man my E Thom, Charlottetown, Thurs. M31151 14, 1963 . VC Branch. Royal Canadian Le~ L QARY HAWORTH gAdvice For Nurse Who gloves Married Employer linear Mary HaWorth: I am in- ‘ heated in helping a friend. a. fine who works in the clinic} fill: me. She thinks she is inI [five with her boss. a doctor. AI-i most everyone in the place, ex-1 dept him. seems to know how she which was more her misfo une , lee . He Is a fine man, happily mar- ged, and never would leave his wife, he is devoted to him ' it never thinks of her except a fine nurse. l She has no family here. j) necessity to stay in this job. I’Thave advised her to go to an- er place where she would ‘ ve no trouble getting work, she doesn’t w a at to make break. She feels the doctor. elsewhere, as a 10 n g step t wards finding a whole loaf of life for herself.—M.H. Dear Mary Haworth: I am considering marrying a woman who has been divorced twice, ' rt than her fault, I think. I have een married three times. Two marriages ended in I divorce and my third wife died. ‘ Qink the wife k n o w 5 how the g I haven't told this woman about . l feels. but I am sure the the two divorces; she knows only that I am a widower. Neither have I told her that I runni and changed my 11 a m e away from unpleasant circum- stances, never discussed wi anyone. Can I marry without my past catching up eventually? Or how does one break the news at this her. We would like your ‘late date?—E.X. A Dear 'on.— .B. The nurse loves .X.: For your own peace of mind and to give tih because he is a fine man as be- break, get yourself straightened cause she is a loving person with a womanly woman's nee to be needed sent unattached way of life she l out before you marry her, if, in the final analysis, you decide to ; and becauso in her pre- itake that step. My advice, here and now, is to hasn't any other close associa- lmake a clean breast of your tion into which to channel her ‘ whole past history to a pastoral emotional energies counsellor, either a clergyman 0 In th doctor-nurse relation- in his study or a chaplain at ship, she finds at least partial Salvation Army (and house, for exampl . satisfaction of her basic normal) need to share signific- n h o s p i tality e You owe it to your wife-to-be antly in another‘s life. preferab- to let her know your true iden- ly a man‘s—in terms of abetting tity and the unpleasant circum- his efforts, admiring his compe- stances from which you’ve been tence, understanding something running: also about your mar- of his problems, recognizing and riages that ended in divorce. applauding his a ch i evements r if you feel you dare not and the like. trust her with this information, ut as the man has a wife. ‘ and as the nurse’s life is empty apart from her work. it ill be— hooves her to settle for this one- sided giving. At best. it amounts lest she use it against you or Spurn you because of it, then my advice is. don't tell her and don’t marry her, period. HOWever, I feel you‘d be help- to feeding herself on crumbs ed immeasurably by talking from his wife's table. a starva- things over with a tion diet guaranteed to produce who will give you a man of God. disinterest- full-fledged neurotic symptoms ed estimate of what seems best in time 1-1. Thus I second your sound ad- u to do— a w o r t h counsels Mary vice to your friend, to fight the through her column, not by mail gravitational pull of this quick- or personal interview. Write her sand-type situation and get work ‘in care of The Guardian. ELLEN’S DIARY Eliminate Pound Of Cure By Ounce Of “That’s quite a chore you next that pasture. with mixcdi have going every day to tend th- grain. I had the old mare hitch- of our day. A ose animals at the other barns“ ed to the seeder...an ‘ we said to the farmer of the hou- of the loveliest days! seacross the lane this morning. .warm. and the sky a pretty blue Good-night... Prevention it was one The sun 0' presented by Mrs. A.B.2 e . her boss, I suppose, not so much :twice divorced woman a decent growmes' as £01 1 ow Girl Guides Of Summerside Sponsors Fourth Annual Tea . The fourth annual Afternoonj ‘Tea. sponsored by the Summer-l :side Girl Guide Association and : held in the George R. Pearkes igion Home. was highly success- lful. Mrs. A.H. Hubley. district, commissioner, extended a warm ' [welcome to all present. Carrie lHolman, the originator of the Girl Guide movement in Sum- merside twentyosix years ago. was asked to s to receive an ovation. Mrs. G.M. Avard, provincial commissioner. enroll-‘ six guide leaders. who were RF. Wa .' ,‘division trainer, as follows: Mrs. Earl MacEachern, Mrs. Horace E Q- lEdyth Woodside, . iWaugh and Mrs. Murray Wood. ‘ The following pins d war- §rants were presented by the pro- .vincial c o m m i ssioner: Ml ‘Mary Ann Lidstone, as lieuten- ant ranger ot' the sea ranger crew and introduced by Mrs. .- . . ewar. division commis- sioner; Mrs. J.A. Brophy, as captain of the second guide com- pany: Mrs. Earle MacDonald, as brown owl of the third pack; ,elevc l Brownies from the first. jthil‘d and fourth packs introduc- .‘ed by Mrs. James L. MacDoug- I-all. Mrs. James MacNaughbon, ; Mrs. Earle MacDonald and Mrs. :‘R.F. Wand. received the golden ihand. the high est award in 3: Susan lark. Cathy Hoare, Diane Gau- det, P a t r i c e Arsenault, Alice Wylie, Cynthia Hayes, Eliza- beth Nicholson, Phyllis Regnier. Catherine MacFarlane, June Phillips and Janice Fisher. Mrs. Harold Magee, district badge secretary, was in charge f the musical entertainment under the direction of Mrs. E. Hughes. p r e s e nted by the Brownies of the first and fifth packs. whose Brown Owls are Mrs. J .L. MacDougall and Mrs. C.A. Smith. Meeting the guests at the door were Mrs. J.A. Biro- [phy and Mrs Wendall Muttart, with Mrs. C h a rles Craig. in charge of tickets. The over- all convener was Mrs. Wilfred Burns, who was assisted by the various m e m b e r s. Presiding over the tea cups for the first hour were Mrs. John K. Ellis. Mrs. Earle Hickey. Mrs. Morley iWylie, and Mrs. W. Callaghan; for the second hour, Mrs. Davis Lidstone. Mrs. Charles Monty. Mrs. William Watson and Mrs. A.H. Hubley. Centering one of the tables were the internation- al flags of all the countries of the world and flanked by gold colored tapers and on the other :table was a low bowl of spring gflowers and gold tapers. At the ,‘rear of the hall wts a delightful land attractive display 0 the I. I! .l—you know. with the birds sing-i "ng. and everything and every-. one happy. It was a nice dream f...though now that I think of it, *I didn't reach the end of it!" But we have reached the end March- Thursday ...We count it regretfully away. Until tomorrow — ‘ iHayes, Mrs. James Buote. Mrs. t handicraft completed by the Brownies and Guides. Soft background music was played during the afternoon by Mrs. Clarence Steele. spending some time ttetown and Kensington. Geo e Hardy has returned home after being a patient in Prince County ospitai, where he received cry. Mr. and Mrs. Sherman Hut- chinson and family of Summer- side recently visited their par- ents, Mr. and Mrs. William Grant and Mr. and Mrs. Her- bert Hutchinson. ELLERSLIE Mirs. Valerie Vass has return~ ed home after being a patient in Prince Conny Hospital. Mr. and Mrs. Glenford Millar Were recent visitors of Mr. and Mrs. Randall Beaten, O’Leary. Leonard Burleigh is confined to his home through illness. Mr. and Mrs. Albert Sharpe were recent guests of Mr. and Mrs. James Morrison, Alber- on. Miss Kathleen Morrison and Miss Eleonor Hutchinson. com- mercial students at Alberton High School spent the weekend at their homes. Mr and Mrs. Harold Gillis have. returned home, after The “makings” cigarette! of a fine Famous for mildness and fine full flavour! l a , / CIGARETTE ALWAYS FRESH IN V1 LI.TIN AND HANDY POCKET PACKI Allison MacAusland. Halifax, NS. recently visited his Parents Mr. and Mrs. Willard MacAus— land. Lemuel Day, Wellington spent the weekend at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Peter Millar. M . Mrs. L. A. Burleigh are patients in Stewart Memor- ial Health Centre. Mr. and Mrs. Pres. MacCaull were recent vsitors of Mrs. MacCaull‘s Mr. and Mrs. Moody Lockhart. Coleman. Mr. and Mrs. Sinclair Mac- Caull and family have returned to their home here, after being ' stationed in France for the past four years. "Sandy" has been posted to St.'EIeanors. Mrs. Herbert Hardy suffered an accident when she broke a bone in her foot recently. TOBACCO It is a busy round. he attends“ He shares naturally in the chori- “ ng at this farm. He does the var- i entire care of the livestock thatl winters away. He does the var. Ious haulings: manure to the: fields. grain to a feed-mill, bal- es of hay home from other stor tings. He brings mine the many ‘ necessities needed to keep the, farm 0 p e r a ting. And not the . least of these are the remedies ‘ required to maintain the health ‘ of the animals. our mainstays: ‘ the “ounce of prevention" which In many a case tends to elimin- ‘ ate the “pound of cure.‘ There was. for example. yes- terday's afternoon‘s trip to town of necessity on limited time and with a number of things to be seen to. He checked them over. when he came by on his way to the truck at lane‘s end. “I want to register the truck. I must too, call at the Depart- ment of Agriculture to see about something. I have to pick up some concentrate somewhere to have plenty on hand in the event of a storm. I should get pills to treat those ewes... I promised too to look over some “feeders.” And I should, if I have the time. go to see..." “Do take our radio in to have . it repaired. We are missing it“ we said. “And would you have a list? . I will be stopping somewhere for ' " he reminded us. " ‘So much to do; so short a we chuckled. . “Now, isn‘t that the truth oi it!" he agreed. “Seems as it's hard to get away year. Talk about taking a holi- day-trip now! Much easier for ,me to go away through the sum- mer, when the stock is gone to the grass." "Quite a chore—4hr, stock in there?" he echoed our remark this morning. "Oh it has been no trouble thn winter—so far. It has been one of the best to get between the places. A great one to for them to get down to the stream tot drink. 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