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Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Lefko, fol- lowing their marriage at the [m- maculate Conception Church. We1-_ lington on September 1. The

bride is the former Caroline Arsenault, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Edmond F. Arsena-ult, Wel-

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Iii-ngton. and the groom is the son 0! Mrs.. Victoria Lefko and the late Mr. John Lefko of Mon- treal. The double ring ceremony was performed by Rt. Rev. Theo- dore Gallant, godfather of the bride—Photo by Sears of Read Studo.

On Her 92nd Birthday 1

Today, It was over a gentle rise of countryside the morning broke for us. and not as usual a— bove the dusky wooded hills at Alderlea. Here at our girlhood home by the Strait dawn came above that place where sits the district school. . .

To us this is a changed seat of learning. No longer do the smallish end windows we knew look out closely on the respected Post Road of once, but from a new site at the far side of the playground. now set broadly, it sees at more distance that in-

creasd traffic on the wide Trans

Canada Highway, feverishly there.

When we chance to pass. look- .Ing always to see the little hard beaten summery paths that once led so cozin there. we can fancy reflections in the window‘s. Young figures and faces we see. And in mind-we hail again these school- mates, every one. who unwitting in one way or another. assisting the home, the church and the com munity contributed something to our rearing.

The schoolma'ams we glimpse there—rchose of the junior years. quaint of garb. And the ‘ministers who gave instruction to the sen- ior classes in those young years we knew.

Faithfully’.‘ Yes. in most stances as regards “Larnin‘,” though to look back is to remem- ber that whatever el'se in the wtrld has changed in the inter- val of years since, human nature with its virtues. its imperfections and faults remains pretty much the same today. both~in teacher and taught.

In the windows we especially

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I ’ see with a lingering affection and

much respect, our boon com— panions of then—the girls with whom we shared young intersts, accompanying them or they our company on some “piece of way” along the nice old country paths: Those boys too we most liked, with their careers and occupa- tons then still to choose.

Among these schoolmates we can fancy ard those who save a welcoming smile for us. or some amusing tale to relate, over which we shall chuckle happily on sex, . far stand where meet the ever-young.

The teachers? How we bless the \nemory of those who with cheer- mien and encouraging word as isted us and all in their class! we .quiite forgive and pityg

nat re for the holy task. neglec- ted to give the hclp. the good word in season. which is every school-child‘s right. ’ . We saw this morning break a- bove the old school up the rise. We talked of those schooldays out of a world-past today. We looked again on the old fields round about which run shore— ward so prettily. .We saw the vil- lage close by clustered brightly and comfortably in its Autumn- shad-es where roads meet. . . And spent this day with a small. bright Woman. good mo~ ther to eight, all all home with her this evening to keep with her the 92nd Anniversary of her birth.

Until tomorrow— —- — Diary. Good-night. ‘ NEXT HIGHEST Mount Godwin Austen, or K2. in the Himalayas at 28,250 feet is

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Lena Caroline McLure. Women's Editor. Phone 6'

Page (ii—The Guardian

Mon., October 6, 1958

The Week of October 5th to 11th. 1958 is being observed by the Canadian Federation of Business and Professional Women‘s Clubs as "Business Women's chk" in conjunction with the National Fed— eration of Business and Profes— sionalWomen‘s clubs of the Uni- ted Sta-tes. The theme will be “More Power with Women Pow— er.”

The purpose of the week is to inform the public the part busi- ness and professional women are taking in the economic, social. religious, cultural and education— al life of Canada.

The provincial‘ convener for the B and P week is Miss Lillian Cudmore, Sumimerside. With her is associated Mrs. Ethel Compton, Summerside Convener. The Char- lottetown committee is composed of chairman, Miss Lena McLurc. Miss Ann Walsh and Mrs. Ful- ton Coffin.

The regul-ar meeting of the Alpha Chapter. Beta Sigma Phi, was held. on Wednesday. Sept. 24~th at the home of Mrs. Louis

Bagnall, Brighton Road. A very interesting debate was carried on

HAPPENINGS

With the topic "The sack and. t-rapeeze are a designer’s dream of soil rather than improve the feminine figure.” Mrs. Somer— led Trainer and Miss Helen Cox upheld the negative and Mrs. Sid- ney Stead and Mrs. Paul Devlin upheld the winning side. A de- licious lunch was served by the hostess, assisted by Mrs. Gordon Bears and Miss Phyllis Brown.

Word has been received by Mrs. chdclin Morrissey, East Roy— alty. of the safe arrival in Van- couver. B.C. of her daughter and son~in~law, Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Morrisson and two children Joell

las are leaving over the week— end for Daytona Beach, Flonida on their annual vacation. En route. they also plan to visit Miil- ton. Mass” and WIlia-msburg, Virginia. .

Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Stavert. and family of Charlottetown left Friday morning by car for Mon- ‘leal where Margaret will enter the Montreal General Hospital for

treatment.

Business Women's Week is be- ing observed in Canada and the United States from October 5th to 11th. As a result of Riis week BPW clubs expect. new challeng- es from many parts of the North American continent.

Many clubs could be mentioned but perhaps at present as a cour— tesy gesture those of Alaska should have a special greeting. There are 11 clubs and 486 members in Alaska. Responsibilit- ies face the new state and the transitional,'period may not be easy. Women are required in pub- lic life. To quote Federatibn pre—

The BPW Clubs Expect Many New Challenges

e, who perhaps panned ' uy' “edu

' gether. in the children‘s younger

other any more.

sident Mrs. Donald A. Brownof Anchorage: “We want plenty of women in the new state legis- lature.” '

Mrs. Helen Fisher, member of the House and of the Anchorage BPW,' was elected as a dele— gate to the convention which draf- ted the. constitution for the new state. I —.'1‘he... BPW , its spamming .. new cational opportumties in Alla- skia. “to develop Alaska", Mrs. Brown declared. ‘we must devel— op good citizens on their own home ground. We must not rely on talent sapped firom other sta— tes.” ‘

Alice Myers Winther. special

Heintzlemarn paid tribute to the

correspondent of the Christian Science Monitor. wrote from Seat- tle to the Monitor: “The BPW this year began a project of coun- seling high—school students on the types of advance education avail- able and best. suited. to their am- bition and abilities." Again to quote Mrs. Brown on this sub- ject: “Many of our experienced members are giving their time to interviewing and counseling Alaskan youth."

The BPW has generously sup- ported the new university being established at Anchorage. At. a special Alaska Day luncheon ex- territorial Governor B. Frank

civic work of the BPW. “Alaska’s Flag" the words by Marie Drake, retired assistant commissioner of education and the music by Mrs. Elinor Duse-n- bury ends wit-h these words: “AI-1 aislca's flag, to Alaskans dear, the simple flag of a last frontier." Present. delirioan may not mean going through the extreme privations and dangers With which our ancestors had to contend. But there are still innumerable tron- tiers along. with that. of Alaskia to be surmounted and in that work the Business and Professional Wo— men‘s Club plays a big part.

MAR/Y IHAWORTH Daughters U

Dear Mary Haworth: Much: counsel is glv en the single woman, in magazine articles and other media: but. I've never seen anything written about a mother- er's unhappy feeling of failure “hen her girls don‘t marry.

But the time a spinster reaches her 30s perhaps the mother should -be less involved emotion- al‘ly—wshould have more or less washed her hands of the prob- lem. But how does one arrive at that state of mind?

When I was raising my chil- dren I really felt that I was being a good mother; but now I have my doubts and it makes me very depressed. They weren't whipped or mistreated; but in my day it was considered proper to train children in obedience more than parents do today—so maybe we » “repressed” them.

There were few social oppor- tunities in our rural area: and we had to depend upon ourselves mostly For recreation —— reading, movies, music. picnics, rides and the like. The children had a few 'school friends; and when they were grown and ready for 'obs they moved to the city. BROKEN ROMANFES

Our girls, now in their 305, have had several heartbreaking lo‘ve affairs. but manage to bear up courageously and keep going. They seem to have plenty of friends. both single and married; and are regular church - goers. taking part in whatever offers. But they just don't seem to meet or attract eligible men. Our friends have never appealed to . the children, so it has been im- possible for us to promote any “prospects” for them.

I can‘t truthfully say that my husband and I were happy to-

year; but we tried to keep the surface smooth. As we are older. we are much more compatible

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nudging them out of the nest, to find new moorings.

Psychological i m m a t u r i t y chronically perpetuated by re- maining in the adolescent mold. in relation to parents. is the un- sensed factor warding off mar- riage in many spinster Lives.

But if your daughters are city dwellers. on their own, self-sup- porting of recent years. I feel the lime has come to absolve yorir-

and Grant.

Mr. and Mrs. Elvin E. Doug-l

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St. Bridget’s Church. Lot 11., was the scene of a pretty wed—‘ ding recently when Theresa Rose daughter of Mr. John H. Kil- bride and the late Mrs. Kiibride

of McNeill's Mills. became the bride of Joseph Vernon Fraser, son of Mr. and MrsRobert Fras- er, SummersideRev. Reginald Phaleu performed the ceremony and celebrated the Nuptial Mass. Mr. Joseph B-olger was in charge of the wedding music and accompanied Mrs. Kevin Kilbride as she sang “Mother Dear, 0 Pray For Me". “0 Sacred Hearl."\

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and “Panis Angelicus". church was

The beautifully decora— ted for the occasion with baskets of mixed flowers and the guest pews were marked with white satin boWs.

The bride. given in marriage

by her brother. Mr. Cecil Kil- bride. was lovely in her wedding gown of nylon not ever taffeta with embroidered bows on the ballerina length skirt. A long sleeved matching jacket topped the strapless bodice and a ma— tching bandeau with sequin trim

YORK NOTES

Misses Sylbil Miller and Marion MacKenzie. Hunter River. were the guests of Mr. and Mrs. Don- ald Crockett, York, on Wednesw day evening.

Mrs. Lloyd Vessey, York. was the guest of her sister. Mrs. Hat-1 vey C‘oles, Milton on Wednesday.

Mr. and Mrs. Clifford Chandler. Milton. paid a short visit to York

on Monday evening, September 22nd.

Rev. and Mrs. Elliot. York manse. has as their guest Mrs.

Elliot's mother, Mrs. E. Saund- er's Pownal.

Miss Dasis Brown. Charlotte. town spent Sunday in Yoik.

have a vaguely joyless colorless spirit, an echo of your character- istic anxiety bias—which regis- ters and i‘everberates in your present. guilt see about their un- married status.

My advice is to concentrate your energies and intelligence on lifting your spirit to the level of joyous confident thinking as the usual thing-wand then you‘ll be lifti your daughters lives loo. without slewing about them. Read Emmet Fox's books: The Sermon

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.. with sequin trim. She carried a cascade bbu- gust of Better Time roses.

Miss Zita Arsenault. as brides- maid. was gowned in yellow hat lerina length of (we let nylon net over taffeta. Her headdress was a tiny matching hat. and" she carried a nosegay of plnki roses. ‘

Mr. Ivan Fraser was his bl‘O-‘l ther's groomsman. Messrs. Leo} Jeffrey, brother-in-law of the‘ bride. and Russell Warren usher—l ed the guests to their pews. _

Miss Annie Kilbride chose tori her niece's wedding a navy dress 5 with white and blue accessoriesj and a Corsage of Queen Elica-l both roses. The groom's motheri1 was attired in blue and white flewered silk Wlth white acces- sories and a corsage of pink roses.

Following the ceremony a re- ception for forty guests was held at Birch Hill Lodge where the bride's table, with its attractive arrays of flowers, was centered with a two tiered wedding cake. topped with miniature bride and groom. Mr. Ivan Fraser proposed the toast to the bride, to which the groom responded.

For the honeymoon trip lhrou~ ghoul. the Maritimes and Maine. the bride changed to a navy

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According to your soul-search- ing story, they had a quite aver- age rearing —.decent parents masking their conflicts in maii' tain surface peace for the chil

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What was missing? Well, pos- sibly they were short-changed on

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