body. But I am also very cs,-. taln that our chances of ever findlnl our affinity are so remote as-to be negligible. 'The happy marriages are those of the lucky people who have found their mater. The unhappy marriages are those in which the husband and wife are rnismated. The whole problem, of the success or failure of a marriage is bound up in getting the husband or wife who is the right one for the la- dividuai. INTRINSIC WOITK UNIMPOETANT The intrinsic worth of the person has very little. If lnylblnl. to do with it. Every day we see fretful. discontented women married to men who are model husbands. who are tender. kind. considerate and pro- vide them with every comfort. And we see men who are unfaithful to wives who are beautiful. intellilent. amiable. domeille-Dlfllonl of wives. And we see women happy and content with husband! who fall off the water wagon now and then. who are high-tempered and irritable. who are shiftleu and lazy and poor providers. And we see husbands crazy about wives who are homely or dumb or extravagant or sloppy and slovenly housekeepers. The explanation is that the happy married people are those who have found llltlrimalel, the ones who had the qualities that satisfied them. and that outweigh. ed all their faults. Whereas the Iniiimated found even their husbandr and wives' virtues intolerable because they answered no wuespondlng need in themselves. For proof of this theory you have only to notice how often second marriages are happier than first. Inasmuch, however. as our chances of winning out in the matri- monial luttery by finding the mate which Nature intended for us are about a million-to-one shot. it is not safe to sit down and fold our hands and trust to Lady Luck to bring our prize to us. Nor is it feas- ible to wander about with a dark lantern in our hands searchlnl 10! the Right One. as Diogenes searched for an honest man. The best we can do is to look 'em over as carefully as we can. and to try to deduce from this and that whether he or she fills the bill or riot. It is. of course, a procedure in which one is liable to make mistakes, but it leaves us an opportunity to at least exercise our own taste and discrimination. DEAR DOROTHY DIX: I am much interested in these young men who have been writing you who are fearful lest they should not have If a man lives a life of unselfish consid- eration for his wife, provides for her ungrudglngly. constantly develops the qualities which challenge her admiration. there will be no question as to his authority. if. on the other hand. he is tyrannical and stingy and arbitrary and demands slavish service and obedience. his wife may give him outward deference. but in her heart she will despise him. A WOMAN OF SIXTY-FIVE YEARS EXPERIENCE ANSWER: You are right. sister. up to him, he has to live on a pedestal. If he wants her to admire him, he has to be worthy of admiration. If he wants her to defer to his opinions. they must be the views of a wise man and not the pre- judices of a fool. I know a wife who comes as near to obeying her husband as any intelligent emancipated woman does in these days. That is. she, never does anything important without consulting him and she abides by his decisions. . . In explaining this. she says: "Of course, I defer to my husband's wishes because he always considers mine. and I ask his advice because he has the best judgment of anybody I know. Also, he is alwnyg Igu- nnd just. But if I were married to a silly. prejudiced man or one who was always making mistakes. I shouldn't think of such a thing as being guided by him." And that about sums up the situation. DEAR DOROTHY DIX: Please tell me what I can do about my social life. I feel that my whole life is ruined because I am handicap. ped by being a crl-ppie. When the other girls talk about their beaux. parties and dates I feel as if I don't belong anywhere and my heart is heavy. How can I get over this? GERTRUDE ANSWER: To lose heart is worse than losing your leg. Gertrude; You must fight against this hopelessness and achieve what Stevenson called "the brave attitude toward life." 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