The Guardian, Charlottetown, Mon. Aug. 30, 1965. 7

MARY HAWORTH

Wife, Struck By Mate Fears For The Future

Dear Mary Haworth: My pro- posed: “all. in- on-plece,” * blem is that I've been married the phrase is two years and just recently my To achieve this; make sure husband slapped my face while that your feelings of outrage and ] had our. 10-month-old, baby in revulsion, at being abusively my arms treated ‘both physically and em- We expect to buy a home in otionally), don't go underground,

two years. However, I'm doubt- psychologically. Don't try to ful about this future. planning gloss over or ‘‘forget’’ them: -now If.minor things can.fire his don't try to sweep them under ,

temper to the point of his strik- the rug and go on as if nothing ing me, just because I ask a shameful had happened simple-question-the- didn’t--like -——Don't- try to -make“peace-—in the tone of my voice), then I am terms of becoming a mask-wear- afraid it will happen again ing emotional coward and mor- He says | am an excellent mo- al cripple, in relation to your ther and housekeeper but some- husband times T “step out of my place.” Dare to he honest, in actions He is a. hard worker and good if not in words ‘if he won't let provider, bui temperamental. I you speak your mind), about the work part-time, also) damage done. Meanwhile talk That slap- in- the- face took things over with a Family Ser-

something out of me; and I now vice counselling specialist, to

find it difficult to respond to clarify your thinking and relax

bim Please advise me —D L your shock-reaction.—M.H. Dear DL: In’ slapping your

Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by:mai! or personal interview. Write her care of The Guardian

“tace because he disliked the tone of your voice, or, in other words, because he felt uncomfortably . defensive about a question y ou daca asked him, your husband struck a blow from which the marriage will never recover, to the extent of being the same as it was be- fore .

I think both of you have got to recognize that fact, in trying to” pick up the pieces and get on with vour lives

It is my impression that your husband slapped your face to mak he -point- that he's not-an-

RESIDING IN

Trinity United Church was the summer setting for the marriage of Florence Carol MacDonald, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Daniel MacDonald, Montague and Wayne Allison Johnston, son of Mr. and Mrs. Murray Johnston, Saint John,

IDA BAILEY ALLEN | Early Vegetable Dishes

IN earlier days in this coun- |

Make Custard Comeback |

‘testant Welfare 's ready te be “delivered

Patches were taken from travelling apron and « paniry ‘sale held and a nice sum reali- zed frem both

Mrs. John Dixon invited mem- bers to meet with her in Septem- ber with word for rol! cal! to he

ox “Ma salt-tope ted rather sad’ summer- |3 egg yolks and 2%, tsp vanills. through Across the fields, the Stir in 1% e€. sifted cornfection-lights of the farmhouses twinkle ers’ sugar and continue to stir mistily tonight. now that the untf] very smooth. rain nas ceased Clean - washed

THE CHEF's the air is, that lightly moves the

LEMON - WHIPPED: POTATO curtains at our window Mesdames: This innovation ‘Ellen’ James calls from the is very tasty..Try it with poultry, kitchen, ‘‘how is it that you

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try. during” the warm months when fresh vegetables were

Bake * to 2 min in hot § . “Crystal” 0! fish or game.In a double - boil. mever had a -thought about the Ty ‘ oven, 400 degrees F or until gol- t : ” Mrs. John Dixon “was in den-brown and dry Cool - ., Prepare 1 pkg. inet ant raids? ces és eharge of the program taken

| plentiful and this had to be used |

i Slit h before it ‘‘turned,” vegeta ble ence pull ot side aad

Spoon in about ‘2 tsp. chiffon fill-

mashed potate ‘or enough for 6 persons), following pkg. direc- tions. Whip in 2 tbsp. soft but-

from ‘The Word and The Way the title being ;‘Salvation” Refreshments were served by

MR. AND MRS. WAYNE JOHNSTON

| custards were frequent supper | dishes.

These custards were based on

‘half - cooked, diced fresh aspa-.

ragus or green beans; or on’ fresh corn kernels; or broccoli flowerettes ‘tops’ — placed in eustard cups or in a low bowl, eovered with an unsweetened, well seasoned egg - milk custard Don't think of your worries, but think of your work.

The worries will vanish, the work will be done

No one sees his shadow, who faces the sun!"’ Until Monday— Diary —Goad-

night.....

mixture, and steamed over hot water, or slow - baked.

| Laden With Vegetables

At this season, our gardens and supermarkets are Jaden with vegetables, a perfect time

y one of these old - time treats as a main dish for lunch-

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SAINT JOHN -

N.B. Rev. Russell Burns offic- jated. After honeymooning in Boston and. Hamilton, the

couple took up residence in

Saint John. (Phote by the Craft Studio, Montague)

swerable to you about. anything.

eon or a meatless dinner, or

even for brunch

Measurements level

BROCCOLI CUSTARDS

iF} ¢. fresh broccoli flowerettes -

1% tsp. salt

(tops). cut short 2 eggs, beaten foamy

% tsp. pepper

1-16 tsp. ground nutmeg

2c. milk, heated lukewarm Cook broccoli flowerettes in

2"' boiling salted water 5 min.,

; in 8" - 9"' deep skillet. When | half-tender, drain. Stir beaten eggs and season-

‘ings into milk. Thoroughly but-

ter 6 (5 oz.) custard cups. Divi-' de broccoli flowerettes in cups, placing them on bottom. Pour

_egg-milk mixture over broccoli.

Set cups in pan: surround with boiling water to depth of 1” and bake 40 to 45 min. in mod. oven, 350 degrees F. or until pick inserted in custards comes

to’

jout clean, Remove at once from

In taking issue with your “tone of voice” he was saying, in effect: ‘‘Don't get above your

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| water. Cool 5 min. Loosen edge

ing ‘follows’. Refrigerate until ready to serve Sift over a little confectioners’ sugar Makes about 7 doz miniature puffs

Chiffon Filling: Combine and over hot water.

DeSable UCW Hear Reports

Mrs J. W MaeDougall enter-

ter or margarine, 2 beaten egg yolks, 1 tbsp. lemon juice, 1-16 tsp. nutmeg and |-4 tep. each eat and pepper. Keep warm

the hostess assibted by Chariot- te MacKay and Elizabeth Mae- Dougall.

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ELLEN’S DIARY

tained the DeSable UCW mem- ‘bers in August with the presid- ent, Mrs. Mae Dixon in charge The worship service was con-

ducted by Mrs MacDougall, the — ae

Slantin Silv Sho r theme heing ‘Yellow Coward OS. ORK SnD CHARLOTTETOWN, PES W. ice’’. Scripture was read by Mrs. » g | er e Mae Dixon and Mrs. John Dixon; 3 Dress Goods ° © members answered rol! eall ; Clean = W hy Th A |with a verse of scripture eon ¢ asnes e ir eee te went eee ;@ newest shades ‘And what’ Jamés inquired ‘‘After dinner, that is’’Mack . The. supply secretary, Mrs. ¢ @ finest quali of Mack this morning, “is our added. go Penang ewes a box ¢ “ work to be today?" The early “‘It wil) take more than one me -s0m, * ©? 166 Prince St Ch’tows choring was over then, and the afternoon’ James commented, W#vette sent. She also reported a ¢ : , Seakinel. nae ae cc ee f box of used clothing for the Pro- ee ooee!

son of the family in the house across the lane, which also inelu- |des the one girl, Alex and Peter, | had come by, bringing in a share of the milk from the one cow, which supplies in part the dairy requirements of this farm

“But it’s not always the same cow we milk’’ we overheard one of the little lads say to a visitor one day, one, who was under the ‘impression, as it happened, that as once, almost every farm — and village-home, includ ing those of the minister and doctor continued to have its own dairy. ‘James recalled to Alex. and Peter only the other day, the fact that a calf he particularly remembered through the years, was a fine one, the doctor had given him in boyhood, a pretty heifer. ‘‘a black one”, his black cow had birthed. “It's milk from a cow that has fresh- ened, we use. And so it’s not al- ways the same one.”’

“Freshened!’ the visitor ec- hoed. ‘‘What’is that?”

"isn't that funny” the little farm - boy observed with a grin, “you don't know what that

of the pan and forms a ball. Re | means!"

“There’s a nice lot of wood in | those piles. And’™ he nodded, it’s good that there is. We'll likely be | needing it. This has been a! |strange summer weather - wise, It may be a long, hard, winter on fuel."

| “No word. from our starlings yet?” Alex said a bit shyly, | | stopping near by when we spread jthe last pieces of wash: pairs of the handk woolen socks| James fayors as being “‘soft on the feet’. which go many a mile in the\course of a workday. |

Professional Catering In your hall or home Banquets, Smorgasborg, Weddings, Teas and Meetings

Orders taken for: Fancy Sandwiches, Cakes, etc. Quality and Quantity—Everything Home Made

“Now that is what (YOU think!"" we chuckled. ‘Wasn't | COVEHEAD 6-2 there a long - distance call from “

Re eS oa eee ES INTERRUPTION NOTICE |

“What else?’ he queried: | “And they are having a fine

There will be a series of short interruptions of electric power beginning Wednesday September

time “excursioning with their company of relatives. On a gul- 1, 1965, to permit our crews to string conductor on

ded tour, it would seem, they are." ‘It's to be hoped they don’t land on our grainfields!” Mack remarked in passing. .

“Dear, dear’’ we sighed, list- | ening to catch the sound if rep- |

cual. “hl st co ue the new high voltage transmission line. These

was it? You know, theirs is Tast music of the year.”

And presently the rain came |

the

interruptions will affect Peakes Station, St. Teresa. and Vicinity.

self; don't try to speak to me as

Audrey Jenkins, Women’s Editer, Phone 45506

onto serving paltes. Serves 6.) Y

an equal.” Which, diagnose d, means simply that he felt he couldn't give afi honest answer to the particular question, with-| out putting himself in line f or merited criticism

You are suffering from per j © _gisting emotional shock and pro- |

Mr. and Mrs. Alan Lecky and | baby son, Scott, have returned | to their home in Staten Istand, N.Y., after spending their holi- days with Mr. Lecky’'s sister and | brother, Mrs. Catherine Hirtle and Clatide Lecky.

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found moral outrage, in the MYRA . wake of his insolent, ignorant earner Mr. and Mrs. Louls Harper, prohibition of your inherent | GRADUATE | Tignish, had as weekend visitors wifely right to speak to him ‘their daughter, Mrs. Rachel-Mil- directly of what concerns you. ler and grandchildren, Rosetta - In charging that you sometim- Myra Gaudet successfully and Ralph of Charlottetown.

es ‘step out of your place,” dog) passed her RN examinations is debasing you to kicked- dog recently and is at present em- status in~his scheme of things’) ployed at- St. Joseph Hospital, indicating that your place ig ‘‘to| Kenora, Ont. She is a daughter heel," as it were. Evidently, also of Mr. and Mrs. Howard Gau- it. is his tnspoken assumption det, St. Louis,

that you should respond as if — :

atetul for his favor, when he LIOUSEHOLD HINTS:

Is in the mood for treaty-mak- A grated raw—polato added

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Mr. and Mrs. John Murname have reurned to Montreal after holidaying with Mrs. Murname’s mother and sister, Mrs. James Murphy and -Mrs. Arthur Wright, Vernon: River.

ing on his terms.

| MENTA TURE “CREAM PUFFS oe that wood'' Mack replied... % e. soft - type margarine \A quiet morning, it was. parents, i oat Mra. Roscoe |i. water | ‘One lightly overcast. The wind MacDonald. 1 e. sifted flour stirred the leaves, the under-

; 4 eggs sides noticable against the Dr nd M DG &t rt. ; sad i st ae ae Combine margarine and water of the day.

their home in Crapaud efter hol-|!2 1 4t. saucepan. Bring to roll-|

: , boil, Reduce heat. Stir in) idaying with their parents Mr. ing s aia | and Mes, EH. Stewart is Mon. flour all af once; cook-stir until

ot. Mixture comes away from sides| of thepan and forms a ball. Re-! (move mom heat, - : Beat in eggs one al a time Mrs Mabe! Fraser. Montague, is convalescing at the home of, mntil mixture. is smooth _a_nd her daughter, Mrs. Duncan /#!088Y Cool & min. Through a : Bruce, Milltown. \pastry bag. with a plain tip, =

ames said.

tague and at their summer ¢ tage in Albion.

“There's talk of getting back to|

SOY | it slant in a silver shower ag- |

“We could make a start at it” | below dam, pleased to have it . Irefresh the fields that had thirs-

jto put"off the wood - sawing, to | delay the proposed afternoon | | work. However the farmers sho- | {wed no unease. ‘Let it rain... |and rain!" one smiled, watching |

Ey Marine ELECTRIC ={ Pnyaary C Lint lecfcs 4

ainst the dark of the spruces |

| press.dough Into small balls 2" Mr. and-Mrs Nicholas Lanni- in diameter, onto 2 lightly oiled,

- sized baking sheets_or in. * gan have returned to their home good : Pa in Hamilton, Ont., after visiting Yerted roasting pans. Keep puffs "=

jon the Island with Mrs. Lanni- bout 14" apart, :

igan's parents, Mr. and Mrs, | -eccccvcccecceececcos,|

_. Any competent family life nd—ot—hamburger—wi ¢onsultant would affirm the -val- saan the me — idity of your feeling that it 18 qetieious almost impossible to have a self. - ing, self- giving exper- when bake le ence” with “your “hisband hence pois, FE — Oe tN tne en Gittexpte, “Carieton: . unless and until he pro sauce. Flavors of both fruits are foundly atones for his mistake improved when blended this in trampling your self- regard way. and dignity of spirit, with your } ehild as witness. And don't im- 4 couple ‘of strips of bacon on vacation on P.E.I. agine, for‘a moment, that the de- the bottom of: the pan in which : structive quality of the slep cook your meat loaf will weet ‘Moploed, porenio; ie -- wasn't felt, -soutdeep; byt he ome i cpen eaasieaaemiabettadianiaea ined ~ here. for—-two--weeks..vaca’ 4 baby, too. : OER RCNA Vreey, with his parents, Mr. and Mrs. ___ As for what to, do, my advice ,. Soft cookies stay that way for George T. MacLeod, Long River “I; try to emerge from this shat- a longer period of time if a few | #04 Sther relatives and_triends. tering experience with your in- slices of fresh bread are placed : ’ i The Kensington Lion's Region- tegrity. still collected and com-'in the cookie jar. ot Band with tale wend

Raymond Lacke, tes spent Saturday—at--Shediac | where they paraded and put on a concert at the Lobster Carniv- al. They were accompanied by Eric Jessome and Dr. Benson | Reihi of the Lion’s Club, and |Mrs. Clark Caseley, Mrs. Ste- wart Peppin, director of major- ettes and Mrs. Fred Campbell |as chaperones. Ian MacMurdo

'was the bus driver.

Dianne and Debbie Ferguson, |New Jersey, are vacationing on | the Istand, guests of their grand- eee -Mert_Ferguson,Murray. | River.

at and give it a

Mr. and Mrs. Aubrey Hughes and sons returned to Montreal | Wednesday after an enjoyable

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Mr. and Mrs. MC. Reynolds, | Montague, left recently on an ex-

and other western cities.

'Tignish, had as visjtors recent: | | ly. their son-in-law and daughter, | ‘Mr. and Mrs. Jack MacAleer, and family, Karen, Kirby and Kirk of Charlottetown. | * Mr. and Mrs. Ronald England, |with their children Ronnie and | Kent, have arrived “from $ t.' ‘Louis, Miss., to visit the form- er’s parents, Mr. and Mrs. Ver- non England, Alberton.

Mr, and-Mrs. John H. Gordon have returned to Arvida, P.Q, after visiting Mrs. A.C. Green and Mrs. R.M. Dunn, Alberton

Mr. and Mrs > ell and nephew George, return- ,ed to Brookline, Mass., Wednes-

Joseph® McHow-

vacation on P.F_T.

Harriet Campbell, Toronto and ‘her aunt, Mrs. Anna MacLeod, Halifax, left on Monday to re- turn to their homes after visit- ing the former's parents, Mr. and Mrs. George Campbell, Darniey.

John Ramsay, Alberton South, ’ Shas left for Halifax.

MR. AND MRS. WAYNE HAMBLY

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MT. STEWART WEDDING

Mr. and Mrs. George Dunn,

: Chilliwack, BC, have been

Mr. and Mrs. Wayne Ham- ghter of Mr. and Mrs Claren- | guests of Mrs) R.M. Dunn, Al-| bly ‘the former Wifma Laura ce N. Coffin of Mt. Stewart herton

and the groom's parents. are Mr. and Mfs. William L. Ham- bly, Charlottetown

(Phote by R.-B. Hambly) | ax weeks’ vacation with her!

Coffin) wefe united in marria- ge at St John’s United Church’ Mt Stewart by Rev DR

MeLanna= The bride is a dan

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also visited at the home of Haz-' : : | 7 Mrs William O’Brien. Albet-~ coeees -

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plane for Toronto after spending -

Mrs. Gordon C.° Gillespie and Dan Semple, Victoria Cross. ‘)

to daughters, Sue, Jen and Lynn! = H. BENNETT CARR 3 of Montreal, Quebec, have re-- Lawrence Bernard. Montreal,|? __Iasuranee Counselling = 9, turned home after spending the is visiting Alberton, his former « ~_Distriet 1 «| 3 | past week with Mrs. Hazen Mac- home town. He is a guest of Cst. ¢ eee +1 | Williams, Cape Traverse. They) and Mrs. ED. McCue. le Phone 4-8817 - 4-5435 °| mt

o020e 508 bes: ton, has left to visit her mother in Falls Church, Va.

| Me. and Mrs. Emmett Wigh AMNouncement

land‘sois Riley have arrived on la

} , Mrs, J h- Sininot, oi . to

Me nent Sinnot, Mor ‘space the’ Maritime; Stationers will not

Mrs. Charles Taylor, accom- pafiied by her daughter, —Mar- | |lene, of Dundas Centre, are va- \eationing with relatives in Pic-' | tou, N.S.

co Mrs-—Walter— Dickieson —a nd children, David and Kevin have returned to Toronto after spend- ing the summer months with her

. Mr. and Mrs. Roscoe | MacDonald, York. j

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A (otat of ® patients from Riverside Hospital were guests of Fortune Road Women's Insti- jtute at a picnic. and supper held ‘at St. Peter's Bay Park. >

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