OMEN .4:-::':ei”2t f: Page 8, The Guardian Friday, Dec. 16, 195? I.-IT'S EAT ...,..m. GIFTS OF HOMEMADE JAMS "It's a safe bet that almost every- body Nljtrxs a Christmas present they can eat." I said to the Chef.l CHRISTMAS SLEIGII "Your idea is excellent. lind- ame." lie ri-plied. ”How would youl like a toy t'hrts'tnias sleigh drawn by llziilicr. l'rani-er. lionner and Blitz:-ll. with Santa (ilaiis in tliel drlxei”s 1-cat and the sleigh loud-l ed with small jars of hilmetnndel jellies nr l:im' . "Fine! Hut pctlitips cicry tally did not ntakc cytra sttiall tars of ' cnliseriiu this stiliilitcr to use for. gifts. Ml iiizilter. She can rtilickly make tllclti now front bottled juic- as or dried or frozen fruits. "I especially recommend following Spft'lalllES They colorful and xcrv dcllcioiis " the are tiocotlul .lpricof Jam: lse dried . aprictits lloktw about In nlcillilln .- glasses ill 3 lbs jam. 1 ,"- To prctiarc the fruit Ailll Illzc. water til 3 lb tabouf l 3 .'li- 1 dried aprlt-tits. (lover and let stand over- gg night Ii. llrzltn. re-criilig lit1uld. (Grind y. tho apricots or t-hop fine mix , . with the lltlllltl Nleasiire 4 3, into a very large K.'dllt'Pl'lalI. Add in c. fresh lemon iulce To iiiake the lam: Add l c. Ihrcddcd or flaked coconut aiitl 7 C. sugar in the friilt in the satire- an: mix well Place over high heat and bring to a ftlll rolling boil. l.cl it boil hard 1 min., stir aonstantl . Wircls Of The wh: The desire for the well-bciitg of one's own nation can be-and must be-made compatible with the wel- - C5ilts'Ol Homemade Jams By Ida Bailey Allen l vents Remove from the heat: at once stir in !2 bottle liquid fruit pectin. Skim off foam with a metal spoon. Then. stir and skim by turns for 9 min. to cool slightly. This pre- the fruit from ”floating." Ladle quickly into the glasses. Cover the jam at once with V: inch hot paraffin. l Note This jani may set dimly; allow ahoilt a vteek. Strawberry Jam: Use fiocen strawberries. makes about it me- dlilm glasses or ft lbs. lam Use 3 boxes llfl oz eacht thawed coiiiniercially frozen strziltherri s, 3 c. liotiie-frozen strawberries packed with sugar or syrup. If frozen it hole, crush alid stir. Measure 3 c. frillt and juice into a large saucepan Add 'l tbsp. water and Ill: tbsp. ilr 1 box povidered fruit pet-tin to the llliit til the saucepan. mix well. - Place over high heat. stir ilntil the mixture clinics in a hard hoilw At once. stir tn it c sugar Ht':lig to a full rolling boll. boil hard 1 niin.. stir constantly Thcn. stir and skim by turns for .'l min. to cool slightly: this pl'e- . I y g 1 . mm; the mm fmm ..n”a,mgp.. llll ii-tiiirlir.xill.lt is per- l.adle quickly into glasses. (lo-.cr haps the most aiicictlt musical at once with in” hot paraffin . l titstrliiitctif kiioilti tfo titan. is its- Mllxndvs Ill-VNER I ed by this group of cliildrcn (Team of mm," gm”, with their iitslrili-loi'. .Vlrs- EC. Chit-ken Pie llrtlm oddniclils t .lohilslone to play Chrisliiias Whipped Potato lcamlg Rig Mixed Vegetables Salads" .e..., Raisin Ciislard Pudding Coffee I'ea Mt ONION SOUP 'llRl('K (IF 'l'IlE 'HF.F KEEP IN TRIM Prepare l pkg dchyili'aled lin- ion split) as directed. using 3-4 the amount of water When done stir fare of all humanity. -(Louis L. Snyderl lheat in 1 e. evaporated milk and re- .ETI:JAN0I7IWR70SS Part of the mum-le that is tihlist- aside all but thoughts of ;.'i"tnK and ahgu-lnqi Of course. in that way tics trite happiness. A iiilntl:-i-fill part of sharing. is rternrnliiig the house exterior for the Christmas season. shal'irlR "-5 beauty ttllll passei's-by. GOOD TASTE 'Tlli:i'e'.s no seed to spend If zrcaf. deal of money on ll. Gbotf taste and llincnuity cannot be ptirt-li.ised. Of course. neighbors vie with each other for the nicest arrangement, usually for the filn of it. But often the prize goes, not to the most elaborately decorated exterior. but to the most beautifully and siiitably .deslgncd display. But tlici'c's one dcpartnicnt that must he done strictly at-ording to Hoyle. The lighting equipment must be that dosignell for otltiloor use. which means that it is ab- solutely weather-proilil. That goes for lamps on a string. individual bulbs. floodlighls and spotlights. as well as sockets There are special Iockets with rubber washers or y gaskets that exclude all dampness and moisture. EXTENSIVE WIRING A1 for the wiring. of course I permanent outdoor lighting fem, Ollyi-lo.'ining nd hat.-irvi bm-mliw dnmwg tannmlx cnmllii.-aliim Wliuh than in 1.4 54:” "' ''””''8"'! nuts imnnvttr ant BoFTake Chances With Outdoor Lighting rnniliiit leading to a licatliclwilsonf tight fit mag, 15 the way men seem in ptlt' . -S.l'5r . w1th 11n(1(i1-gmund cab", M. ed oittdoor holiday decorations are- ANNE ADAMS PATTERNS top llnilt of your present size dress, then a more three to five added potlnds can force you into the next larger size ”'l'hts ls nllfI'3E('0llS.”i a shopper will will when she finds 1 If pr-r.'idienlill'e you are at the lhcr l'P2Zlll&ll' size all impossibly "Why I hatclrt gained nuflct box. is tons. PSDPt'.Iall.V ltlr that iiltlill"' extensive lighting. But few of usl Tllc ltilli.-tug truth is that it go In for aliything like that. ;(lllP.Nll'l I.-ilm niiicli Here's the l-x- The next best thing. then. is the plaiiaiiiiii. lvliilp ilim-i- is a wile ills? nl 3 lJ9l'll'l8ll9lll 0111000? l.'-'PP,wciglil t':lili.:l- utthlli xililcll you t'.1IIl receptacle with its own exterior ttpay 3 wt,-131" gm. mun...-;,11y ('lN'll”Hl t'll'Nlll 01” 3 W'(ll9l'l5"'l lspcakllic llic nialitlI'.'-ii-lili'cr's tll'FSS' porch light socket nr garage light. slip is lxlllllfl two lti loiui potllttls To use an indoor rel-eptacle.iot the tip limit at uhl('ll a wouian raise windtiw slightly and insert all-an ll('fIr that slyl- Sllllfl-lllllllll lltiartl Willi a hole drill-1 However. where you i-tirigv your Ed 1" ll 1 l3"il1E ill? 9l9ClFl(' WW9 wclght litakcs a difference Usually 0”l5"lP l"-S9” 5 5””k 5” 3 llt's thc mitltlle nicasllrcment that 5ll'3l93l'-' Will i" l"i'll ill? Vflil(li7”l'- gets otii of liouiitls and necessitates m:l'l:l': hllhiulcalgrcl."l'l2F”rn(:'l;T2::ll: the l:irl:i'i' size. it has been foilnd 'duw W; A Vnplillz fr V: 37 that women put on itcight much rUl).l)9li:('lfIl'-9T9fl wire serves .well am” and added pounds lend m ' t widen the middle. pno xqyr lmpgongg In till-escs dress slics there is This type of wire should be used 3 m”"”'"”' M ll? l'"'h”5 l" "'5 ifm. an exmnsinn mrdsg nu nmwrtiist and 1": inches in the abdom- imp,-M-.59 at any mm, win, any inal extension from one size to, thing. so far as electrical lighting "19 '”Wl' ll”WN'9l'- as Wciillil ls Pquipmpm is mnwrned and "S1. gziiued tllcse inciisilrcmeiits tend only and always as specified. Stock in snrcad and the lwnliilrtinnatc up on safety fuse plugs that .it- till"-'ct'ctit-e becomcs greater in thct tach to Christmas lamp cord Rlldil(IlIl.Z0T slzcs For example: After give local fuse protection. This size 'device safeguards the regular el- ' ectrical circuits of the house atld reduces fire hazard Another good- device is a remote i-ontrol extens- ion cord with a switch that turns lamps on or off. The rcadyniadc. completely wir-l Spring Fashi Slender Sheath designed according to proper succ-l (-.”md:I),i, (lliipllsigzl wriwl. , tifiicatinns. Aside from the electric-,3 .w;R0N,r.n 1((r;li Canadianl in equipment and the set pieces. . an Rm.” 0'. material shoum be on wnnil-n will choose the sheath all-l hand hminttc vtitll higher liemline as, A "00" um ncxl cpl-iiigis lcading style. (Tan- H . , . ail:-i's dri-ss niariilfacfitrera say sn.l ele. too. is WlIPlP our .li.l11111, not stint. if a good job is the ;o.il. Plenty of exterior type plywood. a fine supply of poliltry ncltuig. Tiirolittrs loll garment manllfac-l ttlrt-rs started showing their hope- fllls for spring to Canadian rctall-l wood. masonttr composition hoard "E "IR Wnk msmiiminannz h"-vii Illelistic-ctoateld wire mesh in iarloits glspplwlm OM (I'll 'he.n:)s'.F1m3:"l Ico ora III58.0ll(tlf)ll1. slice! mt-I.l l w"5"'lS "ex Sl""" V” 3 lg-"H? h'm.dw8", Math m. ”,'.pNHn1E:;Fllf"5Illl at-(v(lllllllVIIZ for about 50 per waterproof paint. it noble supply "ml of sales. y l their predictions 70 K on guesswork hilt their of wire hangers which you'll find Tltfty base irldispensihle. fireproof cotton liat-ill" ”'"l tfing. plastic foam. are all (.g5(.,ma1s years of experience dealing with1 ,for Chrlstnias outdoor lighting, l"iinprcdlclahlc" women and trends ! itll flrcvitlils years leave little room for error. VARII-II) NE('KI.lNES Manllfactiirers can hardly wait lfor nillntfy to get a close-up viewl of next sprlng's i'llrvc-hilgging sil. lioucttc A preview revealed it has lnany flllf('I'."fll nci-klines. most fa- vorcll of which will likely he the' soft, cowl Buyers are also pinning thclrl liopes on slit-aths with squared-off- in-front nccklincs that dip in the flack. with scoops, small roll and little-boy collars, The sheath with last fall's man- WEF.K'S SI-IW-TIIRIFTY .lust one main pattern part plus l hell-takes less than a day to make this liturlning new skirt! And it'll as flattering to wear, as it 1; 9535? to sew; those graceful flaring lines are pure magic for your fig- ure! Have it in wool. cotton twecdj dress-up taffeta! l Pattern 4520: Miss:-s' Waist; Sizes 24. 25. 26, 2a. 30. 32 inches, Size 28 takes 2': yards S4-inch. L This pattern easy to use. sim- ple to sew. is tested for fit, Has complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY-FIVF. C E N T S (35 cents! in coins, tstnmps caiinof be aceptedl for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE. NAME. ADDRESS. STYLE NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, care of Charlottetown Guardiaii. Pattern Dept. on Front St. West. Toronto. Ont. A III10llfI('.6 N Toronto, Ont. (Spa-inf) - Fm-' the hrat. time at-ion:-0 ha! found . new healing ltllllstancc with the ” ,.lillilifytoahrink hemorr- . to relieve pain. Thoiiaunda have been relieved-without. resort to lttirgery. In one Iiomorrliold cane lifter another, "very striking improve- ment" was reported and verified by doctoral observations. Pain was relieved promptly. And, Wl'fIl!t gently relieving pain, occult reduction or retraction (shrinking) CENTENNIAL SOUVENIR SCRIPTS AND poolims Ideal for including with Christmas parcels or card: took place. to friends off the, Island, And most amazing of all-thin Available at the Cent.en- mar-geld-y m-iii,-I:-inod in w ml moral o rvliti a gtl:l.et0::?;" were continued over a periodogf In fact, results were no t.hoi-otigb that ltuffurel-it were able to make lliiizb (G... ...,.. ....u LOCAL MUSICIANS A us ANCIENT D- 3. ......u-i-.,-.-. The p it s to r a l elcll r t cnti-r's into many t'llrtslmas this way by shepherds playing lug in Fi'aiii-e and Italy where on their pipcs. slicphcrds ilest-clitled lroiti the The group from left to rilllit bills at Clirislnias time to play Hriicst Prowse. Lollcll Jenkins. their pipes in the strecl in-lorr Joan Neale, Roger Balderston. ithe flgilres of the Virgin and ftlrs Jolinstone. Blair Wood, the tlhlld It has been said that .ltldith Allan. Barry Diamond. the lticlody. now knovln as First Noel” was first h How Many Pounds To Your Next Larger Dress Size? By Illa Jean Kain Eli int-lics in the waist tilcastlrl-.- merit between sins. and 214 inches. Joanie Jenkins and Lynne Rodd are planning to visit hospitals, Ztti. there is a difference of as well as diet. darin collar, borrowed from the stepped up. Shrink Painful Piles Science Finds Healing Substance Tl-in Does Both- Relieves Pain-Shrinks Hemorrhoids in the waist nicasurcmcilt between sizes, and 2'4 iitchcs tlirough the abdominal evtcilslon from one size to the next It iitlglit shed light iui the size cltaiigc to think llHt'l( to illicit you had yoilr last ilcw drcss fittcd If the waistband had to bc eascd.. you were on your way to tlic next largcr sin- The stantlard ttllllibcr of poiliitfs hiitucett stzr"; viirics of cotirsc with, slattirc Figiirc on to pounds tic l tut-cli sizes in the snlzillcr Sites 12 to l4 pounds lll lticdluni sizes. and lfi pounds llctucen sizes start-l ilig Vllfll sizes Ill and its Some overwcights. particillarly in the large sizes. find it necessary to re- duce a full twenty pounds before they can fit iiltn the next smaller size drcss Height also is it fflttltlr. . .a short, woman weighing l-ff) pounds willl f ('ltl'tstnias treat. the familiar unusual bliscd im l-'W"l'll9- take a larger SUP than a taller woman of the same weight The short woman vtho adds many - ' pounds often has to shift in the half slics. which are proportioned Wldl-ll5 l llouic is a vibrant. plc sant Wcll. that's the story The tiny wm". mm,,,: 111, h.,11y days-,or to fit a smaller size hcailttfillly la hnlmmsl as (M (.359 may he 1'01- to ”slim'' down.. i a llllh ”i"'l'l5eS some lnctiihers of the famll.V - Happy slim ' place to play. a place to ponder and E. ,ccrIaltily a place of pItl?ll3l'3ll"n- A illusllillg. btlstlinll da.VS Will ll? l0l' vliiwi-if by the pleasure-leisure time - - - lof cicitlngs ..whcn we're likely to like to take time out to wish you . r the very met-ricst of Christmases combine cherries. dates and apricot lfitid the family tree lo be lCSllVP-t- lltnil toasting. Set aside an ego; a Sdhouehe . , tug tor each all? ilrouv 5" (Irlcnt. and stlliiliicrs llitilter-lop Hwy "my emcrmin mo”. (Wm, also are mlgliig into initial orders ,,.,..,,,1.- in their own pa1'fitti1larl For the less sophisficalcd. dc hay. with their own llllltl 0' ll'5' signers liaye sweeping pliili-css m” l”'."' . lines, loxicrcrf torso alirl ciiiplrc l-Illlt" l0l5- lflr l"5l""”' llkc I" waistltltes itlth filll skirts rinlllilr their fingers 1" ill? I13-Sic iii-1Mi.iNi:s IIOISTED ptil as yoti know only tnn wrjll... When the ”ncvi look" lll tho into love to get hold of scissors. llalllls 1940s llslit-rod in a lI."lltlltlt' llclow and paper for the pui'P0-SP "l t'l'"-Tl-T the calf. women vowed thov iiiiuld lug something that stems from never again raise their ltrlulliics. their own little minds. For an all- Now. not yet In years later. lhi-y.ntlt Christmas effort. suPPl.l' them have persilailerl IIIRflIlfII('llll'f'lK in with tinsel and tissue. balls and give them just another lllt'lt in icicles. old Kreellllfl l'6Tt'l-S allll min which to turn their anklcx ton batting as well. and they'll; Next dllringis after-lllc party turn out at manner of decorations! girl will wear a hcuilinr lltlISlI'dlAIl(I they'll be haPP.V 85 l'l8mB up in 15 inches; li-axing tht lightly munching away on holiday butter lower I4 lni-tics for Hint. i-asilal cookies and milk after the debris 0l'C35l"'!-V lhas been cleared uP- Old" Flllldr Making its rti-liiil Ill niiiti-rials ren would love an ever-P0PUl3l' ncxl SWINE uill bc :i ncii softness popcorn party...where they" ""1! Manilfactlil-t-is K.Il' non lhp stiffer eat lots of the delicious buttery materials of lost st)l'lllE hath been stuff while sbapini ll llllo bl! specially lrmilrwt to look more dcll-lcolored balls or stringing it on fat? Stiiootli silks f4':Illll'P a nobby'thl-end with rilhy red cranberries. Wt'al'c and Iliicns are prepared tollfkthcre are teenagers round .V0tll' look better iiiili ciich washing in-ihome, the scene will he ver.V (ll? stead of bet-omillg limp and agedifinitely gay and vlbrant...with a lookiltg. platter party. They'll want to Vail has rt-tilittetl its lead in dance. and sinl.-Jllltl "Rd W9 me"' the color pariirle hill is threatened tlon ORI7 by II blend flf orange and red. Pro- Is there it college crowd In your ”'""'tl"s of brown. lzreen. pastels. neighborhood cenlrlng around your pink and off-whites have also been gnn hr daughter who's home dur- so mtich after the grind of lire- (ihristmas exams this crowd will be content to relax and chatter, pcrhaps sing too. Or they'll enloy the adventure of carolltng for shut-ins in the neighborhood lust for the sheer pleasure of ainltli1l- And then back to your house where all sorts of E000 lllllllll '0 oat await them and their sharpen- ed appetltea. Every age gt-olip has its own diversions. its own .brlind of enter- talnmcnt...and they all ill!!! "I Ml- eapecllilly If the occasion promin- es to produce Christmas treat: such as we have to sullttesl loday. A frlo'of chocolate recipes that CW Way To have mailed to he 5 problenil" And among those stiffen-rlt were it very wide variety of hl-niorrlloid condi- tions, aomn of 10 to yoga" standing. All this, without, the use of ma ootira, anelithetioll or lultringenta ii any kind. The secret fit it new hauling lng the holly days? Holidays mean. Iubtlfani-n (Bio-Dyno')-the dim". cry of ll famous iicielif.ific l!IRllf.IlfA Already, Bit'rDyna la in wide tin for healing injured tfgu. og .1) prim: of the body. This new lIPllln(-IIIIIIIAIIPA h offered in nupponilnry or oinlmsvif form milled Prepnmllmi IP. Aak for individually sealed convenient Preptirlifion H ltilppmitoril-ll of Preparation H ointment with special applicator. Preparation H is sold at all drug stores. Batil-faction guaranteed or money nfunrled. many monthal ” lltoniahin; lllatainonta u "Pile 'h&nMulf are rich with the flood inrtrcdlcnl-I of the -Christmas super-market shelves. Including the dairy foodli that are always a "must" when it comes to Yuletide baking and cooking. We proudly present ll chocolate fruit cake...a version of the fami- lllir favorite that keeptl well. warp- ped in wax paper or pllofilm. either in the refrigerator or out... and mellow nicely as the week: pass; a frozen plum pudding, with In Ice cream base 'for raisins, cher- ries. dates and toasted almonds..- INSTRUMENT .sliul-ins and friends also pcrforni IIIHS iucctillgs of and iiomcll's (7l'L'&IllllEIlltIIIS. group. or 'iiil7.crl over it Thpy will 1to hit I! happy medium in social before prc-Chi'ist- scrvice clubs The year ago by Mrs. Jolillstiine. intends to iutikc this practise of cartiling 1 an Hllflllill ('YOfIl. an ('Il0(l0l.ATE FRl'IT CAKE a An the coffee and gralw jelly in It .dricd frillts and nuts. for good tiiffi-rent hP(.'i'lllSP of the rhocolate,lllcss that licier falls to I7l0350- Home Is A Vibrant "Place Holly Days nillil ftldlze cliocillatc made bits. mallow sclni-svi net 3411518? tPhotu by Bill-Ici"s Film Lab). though but still dept-ndcnt on butter. and from evaporated milk and butter. mar- . to cup chopped toasted blanched so Front St. West. Toronto. Ont. Willows and WPP""!'"! "am" almonds Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS. mg, 12 (1 pint) brii-ks chocolate ice PATTERN NUMBER. On lo the spci-ific details but cream. softened ' Order oilr ALICE BROOKS ' before we give them to yoti we'll (lIIO('OI.ATE I"Rl'IT CAKE lhlzikcs one it x R x fl iiit-h i-akcl. .'l cups seedless raisins. washed 1 and dried ll: clips chopped dalcs ll-2 clips halved SZlat'f' t'llllt'l'l'W ll.i clips chtipped glare pineapple 1, t-up blanched toasted halved almonds It i-ups sifted all-pill-pow tlotlr ll-1 teaspoons liakilil: pilwtlcr '3 teaspoon baking soda .”i teaspoon salt :34 cup butter 1'2 teaspoons vanilla .l teaspoon lemon extract it teaspoon almond flavoring ll cup sugar 1 ti oilncel chocolate. melted l-3 cup cold coffee 3 eggs, well beaten Iii cup grape jelly -Prepare cake pan by cutting pieces of corrilgaled cardboard to fit the sides and bottoms of an it x ll x It inch pan. then with aliiniintlin foil so that there are two layers of foil on the bot- tom and one layer on each side. Prepare fruit and almonds the night before Sift together flour. baking powder. baking soda and salt. Use half tlf this llnilr mix- ture to flour fruit and nilt mix- ture. Cream butter until fluffy; add flavnrings. Grarliially add sug- ar, beating iicll. Mix in melted chocolate tjiornilghly Add rem.-tip. inlz flour mixture altcrniifcly with coffee, stirring tinlil well blended. Beat eggs with ilriipc jelly, then add nlmlfl with floilri-d f It mix- BEFORE vouli cillul COIIGIIS ONCE MORE... , Ilm's Relief ffllll Coulis If kit - II liiffmttt it will clluln III your lifn: nliut cull twlpl At last-a new and pleasant cough medicine! VlcIn0 Medi-triattng"C Syrup combines a pen ting in- gredient with ti liiedfcatinj formula. Givesfaatar. more effective relief clean! up- fodoyl tiet stomach. VICKI not COIIOII IV D I all and thick apt-toot juice; a mani- line ' Squaw, unswmwned lstage (284 to 236 degrees F). con- itered 13 x 0 inch pan. Cut into ysquarea and place a walnut half KI! IAWOITII Illla Girl Who is Gentle And Well -Liked, Lies And Fabricates DEAR MARY HAWOBTI-I: What would cause a 15-year-old girl to have an urge to He or fabricate? My daughter May is a beautiful child and I believe In well liked. She is kind and sympathetic. For a long time now she has bad spells of lying to her father and me. We punish her for it and then. I believe. she tries very hard to tell the truth. She appears to be trying hard right now. and I haven't caught her lying for quite I while. Fowever. I was cleaning out her desk drawer and came across sev- eral letters she had written to friends in other cities. I don't think she ever intended to mail them, as they were dated a month ago. And I know you will say I shouldn't,bave read them--but I feel I can help her grow into a finer woman if I know more about her. HOW CORRECT? Tbeae letters were all based on truth. but were full of lies. She told of a gay social life with boys alid girls fhat.l know she hasn't that she didn't attend. I am afraid that she is unhappy and I would like to know how to correct the situation. I Mr. and Mrs. and is repeating this year.' this be the cause”? but not painfully so. Her I'I0m8ifi)1'm(lr Miss life is happy--at least. other mem- 1-tauglm-r of Mr l)EIl.lr(II the family have happy dis-I1-d311, 1l(1.1km-11. positions. Her father and I try lyViilig:lnized Vp 1 permissions. Please advise us. R.S. Phillip I-l0Yd late Mn. Crooks. (Crooks are pictured following their Sm, failed the 9”, grade hm year recent liiarriage which took place at the ceremony and the 3113," Could p on Fiicsday, November 15 in Crap- were Miss Gertrude Fall, sisl. She is sliypaiiil at 2 o'clock The bride is lhc.lhe bride. and Mr. lli-.v ch Alice Maude Fallybrother of the groom and Mrs. Harry W88 lIlVEn The groom 15 tho father. (Photo by Edwin Hccl .son of Mr. Willard Crooks and the Studio). Rev. George A. Ebsary offlc The I in marriage by :BOTH imllurulti-2 l DEAR RS.: You say that May. lies and fabricatcs. I saying she; lies. I assume you mean that she; ldenies and conceals certain truths. lAnd by fabricating. I take it you mean that she creates ”tall tales" oilt of whole cloth. I make these distinctions for purposes of dis- cussion. 1 Now, as to why a child lies-ill is an attempt to conceal certain! dismaying facts and truths ithat the child feels accountable for). from unsympathetic minds. as a rule. Lying is motivated by fear of condemnation. humiliation. re- jection. punishment. eic.. usuzilly. In very young children. say of while some margin for day dream- ing is .'lppropri.'ite to youth-as the blucpriiit of future achievement-it is ional nialadjustnient. when it be gins to overshadow reality. as in . y. :- vcals parental failure to live the child enlightened guidance and steady support in acquiring social competence suited to his years. At this age. lying is related to a gen-1 ei-al sense of inadequacy on the part of the child--and to an attempt to bluff his way. in trying to get by. save face. win aceptance. eic.. COOK-'5 Coftbll in an environment that confuses and defeats him. I y - l-iabrication. as in claiming a social whirl that doesn't exist, has to do with day dreaming. And syniptoniatic of serious emot- FROZEN 'sAlvi)wicii pre-school age, lying about uncom- fortable matlers is an instinctive reflex. in self-defense. It isn't a deliberate attempt to deceive: it is siliiply an attempt to smooth out trouble. Of course some fortunate children may he so sympatheti- cally and constructively handled that they aren't fearful of adult reactions to child behavior: and in this happy ease, perhaps they nev- er tell a lie. SERIOUS SYMPTOM May's ence. make-believe a,uI'I'eSDOIId' In this guise. it signifies at illness. In my opiliioii. 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