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ME. AND, MRS.

The wedding of Christine Mac- Pherson, daughter of the late Hugh Ross RmherfOrd, and of Mrs. Rutherford, of Ottawa to " Mr. Charles Barrett Gorman of St. Johns, Quebec, Son of the ' late Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Gor- man, of Kensington, P.E.I. took place recently in St. Tth-eresa’s Chapel, R.C.A.F. Station, Johns.

Flt. Lieut, the Rev. Father Fredrickson officiated. Mrs. E- laine Ray played the wedding music and Mrs. Leo Holland sang during the service. ,

The bride, who was given a- way by her brother, Mr. John Rutherford, of Potawawa, Ont-ar- io. was in a gown of white velvet, fashioned with a fitted bodice and a full skirt.

Her veil of tulle illusion was held by a matching headdress and she carried a boquet of pale pink carnations. Her only jewel- lery was a silver cross and chain,

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Miss Irene Ooughlan, as maid of honour, wore a frock of aqua velvet. with a bandeau of, the same shade and carried a bouq- eut of pale pink carnations.

Mr. Russell Beagan of Fort Augustus P.E.I. acted best man for Mr. Gorman and the ushers were Mr, Mervin Mclrnnis of Elliotvale, P.E.I., and Mr. An- drew Redmond of Cardigan, P.E.I. ‘

Following the reception Mr. and Mrs. German left for Prince Edward Island, the bride travel- ling in a frock of blue silk paisley under a fur jacket and wearing a white feather hat and blue ac- cessories.

Upon their return. they will take up residence at 345 Jacques Cartier St. St. 'Johns, Que., Mrs. Gon’mah is a graduate of Carle— ton University, Ottawa, and Mr.

stan's University; Charlottetown, and St. Francis Xavier University

Gorman is a graduate of St. Dun- .

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Lena Caroline McLure, Women’s Editor, Phone 8506

6 The Guardian, Charlotte—town, Wed., Dec.10,1958

HAPPENINGS

The Vienna Boys Choir and their conductor- Gerhard Lang, were luncheon guests Monday at Saint Dunstan’vs University. Also during the weekend the boys were guests of the Film Club at the Prince of Wales College. Mr. Peter Lewis and Mr. Ivan Dowling are in change of this club, By a most fortunate coin- cedence- the film being shown was “Emil and the Detective" a German film. The boys w e r e quite delighted to see this juv- enile film'from Europe.

Mr. A.A. Manhood, manager and the advisory board mem- bers of the Eastern Trust Com» pany, Charlottetown, held a re- ception at the Charlottetown Ho- tel on Tuesday, December 9th. The guests of honor were M1" was. Wickwire, Q.C. vice—west dent and RP. Howard, general- manager of the Eastern Trust Company.

Mrs (Dr.) J.E. Fleming Hills- boro Street, received the sad news that her brother W.L. Pol- mer had passed away at B-ensom Saskatchewan. Mr. Palmer was formerly of French River but had made his home in the west for some years.

Mr. and Mrs. Elmer Harris of Fortune are at present at the Queen Hotel. Charlottetown. '

Mr. and Mrs. Raymond Newell of Dorchaster. Mass" U. S. A. spent a chart holiday at the home

c gift of the bridegroom.

Antigonish, N.S.

For A SUCCessf

The annual Sleepytime Tea and

Bazaar was held last Saturday at the Y.M.C.A.» and was a most, successdul attain. The girls 59!"- ving wore colonial 'and dainty ' pyjamas. .

The tea was poured by Mrs. Arthur Duvar, Mrs. George Mi- ahcel. Mrs. John Evans and Reginald MacNutt. The ban- quet room was gaily decorated with Christmas decorations. One of the pleasant features was a large welcome sign which greet- ed the‘people.

YMCA Is The Setting

ul Tea

Ann Michael at the piano while Nancy White and Leah Jamie- son sang Christan carols. The drawing for a bride doll took .place and the winner was Mrs. Neil .A. Mathesom of Southport.

The assistance of Mrs. E; Nor— reyaud Mrs. M. Gillespie in the kitchen was greatly-'jalppreciated; This tea is an annual event and the girls of Bonasil‘lde,j.Kappa Kappa and Delta Hi Y’s look forward to holding it again next year. . ' .

WE‘AND" OUR NEIGHBORS ' x?-

Humdni'fy' In

An ’lls‘lamd friend has ‘jmit re- turned from a week's Vii‘Slilt to a large city in the United States. She loved every minute of the mp _ m m away from «he Maritimes. Those of you Who find long train rides boring or ﬁling or both should have heard her glowing account's—who (margin g view from the window—and the different people die met—and all so hiendly! The city itself was a revelation — ‘its wide clean streets; the dazzling shops And the large hotel where she stayed seemed a glittering city within the city. You could find every- thing there! Splendid restaurants and modest ones; shops of every description—and such beauty parlors! She was delight- ed but prepared for all

W h at surprised her was the friendliness she met both- in and out of the hotel.

NEW ATTITUDES

Friendlincss on‘ a much deep~ er level (than that accorded to (the admiring, appreciative visit- or) is showing itself over Canada in the newer, more humane atti- tude toward law-breakers. It does seem as if many of the die-bards who still believed crimepre‘venL tion dopendcd on the ferocity with which [the canonical 'was treated are beginning to believe —or half believe the “experts” who have facts and figures to prove that modern jails with their trained personnel and re - habilitaltion programs, their carefully planned and executed parole and probation systems cut down the number of jail repeat- ers — and save dollars and cents for the tax-payér —- as well as human lives. (Three out "of four criminals in jail are “repeaters” in Canada (I have read). POPULARITY 0F WESTERNS

Speaking of criminals, perhaps one secret of the popularity with adults of the “Westerns” on the moving picture and TV screen is the nature of the criminal shown there and the ease with which be is dispatched. The villain in just “bad” clear through—never had a kind thought—never a de-

cent impulse. Bang, bang. hang! The hero —~ 100 per cent noble, pure. and strong puts an end to h1m with one flip of the wrist. No head-aches about or jails or rehabilitation programs

figure is the smiling cow—boy! In the course of his glorious “days on the range" he finds time to redress wrongs — leave every place he comes h) — a liar. ﬁat better place to live in! But he never settles down anywhere. Oh. No! Off he rides, free of all fam- ily responsibilities -— free of the

And what a free and refreshing ‘

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And for the merit every view- or ' One With Him! .

G00 MEDICINE , - Blouse - wives are getting in- dignant at the rising cost of I loaf dfbroad. They haven‘t quite got-ton around 'to “doing some- thing about it" in a public way. but I have heard two at least say they would Bake their Own Breadasthcyuscdtodolltnld themofanitemII-eadrecently: That kneading dough (punclning, and thumping it instead of a thwarting person) can get undo sinublc emotions out of your syI- hem aswcllasthe clay andwax W advocated by MW trusts! Good luck! . .

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The ‘snowman, so popular with tots, nowdelights them on lcni-t- ted slippers, so cozy and soft. A Christmas surprise. Jiffy knit that costs so little — a flat piece ribbing added. Pattern 7232:0hart, directions, child's sizes 4 to through 12 included in pattern.

Send THllRJTY-iEIrVE CENTS (coins) for this patternl Stamps cannot be accepted» to Charlotte- town Guardian Household Arts Dept, 60 Front Street West, Tor— onto. Print plai ly NAME, AD- DRESS, PAlTTERN NUMBER.

Our new 1959 Alice Brooks Needlecraft Catalog. just out, has many designs for crochet-'

embroidery, quilts,

manl’ Pmbdﬁms 01' daily “V‘mg dolls. weaving, A special gift. in Past few Year‘s.

[that plague us. Free ~ even 0! the catalog to keep a child hap-

Love *1— for usually, sadly pily occupied a cutout doll and, Mrs, J, LeRoy Holman cntcl' but surely 7 he waves :0<)d-b;\i'lc]0lil(\s to mlor 80nd 2:3 cents

to the lady who sighs atter hlml

Music was supplied by Carol

ing in Fredericton, N .B. for the

of Mrs. Newell’s parents, Mr. and Mm. Albert Wise. Harrington.

Mr. Ira Hughes of New , Glas— gow. Nova Scotia, in having a most enjoyable visit on P.E.I. lie is the guest of his aim. Mrs. Albert Wise. Harrington.

Mrs. A.J. MoDonell and dough for Kim are leaving tor Ottaw after’ spending the put to w months in Summenside with Mrs. McDonoll’s mother. Mrs. JJP. Hogan. .

Clifford Snidﬂlh has re- turned, to her home in Simmer- ,aide enter in Toronto with her daughter. She 811,50 Spam some time in Boston.- the 911951 other sister. I Mrs. Sherman MacAssey ’em «noncomhddnc an. 'Vmw. " .w I — ‘

The many friends of Miss Joan. _Maolﬁadyan, amide, will’ibe,’ pleased to learn she is to her home after be-I luau patient in the Moucton City .Hospitalfor the past tour weeks.

j Mrs. new Gorrill entertained at bridge on Monday evening.

ﬁrﬁRaIph Caseley left on Sun- . New Humming and Don- Mrs. Annie Rayner, Summer:

side, had as her recent guest, Mrs. William Getson of Telugu-ion.

Mr. Roy _T. Tanton of St. Ele— anons; P.E.I. left recently by air to spend the winter months with his ,son Albert in Nassau, the Bahamas.

Mr. and Mrs. Clair Somers and family of Charlottetown wore re- cent guests of Mr. Someus' par- ents, Rev. G.N. and Mrs. Somers, Summerside.

. Mr. Oreehnan MacArthur left by plane on Monday for Mon- treal where he will attend the Moore-oDurelle Ohampionship right this Wednesday evening.

Mr. Elmer Phillips of Sum-' morsxde is leaving on Friday for

Mr. and Mrs. Bob Wooliver and children are visiting with Mrs. Wooliver’s parents. and Mrs.

Brenton MacDonald, Summerside Mr. Wooliver is a member of the Royal Canadian Mounted Police and stationed in Now- foundland.

Mrs. Lewis Turner has receiv- ed the sad news of the death of her brother Mr. Ian Fergu- son. aged thirtydive. Mr. Fer- guson was on the SS Santa Mar- des en route to Panama. He was a son of the late Mr and M'I‘S. J .B. Ferguson of Vancouver and grandson of the late Mr. and Mrs. John Burns, Charlottetown. Besides Mrs. Turner a brother Mr. Donald Ferguson in Mon- treal is left to mourn. Interment will be in San Francisco, Cali- fornia.

ELI EN’S DIARY

This morning, for our children to reach the old school down the River Road. meant a sleigh-ride behind Rex, the brown horse. Seated on a bale of straw, on the only sleigh available—a stout woodsleiglh of the farm-a nd snugly wrapped against the nip- ping December winnd, they set forth obviously well pleased with the turn of weather which had made the magic ride possible. Better than the bicycles now stored. or any other machine of the place. this was a joy of the season.

We saw James stand a mom- ent in the yard, watching them go, smile a bit wistful for years that were gone. From a window of the house across the lane, Jeanie and Alex. the baby wav- ed to them.

We lingered at a window of ours. After a habit learned when schooldrays took lads of this farm down the shonbcut of front mea- dow, and by way of the darn. past the‘ mill-doors thence up the hill and away, we usually follow in sight these small ones until they fade from us in the distance be- yond. Time was too, when we gave Jamie (eldest gnandson). and Gage, to their sohooldays in

the neighboring district, losing

i'MARY HAWORTH .

Dear Mary Hawor-th—On the surface, my problem seems in- signiﬁcant, yet ‘I feel than it might wreck my marriage grad- ually, and cause the loss of some of my friends.

I come from a well-educated, well-'to-do European family. My father advanced to the top, in the field of work he chose. And my husband, a fine young Amer- ican of Britishancestry, is a pro- fessional man. He comes of a very ﬁne sophisticated family,

My parents were my best friends and always encouraged me and helped me with my prob" lems I don’t think was spoiled as a child. They scolded me plenty of times, but in’a friendly sort of way. I don’t remember that we‘ever used sarcasm as a mans of driving a point. No doubt some Europeans do, but perhaps the particular circles that we knew weren’t sophsiti— carted enough for that. ADMIRES POKER FACES ‘

Now to come to the point: I think I am nomally sensitive; and have a pretty good sense of humor. However, if either my husband or any of my friends uses heavy sarcasm mi me. I feel blood to "my head. and "then ‘P say comm ﬂung that comes to mind; Two minutes later _I am sorry and try to make .up for it. , Howcanl learn to react with poise to sarcastic remarks? My husband, being of English origin doesn't like people who can’t con- trol their emotions.

Please advise me. I love every-

thing here and don’t want to ruin

bur happiness. I also don’t want to consult my parents because they Would worry. thinking I am unhappy. Many thanks in ad- vance. N. K.

NOTHING GOOD

Dear N. K- — Sarcasm is the refuge of small minds, someone has said—uni observation that scores a bull’s eye.

Sarcasm is simply a cheap and easy way of sounding smart, at the expense of good {taste and fine healing. In the scale of in tellectual prowess, it is on a par with the pun, dammed as “the lowest form of wit." -

In View d these self-evident truths, I’ve sometimes wondered why the English, in so many ways such admirable people, have for so long subscribed to crashing rudeness in conversation, amongst their peers or in squelohing am upstart, as a sup- posed hallmark of aristocratic breeding.

Not that all civilized English behave that way, thank God. But

Buchans, Newfoundland, where he wall spend the Christmas holi- days with his motherdndam, Mrs Margaret Moore. 01] return he Will be accompanied by Mrs.

Phillips, who has been visiti ‘w1th her mother for the pansgt three months. ‘

F.0.- and Michael Kell

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of Middleton, NS. are guests of Mrs. Kelly’s parents, Mr. and «Mrs. Wilfred Perry, Summerside.

Leo D. Anseth loft Monday on a business trip to Montreal. He will aim attend the MooreaDu-relle fight on Wednes- day evening.

Mr. William Power or (liar- Eﬁetown' the weekend in ummers1de waiting with friends

\ Mrs. Jean MacF‘arlan Sum . I I e, - mens1de, entertained hen- bridge club on Saturday evening.

Mr. and Mrs. “Bud” - of Charlottetown, spent «$513: and in Summerside, guests of Mrs. Wlhitlock's parents, M.r and Mrs. Alfred Gordon.

Master Geonge Pickard, son of Mr. and Mrs. Keith Pickand. Sum~ ‘ merside, entertained a number of his little friends on Saturday. the occasion being his tenth birth day. I

l Mr. and MN. Byron Crockett i and family are being welcomed back to Su-mimerside after resid-

for your: copy of the book.

tamed llle East End bridge club on Monday evening.

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Sarcasm Cheap And Easy , Way Of Sounding Smart

by and large, it is an accepted article of U-ltype assurance. As everybody knows. the late great showman G. B. Shaw made quite a mock of iteexerting himself to trump English aces on that score. What he gained in headlined tame by his feats, however, he probably lost in the hearts of those nearest to him—if we may judge by the records left us. OBJECTIVE LOOK ‘ This I mention because your hu‘sbalndls English lineage and sophisticated social Seasoning and his hereditary disdain for those who haven‘t cast-iron feelings, indicates that he is pretty stuffy,

band role. It may do no harm, and might even help, to give him this outsider, objective look at himself.‘ . .

Evidently he has the idea that he’s to do the and you the conforming, in worldng out a mutual accommodation of tem- pera-men‘s. Obviously he assumes he’s the most~beilng old English and all that. x

If he is using heavy Samoa: on you; and you are reacting with ﬁire, it means that you are alive, to a degree that he is not._ If, as,“ when you canswallow his mum abuse at . -. bilities and smile back at him. uncaringly, you will be a,zombi of sorts ——' an exmtlonally dead body—in (his arms. Is that what he wants? And are you willing to‘ kill yourself off to hltart‘eantentl I don't advise if. ' ‘

Neither do I advise taking les- sons in manners 'or self-control from, people who haven’t got it.

For rockribbed, book-length ad-

vice on how to keep poise while negotiating storms, read Wingfield Hope's classic Life Together (Sheen and Wand). M. H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail

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Schooling, Xmas Cacti

them each morning around a woodsy bend of way.

On the morning slope. the snow held a hundred kings nansoms in jewels that ﬂashed 'm the sun- light. The millstream wound in a dark ribbon, serene between its l

moulded white banks.

“Ah, ha, wishin' you could go to school too, Missis'.” our Spar- , row-friend on the so-bare rose-, bush outside the panes chuckled. 1

"Not exactly" we grinned back.

“Wouldn't like to learn your, AaB-C‘s all over again?”. ,

“They don’t learn them any, more“ we countered; “They com- mence with easy words, learn-7 ing to recognize them by sigh

He shook his head. “You don't say so! And I can mind sittin’ learim‘ off that white Alphabet card~big letters. little ones—and the numbers up to a big ova? O—thalt meant ten. What time I wasted in gettdn’ my schoolin!” he sighed. .

“One young thing we knew lear- ned her letters off the new range.

They were fashioned in _the shining nickel trlmmings—the stove's name, and somewhere that of the foundry from which it came."

“There’d be no ,on it, would there?" he twink] , lifting in the sunlight off then to search for gleanings of seeds in the barn-

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IF EVERY ONE

If everyone who drives a car Could he" a month in bed, With broken bones and stitched- up wounds, ‘ 0r fractures of the head. ‘ And there endure the agonies That many people do, They’d never need preach safety

If every one could stand beside The bed of some close friend And hear the Doctor say hope”

Before the fatal end,

And see ldm.there unconscious Never knowing what took place, The laws and rules of traffic

I am sure we'd soon embrace.

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If every one could meet

The wife and ohildrenleft behind

And step into the darkened home

Where once the sunlight shined,

And look upon ,“the Vac'am Chair"

this evening noting m minimizing! blooms. “Ours is only mindedz yet."

So pretty the countryslrlc lies.

Trees and groves and woods new

so much dark velvet on the snow- white tapestry of the night. Here and there about, the lights of the farmhouses twinkle forth.

And above keeping an old watch

3 over all, shine the sparkling De—

cember stars. , _ Until tomorrowo— -— —- Diary. Goodnight.

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A “classic” in fashion is a de- sign which is suited to our way of life and has an indestructible right-mess that carries it through all seasons at home or abroad?— and its reputation is, nine times out of ten, due to Dorothy Cox.

A Dorothy 00x design springs from a knowledge of what busy women, having home or office careers. want to wear daily’to look smart and feel sharp. Miss Cox was among the first. if not the first-to see the future '0 the sh-irtwaist dress and she is today an enthusiastic exponent of the two~piece casual suit. She feels, and rightly, too that it is the basic of smart ward- robes from coast to coast, whe- ther you live in California, New

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