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It is Better to Employ Some One to Take Care of a Ilailing Mother-in-Law Than to Move in With Her and do the Work Yourself

EJi-ar Miss Dir-I am miirried o0 the best man in the world and We hTll as happy together as two people could be. But now I am con- fronted ii ‘Ill zi problem that threatens to wreck all of our contentment. 1t - is this: His people want us to break up our home and go and live with them bﬁvﬂiise hi5 mother is sick most of the lime. My iri-IEIWS are fine. I love them \'t‘i‘y inuch and B1103! are fond of me, but. l have a hunch that ll we went to live together ive would fall out. Of course, I'll go if I have to, but I 010R‘! think it is tlic right. thing to do. And what I suggest doing is for my husband and his sister to hire ft “onion to go and Slay with the old people mid do the work, Don't you think that fair enough? My husband doesn't make big money. MRS. C. E. D.

Answer:

Your pliin is the sensible one. and it Will save All 01' you u. 10L of 111E361)‘ if you Dill. it through. 1t will .\;l\‘C you so much grief that w» you ‘o deny yourself ZlllHOSL iinylliiiii; lll 0l'(ll‘l' to hire o. Wﬂillﬂn l-O

‘-i wit" lllllllll‘i‘—lll<l2l.\\' rii-ili ." lllllll to go yourself, _ <'\'lllL'[\l to Mly tliiu. in lillllllltk$ (llhrllltﬁt) makes the heart llllll. generally" We lon- oiir l'(‘]f\ll\ s, and especially our Lilli to ilni llllll-lllll oi‘ splice there is DUUYPPU us. We of lliixso whom ',\l' sT-i- only oi-eu. oiially when we hiive l \\ll\'ll our iiilirresls‘ do not conflict. 1nd diiy out. whose whims and pec- . "qriiviiiiiitg wayg “1- lutw to stiind 1 i,» Mo. (.111 Irv-ll‘. And the results; iii-e quarrels

m‘ ‘ill iln- liiipiiiiivss of so many" people. l);l.ll(l grasp l-liis one hllllilli‘ fiiut: ‘llilil- . mother's house and iiiko chin-gt: of it king .wo ﬁllllllﬁll to niiike supremo sacrifices. He. i5 down oll‘ of the throne she hzis OCFlllllfKl ever t. lll'l' homo as it bride. He is iisking lier to i-rs over which she liiis ruled for thirty KNIT-h; . p o1 tin pies that she has ﬂl\\'l\_\'.s' miidv lit-cording to . i .\ .ipi-, wiiiel; is tis inﬂexible as the luiv 0t the Aledes Mid

oii to make yourself n. slave in another woman's house; D0 subject to her orders; to have no freedom to EVER ‘Utllﬂlb of a room, and for all your toil and Sacrifices to d hut criticsm and complaints,

llvlllld thinks that this adjustment of two women can be y 1\ll(l harmoniously, he knows mighty litilc of the feminine It simply can't be done. No dciiigiiter-in-laiv can come in . nioilier-in-luvv out of her own house without friction, for no t -iii-liiiv is enough of o rubber stomp to be Willing to mcekiy d0 lr-lii-liiiws bidding in a house in which she is doing all 0f the in). iiro bound to differ on a thousand little points.

;ii>.v of one friniily quiirrel WllOéC rancor hits survived for more x yiiiin» in which the inotiier-iii-ltiiv llllCl ditughter-iii-laiv it'll “HY lo wash u. pitcher.

ii-nvst iidvicc to you is to pay ll servant to go and take C1170 1 -l:iw and stoy in your own home. It will save the hill)- ied.

iii the career conference for women recently held in Aiiirie Doremus, the pcrsoniil director‘ of the Philadel- .u the ioiloii-ing udVlCc to Joli-seeking sills. She said: iu1./._\" llllll‘ bobs, sleeveless dresses, lipstick, too much ~<<l iiiitternails." I can lldd that iii the large corPW‘ 1 .uii associated no girl who had any of these habits id iis .in applicant for a lob, no nizitteiawhalt. lier quali- ~.;iii~ii<i.~.iioiis. Pei-naps ll. will help some Qllicr girl to i J lo puss iliis tip uiong. SOCRATES.

wli‘, i: wil‘ for in trying to mcikc themselves uttructivc millly opposite results and by their overuse 0t COSIIIBF-lvs , u .ii; impression of frivolity imd ﬁlghtiness that makes l.‘ turn 'lll‘ill clown. _

.i0 Wiliiifl mint to employ a girl who looked as if lier whole mind i.. on lier hiiir? Who would ivziiit to have to look at a. i; notes whose fmgcniails looked like claws that had dud? And who would feel than. they could trust. any ', r iii business to u gul ivhose clothes showed that she did ii mil/ugh good sense and jlldgmel" W even bu)’ B (U955 m‘ a Pa“

zrls think they make themselves atlﬁictive by dressing UP 1°? i ii v v. eri: going to ri party, but, they make it slid llllSV-‘iliﬁ- s girl should look her port. ‘ She should be neatly, Simil- Innt all dikcd out in gewgaus as if she were a 506ml)’ to it reception. _

hy Dix——Wilut. should a girl do who _needs_the Job She HOW .n iiiiils the men who come into the 05109, friends of 1161" 9m- m lier? What should she do when o. miln Elie . on“ or twice in n business way tries to kiss her? ESTELLE.

u have the come-hither look in your eye, cut it'out and make hi? to. Keep them fixed on your work. Dont look like the ii git; i-.i.i'. mitkes a man think that he might make 5- sl-“b at dm"

I)li\llll_\‘. A girl who is all (loliotl up like the Queen of Sheba . 3]-,\'_i.,< "H; i; [ho beholder tihink that she. might not. be averse t0 SWPPlnZ out, “m1 luld got l' .-lf ready to g0 pllives mid have good times.

Don't ..<-t. iiunz. .il or hysterical and burst into tears when strange linen‘ pry you on; TOISN.‘ how far you will go. Liiiigh it ofi‘. butmaktladylotlrnelége Bl')llll(l r-oiivinciiig. I have never known B. man whom a giil c? DIX out ii silo aims really bent on doing it. D0301"- -

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"I cativasscd them all days age.“ said the voice from New X..i..

flop didn't work. uoitlieb, pleiise, and iell liei- lni starting home? Thank you. And if Marianne-Hubert takes steps to bri-iik the contract don't, oppose her, l'll be glad to get, out now. There's no point now in continuing on. Sci: you when 1 get home. (joodbyf

No, there wiis no point in (‘wit- licb staying on with ilie iirni. He had giiiiibled for large stiikes. The few iliousiind dollars he had lost of lllt fifty ‘itioiisiuid lie had put up wiis ll drop iii the bucket. The bulk was still untouched. If he could witlidruiv uiid Luke his money with liini, he would be B, fool if he didn't. No, there ivos nothing for Gottlieb to ivorry about. He was a. very ricii mini and this deal was just. liLile incident in his busy life to be (llhllll5SBd and forgotten.

“So it's a ' ivasliout?” asked O'Hara.

Julicts face told the story more clearly than her part of the tele- phone conversation. "My great scheme isn't. worth two cents," she said in a muffled voice.

“That's ﬁne!" returned O'Hara. steadily. “I'm glad."

Her pencil rolled of!’ the desk arid neither of them made a. move to pick it up.

“There was nothing the matter with the iticri." Juliet said in be- wilderment. "Nobody-I don't care who they lll'8-—~€V6I‘ had a. sounder business idea. Gottlieb himself thought it was sensational. I'll never understand why 1t didn't, go." It looked as though tears were about to ﬂoodiiito her eyes.

Her high position, the security she had tried so sincerely to create had been wiped out by a. common- place telephone call from New York. Hundreds of such conversa- tions went over the wire every day from coast to coast. Any telephone operator listening, an would have found 1t unutberably" ry. . Her whole life had been like this —high hopes and then the lnevi-.

It ivzis it grout idea. but it

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table sickening climax. O'Hara. sow it all in her face, and, for once” gave more attention to her dlsttessj than to his own.

“Don't, take it to heart,” he said. “After all, it makes eveiything easier for us."

“Does it?"

“Of course-there's nothing left here to stick with. Be sensible, Ju- liet. You've had your day up at. the top, and iii-hut. did it amount to? Gottlieb couldn't put the deal over. Madame Hiibcrt. will soon be buck in the saddle. Gottlleb couldn't hold her to the contract even if he still wants to. Sch can prove that she signed it while she was delirious at the point of death-in a hos- pital. And after what happened last. night, she'll never forgive you in this world!"

It was all so ruthlessly clear that Juliet attempted no argument. She knew the truth as well as O'Hara. The pencil that rolled off the deski had been symbolic.

"There's nothing left but to listen to reason." O'Hara told her_ coming closer. “What fools we'd be to eat our heart out over a. business that means nothing to either 0f us."

“It wasn't just It business," said Juliet. Tcars welled in her heart rind presently they reached hei- eyes with itn uncontrollable blur. “I thought it was my whole life . .

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CHAPTER XXXV

After the first tears others came easily and she mode no effort to stop tliem-ligiit worm tears that curried in solution her dissolved hopes, her pride and lier stilt-reli- ance. The brightness and vlvaclty that had been Juliet. Rankin melted and escaped in little gulplng sounds.

She hid her face in her 8.11115 on

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ltop of the desk and sobbed gently

like a tired child.

O'H_zirn, slriiitling over, like most . men, Sllllllly could not stand to sec o. woman ivcop, and lie would havi- done anything to stop her. Th..- ‘only thing lie knew to do was to ,put. his arms iii-ound her, an awk- ywaril proceeding, but he managed it, and bending’ over whispered ‘those meaningfess endetirinents ; that are zilivoys so inadequate uiilil ‘ a. ivomiin has had her ciy out. -

l Hal. lifting her he persuaded her.

‘to get up from the desk and go home. When she was on lier feet ,:~lie was slill in his arms. lier wet ‘fiico pressed zigainst- the worm lapel gof his cont. l The staunch solidity of his body iwris a blessed consolation to Juliet ,His arms around lier were strong. :Tll€l'€ was no passion in his em- brace, Just; a sweet enveloping ten- derness that; crept into her body and soothed every exhausted nerves. Thus she clung to him and in her tired helplessness O'Hara felt, odd- ly enough, an inexplicable tremor of melancholy, when the joy of vic- tory should have been singing in his heart. '

"I don't think," said Juliet mourniuliy, "I'll ever come buck to my office again."

But O'Hara patted her on the back and produced one of his old grins.

“Certainly you'll come back and wind up your affairs iii ship-shape style." he sold ciicoiirzigingly. “A defeat isn't a rout, and you haven't an ounce of panic in your whole system. As a matter of fact. your ideas are still worth big money.

Gottlieb hopprd not you. When

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the tide turned again. him. he quit cold You're quitting the ln-stltlllﬂ. but the reasons different.”

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before she knew it. irris smiling again and her head was a little

higher. "You're quitting this joint.’ said O'Hara firmly. “becziipc you've

foiindsomethlng better to do with your life." O O O

The manager of Juliets apart- ment house. hovering in the tapes- tried and gilded lobby saw hei- come in through the revolving door in mid-afternoon, a marked depar- ture from her established custom. Behind her come O'Hara, with the possessive look of a. man in love on his serious face.

Themanager, from long experi- ence wlth ‘tenants, was adept in reading expressions. and he knew that Juliet had not, as yet found liappines. After her storm of tears Juliet looked as though she had, indeed, been through a great deal.

He came across the lobby and

joined them atiolegetlcally as they waited for the elevator. w "Oh, Miss Rankin-about the dis- turbance last night. I hope you won't think badly of us for inves- rtlgatlng So sorry-J’

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Today I have grown taller from walking with the trees, The seven sister poplars who go softly in a. line; But I think my heart is whiter for its parley with a star ‘Phat trembled out at. nightfall and hung above the pine. The call-note of a. redblrd from the cedars in the dusk Woke his happy mate within one to answer free and fine; But a. sudden angel beckoned from a. column of blue smoke- ' 10rd, who am I that they should stoop. these holy folk thine , —8e1ected.

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For jellled salads moulds should be coated with a thin film of wld water or salad oll before turnfiig in the salad mixture; the oil is prefer- able, slnoe ft does not harden dur- ing chilling, but leaves a smooth surface which assures easy turn- ing-out of the chilled mould.

ATTRACTIVE DESSERT.

Them are few more attractive desserts than simply a. mixture _ of sweetened fresh fruits, folded into whipped cream and piled into a. hollowed-out sponge cake shell; a whole sponge cake or individuals may be used for this purpose — garnish either with sections. or slices of fruit.

THIS JELLIED DISH CALLS FOR COOKED HAM

If you're puzzled about what you'll do with that leftover ham in the refrigerator, this recipe may be a. help.

l-4 cup cold water, 1 tablespoon gelatlne, 2 tables "is brown sugar, 1 cup hot water or hot canned pineapple juice, 1-4 cup mild vine- gar, 1-4 teaspoon paprika. 2 cups cooked ham chopped, 1-2 cup canned pineapple cut in small pieces. 0 slices canned pineapple.

Method:--Pour cold water in I bowl and sprinkle gelatlne over it. Add sugar and hot water or pine-

Blmle Juice and stir until sugar and gelatlne are dissolved. Add vinegar and paprika. Cool and

when beginning to thicken . add ham and pineapple pieces. Rinse

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ﬁrm, unmold on dices of plun- apple. Garnish with lettuce or por- slay.

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when la there a cook with so

so dead she hasn't 5181164" it" culinary worlds to conquer '1 We ‘

do. And yet none of us M81111 make the moat of all the foo

Available, wiimi suasew will "l thing to do is to combine the ol tried and true dishes into w! oonimctions. _ .

Remember the famillls 5UP“! the am time your spirit of "W" tui-e prompted you to serve raw ctr rota cut m narrow BWPS- "m" there ltwu lust a step w Mid 1W to a salad with Bmted raw beet-i-

Even such old food affinities toast and e88 become dllferen

CASUAL COFFURE BEST FOR. THE COLLEGE GIRL Easy-to-make varieties of current hair models are best for the col- lege girl. She will want. her

shining locks brushed upward at the book and backward from her brow, of course, but she will want to be perfectly sum that the arrangement from then on is casual and fresh-looking and slmpe to whisk into place.

If you want to go to college with your hair brushed upward and fixed in a. roll that extends. coronet fashion, all around your head (Pai-lslennes like this one). better have your hali- cub quite short. Otherwise. you'll have too much trouble coaxing the long ends back into a roll. If you have had a. fine permanent on the ends of your hali- why not a gorlfled ver-

when served as an e88 11°“- “m” is merely the stlﬁly 119mm‘ n‘: white poled on buttered toast vii v bit of butter and the unbroken e51’ you; dmppgd m the centre.‘ SJ‘ and-pepper are sprinkled our] top and the combination is lilil 1* _‘ moderately hot oven i375 dvsrtk 1i.) until the es: is set- It “'11) “'1 about ten minutes. It's a spend idea for breakfast.

“mo. nests" Cold meat platters too. sill" g

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slon of your old favorite, the _ cum Sm wlndblown bob? §§u?1;§*;f',;f”,§§§h2§, pink 3 baked ham, the creamy willie o MARKED SHEETS snurury cold roast pork. the Pl“ "ﬁlm. ggnqymgmq breast of chicken and the. so mu _____ pink of tongue. Garnish wit all)‘ Anyone who has made beds m!“ 9nd 9°!“ 111195 "miemdish knows it is not always easy to 511°" °1 cucumber a and a place a. sheet in exactly the right with "l" 5km it" °"-

ripe olive for the centre. Sllvfllit: thin slices of dill pickle milk" 5 e and leaves tf you want to imcm border around the edize v! ‘h’: pa“ ter. Half moons of sliced but

position for sleeping comfort with- out a great deal of pulling and ud- justlng and a. number of trips around the head. A new idea that

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proper place to turn it under so that it is anchored securely to the bed and at the same time gives ample room for comfort.

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. c. sum m dutch‘: with cold cuts of meat. Use r11; shredded mixed Kiwis Emil“ Th. them in l. iiirse "M W" ,0 should be endlva cut in milk" _ “mm chopped chicory. In t watercress and romalnﬂ- ﬁ u, centre place s. rosette of "lean tomato garnished in the d: _ with a radish rose. Berve ahlch lng g! cocktnllmslfluce to W adde a sP°° French dresslnd. B duh "Idrclfeg; vinegar and freshly 8mm‘ m, pud

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