~ya~r~o..-= Q n ». --»--es rflIPU! __ ~l-...-_.-.,--_ .. {ace Two QAk‘ m‘ Woman's Ag‘ A A lDorothy Dix Says- DIVORCES WOULD BE FEWER IF WOMEN DID THE CHOOSING Most Men Give lylarriage About As Much Actual Thought As They D0 In Select- ing a New Hat Or Necktie fie arc all nunrc that nlcst of the unhappy - ~ - ~ i ‘r :1 l fort in the husband or “NHL o‘ m“ bl“ H (o The woiniiil who would make one mall all people llarinu 2C9 IOUQUWT- dust fcr ano that so lllflll) ll‘.\l1l)ll_1(.‘S.S_ in ill their first. to their own marriage. while women - thc llusbnntl ~ uzuni ll.i.'.'.~ collsttlit-tl '| ll ideal wife drives another man vto _d husband who irolld be ‘the answer to one mal - en's prayer turns life mIO find?“- ation fcr divorce, it is to be found in tragedy 0t the nllsnlated is ~ as a general thing. ti list the wall inges \\l'.l turn out men are flllPlly rcspcllslble for do the picking. _ , l Ihey have the privilege oi selection. _ _ Amati can choose the tlve find preservativa measure the pillow. A woman has to take what application of a coaPng of pale the predominant strips _ And frequclilly,varnish is suizizertcd. Tito addifiomexactly in the middle: if fig-tired, slic gets is not wilat shc would 118W of a very little iUYpQI/MIHG will ln- the motif shnuld be correctly cen- \\'Ol!'ll\l1 he fancies. is tillers-ii llci marriages are not the wife, but of the wrong drink. The AAAAAAQA A ealm ‘IS Living a WHEN WE 00M! HOME Home is the ending oif the 800G. The place where we lay down our lo , we cross the threshold, and forget Life’; {ml-k and worry. fuss and re . We need no longer strive or strain With wearled limbs and busy brain, For here, when sunset paints the west At close of day. we take our rest. in black velvet ashes and justific- the fact i ' men and women lino that ill swap- tlloi- girl. If there is any ping partileis they nave gaillcn tile peace an - a second nlarrlage that they lilishfidl Wllo is to blinile tor this common htircl to say. since lo lucl: instead. oi But 1 ililltk that: it because tiltjyl Mon ilie the active atlclils H1 good Jtlnglilcnt. have none. a m- go without. I have llcr taste ill the matter. IL . . _ iciig L;_.li1\'ll(lt'ii tlnlt ll litxlncn hnd the privilege ot selecting then mates- iis incn ll.l\\' -ill.ll u wolld do more mow uciii» c lcllclly lnid l0 nltike l should be toad of the fittlltlni: hat women trould. make choices oi husbands than nl.n ll iii‘ ol wives, bcczlllso WClllCIl ale so lunch holler siioupirs tlltin nicii. 'lllc\' know so inucll bctiei" wlizit they iililzl lilxll mun do. and they are "so nluch more determined to net. the iioitn oltlielr money. How Main Selects Wife When a. WOllllill cots to buy it hat. for lllsllllltt‘. i‘ \\'ill litnlt around until silo llntis thc one that fires her ftuicv alto matches up with her frock and is suitable for the purpos- es for which she wishes it, if she has to comb every one of the shops on Alain Si. But. it'll 'll a mnn zocs tn buy a hot he ilvtlvizillt' takes the first one h» st ll'§_';|l'lil s of whet-her he lilacs , or he lots some alibi sales- man tall; lliln into buylll: one that he knotis doesn't suit. llllll. Then he gar-s home klllti iirollchcs lmcause he (lvvslrt illiP his new lid. ' And that. is about the way men! fiill:"l'_'.'._ ‘lin-i don't. shot) for their v. '. Tllcy marry the girls ncxt door to them. the girls with ‘Whom they work, or the stiris with wh0in_tllev' are thrown in contact in FAVORITE FLAVOR-IT wifh G00 COOKS cal NEW OFFER! Send I5 BOVRIL CUBE Wrap- pers i0 "BOVRIL". Perl: Ave" MONTREAL for FREE BQTTLE Of 59h} you p051’ ffgg, GET SOME TO-DAY than any other one thing to pro- IILUTIZLLZG the grand, sweet song ll.’ a boardiillz house lust because they, were handy. _ 0r else tilcy marry the tzirls who | run alter tllcin anti. capture them because they haven't the nerve to run away, , Then when they find that they have wives that they don't really love and who dont interest them. they beef about it. just as they do when they find that they have 110t- ten hats that they don't like. Mlsmating Is Fatal One of the commonest and saddest sights in the worldis that of an m- tclliizent. broad-minded, generous- liczirted man who is married to a llillP nitwlt who doesn't even know what he is talkini.’ iibotlt; or to a nagizel- who hennecks nlln within all inch of his lile; or to all eaxtrsvalz- ant, wife who keeps ills nose to the zrlndstone to pay her bills. But while we shed tears of sympathy aver him we are bound_ to recall that his wife was his choice. A pretty lace caught his fancy i around land he never looked behind it to see iif there were any brains in her head lto fall back upon when her com- lplexion was zone. OXihE sharp speeches of a vivacious izul amused him and he didn't stop to consider how littic lie would relish tongue Jashlnizs when he was their victim. Or he liked to be seen out with a lzirl who looked like a Dally Hint from Paris and lt never occurred to him that marriage with her would ,mean selling himself into slavery to specialty shops. i Congeniality All-Important Congeniality is the basis of every happy marriage. The people we love and enjoy being with are those who speak our lanizualze; those who have the same tastes and habits and outlook on life: those to whom we can say anythlniz without the dan- zer of startlniz an argument? those who play our games ‘and like our friends. No bookish man can be happy with a woman who never even reads the newsbapers. No domestic man can be happy married. to a poor housekeepei. No man who is thrifty can get along with a spender, Arid no man who likes to go places wants to sit at home every night with a. wife whose idea of an excltlniz eveniniz is sittlniz up and listening to the baby breathe. All of this being a matter of com- |taught to catch fsh Dinner gowns with white lace gaining in favor. trimming are Velveteen princess frocks are very popular. The average Bite or frees is esti- mated at about 250 years. WALL IvT/irs ~——— i Maps as wall decorations have lzrcwn l:l popularity, A; a prctcc-| crtwse the transparency of the var- nlsh. l In China and India, otters are[ and drive them into zlets. l Physicians specially intreested ini salt as an energy producer says the‘ famous ginger water of the harvest fields and the almcst equally fam- ous oatmeal water of the athletic fields have been most effective when relieved of flatness by a liberal pinch of saltJ Lilac to purple ls a range that is coming up importantly. In the pat- terns a favorite combination is is that with blue. Newest lorking are the lilac with purple relieved by nasturtlum, yellow or brilliant green. (‘arry on. carry on. for the men and bcys are gone; but the filrrow, shant lie fallow while the women carry on. - Janet Beghie. ETERNAL FOE OF CRUELTY Much as Christmas has meant to humanity. it has meant no less to tho<e lowlier fellow creatures who share with mens life joys and sorrows. Whatever the burden of suffering that rests upon the animal world today. lt is less by many frld than it was before that night when a little child was born in the stable of a, Bethlehem inn. The spirit of Christmas is the eternal foe of cruelty. No man who yields to its sway can look with other than kindly eyes upon the least of those livini! things that have capacity for pain. THREE YULTIDES EACH YEAR ‘There iii one place where Christ- maS is keel three tfmes a year - in the Church of Nativity at ‘Bethlehem. the reputed site of the Stable of the Inn. The Roman. Greek and Armen- ian Greek bodies have each their ——T7ie Woman ’s Realm whiting Leisure do not occur on the name d; , The Latin Christina; is cel rat- ed at the Roman Catholic altar on Deoemlber 26. Thirteen days later the Ortho- dox Eaatsms perform the Greek Another 13 days later the Armenian Church keeps its own ceremonial Byzantine faith. ORIGIN 0F CHRISTMAS CARDS Si: Henry Cole. an English so- cial and educational reformer, in- vented the first Christmas card. It was six Inches long and four inches wide. and dep‘cted lrl the Panels formed by a leafy trellis two acts of charity - clothing and feeding the hungry. TAILDRED CUSHIONS NEED CAREFUL FINISHING When covet-int cushions meas- ure your malel-‘al carefully before cult-mg so that the cover fits Stlllllly. blit does not crush the If the fabnc is striped sh'tuld be icred. Be choosy about finishing. too. There are so many attractive bindings, fringes and fhislies that may be purchased inexpensively by the yard. that even the inex- perienced can turn out quite pro- fessional looking cushions. AMomingSmilc "Choir practice was out early last night, wasn't it?" nYeSn “What was the trouble?" “Some one blew an auto horn outside and the male quartet was all that was left." ‘The late-comm to a London con- cert. hall, who imagined he was a variety entertainment, arrived in time i-o hear a perform- ance not at all his taste. He nudged the man next to him. "I say." he asked, “what's this stuff we're getting?" " "Hush" came the shocked reply, "this is Beethoven's Ninth Sym- phony." “We1l," muttered the non-musl- cal man. "if the other eight were likte this. thank goodness I was a TO EASE MISERY OF CIIIlIYS COI-D RUB U" THE COOK 'S CORNER YGSDGQtiVa section of the churrrl, but their Christmas oelebraflons Stock Up on Gay Phrases t1 join in‘ the Rflplfltl mon knowledge. whv is it that men who have a. choice of all the 57 dif- the trouble to Dick out the one who has the qualities they wish in a wife can only be explained by that men are poor shoppers. DOROTHY DIX. lLIP-ON-A-HANGER. mummy BAG DESIGN ‘WM-W- tiQ-sitm a laundry bait” has been the theme of many of your letters oi late. ily and the film "s friends. (lcslril cl ill" hag is popular. W, litr- iii ‘|u|il"l\“ N0. 687 W" hill/E designed a lovely one-one that la so easy to litmu- _"t u t-nil have them tucked into Christmas stocklmzs for a" the {kn-h ' _ _ . on‘? brlEht ween. yellow. blue. rose or other (iilfllfll liatrh 1S own to the bag then embroidered in simple outlines. The _ 0f Eifflltivc Phrases making. embroidery and fllilslliriz, and Sili."ll and color charts. keys and diagrams. it. <lll'l‘| illia imltvrn, sand l5 cents in coin oi stamps to Needlework Burt-ail. Cllllrlnttcioiril Guardian. To Charlottetown Gunrrllan Nordic-n" zl; DPDlllilllClli. Dcsikn No. i787 M31111; - — _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ .-_ Street Address — — - — - - - - ._._____-___.-__ [fig--__—-_-__-_____-_-__--—_ fererlt varieties of women don't take. the fact l cclslonl What an agonizing experience l4 alt mute in the midst of gay chat- ter_! How is it other girls are s4 quick at repartce, always seem t4 have the right word on the tip oi the tongue? By stocklnl up on bright phrases any girl can be a lively conversailonallst. When Bob ask: "Why so thoughtful?" your mind works quick as a flash and gaily you reply, "Oh. this in just m mysterious inscrutable mood!" Does a silence fall’! You art ready with conversation-starters: "What a pretty picture. it remind: me . . ." or "Did you go to the big game last week?" You are sure to be om of the well-liked. too, if you know the gracious thing to say on different occasions. How your hostess beams as you iiay, "I never had such a nice time." How your dance partner glows when you reply to his thank-you with an enthusiastic "I enjoyed it, too." And everyone warms to your sincerely spoken compliments: "You of you!" Socially and in business say the right, the pleasing thing. Our 32- page booklet has hundreds of apt phrases for social, business occa. slons. Lists lively word combina- tions to lzive sparkle to your talk, Send 20c in coins for your copy For All 0:- ¢95i°n5 t0 The Guardian Home "§1if.l"iii§'.§’£?tlfiiidéilélllili d???“ ‘m’ °“"“"‘ °"““‘° M‘ “m” 3° 5"" ‘° “m” mm" ytxiuéogléilreilte, Address and the Name limo I . .i__ _€_ ltreet Addrun 01w I rl-ovllléa did that beautifully!" "How clever ‘ WARTLME CHRISTMAS CAKE 1-2 cup shortening 1 cup granulated sugar 1 egg, well beaten 1 clip unsweetened apple sauce or cranberry sauce l 3-4 cu/ps all-purpose flcur 1 teaspoon baking sods 1-2 teaspoon salt 1-2 teaspoon nutmeg 1-2 teaspoon cinnamon 1-2 teaspoon allspicae l cup seedless raisins 1-2 cup finely sliced cltrcn peel 1-3 cup cherries cut in half 1-2 cup chopped blanched c.1- mon . Allow shortening to stand at room temperature until soft. Cream ‘we Add sugar gradually and cream thoro a . Add apple sauce or cranberry saucg and mix well. l Sift the dry ingredients and mix 1-2 cup of the mixture with the raisins, citron peel, cherries and almonds. Add the remaining dry ingre- dlentl to the cake mixture and fold in the floured fruit and nuts. Turn into a loaf pan l0x5x3-l-2 inches, lined with wax paper. Bake ln a moderate oven of 350 degrees F. for 1 hour or until done. APPLESAUCE CAKE 1-2 cup butter 1 cup sugar l 1-2 cups applesauce 2 clips flour I teaspoons baking soda 1-4 teaspoon salt 1 teaspoon cinnamon 1-2 teaspoon nutmeg 1-4 teaspoon cloves l cup seeded raisins 1 cup chopped nuts METHOD: Cream the butter and gradually cream in the sugar, then add the applesauce. You use uri- sweetened applesauce for this. Sift together the flour, baking soda, salt and spices. then add the raisins anu nuts and mix uzltll these are well-coated. Add the flour-fruit mixture to t applesauce mixture gradually. mix rig well. Potlr into [a well-greased square pan and ‘take in a moderate oven (350 deg. l") for about 45 minutes. Serve while hot with hard sauce or any desired pudding sauce. RED PEPPER. JELLY Two lemons, cut in 4 pieces; l2 large rcd peppers cut in small strips (with scissors). 1 1-2 pounds of granulated sugar. Put peppers lin cold water. let scald. drain off water. add lemon and enough vine- gar to cover. Boil 1-2 hour, add sugar. then bell thck. Remove pieces of lemon. Pzur into steril- laed jelly glass-cs. Dn not rtrrc cut. cheese in a cov- ,crcd iar. wrap it in waxcd paper and then in a clcth rinsed f-l v'tle- I I I jut: CHARLOTTETOWN GUARDIAN_ 11B Y- Add the well-beaten egg Ind but ““‘ wvv Vvv ocial and Personal 1 X kkkk. s‘ kmkm‘ vv Fashions r L vw 7v v vv _ _ pace Each pair in o gill package Available IHE importance of the Onservation o resources in carrying on the war on the econom at once apparent. The makers of Orient‘ Hosiery stand ready to do their part in whatever emergencies may arise. The Company, as an employer of hundreds of workers and with an entirely Canadian organization, has set itself two importan: objectives at this time. To ensure an uninterrupted supply of the finest hosiery using the highest quality yarns available. Most Beautiful Hosiery.” of all which the exigencies of the moment make possible. 2 To maintain Orienfs‘ supremacy as the “World's Smcirf f.»- ‘ w” S h; ‘toy/i P s MBER 11, 1940 "may iterature gTrarie mark CST‘. Ltd. Fol’ Wudnsldlil December 11th MARCH 21 to APRIL 10 (Aries) -Conservatlve methods and calm deliberation are necessary for harmony and progress today. As evening advances favorable rays increase for investigations, confi- dential msturs. study. APRIL 21 to MAY 20 (Taurus -Stars warn against tactlessness in affairs of the heart and in other personal issue. Be enthusiastic and agreeable and your fine cap- ability will reward you with n. satis- fy!!! total. greatly favors Pfosresstva movements and legis- Quick Relief. Big Saving. So Easy. No Cooking. This well known recipe ls used by l‘l‘."”l.‘l‘."“l'“li‘li."€‘i2"i'1$.'il'“‘“‘° s s ou a v em an Qfiélhl, dependable rsnliedy for dis- tressing winter coughs. It's so easy to mix-i child could do it. From any drugglst, get 2% ounces of gar to help prevent mold from forming. A soon crmparv_ l; product-m 17 varieties. to f't reizions having Xestaer of varying degrees cf hard-l Pluck, a com iind contalnin Norway Pine and a afablo uillaco in con- centrated orm. well nown for its ef- fect on throat membranes. Then make I syrup by stirring two cups of granulated sugar slid one cup Your Individual H C) R O S CO P E By Frances Drakc-——4 ‘ lsttoti. inventions. MiAY 21 to JUNE 21 (Gemini)- Cvalns indicated for you. particular- ly through creative ideas and work. and ingenlus advertising and pro- meeting. Avoid too aggressive ten- dencies. however. Be careful in artistic ventures. JUNE 22 to JULY 23 (Cancer) -Horn before July 8? Guard your finances, watch closely business transactions. also expenditures. You born after July 7 are more favor. ed by star as eats in these matters but need to emecially conserv- (Contlnued on page a, col 1) For Bad Winter Coughs, MixThis Remedy at Home of wnter_ a few momenta. lintll dia- iiolred. it a no trouble at all. and takes hilt n moment. No cooking needed. Put the Pint-x into u l0 ounce bottle and add your syrup. This given you 10 ounces of i-ongll remedy. unusually- qlilck-nctliu: and dependable. and you got four time-s as much cough medicine Y0!‘ Sour money. It. never spoils. and ll very pli-aaunt—clilldren love it. You'll be surprised by the way it takes liolil of sown- mngha. giving ulcli. satisfying rnlir-f. it. loosens the rill egm. lmotlioa filo irritate-ll membranes. aml helps cit-iii- the air passages. Money re- There is an air of quiet sophis- tication about this new frock. The illgll draped neckline is profess- ional looking but is so easy W i10- A perfect background dress for tho WOIHGJI who needs a lint many changes but has to watch her bud- get. Make it of dark silk or 112M- welgllt wool, and be sure to choose a color that matches or blends in with your coat. Add a Pill. 01195 0T necklace, just u you PM" 1m’ decoration and you‘l find that you are the smartest looififlfl Wm!" in any gathering. Style No. mo l.- designed for sizes l2. l4, i0, 36. 38. 40 8nd 42 S5536 lequlros 4 yards of 39-inch I C Bend Twenty (moi coin is orn- ferred. for pattern Writs Dllllflly your Name. Address and ltvls ‘ Be sure tn state tho size you wish Style No. 2500 Size ............ HOW TO LIGHT THE TREE To com-blue in equal DYOWT- tfons red and amen l'ghts of will“! brlghtneii". on your Christmas trfl is an assault on t“e eveishl- Th4‘ result suggest: trait? signals 5M1! mad. Two parts 0i’ BT19" i" m“ funded if it doesn't please lu every way. of red may be used more affec- tively. -' t i Needlecraft- '—.FOI‘ H0111?