a stun aaaufl. l. Woman's Realmye- Social and Personal L3tt¢r Box . Happenings 0f Why it is Usually Better m be a Last LOVS ,,,,, m... .......... .. hglnla First Love —Is the Training a w. mu w»- uwlu i: id Receives at School More Im- W" m" "m". °' j portant Than Home Disciplineife- m" '1" h" mwm ' mm n Giggiing Girl m. Lloyd Jenkins ,who has been visiting his mother is also returning: today. Dear Miss Dix-There seems to be people. usually women. whose a a a" peace of mind depends on the thoug ht that they are the first tohaveat- ' ' ' ' . tracted their respective mates, but it seems to me that being preferred Her Majesty Queen Mary ,has ac- m». cnauttrrrrrrowu uuarwrarv -:- Fashion i What the Fashionables are Wearing Illustrated Dressmaking Lesson Furnished With En” Pun" "They say that man is mighty. He governs land and sea. I-Ie wields a mighty aolifiel 0's:- leaser power! thllt be; But a mightier power.and stronger Man from his throne has hurled. For the hand that rocks the cradle. Is the hand that rules the world.” Bu Annabelle Worthington Mr. Justice A. E. A “ WI! receiving the congratulations of his friends 'I‘ueaday,- the occasion oi’ by one who has known others would surely mean more than being preferred by one who never has known others. We do not need to walk the length of the counter. as George Ade said, before making . a selection, but it may be wise to walk far enough toseewhatistobehad. Inthemeantime we are likely to learn something from each different friendship, whether a love affair or a mere frlend~ cepted from Hon. G. Howard Fer- guson, Canadian High Commission- er, a gift of six North Atlantic Seal- skins, taken from seals along the coast of Newfoundland and Labrador. l-Ier Majesty expressed the hope her decision to use the furs would help to draw attention to their beauty and assist in stimulating the fur his 61st birthday. Relatives in The hostesses at the Golf Links this afternoon will be Mrs. W. K- Rogers, Mrs, Hunt, Miss Edith M. Rogers, Mrs- F. B. Clarke. this Jewellers‘ windows. Just at the mo- ment it ia considered chic to wear ifiministure time-piece surrounded with brilliant or baguette-cut diam- onds. A moire silk wrist band is the smartest fastening. A new motor- ist's watch embodiu a six-jewelled lever movement that is shock proof and also dust-proof, cased in gold at a charming at home recent]! given in honour of Mrs. W. D. w“ son of Halifax. who has been on| visit to her son. Rev. J. B. Wllsm of Sununerslde, many visitors calls, during the afternoon and had try pleasure of being introduced to M“ Wilson. During her visit here M11 Wilson was rlwuntly entertainer ship. ‘The girl I pick out will be truthfully told that she is not the first one to have accelerated my pulse and respiration, but she won't be told every- thing or asked everything. STILL BOOKING. will be interested in the an- o, phmmm \ nouncement of the ngagement of e a a . Mus Freda Ewen dflushier °1' rm. Oopp of Saint John is the The entertainment at the most Ho“ J_ med Fraser and w, nmr, gum o: he‘, “m, Mm E E Bab “mm” °' mam“ "c1": med‘ of Hollffl. t0 MI- G°Yd°l1 Vmwnt ler, Grafton Street having accom- ltlflg 51111101611169 the guest oi her which ‘mmed m G°°dw°°¢ Eng‘ Adi-rm. 01’ Mexlw 31W- l°n °1' M!" panled her niece Miss Jean Seller sister. Mrl- Jiwl! McLeod. land. ‘rileeday, varies but little from Matthew Gordon Adm“ and gm who was houdnymg with hm, m a s . ye” w 7°“ but the“ i" a n°tab1° 18W MY-‘l- Adam-i Wflwrlm’ 5m?‘- Saiht John. Mrs. William Paterson and he dlflereu“ °" W“ °°°"1°" W1"! Saint John, the wedding to take . . . d.,.,;ht,,, M1,, gm. p5,...” u, i0 thh*gbS8l’lOB I11 Canada 01 HIS place in Hnljfgx 9n Aug. 1a, Mr, colonel and M!‘ c‘m_ expected m,‘ awning from Mom F-"l ""1 “mm” °‘ Bmiwlmllih- Adams is on the stall of the Bonk eron of 0mm; mum; gpgnfljng m, treal to visit ms. Paterson's sister, It WU "19 Pfll/"EBB Milly “m” of Montreal in Mexico City, and mom), o; August at Buckley mach Mrs. Saunders, wife of m. Justicg °f 0mm" Pmsem G°'°m°"G°"' leaves this week for his second trip a a a A. c. Saunders, at their lovely homg "l! w "eel" Pfluwe M"? Ind home since being stationed in the Mm G, A, Q coopgr o; Mo... in Summe eiic. the Earl of I-larewood at his Suane 5mm, and 1; expggted 1n saint John “ca; 1s spending a month with M" e "at- smmted Puk- mmwmh- n“! to visit histfather about Aug. 10. Lionel Lindsay at orwem Th, enggggmgnt qf M1” staph year the Princess and her husband v v v . , , - m“ Jenna, u, M}. Edward I, “"1 be “w 8W5“ °' ‘he "u" m" The tea hostesses at the Tennis Mr. and Mrs. Simon PIOH, .n., are O'Brien of Ottawa, is announced . Duchess °f Rlchmcmd at q°°dw°°d Courts this 839111001’! W111 be M138"Sllmm€1‘in5 at Dalvay. this week the marriage to take Hml-W Margaret MacMilian, Miss Eleanor a a a place on August 36th 000k. Ml-Sm Johlwiflnfi- Evening fashions are just begin- ' ‘ ' ' ning to show the subtle ‘o w Mr. and we. George Wood and which we associate with the mid- baby are being welcomed buck lw way point of the season. For ex- rooldenil- ample, a suggestion of a sleeve is to be noticed on many smart gowns, m‘! 461101118 frocks are shorter- ankle-length and in some cases even higher. Skirts tend to be close- fltting round the hips and to sprggd gently towards the hem by means of shaped flounces or overskiris- Con- trasting waist-length jackets are Very popular and fur is used for the hem and sleeves rather than for the neckline. at many Summerside homes, 5h, returned on Tuesday‘ for her 110m. I I I Miss Rita Boles of Boston is v15. trade of the Dominion and Colony. III Answer: Right you are, brother, and it doesn't take a prophetcss to foretell that the result of your shopping around for a wife is going to be one that you won't want to return as soon as you get her home and look at your bargain. _1--_¢ Like you, I ltwe always contended that the most foolish desire that any man or woman could cherish was to be a first love. The only thing that really matters is being the last love. And as long as a husband or wife is that he or she can snap their fingers at all their predecessors. They are out of the picture. They simply do not count. Why this fictitious value should be put upon first love no one can say except that it has a. certain glamor of the romance of youth about it and somehow it flatters men and women to think that they are the first to fire the fancy and awaken the love instinct in mother's heart. ' I I I The many friends of Sir Andrew McPhaii, who is summering at Or- well, will regret to learn that he is ill of pneumonia. His condition upon inquiry yesterday, was reported much improved- I I I Etiquette 37 IIIIIII Ill But in reality there is nothing to boast about in being a boy and girl's first sweetheart because they are mo young to have any discrim- ination, too ignorant to have any sense of values. They have no stand- ards of comparison because their acquaintanceship-is so limited. They have never known Sheiks and Shebas and anybody who was half-way attractive could set the match to their inflammable imaginations. Mr. and Mrs. Wilfred MeEachern and Miss Bessie McEachem have Hflll- J- D- Hylldmun. President 01 returned to Ottawa from Scuris. the Pensions Appeal Court, Ottawa. where they gpenfl 9, 13w wegkg, celebrated his 57th birthday on e r r Wednfidfly- Miss Ellie Reddin who has been ' renewing old friendships for the past few weeks left on Thursday for her home at Niagara Falls, Ont. I I I Miss Leslie White is leaving this morning on a. visit to relatives in Saint John. Q. What word should always b. avoided when making introductions? A. Never say, “Meet? Q. Who sends the informal din- ner invitation? A. The wife, for her husband and herself. Q. Is is proper to tip thr chambermaid’ when stopping at r hotel? A. Yes. The thing of which a man and woman might really boast themselves would be to win the heart of a. man or woman who had had many friend- ships with the other sex and many love affairs and who was a connois- seur instead of an amateur in love. I I I Dr. and Mrs. Howard Dalton of Brookline, Mess, are the guests of the Lieut-Governor and Mrs. Dal- ton, North River Road. I I I Mr. and Mrs. J. M. Hunter enter- tained very delightfully 0n Thurs- day evening at a mixed Bridge of five tables in honor of Mrs. Hunt- Also, it may be truly said that we nearly always outgrow our first loves, even as we do our adolescent taste in books, in amusements, in eating even. Not many of us at 35 or 40 or even at 30 have an insatiable appetite for the things that thrilled us at 20. And it is the same with people. Pearls are being used more and more for all kinds of ornaments, in addition to the graduated link which almost every woman wears. Among the newest designs for these No. 926—Sports Frock. This style is designed in sizes 36 38, 40, 42 M, 46 and 48 inches bust measure. Size 36 requires 3% yards of 39-inch material with it yard of 35-inch contrasting. yr}! ‘ t x - N0. But-Bloomer Dress. 'I'his style is designed in sioes 2, 4, 6 and B years. Size 4 requires 2% yards of 39-inch material with §is yard 0f I I I Miss Eva. McKenzie who has been visiting her parents, Mr. and Mrs. John McKenna has returned to New For The Cook’ Most of us have had the disillusioning experience of meeting after a. lapse of years the girl we thought we would die if we didn't get when we 32-inch contrasting. No. 187-Smart Sophistication. This style is designed in sizes 6, B, l0 and 12 years. Size 8 requires 2% yards of 39-inch material for dress and hat with 1% yards of 35-inch material for blouse and 1% yards of binding. It can also be had for adults in sizes 14 to 20 years, 36 and 38 inche bust measure. No. 139—Cowl Neckline. This style is designed in sizes 1d, l8 20 years, 36, 38, 40 and 42 inches bust measure. Size 36 requires 3% yards of 39-inch material. No. 208—Pep1um Model. This style is designed in sizes 14, l6, 18, 20 years, 36, 38 and 40 inches bust measure. Size ldrequires 4% yards of 33-inch material. were in our early 20s o: the boy who was the hero of our girlish dreams, and as we gazed at the lost loves of our adolescence our one surging emo- tion was a profound gratitude that we were saved from the folly of a first love. i It is because first loves are so seldom lasting that makes the danger of early marriages. Of course, now and then a first love endures, but this happens very rarely. Almost always the wife outgrows the husband or the husband the wife and they either part or else drag on the bell and chain of a. marriage in which two people are bound together who have come actually to dislike each other. One of the reasons why the system of what is coiled "keeping com- pany" or “going steady" is so pernicious is that it gives the boy and girl no chance to know other boys and girls and to really find out whether they like each other or not or whether each has the quality that the other at": sister, Miss Katie Taylor, Len- noxville, Scotland, who is their house-guest. Miss Taylor, who is an extensive traveller is here on her first visit and is charmed with Prince Edward Island. She has made many friends and has greatly en- joyed the salt water bathing and beautiful scenery. ‘ 9v v‘ a Mr. G. Burton Lord, Mrs. lord and Master George Ilord of Fitch- burg, Mass. are in the city on a visit-to Mrs. Lord's sister, Mrs. (Col) D. A. MaeKinnon and her father. Mr. Benjamin Bremner. I I I "x York. guardshlil. I I The King arrived in Cowes, Eng- land, Monday with the Queen in the Royal Yacht Victoria and Albert for" what amounts to His Majesty's annual holiday. The Royal Yacht Club regatta begins next Monday and it is especially for that event that the King and Queen have come. He travelled up from Ports- mouth in the uniform of an admiral with HMS. Malaya as the Royal wonderful gems are extremely gg. tractive rings and bracelets, which lend a charming finishing touch to a womans appearance. Solitaire Pearl rings and eternity rings of Platinum set with numbe of tiny lustrous pearls are generally popu- lar. The bracelet may be just simple links of pearls or pearl-set platinum chains. A. new design is of flowers and leaves, each flower consisting of o rosy-tufted pearl, While the leaves are of platinum with a need pearl set in each tip. Mrs. (Dr) McPhsll of Montreal is being pleasantly entertained by ltAIslN ROLLS Sift together three times, 3 cupr flour, 6 teaspoons of baking POWder and a teaspoon of salt. Work in from 1-3 to 1.4 a cup of shortening, then add enough milk to make a dough. Turn the dough on to a floured board, knead slightly, then roll into a rectangular sheet aboui it inch thick. Brush over with melt- ed buttewthen sprinkle with chop- ped nut meats and raisins. Roll u] the dough compactly. than out tin roll into ti inch pieces. Set these on end, close together, in a buttered Regretful farewells are being said her many friends in Summerside to Mr- and IMk-s. Harold Monteith ‘ during her visit here. m; week who with their sons Gordon and she was the guest of Dr. and Mrs. Rolf, have been spending the past Sharp of Bedeque. month summoring at York Point v v v and with Mrs. Monteiths mother The hostesses for this grim-noon Mrs. Gill. They are leaving Monday at the Summerside golf links will be for their home in Waterford, Ont., Mrs. E. W. Manson, Mrs. J. 1:3 M. going by boat to Montreal and then nett, Mrs. H. G. Muttart and Miss motoring. Helen Manson. I I I Among the guests at the after- pan. Bake about 20 minutes. _...- All patterns 15 cents each in stamps or coin (coin mcferred.) demands in a. man or woman. They are as stupid as a. man and woman '. would be if they went into a shop and grabbed the first thing they saw - Be sure to fill in the size of the pattern. Send stamps or coin (coin nearest the door. It might be a potato when what they craved was preferred.) chocolate cream. r An aftemdon tea was given on Thursday at the Canadian National Hotel in honor of Miss Blanche Brooks of Murray Harbor. I I I Miss Katherine Brown of New York, is being welcomed home on a In Kiplings immortal poem the hero tells of the women he has known, and says: “I learned about women from her." And that is still the only way in which the fascinatingsubject of the sexes can be stud- m“ to he, mm‘ the Mm“ Mus, led. Before a man and woman can pick out intelligently a wife or hus- and with Brown, Prince street band they must have known many women and men and learned about , , , their tricks and their manners, their virtues and their vices, their noble- A recent arrival m Vancouver is ness and their faults from them. M,” Avila Mathluon. daughter o! Chief Justice and Mrs. Mathieson of Charlottetown who is spending the Ilrquq“ " AI Paris Styles i By MARY KNIGHT III Lady Moyra Ponsonby, daughter of Their Excellen ‘ the Governor noon tea given in honour of_ Mrs. General and the Countess of Beas- (R/ev.) W. D- Wilson by Mrs. g. w, borough who has been staying at M of Summerslde recently, the Algonquin Hotel, St. Andrewk- was Mrs. Scot mm; 9g Branden, _ by-the-Bea, for the past three weeks who has been visiting her sister. ‘ ' leaves on August 5 to return to Ot- Mrs. Percy Crossley or g; new. Miss Lena MeLure is being wel- tawa. m. M", 15mm i,“ on Tuesday m, corned home on a visit to her moth- " ' ' Wolfvills wh _ ' er. Mrs. W. Chester S.“ McLure, New designs in watches are con- band will rejirgefhhzrfnlitgrir 1.2:; Jimmie Jinn“ say’: Bonnohlnloy- stantiy finding their way into the on the staff of Wolfville Univer- Summer sity. At every meal it makes I I I UPPER Miss Helen Manson entertained t’; at five tables of bridge on Wgdngg- A laggfiqng food “m dey evening in honour r rs . ' Floyd Cieaveland. of Youngsters, —stewartla Bread Ohio, who is returning homo um a pleasant visit with her pirgnfg, Mir. Justice Saunders and Mira. Saunders of Summerside. Miss Eva. lyn Jenkins and w. Lloyd Jgnflng of Charlottetown were guests. III Mrs. E. W. Manson was hosteal 7'1’, United Press Staff Correspondent It has been my observation that the men and women who looked down the vmole length of the counter, to quote Mr. Adds admirable 8 m‘ h 1 phrase again, and then made their selection make the contented hus- 812:? w er w“ n’ mi a c bands and wives. For not only have they got what they wanted and , what suits them, but they have had the fun of the shopping expedition. PARIS, July 31.—(U'. PJ-It is tantalizing to stand in front of . the great bolted doors of the grand couturiers and imagine what is going on inside! But we don't have to stand there, nor do we just have to imagine. If we are smart we know where other doors are besides the great front onesw 1th their liveries guardsmen, and it is by one of these that we slip silently over the threshold and are told in" whispers a few of the things that give us at least an inkling as to which way the winter winds of woman's fashions will be winding. And since this is an unusually chilly July day in Paris, we'll . discuss furs. By now you know about the new Ocelot, or baby leopard, and furriers are doing another stunt this season in collab- oration with certain houses. They are combining strange and ec- centric bits of various furs and dyeing them exotic shades. These , creations are nameless, or rather called simply “la fourrure de la maison," for they cannot legitimately be attributed to one animal. Flat skins, we find, will again be favored -— broadtails and as- trakhen especially because of their proclivity to accentuate the . slendemcss of a. figure. The combination of btoadtail-curncul is ' going into a number of Short coats that will have lovely bury-your‘- “flhln collars that flatter anyone whether they want to be flattered -_ _ or not. Grey shaved lamb will be smart for sportswear, and long coats of this will have neat belts and hobby buckles. Where evening gowns and wraps are concerned ermine will also be concerned — as neck, sleeve and belt trimming on the gowns, and as collar and cuffs onthe wraps when the wraps are not en- tirely of ermine. Whenever you find a middle-cg ed woman who is flirtatious and mad for the attentions of men you will nearly always find that she manied early, generally her first love, and missed the gay love-making of girl- hood, so she is trying to make up her quota. of sentiment later on in life. And the same thing is true of men. Nine out of ten of the married men who fall for fiappers in their foolish 40s married the first girls who eve: made eyes at them. save theiriown wills. And I other mothers who are bringing up their children to be fine and noble and useful men and women. I lmow it is a common thing i'or_ mothers and fathers to pass the buck to the teachers and expect them to give the children the discipline that they have failed to give and to expect the teachers to turn little hoodlums into ladies and gentlemen, but it can't be done. What the parents have done the teacher cannot undo. She cannot erase the im- pressions the parents have made. She-cannot rub out the stamp the home has put upon the children. The task is an impossible one in any case, and it is made the more impos sible, is such athing could be, by the number of children with whom the teacher has to deal daily. So in marriage, as in making any other bargain, it is better to look about you a bit before you make your choice. DOROTHY DIX. I I I I I I I I Dear Miss Dix-Which is more important, the training a child re- ceives at home or the training he receives at school? NITA. Answer: The training a child receives at home is infinitely more important than that which it receives at school, because it begins earlier, because it makes a deeper impression and because the home is more of a child's life than its school is. EAT MORE SrEwARfs 0f oourlo. the school does e a great influence on many child- ren but it isn't to be compared for a moment with the influence of the h°m¢~ DORUITIY DIX. _ I e e e e e a a Dear Miss Dix-Would you explain the difference between a girl being cheerful and being silly. I am a fellow 19 years oldand the girl I am going with is l8 and I can't make her see that there is a. difference be- tween cheerfulness and silliness and that there are some things she could take seriously. Do you thi-nk a girl who is always giggling and cutting up is liked as much as one who doesn't and who is simply cheer- ful and pleaslntr g, Q_ A child's earliest and most inersdicable impressions are received in the home. Indeed, the behaviorists go so far as to say that a child's character is formed by the time it is 3 years old, so, if this is true, by the time a child starts to school its life pattern is fixed and sii that the ' teacher can do is to modify it a littleT ' Style Chats Foremost among wrrn anus aaonaa Toilet Preparations NOW PRODUCE! Cautious-a Shaving Cream Arm what a contribution it is to the cause of shaving! A small amount quickly works up into a thick lather that remains throughout the shave, without refouchin as is sometimes necensa . It contains the dclicatelme icated proper-rice of Cogent. which soothe the a ' and do away with the necessity of using lotions. A‘ 5%.’??? $.13“ "'33: Tow.’ °' '9“ Certainly we all know that good habits or bad habits are formed in a child in the first few weeks after it is born. We all know children who have to be rocked to sleep or have somebody spend hours every night getting them to bed and we know other children of the same age who are put to bed and left alone and who sinilingly go to sleep by themselves. We know children who howl over everything 8nd other children who never whimper. We know children who are disobedient and saucy and other children who are fespectfm and mind when they are spoken to. And now, my little man, papa wants to tell you not about tho great big griaaly bear over in the Zoo, but new he'd like f0 Nb W“ penny bank to buy sailboat Ilaaaea to rock the lacy’: nlshbvll 1"- No foolin‘. if you have the slightest excuse for serving 111mm" in glasses withyachtingaeenea onthemthere araaomalwlllm" in the shops. If you like oceans, own aakifi. wen-a batbinl Ill"- sit on the beach. o:- eat shrimp! it oilht to he ample reason 1°!‘ investing in these tempting glasses fer torrid weather. . ‘ Aljlrgmatcheatheglaaseaandtheboataaredoneinoolulld -__-__ Answer: v Giggling is like the crackling of thorns under a pot and nothing gets on our nerves quicker. Nothing ‘a girl can do queers her quicker than to be a giggler and a village cut-up. But it doesn't always imply that the girl is as big an idiot as she appears to be, Many girls think that hopping around files a monkey on a stick and screaming at the top of their voices and going into paals of laughter qvgr take any prophet in tell will be wastrels and ne'er-demons and will be nothing at all indicates that they are vivacious and full of spirit. But divorced and who will be failures in life because the mothers are teaching i it is the calm, cheerful, pleasant girl that w. all 11kg, 1g i; gm u“. lthemtobesdf-indiflslntwhign-teunnnredandtoreeeeetnelawrgagmuguiggggmsmn_ . . 'apaqlmxnm_b .. .. - ’y>\ Every day I see mothers with children not 5 years old thatit doesn't