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August Nuptials in Egmont Bay

BIRTHDAY CAKI

(Here is an easy cake to make. yet it has a delicate texture. when baked in a tube pan, it is easy to frost: with tinted icing. then decor- ate to suit your taste. Birthday fav- ors may be pushed in from the bottom before icing. Cut. in wedges to serve.)

11.. cups white sugar

is cup butter or good quality

shortening

W3 cup milk

2 cups pastry flour

2 teaspoons baking powder

1 teaspoon vanilla I

1 teaspoon lemon

1; teaspoon salt

3 eggs

Cream butter and shortening Add milk and beat well. Add flour sifted with salt and baking powder.

time. beating well after each addi- tion. . Bake for one hour in moderate oven.

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-44 Kl-av.-.:i .'ii.mx-o arc Mr. and Mrs. Lennce Gallant following their ran on -August. 4 in I-Jgmont Bay Church. The marriage cere- - and the Niipiial Mass was celebrated by Rev. Naznire Polrler, Pl'lF'Sf. The bride is the former Alodie Caissie of Egmont ' and prmintis to her marriage was a valued employee of the . Enman Ii:-ii: (Io. Sumniersida. Following their honeymoon Mr. and

Mrs, Gi'Ill.lltl u:ll reside in Toronto. From left to right are Mr. Wil- ftofl (l'il'iii'. i:i'ooiiisniziii. brother of the groom. Mr. and Mrs. Gal- lant, and 31.34 Yvonne Caissie, bridesmaid, sister of the bride. -

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tence? "He gladly ;;.-ire advice me: has frank and nnlnterrsted."

Provincial W.I. Executive Meet

. The Women's Institute Provincial

2' Whj3,t'.l5 'h9,,f””e” pm"""m' executive held a meeting in the

l 3”” of 9335"" V 1 Institute rest room. August 5. The

l .1. Which one of these words .5 meeting opened by reciting the In,

I misspelled? Damask. dafodill, dach- Smut! ode. M”. M, J. Doyle, pm.

shund. dalmatian. 3,-dad.

4 What (1095 We ll'0l'd Miss R. Robin gave a report of

tzon" mean? the progress of W. 1. part of ex-

5- ' hibition of home-cooking and handi-

craft for Old Home Week. The

executive members volunteered to

assist at the different booths of exhibits.

Names of Institute members were suggested to fill the Health and Welfare Convenorship made vacant by the resignation of Mrs. Mac- Dnugall.

Miss Robin reported having sent the money. collected by the differ- ent Institutes to buy UNESCO gift coupons. Miss Robin received a reply advising that a potato planter had been considered with the cou- pons as it was considered to be an appropriate gift from P.E.I.

The exccuiive. members had the pleasure of hearing a report from Miss Lena MacLure regarding her work as representative from P.E.I.. W. 1's. in London. England. Miss MacLure attended a meeting of in- stitute members. in which the Queen Mother. Mary was present.

The executive members, on in- vitation took iunch. with Mrs. Gates. West Royalty. All members appreciated Mrs. Gates' hospital-,

ity.

Grilled Lobster HAVE lobster split and cleaned.

BRUSH with melted butter. salt. pepper. minced parsley and garlic.

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FIRST FISHING GRANT 3 The first crant of fishing rights '. in Canadian waters was made in 1603 by the King of France.

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combined. PLACE shell side. toward heat on grill or broiler rack. three

inches from heat.

GRILL about 8 minutes and turn flesh side toward heat.

BRUSH again and grill for 6 min- ules. Serve with lemon wedges and melted butter.

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Anne Adams Patterns

"SllEPlIElI)F.SS" DRESS

Fancy-free but fashion-fresh! Clustered gather: at. the waist burst into fullness in the flatter- lngly-full skirt -- designer-magic in the shepherdeu-effect bodice. Keep! you cool marketing or playing, visi- ting or relaxing! A natural in plain or printed cotton.

Pattern 4642: Missea' Steel lo. 12. 14. 16, ll. Size 16 dress Slit yards as-inch; Jag yerds contract.

This pattern easy to use. simple to sew. is tested for fit. I-Lu com- plete illustrated instructions.

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The Stars Say By Estrellita

For Tomorrow

THIS is one of il'l(kSP days when you will be able to make more head- way through your own industry and determination than by looking to others for help. Be cautious about taking on additional responsibilities. however, since they may small more time aiid effort than you anticipate.

The evening hours favor congen- lality, so plan something special - not only for the sake of relnxwtion but also to pay off some of your social obligations.

For the Birthday

If tomorrow is your birthday. you are now well into a cycle (which began on May 23rd) wherein per- sonal initiative will be practically the only factor in your pains. Co- operation frcm others will be al- most nil for the next. few months but do not indulge in pessimism or anticipate difficulties which may never arise. Even if you run into minor obstacles. view them as a challenge A and keep going. There are better days ahead!

Avoid an lncliiiation toward ex- travagance during December for, even though your financial situation will be on the upgrade then, you will still have a climb ahead and lmprudence could jeopardize future plans for security. The first three months of 1955 will be excellent for courtship. romance and the cultiva- tion of new friendships.

A child born on this day will be ambitious and dynamic but ex- tremely demanding and self-as- sertive.

Contract Bridge By Josephine Culbertson

COMPETITION AT DUPLICATE BRIDGE

When a player "reopens the bid- ding" at rubber bridge, he should usually have higher aspirations than merely to competc for a part- score. But at duplicate bridge. com- petition ls always vital. and some of the most adroit akirmishing is found at part-score levels.

Consider this deal from it pair tournament:

East dealer. East.-West vuinciublr. A102 Q8732 QAJ61 QK74 49543 OQJS1 ::Q9 N QK5 W E QIODS7 QJIO 4-” 3 sites sax.-s QJIOG4 QKQ53 3.52

At cvery table except one in the large field the North-South pairs landed the contract comfortably at two'hearts or two diamonds. In allpf these cases the bidding was more or less normal. East had nothing even faintly resembling an opening bid. and after his pass and Sputhb diamond opening. West could certainly not afford to take vulnerabls action. Titus, in a safety sense. East-West could not even get into the bidding.

One expert West. however. took a different view of the matter. This was the auction at his table:

- 8-11 B nut south wont North . Pu: I 9 Pan 2 9 Pass - Pue Dbls. 3 Q I A Fan Pul Pane

Observe that West did not risk immediate action over the diamond bill, but when North's weak raise was passed by South. West. was willing to bet that his partner had appreciable ei.rength.and backed his Judgment with the delayed double. 'nmi although North tried valiant. ly to keep luv. quiet. his attempt did not succeed - Int. confident that his partners distribution would be favorsble. bid his four-card spade

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lest made the tlitee-wade con- tract with cue. and in fact, by purine the hand wide open might have made an extra trick. The 140 points he named. however, were apple for I top score ' Giff YOUII FRI! molar of the Oulbertson Point-Count. Method. liinply send a etammd, eelf-Iif- dreuod envelope in the J. 0. wipe- ghn co...ioio Arch st. Philadelphia,

'I7iI I. O. A. P. made the first

non-atop flight scram Canada in IMO.

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Pictured above are Mr. Freda Arsenault. daughter of Mr.

Cedars. Quebec.

That Body of Yours By James W. Barton. 31- D-

A CHILD'S CONSCIENCE

Yesterday we were considering I theory put forward by two authori- tative rescarch workers. Drs. John- son and Szurek. on the subleclt "la- children mlsbehave because lhiy sense a hidden feeling of RIJDTOVM of their actions on the part of the parent.

I think we will all agree that a child's conscience is made. not born. It is not inherited ready made but is built up: especially durms the first six years of life. through as- sociation with the parents and the child's tendency to mimic or iden- tify himself with the behavior of his parents. Correspondently. conscience develops from the parents conscious and unconscious hopes and plans for their child.

For example. a normal mother never doubts that in a few years her children will learn absolute honemy about money. To her there is no choice: stealing is absolutely forbidden. However. when we hear a mother say. "Jimmie has never stolen yet but somehow I worry that he may some day." further study of the mother will usually re- veal that she herself has impulses to cheat and steal. As we said yes- terday. the child is quick to sense such impulses in his parents.

The child who runs away from home frequently does so on the dir- ect suggestion of the parent. Take the case of a 6-year-old child feel- ing a sense of being unwanted. who says angrily. "You don't love me. Nobody loves me. I hate you all!" Then. quite often, the parent may reply in such words as "Very well! Why don't you just pack your bag and go and live some place else if you think wc-'s so awful." some parents may go so far as to pack the child's suitcase. which is a ter- rifying experience for the com- pletely dependent youngster. The suggestion to run away comes more frequently from inside the home than outside. for rarely do small children tell their friends that their parents are "mean" or get suggest- ions from other children to leave home.

The lax parent. who does not take misbehavior such as stealing scr- iously and who says. "Oh. he'll out- grow lt." is just postponing the time when the child will have to be brought for treatment because the school he will attend complains of thefts. Many parents. whose own consciences are not strong. who al- low their children too much leeway in their early years. may suddenly react with guilt and alarm at. the first suggestion of criticism of the child from outside the home. They rcspond with righteous accusations and punlshment. This will confuse and anger the child as he feels that his parents have "let him dcwn."

We cannot cheat a. child or any- one else and expect the child to overlook it. A parent may not accept too much money in change from the grocer with a smile and expect her child to be hones: about money. A mother may not encourage child-

and Mrs. married at St. James Cathedral. Montreal. The bride is the former

mont Bay and the groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. John Kelly ct

. Jack Keiiy who were recently

and Mrs. Gus J. Arsenault of Eg-

DOROTHY DIX His Gambling Mania

DEAR MISS DIX: Before I married, three years ago. I knew my husband liked to gamble but it never occurred to me that it was an absolute obsessi with him.

While we were on our honey- moon. he left me the third day to spend his tlme- and money, of course-at the race track. Then ai- thcugh we were supposed to stay a Way two weeks, he had to re- turn the first Saturday for his weekly card game with the boys. And it has been so ever since. Cards and horses-these seem to be the only things he lives for. This summer he announced that wtr were to spend our vacations apart-I could go where I liked. but he planned two weeks of at- tending races. He seems to have no interest whatsoever in me. He rarely takes me out. and. when he does. he seems bored through the entire evening. My place in his life is as a hcusekee, . He was tilted by a girl he loved before he met me, and I often wonder if his present attitude is an ttempt to take out on me his spi e against the entire female sex.

Georgia K. LITTLE CHANCE OF REFORM- ING HIM

ANSWER: A girl has little chance

of reforming a gambler or a drunkard. Any young lady who sees either of these two traits

cropping up in a boy friend or fiance. should unhesltatlngly break off the friendship, or engagement.

I have printed many letters from wives of alcoholics. and youl draw a very dreary picture of ex- istence with a gambler. Your hus- band doesn't need a wife for com- panionship or love; he fulfills his needs with his boon companions at cards. and with the horses who run to give him affluence or a flat wallet for the day.

Since there is practically no chance of altering your man's habits. either you build a life for yourself around his aberrations. or leave him. In the former case you acquire friends, take up hobbies. or get into social groups that will fill your time. You won't be com- pletely happy or contented in your activities, but at least they will fill your empty hours.

DEAR MISS DIX: I like three boys. George. Bob, and Richard. They like me too, but I can't de- cide which one I like best. I'm 16, and the boys are 16 and I1.

. LB.

ANSWER: It's a privilege of the teens to have many friends of the opposite sex with time to select THE one. Don't worry about your happy state. child; revel in it while you may. Don't. bother your pretty head about selecting a study unm you're sure one of these-or an- other-ts the one you like best.

a'. movie at half price and expect them to stow up to be honest

ran to understate their age to enter

adults.

JIFFY TO MAKE!

Bewif.chln' in the kltchenl Cher-. rise - easy embroidery add charm to this cobbler apron. Look at the neckline - for now. wear it without. a. blouse. Cool cooking!

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To Take A Temperature

F irst Aid and

Home Nursing (IL mu. Ambulance)

First Aid and Home Nursing (at. John Ambulbnce).

"Taking the temperature" seems a simple enough procedure. Just stick a thermometer in the pa- tient'e mouth for a few minutes and read it. '

But St. John Ambulance points out that to take a temperature properly - and avoid the spread of Infection -- a few simple pre- caution: should be taken.

In the first place. you need more than the thermometer to do the job thoroughly-and especially if you're

oing to be taking temperatures regularly. Here's w at you should have: a small tray a pie plate will do) covered with a fresh paper aervlette. a small jar with cover containing absorbent cotton. swabs and one containing rubbing alcohol, a cake of soap, a small glass of water and a small paper bag for uled swabs.

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The patient whose temperature is to be taken should be sitting or lying in a comfortable position. First step for you is to wash your fiends. Shake the thermometer down to 95 degrees Farenheit with I quick snap of the wrist. Check its reading by holding it level be- forevtbe eyes and rolling it slowly mtil the mercury is clearly vis-

e.

Dip the thermometer in clear wa- ter before placing the bulb under the paticnt's tongue. Instruct him to close his lips but not his teeth. Caution him not to bite on the thermometer or to talk.

Leave the thermometer in place for three minutes and after remov- ing it, wipe it off with a moist swab using a rotary motion from tip to bulb. Read it and then shake the mercury down.

To clean the thermometer after it is used. moisten a swab and rub it on the soap. Wipe the ther- mometer from tip to bulb with a rotary motion making sure the lather is applied generously. Rinse off all the soap with clear water and stand it in rubbing alcohol for 30 minutes.

Care is needed when handling a clinical thermometer for 'i't is very easily broken. Hold the ther- mometer by the end opposite the tip and stand clear of furniture when shaking it down. Don't leave it standing in disinfectant for more than half an hour or the markings will become blurred.

If the patient has had a hot or cold drink, wait 15 minutes before taking the temperature. Don't take the temperature by mouth if the patient is suffering from a mouth infection. is unconscious. apt to take convulsions. unable to keep his mouth closed. or is under five years of age. Don't alarm a pa- tient by word or manner if the thermometer reading is unfavour- able.

How Can I?

By Anne Ashley

Q. How can I distribute the wear of a rug?

A. When taking up a rug for cleaning. turn it around before re- placing it and the wear will be dis- tributed. so place'a safety pin in a certain corner, that you may know this corner of the rug should go to the opposite comer of the room.

Q. How can I remove tar stains from fabric?

A. Rub a little lard, kerosene. sweet oil. or butter on the spots: 19'- them atand a few hours. then wash with soap and warm water.

Q. How should paint brushes be,

washed? A. A paint brush can be cleaned by washing it thoroughly in hot

soda water and soft soap.

Household Scrapbook By Roberts Lee sunburn

For sunburn mix two parts of llmewater to one part of linseed oil. beat it to the consistency of cream and apply. Vaseline jelly or olive oil are also good remedies that are often very effective.

Salads

A delicious salad can be made of cold boiled macaroni, cooked diced carrots. and canned peas, in equal parts. Mix the peer with the salad dressing before sewing.

Removing lcorclies

slight acorches on cotton or linen may be removed by wetting the spots with soap and water and ex- posing to direct sunlight for a day

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In the room of a snug farmhouse. the other evening. the subject of child-rearing appeared. It was aug- guted when the children of the home had expressed their relucta- snce to a reminder thet their bed- time had come. And "It's so hard sometimes to know what to do with

you'll be wishing these days were back again. supposing you were young like they are pnd company came in the evening." he smiled, "what would you like to do when bedtime came 'round7" , O O O

"I know." she smiled. "but would it be but to allow me to follow my own inclination?"

"But-poor little fellows. couldn't you give them a bit of leeway to- night?" Jamea coaxed. And the youngsters beamed at him, sensing that the' issue had been settled as they wished for the time.

"There was an uticle in the . . ." we began. And Joiner eyes twink- led. "Ellen's a great one to read and digest books on child-rearing. she know: by her reading. Just how it should be donel That is," he teased. "theoretically speaking. She never bothers to find out whether the writings are by an old bachelor who lives to himself. or a confirmed maiden-lady. or that," no chuckled. "like folks falling in love. each child re-acts differently to guidance and dilcip- line. since no two natures are