Woman is. RleaIm.. PAGE TWO THE GUARDIAN AUGUST 1, 1950 nun Modern Eliqueiio I! Rllbortn I40 I Z , 4 it 994:. Q. when a man is accompany- ing a woman on the street. should be take her arm when crossing the street? A. He may assist her across with a light touch at her elbow. He should avoid, however. any clutch- ing at her arm or any forcible "steering." Q. Is it permissible for a guest to ask for a second helping of some dish? A. Not unless eating with rela- tives or intimate friends. It is one of the hostess' duties to see that ii atlon. her guests' wishes are fulfilled without the necessity of their ask- in 8Q. Is it proper for a girl to it sets. wear her engagement ring in puc- lic immediately after receiving it? A. She should wait. until after the engagement has been formally announced. and the clothes '7 - white. l i l X y '7: teaspoon salt 8 b i l l l i 'Vx4 l. cage descended. l at the rope. miner. afraid of. tomorrow." i Household Scrapbook I: Inboetsla Paraffin Almost any kind of bugs: wood berries. if dipved in melted paraf- fin and then put away until need- ed, may be preserved for If treated in this rranner. they will retain their shape and brightness for months. Loose Handle If the handle of the umbrella per- sists in coming off each time the umbrella is raised. fill the cavity in the handle with some melted alum and then quickly press the stick into it. holding it firmly until Bleaching Clothes Place a few slices the wash boiler on laundry day. It will remove many of will be x Cook's Corner ' STUFFED VEGETABLE MARROW 1 small vegetable marrow 2 cups soft stale bread crumbs 1 tablespoon chopped onion 1 tablespoons chopped parsley 1 cup chopped cooked meat is teaspoon pepper 2 tablespoons butter Cut marrow in half and remove seeds. Place halves on a greased baking sheet. Mix bread crumbs, onion. parsley, meat. salt land pepper and fill marrow halves iDot top with butter. lmoderate oven. 350 degrees F'., for 1 1 hour. Yield: six servings. 53 Morning Smile STILL GOOD ' oiaxlnmoiiiie 1f:?yCh:a:lXSgto1tIlEriedcfAl;nth:lpractlcal conclusions C she noticed how she and the rest of the party were! dependent upon a single rope to Iwhich it was attached. I "Do you think it's quite safe?" "she asked a miner. as she Elam-'Bd "Safe as the bank." returned the "There's nothing to be These ropes are guar- anteed tn last 12 months and this one ain't due to be renewed until I decor- 10- Tlie Stars Say - - By Genevleveilfo.-mbla the stains . s..w,smxxvNvcVV,z-ssxc,N.-.zc.zoN,.,.,.- of lemon in snowy For Wednesday, August I 3 Aocorrpmo to the ) planetary aspects the mentality ,' disposed to , and concentrated thought. The vitality might be low. effort. Pending problems or for future reference. lengthwise For the Birthday Bake in a ished ideas and ideals. There is .V; cipies and potentialities. may be low, W6Y.Y,VN.woZ lfor long-range objectives. vthcse time for Don't force issues just now. A child born on this day. has studious and roots of things. LONG TIME AGO The earliest period 8. C. existing reflection, to scripts with appeal to principle and high pur- pose. It might prove of prime im- portance to relax and "mull over" uhntcver might be the proooriiion or subject uppermost in the mind. the "physical" disposed to inertia of needing proper rest from arduous ob- jectives could be planned and kept Those whose birthday it is, may be inclined to take a:somber and strious slant on their most cher- profound inclination to study and weigh matters for underlying prin- Vitality or physical energies may be demanding proper rest and relaxation. perhaps entire sun-ease from activity or any dynamic. ef- or decisions Give normal maturity reflective mentality. with an inclination to get at the in the his- tory of man is known as the coli- , thic (dawn or stone age) and may have extended to 800,000 years 1'rue.succm Story For today's true success story 1 have chosen the name of Jacob Gould Schurman who was-born at Freetown. Prince ldward Island in The son of a farmer. he seconded the pinnacle of success brinzinl honor and fame to his native Pro- vince as well as to his adopted coun- try. tha United States of America. The little old red schoolhouse furnished young Schurman with an elementary education. Then he on- tered canadian Uniyersities, and later completed his studies by at- tending London and Edinburgh Universities, as well as Hiedelberg and Berlin, Germany. At the age of twenty-six. Schur- man was appointed Professor of Philcsophy and English literature in Acadia College. Nova Scotls, and six years later became Professor of Philosophy at Cornell University. From this poslticn. he became dean of the Sage School of Philosophy at Cornell, and in 1800 he became the justly celebrated President of the University. Mr Schurman was a member of the U. S. A. Philippine Commis- sion of 1899 and devoted nearly I year to the study of conditions in the Islands. 0 Dr. Schurman held other impor- tant posts and had many high hon- ors conferred upon him during his lifetime. He is the author of "Kantian Ethics and the Ethics of Evolution." "The Ethical Import of Darwinism," "A Generation at Cornell" and "Philippine Affairs", etc. In 1912 he was appointed United States Minister to Greece and Montenegro by the late President Taft. Later, he became u.s. Minister to Germany, all of which positions he filled with dignity and tact. As an educator, Dr. Schurman had few equals; and. as a son of this Island Province, his name will ever be kept fresh in the mem- ory of all persons who love a suc- cess story and the man behind it. . . . is is Dr. Schurman was a noted lin- guisl. yet. with all his learning. he was a humble man with a passion- ate love for the land of his birth and especially the little ccmmunity of Freetown. where he first saw the fort. in the meantime there could he precious enlightenment HEM M 5”” ' on dmired mans 0,. E0315 Wm, The news of his death caused al- most as widespread sorrow in Eur- ope as in America and the great- est statesmen of the world united statesman educator and friend of humanity. 3 lg Better English '5 2 ; By a. 0. Williams i one-room heaven: the famous money-back guarantee. .- '1 .'. , , 2 4... ,- Rugl Bright, pretty, easy-to-core-for . . . it stays beautiful and now looking on amazingly long ll ' Gold Seal Kill -- - P'i”'"f' W!-!r'r-'W'! , 4 Nothing transforms a room as quickly and of so little expense - as a smart Congolsum time! For Congolsum has a wear-loysr of heat-toughened point and baked enamel equal in thickness to 8 cool: of the best floor point i applied by'liond, And We the only enamel surface floor covering with 1. What is wrong with this sen- tence? "The boy had fell and broke his arm." 2. What is the correct pronunc- iation of "telescopic"? 3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Enterprise. patronlse, surmise, extemporize. 4. What does the word "formid- able" mean? 5. What is a word beginning with he that means "risky"? ANSWERS - 1. Say. "The boy had fallen and broken his arm." 2. Pronounce the o as in on, not as in cape, and ac- cent third syllable. 3. Patronize. 4. Exciting fear; dangerous to en- counter. (Aocent first syllable). "No enemy could have been more formidable than this.” 5. Hazard- ous. lm How Csnl!!! By Anna Ashley 0:: Q. How can I remedy a tight shoe that binds at the tie? A. wring a cloth out of hot water. fold it and lay it across the toe. while the shoe is on the foot. This will cause the leather to ex- pand and conform to the shape of the foot. Q. How can I freshen stale pret- zels? A. Pretzels often lose their crispness even when they are kept in a tin container. To bring back their original crispness. put them in a moderate oven until they an heated thoroughly. Q. How can I prevent tearing a dress paaem? A. Cut the dress patterns out of old cloth instead of paper. This kind of pattern will not tear. and it will cling to the goods without pinning. BATS IN BEL!!! LETHBRIDGE. Alia. - (CP) - The old saying about "hate in the belfry" came to life here recent- ly. Roofing contractor Reg. Jones found 24 young bats in a chimney he was repairing. He returned next day and found in more. ..m.............. STUITGART. Germany, July I) -(AP)-Robert Bratschi. Swiss leader. was re-elected president of the International Transpo . Work- ers Federation Saturday. union and In via and crafts write so - in paying him tribute as a man. cnsrr surrLie:.i 3- W410i-Z-O0-'1vO&'W:-CO-tr ; El.l.EIl'S mm ly All Island fathers Wile lgcjeom-Ce-dunno-t-coca-so-u we found a pleasant surprise over the weak-end. one in which the family down to small grandam ("Now wherever did ye be gottin' this wee lad at all, at silt") joined with interest. In answer to the gentle knock which we should have known but was for the moment strange, we opened the door to find . . . whom. on the verandahf Why. of course. Pat! A beaming Pat. dressed in his Sunday but, on his way home from his Church. and so handsome that one of the l'l(1uSCWlVwn admitted she "wished she were young again!" And Jamel sighed and declared. "It's Just "as well for you Pat that she isn't!" and added. "look at all the care I've saved you!" And all were happy, that again hale and hearty. after an interval spent in ill health and under the doctor's care. Pat is back to his former place on the farm. Willing and trusted helper he is on that which. commencing in the vicinity of the corner-store. runs along this road of ours to end at length in the woodlands opposite lane's end, the same that to the West shelters somewof our fields at Aldarica from bitter winds and cold. And "It's the truth, Ellen -but never in my lolfe have I looked on the way the lads there have growed. An' is there not another wee fellow now that never saw before?" he twinkled. "An' can ye hate that - five boys in a row? Just think av the help they are. an' will be to a farm!" 0 0 "And you're into the haying?" James commented-. "Ay, an” praisin' the Good Lord above that I'm able to be at iti" Pat returned. "Ye know James when ye come to think av it. it's great to be able in wur-rk. What good is land or mon- ey, I'm askin”, if ye've no health to enjoy them? But folks won't think av that 'till they loose it . an' then sometimes it's too late. Some wur-rk too hard - an' some," he smiled -"not hard enough! But at any rate they don't care av the body an' mind, He gave them and it's all very well sometimes when it suits, not to 'put off 'till tomorrow, what ye can do today!' but it wur- rks out good too. to lave a little 'till then - in case ye run out av a job. We're only goln' this way the once. Yes, it's glad I am to be bet- ter . . . an' into the haying again." 0 0 0 Today we caught a sight of fthe red cf Pat's shirt on the hay-wag- on which now trails the busy trac- tor on the slope beyond the mill- stream that is "up the creek." He ' built leads with an experienced hand and then snug atop was borne away out to the road to the barns. Here too, the farmers worked indus- triously towards the saving while the sun shone and then warned by the threatening clouds. hurried to the field to snug-up into stout coils the remainder of the "made." barely in advance of the showers which set a seal to their field-work this evening. "do you see that now. Ellen." James cbserved after giving the matter some thought, "if we had just made an extra effort in the morning . . . there is only a load out - we could have had that sav- ed too. "As it was the help did very well. The mows are filling surpris- ingly. so that now it is conceded that instead of first estimates, we felt were-conservative, the outlook is for more sizable savings. The mowing, with it's familiar delaying iucidentals of a broken blade or knife with hasty and mcst audible cells then for "that there punch to fix this with" or "those rivets and a hammer" continues each morning with two machines so that alto- gether eplendid progress" is being made in good weather. - out Blue and gold are the days of the haying. or quietly gray as this after- noon. in the promise of showers. Mowers drone at morning but by afternoon the sound of the cutting has been replaced by the creek cf the hay wagons, the tread of the teams, and the brisk ringing step of the more in the lift . . . Again with small ones we sit idly by. watching the great forkfuls swing up to a barn-peak and disappear within. unlcading the fragrant lar- gess of our summer fields provid- lng good substance for the herds and flocks over winter and on to "the grass." And now dispersing any lingering rain clouds. the mcon climbs in mellow glory above the ii? I 233.3? 5 i re! - M. e oron - , uIuolic' E E 9”; is-iii; E. . e .iE.i E 3;- - ggiir is . :3 E g? E E.- :. 5:5 or O That Body Of 'Youn-5? ;IlJsmeaW.larhII.lf.D. ms mm-mo -or AL- colsoarsu It is gratifying to all physicians to see the chanae that has come over the public in its attitude to- ward the alcoholic. Ileretofore that attitude has been that the alcohol- lc has committed perhaps not a crime in becoming intoxicated but a serious misdemeanor, and must I be punished. The pouce van picked him up, he faced a judge or magis- trate the next morning and was fined pr perhaps sent to Jail for a definite term. Now. all over the United States and Canada many uunlcipalities are treating the alccoholi as a sick man or woman. and some cit- ies are already erecting hospitals for the treatment of alcoholism. Thus. in a short time, we n.ay ex- pect to see an ambulance from these special hospitals. or even a general hospital, sent to pick up a1 alcohol- ic just as an ambulance is sent to pick up an accident case. 111 Hykeik. Dr. Lewis Inman states that for practical purposes types of alcoholism may be classi- fied in two main groups: L symp. tcrnatic drinking. 2. Alcohol adie- ition or character disorders. The symptomati drinker is a person who has an underlying ill- ness, of which one of the symptom: is an excessive dependen upon alcchol: If the underlying illness is treate successfully. the alcoholic 50011 l-ODS drinking. In most cases. the underlying illness has been caused by the child-parent rele- tlonshlp during the first five years of life. Treatment consists in show- in: the alcoholic how his overpro- tective or perhaps strict parents started the condition which he now must try to, correct. The alcohol addict is the product of varicus conditions or circum- stances. A common pattern of the growth of alcohol addiction is the Person who is doing all right until he starts having an occasional may gradually increase until he begins to take a few before lunch. then a few in the afternoon. Then, if 9. domestic or financial stress oc- curs he goes on an alcoholic spree. The successful treatment or the alcohol addict is to help him to ab- stain from alcohol by showing him he is sick and alcohol aggravates his sickness. Make him feel that he is a sick human being. not a moral weakilng. NEUBOSIS Believing you have a physical ailment when none exists is a neu- rosis and is becoming lncredsln-zly common. Send tcdsy for Dr. Bu- ton's informative booklet on in.s subject entitled "Neuro'sis." to ob. tain it send ten cents and a 3-cent stamp. to cover cost of handling and maliink. to The Bell Syndicate. Inc. in care of this newspaper. Post Office Box 09. Station 0. New cYo':;. 19. N. Y., and ask for your silent mill. And following James in at close of day is his namesake stretching now into a talllsh fel- lcw and come to spend a holiday at Alderlea. And "We'ii have to be up early!" James says glancing at the clock. Until tomorrow - - - Diary - Good-night. . . . . . ' A motor-car allowance of :2.000 a year is paid to Canadian cab- inet ministers holding portfolios. .m.m-m--:-z-1-m-T-1 cocktail before dinner at night. This : Cholising A'Male Character. Intelligence - -:CongoniaIi,fy Points To Consider .x , . , man was DIX: We are a young,couple planning so so am, rled and would like to know just what should be taken into conIlder- stloa before marriage. How long should the engagement porno 5.2 . - I83 I think six months is the ideal length for an engage. men! because that gives a man and woman enough um 11 -which to become acquainted and get each other's num bars. so to speak. without being long enough for them 14 get tired of each other and to wear off all the gm d romance on their gingerbread. The things that should be taken into consideration in fors'marrlage are: First. the character of the individual you are marrying. II he -or she moral. upright, hone" . I, , trustworthy? Has he or she a strong sense of dutyl What on of disposition has he or she? I: he or Ihe lazy. hizh-tern. pered, loveniy. selfish, hard to get along with? PHYSICAL REQUIREMENTS Next. consider the health of the one you marry. If sickness come; to a husband or wife after marriage, their mates should do all in their power to comfort and cherish them. but it is folly to deny that an invalid wife or ihusband is a handicap in marriage. Choose a husband or wife with the same social status as your. self and with about the same amount of education and intelligence. Husbands and wives look best to each other when they are on a level, not when one looks up and the other looks down on their mates. But the most important thing of all to consider before marriage is the subject, of congenlallfy. Find out whether you like the same things. Have you the same religion? Do you belong to the same political party? Do you order the same dishes when you go to 3 restaurant? Do you enjoy the lame plllll. the same music. the same books. the same people? Do you like the same games? If you do. your marriage will be successful. If you differ on everything from politics to pie, you will fight from the altar to the grave. The-.whole of the law and ihe prophets of how to be happy though married consists in congeniallty. mswnn: DEAR DOROTHY DIX: Our club has been discussing the case of 'an attractive young woman who has just married a middle-aged man when she might have had the choice of so many handsome young men. Do you not think this girl will tire of the husband who is so much older than she is as soon as the glamour of capturing a sophisticated man of the world has worn off. and will she not then yearn for a husband of her own age? GANG OF CONSTANT READERS I ANSWER: The mailer of age is. or course. a very important mn- slderation in marriage, yet it does not depend upon calendar ago. but spiritual age. mental age. If a girl is frivolous in disposition; if she wants to live in a wild whirl of gayety. forever going places and do- ing things, then she should marry not only a boy of her own age but one who is as fond of fun and dancing as she is. A girl of this type is miserable married to a middle-aged man and lhe is equally miserable if she is married to a man of her own .1111.- who is of a sober. serious disposition and who wants to sit by his fireside of an evening instead of stepping out to a night club. But there are plenty of girls who even in their teens are mature in tastes and thoughts. There are plenty of girls who are interested in the worth-while things of life and who would far rather spend an evening in listening to an intelligent man talk then in dancing. Plenty of girls who are domestic in their tastes and who would be content to stay put in their own homes and never go.to anoihcr ball. These curls are perfectly safe in marrying men who are much older than them- selves. DEAR DOROTHY DIX: We find life almost too monotonous to bear. Young men are boring. Movies all alike. Bridge games stupid. Can you give us some advice on what to do? FOUR BORED GIRIS ANSWER: We get out of life nothing but what we put into it. and if you do not put any interest, any enthusiasm. any sportsman- ship lnto anything you do. you are bound to get boredom out of it. If you find trying to amuse yourself so wearisome and dull, why don't you try work for a change? DOROTHY DIX cannot reply peraonhlly to relderl, but will uns- wer ... ” of ' interest 01. .. er 0 .-Needlecraft - FOR THE HOME - mas Summer afternoon dress . styled with the simplicity that always looks smart! 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