DR. AND MRS. A. M. SINCLAIR
Couple Now In Europe
Are To Reside
A‘ lovely wedding was solem- aized recently in St. Francis-in- the-Wood, West Rock, Vancouver when Audrey Marion Longheed, became the bride of Dr. Albert M. Sinclair. ' »
The bride, who graduated in nursing from the Royal Columbi- an Hospital, is the daughter of Mrs. Charles Longheed of White Rock. The room is the son of Mrs; Peter ginclair of Charlotte- town, Prince~Edward Island, and the late Mr. Peter Sinclaff, M.P. He was a member of the Shangh- nessy Military Hospital staff. Rev. William Valentine conduct- ed ‘the ceremony and a reception
\ followed at the home of the
brides godparents, Mr. and Mrs. F. C. Stewart of Vancouver. Given in marriage by Mr. Stew- art, the bride wore a ballerina gown of silk brocade designed on
In Halifax ,.
princess lines. A vcoronet of pearls held the chapel veil of illusion net and the bride car- ried a bouquet of tiny bronze mums and stephanotis.
Miss Joan Longheed was her sister’s only attendant, gowned in pale pink nylon with matching headdress. Dr. Robert ->T-ait of Vancouver was best man.
Dr. Sinclair .was granted a fel- lowship by Dalhousie University and is now in Europepwith. his bride for a year’s post graduate study in orthopedics. He will be touring centres in Scotland, Den- mark, Germany, Holland, France and Italy. They will reside in Halifax on their return where Dr. Sinclair will be on the staff of the Dalhousie University. —- Pho- to by D’Arcy Galleries, West Vancouver‘. _ .
MARY HAWORT_t_-I Child Sensei. A Situation
Dear Mary Haworth—-My hus- band died four years ago and since then my life is spent. giv- ing happiness to my adopted son, now 8. I have taken a job where he can come in for lunch; and he is showered, With love and affection by my relatives (during visits) as well as by me. His birthdays and Christmases are generously celebrated. . . .
However, since my husband’s death, gradually at first, Bertie (I’ll call him) has developed a nasty temper and disobeys me.
‘He talks back when corrected,
until I lose patience and punish him. Then he hits, too. A point is won only after a big scere. . .
He often misbehaves this Way in my sister’s,home—whose chil- dren never acted so. I find my- self catering to his nastiness there, to try to keep peace. He seems to obey the men in the family—-but pays no attention to his aunt or me. ‘
His tempers are volcanic; you never know when he is going to start in, over any trifle that goes wrong or displeases him. He gets along well in school and with his playmates; but the min- ute he comes indoors from play, he acts up. '
CLAIMS TO LOVE HER
He comes when I call, and obeys to a certain ‘extent. But the problem is this terrible tem- per and nastiness of late. On the other hand, he takes care of me crossing streets, carries pack- ages, e:tc., gets furious if any- one mistreats me in anyway, and says he loves me.
I can”: understand‘ his tempers, disobedience, continuous‘ b a c k talk, his hitting back, throwing things aorund and using bad language. We live in a nice house on a quiet street and rather than have bedlam I’ve tried to pacify him--which was a terrible mistake, I now real- ize. Please tell me what course to take. I love him dearly, and he is so lovable at times. K. Y.
Dear K. Y. -- As your son is adopted, you are pretty much in the dark, I imagine, as to the
.hereditary materials that 'figure-
in his emotional make-up-. That is to say, whether his inborn predisposition is -towards placid- lliy or unstable temperament.
Maybe he is running true to form, shaping up into a chip off the old block, in being such a stormy handful as he grows in years and stature. In short, may- be nature didn’t design him to be a comfortably mallea- ble child. I don't say this to dis- courage you or to discredit him; but rather to suggest the assign- ment you may have to work With.
It strikes me that your mis- take. thus far, is in using more scnt1mentalit_v than tough com- mon sense, in making a life for!
yourself . and ~B—er-tie. Foolishly you’ve made, him the, whole shown.’ with yourself his doting slave-—,a .performance that even -a‘ child (or perhaps especially a child) cannot respect, approve or consider desirable fr om /any »vievvpoint.. ’ v .
SENSES WEAKNESSE
Children are uncannily shrewd in sensing -and -resenting-indeed actively despising and rejecting —an undercurrent of weak, un- certain, conciliatory behavior in a parent or .guardian. From the child’s angle, his safety depends upon the person-in-charge taking charge of the child; and manag- ing him for his own good; and no halfiway business about it. The guardian is supposed to know What to do, or what he wants done, and to be fully self confii dent in outlining procedures and seeing them through.
You get sharp and quarrel- some with Bertie because he doesn’t meet you halfway, in a fellowship brand of co-opelratibn, in response to your sentimental attitudes. (You feel let down, hurt and furious). Bertie rudely‘ scorns this p0Ip1pycock—'wh.ich is more suited to sweethearts than to parent and -child. And he throws temper tantrums a-t you— that signify his outrage, uneasi- ness and contempt, in dealing
beam of masterly poise, calm, strength, assurance, directness and so on.
Obviously the only constructive course open to you’ is a series of confid~en‘:tial talks with a psy-I chologist in the‘ field of family: relations counselling. You need‘ firsthand education intaking the reins of authority into your
with agpa-rent so far off the ’
hands, in rearing Bertie. Bertie needs you to act in such a way that he can feel real respect for you, from a subordinate status; of firmly managed and sensibly protected childhood. Stop using him as a su.>bsti-tute for husband and friends. M. H. .
Mary Haworth c o u 11 se 1 5 through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write to her in care of‘ this newspaper.
WIFE PRIESERVERS
Did you ever stopto think that a broom can add dust as well as sweep it away? It's wise to wash a fiber or corn broom with clear water occasiona1ly,and hang it up to dry.
GREENVALE W.I.
Seven members of the Green-, vale W.I. held their regular meet-I lllg in the school on Tuesd-ay,l March 4th.. The president presjd. ed and the meeting opened by repeating the creed in unison. The minutes of ‘last mating were read and signed,
_ School committee reported buy- {HS Supplies for the school, and it was moved an-d seconded that bill-s be paid. Sick committee is to remember two residents of the
district with‘ treats. Correspondence coi1~sisled"of a
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HAPPENINGS
Mrs. Harold Schurman and Mrs. Eric Wood were the con- veners for the display of spring fashions entitled, “Fa-shionally Yours” and presented on Monday evening at Civic Auditorium by the Okto club of Summerside. The capacity audience, who appreci- atively viewed the latest in fash- ions, were showering congratula- tions upon the hard working con- veners and all who contributed to the success of the show.
Mr. and‘ Mrs. F. Edgar Rey- nolds and young son, Ty., who have been in Germany for the past two years, arrived on the Empress of France in Saint John, New Brunswick, recently. En route home they spent tendays in England with Mr. Reynolds’ brother, Lowell, who is an engi-
, MONTAGUE P.W.M.S.
Miss Catherine Currie was de- votional leader at the regular meeting of the Women’s Mission- ary Society of St. Andrew’s Pres- byterian Church, Montague, which was held at the home of Mrs. A. C. MacKay, Tuesday evening. The meeting opened with the hymn “At The Name Of Jesus Every Knee Shall Bow." The Scripture Lesson, Mark 16: 9-20, was read in unison, followed by the Bible Exposition on the theme “The Exvaltation of Christ,” pre- sented by Mrs. Marion Hume. A circle of prayer closed with the Lord’s Prayer in unison.
The president, Mrs. A. F. Mac- Kenzie, presided over the busi- ness of the meeting. Roll Call was responded to by sixteen members and the word for roll call was “exalte .” The minutes of ' the previous meeting were read and approved. The offering was ficeived and dedicated, fol- lowed by the financial report by the treasurer, Mrs. H. E. Nelson. Mrs. Nelson also reported that a, parcel o n taining magazines, cards a d other literature had been forwarded to Miss Mary Nichol, R. N., missionary in In- dia.. .
An interesting chapter from the study book, “Our Church in For- mosa’? was presented by Mrs. Chester MacLure, and a question aire on Missions was conducted -by Mrs. MacKenzi.e. A reading entitled “Your Bible” _was given by Mrs.‘ A. D. ~MacLure. ,
A large number of calls to sick and shut - ins were reported and the committee appointed for next month,-comprises Mrs. lVIa.cKen- zie, Mrs. W. R. G-arrick, Mrs. A. -C. Ma-cKay and Mrs. Chester MacLure, .
The meeting closed with the Mizpah Ben-e,-diction. Mrs. Walter Beer was piano accompanist for" a hymn sung following the meet- ing, and lunch was served by the hostess, assisted by Mrs. A. D. MacLure and Mrs} Nelson.
letter from \Mrs. Wm.’ -Aylward and one from‘ Mrs. Anthony Gau- det on Education Week. A. T.,»B. Cerflifi-cate was to be left in the school. -
A crokinole party was decided for March 14 and is to be held in the school. Members are to make lunches. ‘*
One member paid fees and two members put money in the birth day box. Collection amounted to 42 ‘cents.
Next meeting to be held in the school. Meeting adjourned with" the “Queen.” » '
neer in London. On Prince Ed- ward Island the Reynolds were registered at the Queen Hotel. They were also guests of Mr. Reynolds’ father, Mr. F. E. Rey- nolds in Murray River.
’ The Reynolds left Wednesday for Coburg, Ontario, -to visit Mrs. Reynolds’ family. They will then proceed to K i n g s t o 11, Ontario, where Mr. Reynolds has been stationed.
Mr. and Mrs. Ivan Horne mo- tored ovcr recently to Windsor, Nova Scotia, and brought home for the Easter vacation their daughter, Miss Elizabeth Horne and Miss Carolyn Bell, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. R. R. Bell.
MEADOW BANK W.I.
~MI'S- Robert Jewell entertained the .members. of the Meadow Bank W.I. “or the March meeting. There were ten memlbers and eight visitors present.’ Meeting opened with the Creed. Roll call was answeredvwi-th a sketch on education.
Correspondence consisted of a letter from Mrs. Alyward about -the remembrance book, also sev- eral receipts.
Secretary reported having paid F.W_.I.C., and A.C.W.W. dues and having sen-t contributions to the March of Dimes and the M.S. So- ciety.
Reports of committees were as follows: Sick, sent one sympathy card. school, brouglhft paper tow. els, Red Cross took in one tunic, seven panties and eight diapers’; Mrs. Sterling Clow received play books to read over:
Mrs. Charles Hyde read a let- ter on citizenship by Mrs. Anth. ony Gaudet.
Next meeting will be at the home of _Mrs. Pearle Scott and Mrs. Sterling.Clow. Home Econo- mics will be the topic for this meeting with Mrs. Gordon Mac- Lean in charge. Roll call will be a homemaking, problem. _
Miriam Hyde and Ruth Mac-
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HE’S‘5O DEAR! PEDlGREED_. so close to us that .he deserves the best treat- ment we can give him, which is DR. BAL- LARD’S CHAMPION DOG FOOD. Reason I say this is that Diet-Deficiency, the lack of even a few of the"necessary proteins, carbo- hydrates, vitamins or minerals; can endanger your pet’s health. Dr. Ballard’s Champion Dog Food has all the known nutrients ourdogs and these are balanced scientifically in the right pro-
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ELLEN"S DIARY
Wedges OtEie Sure Are Aid To Domesticity
“Twenty-five to one!” James exclaimed, eyeing the clock. He slipped into his coat, picked up his cap and gloves from a table. “You might, Ellen” he smiled, “take a ‘tower’ to the stables through the afternoon, just to see that all’s well.”
, “When?
“Oh, after a bit -— and perhaps again later on. Ananimal might get sick, or loose and into mis- chief. Have a look too in the
rpiggeries. There’d be war there.
Phail will give a demonstration on material. Mrs. Stewart Miller and Mrs. Victor MacPh.ai1 will assist with lunch. ,
The highlight of the evening was a travelogue on a trip to Florida, illustrated with coloured slid-es, by Mr. Parker Jewell. This prov- ed highly interesting. The presi- dent extended the thanks from the meeting to Mr. Jewell.
Lunch was served by the hos tess, assisted by Mrs. Joe Doiron
A pleasant social hour was then enjoyed.
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if some of them happened to get together. «. . Well . . ' he turned at the door.
“Yo-u’ll write?” we 1aL1g'h€‘CI-
“I’ll write he smiled.
“Come! Mack. called from the verandah. “If we don‘t hurry were going to miss seeing the first of the judging! Dad"S gone down to the truck.” '
In no time, it nosed up and ov- er the hilltop bearing off the three to the seasonal Fat Stock Show and Sale at the Fair grounds in the city. .
,We« watched it disappear. be’ fore we turned away from the window. Despite the brilliant sun- shine, it would be, We concluded. an outing more and less chilly. Soup we should make for supper from some stock at hand. It would warm cold marrows. We would have too a sliceof steak, smoth- ered in onions as substance for a healthy appetite...and maybe, make an apple pie, we deicded winking at the cat. . . .
“They’re giving me advice” we recalled a little bride laugh a bit
‘V sreafg )_‘I:1I8dl to an older woman who had just come near “what do you say?”
“Feed him well, child’ she twinklcd. “That is the big secret of a happy wedded life. They’ll forgive a lot of other short com- ings lf you have a hand for cook- ing. Just remember theresrbeen more than one big brave man caught ~ and kept to heel with tasteful wedges of pie!”
How quiet it was now -— the house so still as it settled down to its dreams.
“Ho hum” the cat yawnecl, climbing to the couch. “How a- bout you and me enjoying a sies- ta?” he smiled slyly.
We went to the sink, where the dinner dishes waited. Not many, to be sure but none the easier to do if left until later. How blue the sky was and pretty the—coun- tryside beneath in its brightening touches of Spring.
What an enjoyable time th efar- mers would have, we reflected. Mack too watching the showing and judging of livestock. We smil- ed to think of it. In comparison, the most talented and beautiful lady in the land would be “but a woman’ ‘to be respected. a.nd passingly admired, but these ani- mals, dear, dear, were the cream of their kind from Island stock
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“This so-up Ellen -~ it takes the chill away” James said at sup-’ per. “You know’ he smiled, “I123 not summer yeti’. . The cat on. a seat beside us waiting for tidbits ch-uckled softly. ‘ ‘
‘Yes,’’ he nodded in reply I0“011I‘ query, “it was a good show. Now, some pretty fine‘ animals. As _a matter of fact I sympathized with the judge who must place , the best ones. It’s no enviable chore. It’s not like picking out the best in a stable or herd.’
Night, has picked up the day now, gently, bearing it off to em- bark on some fairy- dressed sloop, which will sail away presently on a course down the River of Time.
Until tomorrow -— —— Diary - Goodnight. -. ._ .
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pointed on the school committg. . for the month of April. The trs. ’ velling apron was opened realm‘ , ing $4.72 and a crokinole party I was held in the school realizi “‘ $9.36. Bills amounting to san were ordered paid. . The following articles were pa, " sed back to the Red Cross Con, v-ener, 3 party dresses, 8 pm. panties, 3 sweaters, 1 pair ove alls, 2 pairs ankle socks and 1:...
It was moved and seconded t,“ have a crokinole party in the hall... on March 15th, each member tgj take six lunches. ‘H’ Mrs. Preston Sentnerwas ask..{‘ ed to get the prizes. Mrs. P1-33. ton Sentner and. Mrs.
committee for the next meetin :- Mrs. Pearle MacLeod invited ‘flu’ members for the next .meetin.g.I Roll‘ call to be answered by tmv articles for a fishing» pond rang.” ing‘ in price from 35 to 50 cents each. J _‘ Collection 50 cents. Two interes». I
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