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But Husband Beers Jeers Of Friends

DEAR MISS DIX: Last year my wife went off with Another man. and it almost killed me. Shortly afterward she realized her mistake and left him. I tried in every way to hurt her and I sue- ceeded. I even allowed myself to be talked into a divorce. Now :he ashes leave a bitter taste. I have seen her at several parties and had a few dates with her. I realize I love her as much. if not more than ever.

We were married almost 15 years and it is hard to put a woman away from you after all that time. regardless of what she has done.

. I am very lonely, and need her. I know she is ' sorry for what she did and has learned her les- son. I'm sure we would be happy this time.

The trouble is I'm afraid my friends will laugh at me. I listened to them when this happened and did uhat they advised; now I am afraid they'll tease me about it. I have told my wife that I might give her another chance and I know shels building her hopes on it but. as I say. I am afraid I'll lose face with my friends. They dont know I have been seeing my wife.

WORRIED

ANSWER: What makes these. so-called friends

Mllri” N155?” so important that you are willing to stake your own and your wife's happiness against their kid-

ding? Their advice. didn't work out so well when you took it so

why continue to put so high a value on their opinions? Few people get through life without learning at least one bitter lesson from experience: the wise ones are those who can profit by what they have lcarned. Both you and your wife (and I notice that not once do you refer to her as "ex-wife") have had a lesson in life's hardest school. and God has given you a chance to rectify it.

I GIVE HER A SECOND CHANCE

Not everyone has a second chance? Don't be such a fool as to throw away this golden opportunity merely to escape a few wise- cracks. The friends may laugh at you. all right. but why rate their attitude so high? It is your future happiness and that of your wife which are at stake.

Take her back. and announce to the world. proudly, that you are re-marrying her. Begin in new married life with no regrets, no re- criminations. Good luck to you!

DEAR MISS DIX: I recently read an article of yours concerning a lonely widower. I belong to a club for just such people and feel there are many others who would be interested. If you could find :1

place in your column to give us a write-up. I would be appreciative. ' "

The club is in Philadelphia. 5. M.

ANSWER: Bravo for the wise folks who organized your club! I know of no social need greater than to provide friendship for older. lonely people. Im sure my readers in your vicinity will be very in- zerested in visiting the club, whose name and address others would .ike advice on how to organize one. Thanks for the help.

I have been going with a boy for I month. and love him very much. Sometimes he acts as though he likes me, and sometimes he seems to prefer my girl friend. I know I'm jealous of her. but hate to tell her not to come around when he's visiting. Should I break off with the boy.'or with my girl friend? A.M.B. ANSWER? Aren't you foolishly jumping to conclusions rather quickly? After one month's acquaintance. you certainly don't have exclusive rights to the. boy. Why not accept. his friendship on n comrsdeiy basis. and keep your girl friend. too? Friends are not so plentiful that they can be discarded at random.

DEAR MISS DIX:

Miss Nlasen cannot reply personally to readers but will answer problems of general Interest through this column.

two days! whlned the tramp to the landlady of George and the Dragon. a small English tavern. "Do you think you could spare me la bit of bread?"

"Indeed not." snapped the wow - man. "Get along with you.” d- The tramp slouched on, but in a few minutes he was back again. , "What do you want now?" ask- . vr . . g ' ed the landlady. -r ' "I was wondering." vent-tired the tramp, "could I have a few words

A Word with George

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ELLEll'S DIARY 9

By An Island Farmer's Wife

After a day that has been pleas- ant, Fall rides the wind tonight. the complaining whistle of the latter about roof and chimney-tops. in the desolate abandon with which it increases at times to dash neither rain nor snow buts. mixture of the two against the dark of the windows. And we are glad the two boys are into their dreams blissfully un- aware of the d.rss.ry night with- out. They retired happily.

A black lunb, s winsomo young ewe. was brought this evening from the Home flock at Alderlea to replace the pet esteemed by this household and taken to mar- ket. m a morning in summer. Her arrival awoke past memories. The lads spoke of their pet's knowing ways - how at sight of Jamie cycling to school he would run to enjoy the milk Jamie carried and then content would hurry away to rejoin his comrades in that end of field by the roadside.

And often at week-end he would answer their distant hails with eager bleat hurrying in the direc- tion of their calls. though it might. mean a spell of waiting for

ihem to ford the stream to reach his side. Was there ever snywhr c

more knowing or beloved pet ihani

that mother-abandoned lamb-I kin, "But," Gage tried to dismissl any regrets with a shrug. "5i1E'lil

be better. Oh. she won't know us like he did but” he lifted long dark

eyebrows expressively, "who knows? She just may have another pet lamb some day for us to grow. ..

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By dint of their energy and per- severance our farmers this after- noon completed gathering the last harvest of field from this farm. And ”'I'hat's that!" James said at its close, obviously pleased to have the crop housed at last. But not all. The morning, if favorable, will take the workers to a like en- deavour at Alderlea.

"A few days more," our of recent. weeks smiled, "and things will be shipshape for the winter. What. were you saying El- len? Do I mind the labor of work- ing at turnips? Oh, I don't know there's no labor to anything a fellow sets his mind to-don't you find it. that way, Ellen? At least I never consider it as labor- ious. But on the other hand there is drudgery in everything we do with s half-heart. Even." he smil- ed, "if we only try to put in time!"

"This is only 3 passing shower." James says, stopping a moment to listen to the wail of the wind, be- fore he settles to the rest. and quiet of the armchair. "But it's a cold reminder of what's to come." The fire crackles cheer- fully; the kettle sings. And the black dog, privileged to remain in

helper

the kitchen tonight. lies head on paws on the hearth-rug. "On a night like this.” James

remarks. "it's good to know there's plenty of dry wood in the shed, Ellen . . . It gives one a more comfortable feeling." "And kind- lings of shingles from the repair- ing out Home," we nod. thoughts scampering ahead to the affairs of the morning. ”Ay" he says. "And how easy it. would have been to ioitcr away those days of saving- like the Biblical cricket did. There's a time and times,” he muses. Presently it may be the moon will scatter the night-clouds and dark to weave her silver magic over the quiet farmlands. But at the moment, Fall rides the wind. Until tomorrow - - - Diary - - -1

K with George?"

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Good-night . . . .

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Modern Etiquette

By Robert: Lee '

Q. How is the public announce- ment of an engagement made?

A. This should be made by the parenm of the bride-elect, and is done intimately by note, and pub- licly through the newspapers. and verbally to friends individually or collectively. Engraved announce- ments are not correct.

Q. Are women supposed to wear gloves to a formal dinner?

A. Yes, and they take them off at the table - entirely off. It is improper to leave them on the arm. merely turning back the hands.

Q. When one is served at the dinner table with a dish contain- ing a fork and a spoon. in which hand should each be taken?

A. The fork in the right, and the spoon in the left.

m hCx.X; Cook's Corner

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BEANS VVITH CHEESE

BAKED

A hearty dish for the noon or evening meal. these beans are given extra savor by the bacon, onion and cheese put with them.

Yield-3 or 4 servings.

4 slices side bacon

2 tablespoons ilnely chopped onion 1 can (15 or 20 ounces) baked

beans in tomato sauce

ll cup water

1 bouillon cube or 1 teaspoon tiuid

meat extract

V2 cup coarsely

cheddar cheese.

Cut the bacon into small pieces: combine bacon and onion and fry. stirring often, until onion is ten- der and golden and bacon cooked Pour off excess fat.

Add the baked beans in tomato sauce, water and bouillon cube or fhild meat extract and combine well.

Cover and heat thoroughly, stirr- ing occasionally.

Just before serving, stir in the

shredded old

shredded old cheese and heat justl

until cheese begins to melt. Serve immediately.

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Twenty-six-year-oil Lcml eldest son of the llth Earl of Atrlie of Cortachy castle in Scotland, and his bride, American heiress Virginia Fortune Ryan, are seen followed by their attendants leaving fashionable St. Margaret's church in London to

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, By Anne Alhley Q. How can I remove ammonia stains?

A. Ammonia will sometimes change the color of fabrics on which it has been used for the removal of spots. When this is the case. the original color often can be restored by applying Ville?” and water.

Q. What. is a good home rem- edy for relieving a cough?

A. A mixture of honey and lemon juice will often prove effect- ive. Butter in hot. milk. taken be- fore retiring. will ease the throat and induce B. pleasantly drowsy feeling.

Q. How can I the flavor of waffles?

A. Try adding one teaspoonful of cinnamon and a quarter of 5 teaspoon of cloves to the waffle

improve

recipe. serve the waffles with but- ter mixed with honey.

Morning Smile

1 Poor Acting

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"Yes." said the critic.

"But I thought it. an excellent title," protested the writer.

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By James W. Barton. MJ).

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HOW SCHOOL HEALTH HAS PROGRESSED

When I was in the eighth grade at school. there was a competition for 9. prize in hygiene to the eighth grade student who had stood first in each of the city schools. As I liked hygiene, I happened to stand first and met all the competitors at the one school. I then received a shock. The examination paper. Part I, asked some of the usual questions in hygiene, but the Part. II questions were on temperance, is subject on which my and other teachers had failed to give any les- sons. Needless to say. I didn't get the prize.

The above incident came to my mind after these many years when I read about a book recently pub- lished by Dr. C. E. Turner, Con- sultant in Health Education, World Health Organization. Arlington, Mass, with editorial aslstance of Dr. C. Morley Sellery, Director of Health services, Los Angeles City Schools.

This is the second edition of a book that has been well accepted at the professional level for teach- ing school health and health edu- cation in teachers' colleges. "The activities of physicians. nurses. dentists. dental hygienists, phy- sical educators and others who contribute to the health program of the school are described in such ll way as to show administrative re- lationship and educational oppor- tiinltles.' '

A great deal of information ll included on the observations of the well child. the common departures from health. and the inclusion in health teaching of the attitudes and behavior that children should

,develop in relation to health ser-

vices.

It can be seen how this book great help to the lencher who recognizes that the nliysiciil. mental and emotional health of the child is of greater im- portance than his knowledge 01 reading, writing and arithmetic.

This book should be of great help to the teachers who closely watch the behavior of their pupils so that they may refer those who tire not normal to the family phy- aician through regular school channels. just. as they send reports to the parents on the child's progress with the usual school subjects.

I am mentioning the above book. "School Health and Health Educa- tion" published by the C. V. Mosby Co., St. Louis, because it can be so helpful to children as good health is life's greatest human as- set. This book also gives some idea of how the matter of school health has progresseed during the pass- ing of the years.

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. 1. What is wrong with this sen-

promise, and I am anxious to speak with him about it."

2. What is the correct pronunc- tattoo of "clematis"?

3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Peddier, reveler, pli- lar. esse . .

4. What does the word "ratify" mean?

5. What is a word beginning with imp that means "'sn obstruc- tion"?

ANSWERS

1. Say. "Edward failed to keep his promise, and I am eager to speak with him about it." 2. Pro- nounco kiem-a-tis. s as in men. a as in an unstressed, l as in kiss. accent first syllable. 8. Assessor. 4. To approve and sanction. upsc- iaily in a formal manner. "The treaty was ratified by all the countries." 5. impediment.

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Forehead Wrinkles ' A suggested remedy for wrinkles across the forehead is to soak a linen bandage in equal parts of alcohol and the white of an egg. and bind it to the forehead, ll- lowlng it to rsmaln overnight. ' - lltmu Manta

clean the soiled leaves of house Iplsnts by applying equal parts of

milk and warm water. I Use a sconce. and rub sonny to provei-it breaking the leaves.

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when it is desired to melt marshmallows. place them in the top of a double boiler over not water. ',

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l?Ki'VWVWV&'R For Tomorrow

AN intriguing and perhaps un- forgettable day, with all affairs finding a. splendid and enduring grounding on bedrock. Concrete and substantial foundations may be made for setting the fortunes on a lasting and far-reaching basis for sound development, with tang- ible fruitlon for diligence, fidelity and true worth. In connection with this are deep spiritual factors. per- haps manifesting in keen intui-

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tions. In some form of inspired

idea or insight. Faithful guidance

by the "still small voice" should

eventuate in fair fortunes, lasting g

and of enhanced security. 3:3, ulzgerges ugflspm? For the Biflhdly fastness, in some cults known as

compensatory Karma. In any case. stability and worth are established for long reign, perhaps through some peculiar intuition, creative idea or inspired thought - s. rev- elation. Accept the goods the plan- etary gods do send thee.

A child born on this day is rich- ly endowed with care, talents and graces.

Those whose birthday it is may rest upon their laurels, if such be born of patient effort. sound tactics, stability ,rellabllity and practical. constructive ideas. It is probable that Old Father Time is ready with his pronouncement. "Well done, thou good and faith- ful servant. Enter into the riches and rewards thou hast earned."

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Recognized as an authority on cooking: Mrs. Frank Good. uf Stanley, N.B., gsu top results with loischmanifs Yeut.

Winner of 25 Cooking Prizes , at 1952 Stanley Fair

Over the years at Stanley's best ingredients. For example."

century-old fair, s oodly crop vou have to use a good re- of top awards for aking has liable yeast to get to results come to Mrs. Frank Good. for W118 and bread- 11131015

use Fleischmann's Yeast . . . Fleischmann'e is so active and dependable.”

That's where they all agree!Prize-winnin cookssay that Fieischmann's east sim- ply haa what it takes to give

ou perfect risinga each time. lilo wonder itis been the favor- ite with Maritime women for over 80 years!

of Stanley. N.B.

At the most recent exhibition Mrs. Good's rolls, bread. cakes, cookies, pies and preserves won no less than 25 awards - an enviable record in a county where home cooking is a fine art.

"Certainly it takes experience to be is ood cook." sa 9 Mrs. Good, lgaut it also to es the

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