rsol: mo III! GUARDIAN MAY 20. 1952 Proper Shoes Iiollt Slllllslor Foot Aches NIIW YORK. ay 1'! - Indian fakirs make a sgecialty of walking on red. hot coals. This routine is matched on any summer day by thousands of people who insist on transacting their daily affairs wearing shou that stifle their feet. A humorist once observed that there is one virtue about having feet: they make a man forget his other troubles! so if it takes your mind of that over-due payment on the car or the butcher's bui when your feet burn like a. pair of demons; carry onl on the Other hand, it your neighbors are begin- ning to give you a wide berth. and your disposition sizzles like the thermometer, you may Want "3 Kel- out of this rut. Listening to the advice given by the foot experts will show you how to get relief. They rlxzommend the wearing of roomy shoes equip- ped with leather soles and supple uppers as a basic step in foot hy- giene. Following this suggestion. may well be your clue to slimmer foot ease as well as a happier dis- position! Podiatrists have long known of the cooling action induced by the fibrous structure of leather 50195- and that's why they recommend all-leather shoes to their patients. They also point out that shoes are the only article of wearing apparel that can really cause body injury. That's why the experts have noth- ing but harsh words for the wear- ing of shoes that are too tight or are made of stiff and impermeable materials. so, if you feel shunned by friends and family don't go run- ning lo Dale Carnegie. A little care in the shoe fitting depart- ment, and wearing the right kind of shoes for all occasions, might do the trick. s-:-:j:.:-L:- Satin Trousseau Set You Can Sew llyoahplannlnqtesewsemslinqsrio lovalias for your trcrussoaa. this polo pink. or blue. satin nightgown will 50 id of all to nooks. The up!!! ' bodlu is fashioned from d with edg- Q "d sryelet embroidery to which the ahinnlarlrlg satin is gathered A little bolero iooksl. trixnglad with oyslat edg- ing. complain the set. Directions for asking this NIGIHQOWN AND BE- IACIIT 831'. Leaflet No. 343335 as available in silos lz-ii. Send a stamp Id. sslf-addressed snvslopo to the Needlework Department of this paper loads! for your copy and ask for bynurnber. 5.. --1.-mm:-"n:-1-1 muf- jgf.lwls ems! That Body Of Your: By James W. Iarlsl. 91-D- . use-r am in-.r-sNro srsrss Most ofusthinkthahlr con- fronted by an armed burglar, we would be quite ready to give in? In! money or vslusblu rattler than rim -being killed. However. none of us really knows how we would be- have in what could be caued an acute panic state. In The American Journal of Psychotherapy. Dr. J. A. M. Meerio reporm his experiences during the war in the Netherlands and in Britain. He states that even in per- sons well prepared for disaster. ex- treme danger tends to provoke all kinds of mental defense reactions. Catastrophies like earthquakes. railwny accidents or direct bomb hits may bring on a condition much like returning to our child- hood. "Two types of panic behavior are generally observed.'” Dr. Meerlo writes. "The first is a. state of men- tal paralysis ln which the patient is apathetic. stunned. so that he shows no feeling whatever, can- not taik and cannot move, and ap- are to be dead except for the fright that shows in his eyes. He does not consciously listen though his body contracts with every noise. This stunned condition of mind and body may communicate fear to others". The second type of panic reac- tion takes the form of temper tantrums. like those of an angry child. "A soldier with this form of panic may attack his fellow sold- iers or shoot at his own troops. A woman may begin to cry, shout, or walk aimlessly about. wringing her hands." Most variations of such fear reactions are painful tightening of muscles and nerves and frequent urination. Explaining these reactions to the patient and why they occur in him has a quieting effect on him. Talking harshly to this type of . cool but , .it on a winter morning as it climbs EI.LEli'8 olillr N as Haas nnsrs From the out it blew-away from the ivuildings-brisk. and at first . tly d by an at- tendant breath of the south. Odd times we heard a mean in it as it. named a-baveusinthe tops of the linden and golden willow on the cor- ner of the lawn where, we raked , . . . thelong lingering Ilshor re- " gret which with darkening skies ' usually forecasts rain . . . How it poured at night, streaming in a all- ver sheet down the panes, shutting from sight the dark of the night he- hind itl "How do folks light a. bonfire?" granddaughter asked when a trip to the house to raise a last loaf c. bread from the oven, brought us a math: as well. And then and there we "cuddled doon" closely. the two of us, shielding with our bodies from the stiff breeze. the first sparks or burning, kindling the match after ll childhood custom of ours. against a small stone of field. And then with a gay burst of flame and a waver- ing but increasing volume of smoke we had our bonfirel The light lit up the faces of the children as from a safe distance they watched it glow and burn brightly. "Did you think smoke was always the same color?" she asked softly, entranced by the sight of it. "It has a lot of shades-grays and violet and . . . " "Did you ever see up in the frosty air? We pink then" we offered "and rose". And the breeze caught its billows. sweeping them before it towards the pond. It could do no harm. And again we saw bonfires of old - caught. the scent with this of other spring-cleaning fires with the glory of a world fresh and new all about; sat again beside the driftwood fires on the summer sands. when a lazy shimmer of the season lay over the red bars and the gleaming blue sea beyond; enjoyed in memory the never-to-be-repeated aroma of burning potato-tops of fall, the old "blues," lvhen harvest past. wild Show above are members of the Hillsboro Choral Club and their director. Miss Louise Cox, who were awarded 84 points and first place in a class for Men's Chorus. rural. during the recent Festival f Music. Front row, left to right i '..Musica1lFestiva1,WinnerS. -Photo by Barter are Harley Inga, Ralph Raynor, Miss Louise Cox. Joe Doiron. Bob Drlscoll. Centre row: Winston Wood. Athol MacDonald. Harry Mutch. David Mutch. Back row: Leonard Wood. Dunstan MacDon- ald. John Brazill. . me-not with the fragrant arsbis I lwqnmonenrromcu 3: e t overo:'o::l: e as seas of wheat. M1095” colours on the broad dandelion dimly barteri these tbfnu 101' honey and po en. Slowly tlcklnl asiant the pollen ship hmns in the south wind. -8.. Jeffriss - There an dandelions in the garden and sweet violets in the woods. there is the blue of fowl!!- and the lovely purple dwbh violets per-fuming the garden by the sunny rock wall. sweet peas are up in rows and soft new lrl-II from early sowing. ' .. Mertensia Virginia or Virginia Blue Bells are showing their pink- ish tipped blue bells and if you wish a hardy bulb that increases through the years and it is in- . dispensable in the garden for col- or effect in early spring. The flow- ers aro porcelain-blue; buds pink at opening. The plant grows from one to two feet high, bearanpanicle of flowers about one inch long in short pendant clusters. ' It is splendid for the open bor- der or for naiuralizlng along the woodland path. it flowers from the lime Daffodils are in bloom. con- tinuing while the May flowering Tulllps are at their best. It is a delightful plant as it is permanent snd so helpful to create beautiful pictures. especially in shady places. Everv spring for many years it has been a delight in this garden. The Forsythia bush is a lovely sight 'better than last year when some branches seemed to be touched with frost. and I had thought of moving it but now with the Daffadils and blue for-get-rne- not. in the shelter of the ever- greens it is a joy so early in May. So many things are happening Continued on page 3 geese were on wing and the year ” coming then to its rest. "And what 7 if the wind had shifted, Ellen?" James asked seriously on his return. But the winds were only kind to the two housewives and the pigeon's pair of small ones yesterday after- noon in granting them a bonfire to patient and calling him cowardly make a perfect end to their yard- may increase his panic. Persons cleaning. obsessed by fear may react to And today? Thl.s was the day skies quieting drugs in an unexpected were as fair as in summer with the way. In cases in which treatment sunshine bright and warm over the and reassurance is needed. aspirin farmlands . . . suchaday ssmade or bromides will suffice in most granddaughter long for the exquis- casee. lte tickle of clean good earth be- Orsl (mouth) satisfaction in the math her feet. "But you won't have farm of not mu", goup, af cm. to wait much longer" we solaced her, arettea may be more effective than a narcotic or powerful pain killing drug. Dr. Meerlo states further that mental first aid. which stralghtens out fillings in the patients mind. may prevent the development of deeper neurotic or nervolm invol- vement. "next month will bring some hare- f00t days." "But I have waited" she returned gravely, "I've waited a-all winter!" "Tired?" James repeats our ques- tion-he having come now' to read out his day in the comfort of the old armchair. "Oh, a little. I guess" 110 Emilee. "but it's not the weari- sarrleg feeling we sometimes get in the other seasons. I reckon" he says "it's because I like this one so much. They have growth and fulfillment . . . and rest-4but this brings so much promise for farm-folk . . . so very much promlsel" Until tomorrow- - Diary .. .. Oood-night . . . . . Better Englisli H .9. o. wlula-s K . 1. What is wrong with this sen- tence "Johnson joining the com- pany meant success." 2. what. is the correct pronun- ciation of "hovel"? 3. which one of these words is misspelled? Initative, Impsssive. impartial. ltrlodest. 4. What does the word "inefflca- clous" mean? 5. What is a word beginning with l;:u't'l,lst means "bellowing, as a ANBWIII 1. Say. "Johnson's joining the Keep Moving The qliiet little man had lived in the same house for 30 years. He attended strictly to his own busi- nem and his rent was always paid Dronrptly on' the first of each month. However. there came a day when he sought out his landlord. rm sorry." he said, "but next month Pm moving into that house across the street." "You've lived here now for so years," said the landlord. "and company." 2. Pronounce the o as in on. not as in oven. 3. Im- modest. 4. Not productive of the effect intended. "The authority now. after all this time. you tell woodwork and furniture? A. Dissolve two tablespoonfuls of powdered borax ill a little boiling water. adding this to a bowl of lukewarm soapsuds. and sponging with s flannel or soft cloth. Rinse with lukewarm water and dry thoroughly. Q. How can I destroy the odor of perspiration on the body? A. Bathe in warm water. to which has been added two table- spoonfuls of compound spirits of amonia. This will leave the skin clean and fresh. Q. How can I clean black broad- cloth? f A. Rub the broadcloth with pow- dered fulier's earth and put it away in a box or drawer for a few days."'rhen brush and shake it well. ' ' ousellcld Scraphookl ly loberta Les ' -2.-' Stains on Windows Remove paint and putty stains on window glass by dipping a wet. cloth into baking soda and rub- bing the paste thus made thinly over the glass. Let remain fifteen minutes. and wash in warm soft water, without soap. This will bring all the stains with it. Rub dry and polish. Spouses To purify and whiten a sponge. soak it in milk and rinse thorough- ly in warm water to which a lit- tle carbolic acid has been added. me you're solos to move across the street. Why?" "I don't really understand it my- self.” confessed the little man. '1 This will make it look like new. To Believe lficcollghs To relieve hiccoughs. take a tea- of the king had become inefficaci- 5. Blst. .. - Mornin Smile 5 How Cenl ! i I 3', The Stars Say - - naascnoamaansna-as 1 Variety 4 By Genevieve lembls am, you hum much "rm, n '(' .w.'.r.e:m.-..-..-.-....m.sss.'-7ar:a 3”" l”"'”'l8 h0"5e"" How can I clean painted "Well. we have three different For Tomorrow While there are signs of ob- stacles. delays and stubborn situ- ations. there are also promises of splendid opportunities for growth and development of operations of more than passing promise. The creative skills and talents are keyed to high purpose. and with the assurance of support and tan- gible aid from those in high places, there is much to encour- age and inspire. But do not jump at conclusions or. attempt strange or spectacular maneuvers. Bift out the good from the bad, dis- card non - essentials, then work towards ambitious goals. Good assist. For the Birthday Those whose birthday it. is could have a period of 0l.ll.EbB.H0' ing success and accomplishment, with definite growth, expansion, progress and fulfilled ambitions. if they will exercise some restraint on their impulses. emotional urges. and possibly a tendency to over-play their hands under ex- citement or curious compulsions. The insight. creative talents. ideas, are under highi stimuu for inspired action. But i. may take much discrimination, discarding the useless or non-essentials, for tangible values. good fellowship assist to desired goals. but shun radical or erratic moves or moods. A child born on this day has excellent talents and worthy as- pirations. with much promise of s creative and happy life. Early discipline of curious or erratic spoonful of granulated sugar and vinegar. Repeat, if necessary. suels it's the gypsy in me." GETS Au. vooa corlmls HITER an no Minutes . THAN My O11-IER, sues mizoi ill . 1' )1 it-1'-Vii H7 rr9sOAP '-I'HAT,, as-re . DIRT OUTAND NNILUX compulsicns might be of benefit. Anne Adams .P5tiern.s wsnsy lssw-rnsrr! l. Mix! lwitclli And away you go -tot.llsbeach.totown.toatsnnis Bend Thirty-five cents (Ibo) in coin (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print plainly sise. name. address, style number. send order to ANNE 'ADAMl. we The Guardian, 00 Front Street West. Tomato, Ontario. EMEIIILL cllllroll School for Girls WINDSOR, N. 8. Incorporated 1801 Boarding and Day School for Girls. Regular School Course. Grades III to XII inclusive. Music, Art. Household Science, Gym 'ics, Dancing. Sports. Modern Fire-Resistant Dormitory. Michaelmas Term begins September 17th. 1952. For particulars apply to ills Headmlstress. DOROTY DlX'S owns- . Marriage "vs. Army Should Couple Wed Before Or After -Boy Completes Hitch? names for the meals." g In Reverse A group of M.P.'s in the smok- ing-room of the House of Com- mons were discussing the quail- ties of a certain statesman who wasn't too popular. one was heard to remark: "Yes, he's gun-. anteed to find a difficulty for ev- ery solution." sarcasm The amateur golfer swung, the ball remained still, but the iron plowed into the ant hill, inflicting great casualties among the in. hsbitants. With more confidence than skill. the golfer swungagain. leaving the f,rlerids,,,snd Dleasant,, relations, ball...unmoved but sendingnthe rest ' of the ants to their celestial glory. That is. all except two. -one--of which turned to the other to say: "You know. if we went to our. vive, we'd better get on the ball." ' Modern E1-lqueiis II loberla Les Q. what are the duties of the bridegroom's parents before the wedding? A. Nothing special. outside of Paying a call on the bride's par- ents after the engagement has been announced. and to buy the bride as nice a wedding present as pos- sible. It's nice, too. for the man's family to invite her and her fam- ily tc a gathering sometime be- DEAR MH;g'DIX: I have a problem that is bothering many young men and women today, that is, whether to marry a boy before he goes into the service, or wait until he is discharged. I am 21 years old, my fiance is 23. We have known each other five years. therefore are well acquainted with each oiher's likes and dlsllkel. famlly backgrounds and personalities. We both feel we would like to get married in June before he is drafted. but 'a number of people have advised us to wait, giving various reasons for their opinions. We would like to know how you feel about it. Please tell us. C. I. B. ANSWER: This can be such a complicated question. depending upon individual cases, that only a bare. general outline of its solution can be given here. BEST TO WAIT In general. I would advise waiting. If an en- gsgement stretched throughout the boy's entire periodic! service seems too long. you can always Muriel Nlsaen have the wedding on a furlough. However. to marry before he goel into service is not a wise move. The young man will have ll tro- mendous adjustment to make from home life to army life: the com- plication of marriage just adds to his emotional tension. rrlnge it- self is such an important step that it should be taken as the para- mount experlence of your life. Under the circumstances outlined, this is impossible. When a boy enters the Army for any other branch of service). that is. per se. such a consuming experience that the marriage is. of necessity. relegated to the background. Army routine has no place for family life. and any bride is bound to feel cheated when her big moment becomes just an incident in a Gl's schedule. if she marries before her groom is drafted. there is the added un- certainty of not knowing where he'll be stationed-a question that is usually settled after a year. To become a service wife you must be very confident of your own emotions as well as those of your fiance. Are you socially well adjusted. so that you can travel with him and make friends wherever you happen to he? Are you prepared to take the loneliness of sep- aration should he be sent where you cannot accompany him? is your financial situation sufficiently established so that you can take care of yourself and a baby. should you be blessed with one? Add these serious considerations-to the pcrblcms that occur Willi fore the wedding. is it Q. proper to name a boy John Jones 11. rather than John Jones. Jr.? A. The "Junior" is the only pro- per euffix if a boy is named for his father. "second" means nephew gnoousin. and never refers to the Q How much of the hand should be dipped into the finger bowl? A. Only the fingertips. one hsnd at a time. Cook's Corner Tomato - nice Soup Yield-six servings. 1 can (20 ounces) tomato Juice 5 cups water 55 cup finely-diced onion 8 pieces celery with leaves. all finely chopped . . any marriage. and you see what a formidable undertaking you into- By giving the boy a chance to become accustomed to his new H16 first. you will marry under much more auspicious urcumstances. Since you are so young. a wait of one or two years will not hurt. DEAR Miss DIX: Do you accept only feminine inquiries? Slnce males, too. have their troubles, I would like your viewpoint on A problem if it is consistent with your policy. P A N ANSWER: While it is true that feminine inquiries do occuD.V most of this column. masculi problems enter every now and then. Do send your troubles along. and be assured they will be duly an- swered. is it good etiquette for a young lllgh-schcnl Oontinued on page if. HOLIDAY SPECIALS 75 COTTON HOIISIDRESSES Sizes 14 to 44 DEAR. MISS DIX: 1 cup cooked rice roe rlleslror lll olloosrone llsros on ya mule: 2.98 value (or only " loo SILK call-I ILOUSIS . Sisss 149020 Special Ihsyfol-yeast no i