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The marriage of Mary Gibson. ried a bouquet of peach Pinocchio laughter of Mr. nnd .Vlrs. G. W.Iros(-s, and Town of Mountlbouquets of peach Pinocchio roses

Wright, of the

THE GUARDIAN

Marry In Montreal

rind Mrs. William N. McCouhrey

bridesmaids

Royal, to Mr. William Nelson Mc-land shaded peach pom-poms.

Coubrey, son of Mr. rind Mrs. D.; B. McCoubrQy (formerly of P. 1.), of Notre Dame tie Grzire, tool:

E. man. Gordon Campbell, place on Sept. 26, at three o'clock ins. Mr. Ian Smith, and Mr. Albert

Mr. Lionel Morton acted as best Mr. Folk-

iihe ushers were Mr. Jack

and

in Erskine and Anmrican l7nitedlFr0ssart.

Church, Montreal, the Rev. Dr. GW R. Cragg officiating. The wedding. music was played by Mr. George;

Bronze and yellow rliryszintlie-l the church.

The bride. who was given nwayi by her father. was in organza with a fitted bodice hat--i ing short sleeves, and a hoiiffani, appliqued skirt falling into

Mrs. Wright. the bride's mother. was in a gown of Wedgwood blue crepe. Little, and Mr. Ncilson sang dur- and accessories. and a lng the signing of the register ibouquet of pink Sweetheart roses. mother of the mums were used as decorations inllH'ldE8l'00m. Wore 1! SIOWH of 5811-

idal-wood crepe, with a hat and ac- cessories to match, and a corsage whltgbouquet of yellow roses. The reception was held in the York Room of the Windsor Hotel. Mirilicre white and pink roses decor-

and wore a rosewood

Mrs. .V1L'Coubrny,

cathedral train. Her fingertip veilialrd the bride's table.

of tulle illusion was held by a

Juliet cap of appiiqued organzznllefl for I-like Plllfld. and she carried a L'IlSl'Fit'lP hnuquetilTFW8lllYlK ln 5 KTPY flannel Suit. iivith which she Mrs; Janet xvngm, as maid gpand red accessories. and a Corsage mplbouqiiet of red roses. i The out-of-town guests included and M15g,Mrs. J. Wright, Virginia Flanagan. were in frocksilhe bride. End MR and M"- R- Oaten, of Toronto: Mrs. S. Smith. and Miss B-IV. lx'n,v, Laurie. Mr. James Laurie, Miss Carol Laurie, ford; Mr.

of gardenias and strphanptis.

honor for her sister. and bridesmaids, Miss Jane Wright, Miss Joyce McCouhrey,

of organza, fashioned with draped, fitted bodices, having: open neck- lines and short sleeves, and full ankle-length skirts, the nmid of honor being in emerald green, and the bridesmaids being in tiger, lily. and wore caps to match their, frocks.

GIVE Cold-Sick Child this Pleasant LAXATIVE relief

To keep bowels open without not i 5 owl-'1-ii'-i-'v

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IV) qh. conned tomalcu, or 3 lbs. rip: lomavau IV; cup: chopped onion: IVA cups rhoppnd celery I 1V4 cup: chopped grun pcppun CV2 teaspoon: rail 3 tablespoon! sugar M teaspoon pepper pl harpoon Colman'r Muunrd I lublnpoon Wuicutnrshlrn Sous VJ mp rldor vinegar '

If ripe tomatoes are used, peel and then chop. Combine with remaining ingredients, in or- der named. in a large kettle. Simmer, uncovered, 45 mine, or until quite thick. Pour into clean, hot inn and cover. Set on wire rack in a covered kettle, with boiling water to cover tops of jars, 1''. Ball 30 rnim., from time boiling re- sumes. Makes 3 to 4 pts. CW"

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Jane Smith, of Goose Miss Maude Mac- D. -and of I-Iemm'mg- and Mrs. R. Y. .Grnnt, The maid of ).,,,-m, ca,-.,of Ormstown: Mr. and Mrs. I. C. ,Thomson. Miss Ruth Thomson, and -"TI Miss Wilson, of Ottawa; 1G:-nrge McCouhrey, Mrs. George ,Bronkins, and Mrs. Blair Andrews, .0! Prince Edward Island. .

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from the sitter we forget that wcowe a certain amount of consideration to

the person who plays the role of

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time parcnt. How to make a g

sitter want to play a repeat pcrf

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nnce ? A snack or sob drink is always welcome. When you set a time limit, try not to abuse it. Outline ritter'a duties and don't soold her for negli- gence when you're to blame. And a bit of praise makes any job more

desirable. O O I

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Mdorn Etiquette Q IQUC lac

Q. In it always obligatory that I person give the reason for declin- ing an invitation?

A. While not obligatory, ft cornu- how taken the sharpness out of a refusal to give some explanation. And if one gives no reason, future invitations might not be received. Q. In it necessary to shake hands with every mom” of a. long receiving line?

A. Usually. yea. However. it is but to do what thou Ahead of you are doing. .It is most. important not on coop to chat with anyone when others are waiting in line behind

you.

Q. What in the beat. way for pu- enla to thank friends who have sent gifts to the new baby? A. It is always proper to write personal notes, expressing sincere nppzccinlion and inviting these people to come to see the new baby.

Boiler English" By D. O. Wllllnmn

i. What is wrong with this acn- tence? "Brown seemed very aur- prlsed when his brother failed to show up." .

2. What is the correct pronunci- l.l.ion of "frontier"?

3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Amanuenxla, amateur. amnthlst. amoeba.

4. What does the word "endow- ments" mean?

5. What L3 3. word beginning with ra that means "agreeable to reason"?

ANSWERS

1. Say, "Brown seemed very much surprised when his brother failed to appear." 2. Pronounce fron-ter, o as in on preferred. e an in tea. accent second syllable. 3. Amethyst. 4. Talents; gifts. ”l-lo was aided by strong, mental endow- ments." 5. Rational. .

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Q. How can I impart. a high pol- ish to my mahogany furniture?

A. First, rub the surface with lemon oil and then clean it off. After this. soft cheesecloth which has been treated with alcohol and patted only until the vapor re- mains, in rubbed quickly over the surface. which brings out a. clear, lustrous finish.

Q. What is a good emergency treatment for an overheated oven? A. Insert. pans of cold water. Q. How can I remove grease or oil spots from clothing?

A. To remove these spots from clothing, especially light suits. mix a little fuller'a earth into a. paste, spread it over the coiled part, and allow the mixture to dry thor- oughly. In doing so. it draws and absorb: the grease. Then take a

stiff brush. which will quickly re- move the dried earth. should come off with it.

The stain

Water spots may be easily re- moved from I. wuhable crepe dreu if the inside of the dress hem is rubbed over the spots.

Scratched lllvor to remove acntchan from allvor. mix enough putty powder with a little olive oil to make a paste. Rub this male on the silver with 1 soft cloth. Polish with chamoia. The scratches should iuppear.

Black Flropluo . If you with to blackan your are- place bricks. paint them either with ordinary black writing ink. or a

solution made of nlgroaine, an unl- llne dye which ilboluble in water.

A: the incoming train neared the Chicago Stock Yardl. I lady pu- aengar opened her bottle of smelling aalia.

soon the whole car was filled with a horrible odor. one former put. up with it u long at he could.

then shouted, "Madam. would you

mind puti.ln' the cork back in that bottle?"

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I ubiupounl corn uu-ck I onngu , , Hut milk and tour In double boiler; Add corn Itanh dlnolrod in 1 ulbiupoon cold milk. cook until think. Add egg yolks. lemon from

wliml and a ma luau. spread

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Llkareddotronamaptoim dlcatn I. route of travel. so we think In a like pattern now stand out the doing: of our day ; . . There were the steps of our round which ulnwal. without thought took care of the usual chore: before we went on to the baking and cookery because this has been mother day; of the threshing. True, not. in the earlier hours but once thel autumn run And wind had lifted the damp- ness of night showers.

"Whatever you do, Ellen" James said in n "life-and-death" tone at breakfast "see that you have plenty for us to anti"

"And apple plesi" Gagdon fall- holiday now. dlmpled.

"And home-baked bread" Jamie added. . , As it. happened these hours which,took us to this housewffery gave the farmers an opportunity to attend to matters of shipping and the bringing in of commercial feed as well.

"Could you guess what: we brought home in our truck along with the feed?" Mack asked his Grandfather when at; length the workers foregathered here to the threshing.

"Not another calfi" James ex- claimed. The little fellow nodded: "And not a bad one either!"

"I suppose your father hasn't heard that beef prices are fairly low?" James commented, with a. touch of sarcasm.

"Oh. yes, he knows" Mack re- joined," but anyway he 'buyed' this one . . . I don't think" he confided "he paid very much for him" James considered the buying for a moment. then "What breed is he?" he questioned.

"Oh. I can't nay" replied the four-past: inn. "1 think pretty - ell shorthom-he's mostly red any- way." , "A lightiah red?" Jame: queried, "or darker?"

"You needn't think I know all about him" the youngster laughed. "you'll just have to wait. and see for yourselfl"

"I guess" James smiled. "I'li see plenty of him before the winter is overl"

And when finally household carer were, if not in subjection at least in hand, we gathered in tow the three younger members of the Family, our object a basket. of ap- pies, and set. out for "the other farm."

"Let'slgo by way of the fields and woods" Gage suggested, "it's the very nicest way!"

so along the tawny fields and the amber of stubble: and entrancing wooda' lanes we came at length to that quiet old orchard a-dream in the sun. The srmll basket was soon filled with rosy-checked treasure and we chose to sit a while then on I sunny riaeiof the yard.

"We can see for quite a distance" Granddaughter offered between bites of her apple. "Farms and woods . . . houses and barns . . . sheep and cows . . ."

"And," Gage added rogufahly, "I can see a spring! I'm off now to have a drink. there. Anybody com- ing" he invited. "Then. one, two. three-and gol" And away they raced to taste its waters.

But homo came presently, with the delight and satisfaction of a harvest-time supper to brmg then a parting of the ways in the dusk. It is night now, one which came

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Now that physicians. surgeons and hospitals am agreed that early rising after operation is best for patient and everybody else, there comes the queation as to whether early rising after operation and al- lowing the patient to go home to his family in really but for him. The early rising in still considered the best treatment. but. for the patient to go home after the very

short stay in hospital in now receiving consideration from all concerned.

In "Annala of Western Medicine and Surgery," Dr. Norman Shure (College of Medical Evangelism) states that. "Early rising after sur- gical and obstetric procedures should be dissociated from early re- turn home." The advantages, if any. of early rising have no con- nection with early return home. During an illness, the patient be- comes a normal neurotic (used to expecting and receiving the extra attention given a sick individual). He regressed to a childhood pat- tern of dependency in which the doctor and nurses take on the role of parent figures. This dependency. like that of an infant or child, is not limited to organic needs, that 1.5, the actual needs of his illness. but includes psychologic (emotion- al) needs as well. When the acute illness is over, the patient faces the adjustment to the world, the couli- terpart of adolescence (ages 12 to la) in ordinary or normal develop- ment. He must, therefore, give up his parent. figures (now doctors and nurses) on whom he is dependent. and be able to cope with the world on his own.

"When a patient is allowed out of bed and is sent home from the hos- pital early. perhaps before he has had an opportunity to adjust, him- self and to give up his dependency, symptoms due to his emotions may develop. He may turn from' an or- dinary or normal neurotic to a pathologic or organic neurotic." "I-Ila convalescence (adolescence) may be too abrupt." If he is ex- ceedingly dependent and in need of support. (emotionally). he may be loath to give up the attention showered on him. Prolonged bed rest and hospital stay may well ex- aggregate or deepen his emotional llness.

We will get the idea behind Dr. shure's statements if we remem- ber how a youngster, or even an adult. showered with kindness be- cause of an illness. continues to look for this kindness even after his illness is long pant, when he should hie learning to face hLs responsibili- t es.

In these cases of early rising after an illness. the family doctor. knowing the patient best, 1.5 there- fore best able to state when his going-home day has arrived for his own and his family's sake.

in over the farmsteads on silent silky wings. What in weather lies for the farmers, we wonder, beyond the bend of the dark? Continuing fair weather to encourage the field- work-or the delayment of showers? In either event. there will be still on farms "5. work to do."

Until tomorrow - - - - Diary ----Good-night.-c....

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Women Inventors . llolll Their own

(New York '11:: amino)

Pennsylvania women inventor: held their own with their male counterparts in the nineteenth century. Women received pltgntg in every domutlo field from the United sum Patent Office, oc- cozding to the Pennsylvania De- partment of Oomrnerce.

The scope of their inventions ranged from the griddle to the zirdle. Iron quaint. and drlicnto devices for the arrangement or flowerlrtha display of plcturu or the cleaning of wallpaper, to me. chanicalcontn-ivances for the manu- facture of barrells, the operation of hydraulic Cnzlnes and the trans- mlslllm Of Power to cable can. Louisa Blooper of. Philadelphia patented on March 13. 1887, a me- chanical devlca for freeing a run- away horse from n four-wheeled carriage. Operated by I touch of a. finger, the device enabled the horse to go his own way and per- mftted the carriage" to come to a stop with its passengers unharmed. A patent was given to Mario Beasley cf Philadelphia in 1880 for a life raft that was "fireproof. com- pact, safe and readily Launched and instantly available."

Possibly the most famous inven- tion of a Pennsylvania woman is

ceived in 1871 a patent tor a flat- lrcn with a detachable handle. At one time the Potts flntlmn was a standard feature of the American home.

For Tomorrow

THIS day is an excellent one in which to get the most out of your creative talents and hobblu. but take the time to make detailed plans before starting any project. Be sure. too, that any agreements or deciaio In you make are clearly understood by all concerned. Have them in writing.

The evening hours favor court.- shlp and romance. social activities and participation in any program which has the welfare of the coni- munity or the nation at heart. There, are also splendid aspects for beginning long-range projects.

For the Blrthdny

If tomorrow is your birthday. you are about to enter 1. period which is favorable from a material standpoint and for furthering af- fairs of a. reasonable nature.

Financial matter-a may occupy a paramount position in your thoughts. but you have no cause for pessimism here. iapportunities for showing prom; abound during Nov- ember. with emphasis on real er- tate transaction: or business deal: involving printing, designing. paint- ing. salesmanship in also in one aspect.

By the end of the year. business transactions undertaken at this time should be concluded satisfac- torily, no that at the beginning of 1954. you should find yourself clos- er to achieving your ambitions than you believed possible during 1953. Unforeseen benefits may accrue through travel in the early spring. through a new invention or the favor of someone in authority.

A child born on this day will be intelligent and ambitious but

strongly opinionated.

This Ml!

credited to Mary Potts, who re-D

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"Muriel Nissan '

way out.

Loves Married Man G'l S H ' ' . . 'LsT.'.isi3pLiJJ"'i5i'l?s?Yniiili.i;”” A

in DIX: My problem begin? like so many others-"1 fell dmge t I: married man in my office -but I think there is truly 5 I mtogimmg 9 to my cue. The man was married only two months whm

.M was so unhappy that he spent. most. of his evening: drink- ing. His wife refuted to leave her old neighborhood to move into A beautiful home he had built for her. and when he lriaialed on the move. rho refused to do anything to fix up the house inllde. About 1 year later hir

wife became a mother. yet. due to home conditions, he was drinking quite heavily. I pulled him out or this. and for six months he hasn't. had a drink. There has been no affair between us. I know I love him, but I don't. know how he feels toward me. If I go 3,- way, he'll take to drinking again. What. nhall I

do?

LUOILLE K.

ANSWER: You are not in a. particularly enviable role. You are being used as a support by a. man who hasn't the stamina. to face his problems without some outside stimulus. If his marriage failed after so short a period as two months, there certainly must have been some indication. during the court-

ing period. that he and the girl were incompatible. My, guess is that he married her as the line of least. resistance, Just as he is now relying on you to keep him away from liquor which, in its turn. proved the easlen

The man's wife may have many shortcomings. like most young btfdu. Artificial means of escape provide no aolutlon and the man has