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Disillusloning Experience" Qf Young Actress

Dear Mary I-lawortb: I grew up in a small town. My parents are average salaried people, who've always felt the pinch of necessity. They are very high strung. and home life was harried,

I was taught to accept the fact that we were working people. and not to hope for better things. I rejected this prospect; but any ambitions I ever had were firmly squelclied. 1 was told not to put on airs.

I came to Manhattan "six ago. against their wishes, to become an actress. I've studied hard, and acted in Little Theatre play! and oir-Broadway produc- tions, meanwhile working to sup- port myself-which I've done. suc- cessfully. though the Job! dont in- terest me. ,

I realize now that it is impos- sible to pursue a stage career. without losing the job security I must have in order to live. I have always been popular with men and dated frequently; and have had three marriage proposals. which I refused. as I wasnt in love.

WANTED AN AFFAIR .

About two years ago I met. a young doctor and we dated stead- ily for about six months and had wonderful times together. I was greatly in love with him and he led me to believe he returned my feelings. Then out of the blue he urged an affair. I felt stunned. and naturally refused, explaming my A He. ' surprised and almost angry that I would expect him to marry me. Later he apologized. but said he wouldn't date me again, and he never has. (

The experience seems to have unnerved me completely. I have lost all self-confidence. I have no interest in anything any more; but I do want to help myself before I get more muddled. Can you give me guidance: D.K.

RUTHLESS SNOBBERY

Dear D.l(.: It appears that the doctor was a snob and a stinker, who took to his heels after show- ing his hand. when he found you weren't as tinsel as he had eup-

posed.

No doubt you were greatly in love with hlin. as you say. But still, it isn't the simple factor oi "disappointment in love" that is getting you down. Rather. it is the ruthless snobbery of his acorn- fui rejecting attitude towards your aspirations of being an honest sweetheart (and eventually his wife). that "kills your soul." es the saying goes, and blighta your interest in ilvin .

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moralized you to the core," lecause it seems to co borate your par- ents' dreary" caching, that you were born to be underprivileged, and mutn't bid for better things.

FAITH IN YOURSELF

But. fortunately, you are stir- ging to help yourself-in writing this letter. asking-for guidance. The next step is to enlist outside help. specialist help. in losing the grip of the past on your present reflexes.

Deliverance from evil, in your experience. will consist in coming awake to the true reality of your ability to be and do, in acced- ance with your bedrock faith in yourself, as a worthwhile member of the human race. Several great churches in your city provide a blend of pastoral and psychiatric counselling. M.li.

Mary Iiaworth counsels through her column. not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write to her in care of this iiewsplner. K

KEEP IN TRIM Triumphant Re

Good Losers On Course

or its "My husband is so proud 0!, ml

ducer beamed.

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and has cut his appetite down to heavily. '

grand total

of the family. i FOOD HABITS CHANGED

roughly from 35 to 55, mostly among homemak,a.

he of the group is that the real secret of success is -you have to want to. A stronz desire. a knowledge of nutrition,

for lpging n pounds," a 5'1" re-

"My 11-year-old daughter has slimmed down 15 pounds and fldcnce, ,another, member of the olaa.s told us. show- tng a picture of her lovely daugh-

er.

"My husband lost 2215 pounds size," a third dieter announced

It was the triumphant occasion of our "Weighing In" party six weeks after the start of my sum- ming Course at the YWCA in Washington, D.C. Twenty - five jubilant dieters reported and the of poundage lost among those who weighed in was 262 pounds-that's not counting the pounds lost by other member.

The real proof of the Scientific Wonder Diet is not so much the tinl weight loss. but the changed food habits and the keeping slim follow-up. In February, -47 over- weighta enrolled, and 1 soon dron- pad out. some of the members weighed over 200, while . others were from 20 to 50 pounds over- weight. The age weight was

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and having a goal are all import ant factors.

Perhaps the best news of all was the family p ticlpation. it appears that ,when om changes the character of the meals, other overweights in thezfamily change ttgir food habits and slim down

BTBEAMLINING SUCCESS

Exercise "slimnastics" directed by Marie Svoboda. physical edu- cation graduate of Prague Uni- versity, were a streamlining suc- cess,'particularly due to the fact that 20 members re-enrolled in the exercise course. of the 25 who measured up, here are the total inches lost: Waist, 75 inches; ab- domen. Nl inches; hips 67 inches; bust alterations were as needed.

Luncheon was served , buffet style, with all calories marked. For a total of 400 calories, the dieters enjoyed sliced turkey: lean ham: devilled egg half, slimming style; thin allce oi rye bread: celery and carrot sticks. sliced tomatoes; fresh peaches; tea or coffee. The 400 calories in- aluded seconds on the sliced tur-

ey.

It was good psychology to set that luncheon date. The prospect of weighing in on June 4 had kept the dieters enthusiastically on their course. Now slimming food habits are theirs for keeps. The members who are not yet down to normal weight exchanged tele- phone numbers and plan to spur each other on.

Federation Oi

Women Wanls Penal Reform

By 01.! DAUM - Canadian Press Staff Writer KINGSTON, Ont. (CP) - Since

formation in 1919 the Canadian Federation of University women, whose leading project is advance- ment of education, has invested 3135.000 in scholiirs, most of them Canadian.

Interviewed at the annual coun- cil meeting here, executive mem- bersfsaid that the 7.500-member federation is proud, but not satis- fied." with its fellowship award achievements. -

Until now they have awarded four fellowships annually. ranging from 31.000 to 31.500. to university graduates for postgraduate stud-

s.

ENLARGES PROGRAM

Next the program will be en- larged with another 31,200 award named after Dr. A. Vibert Doug- las, dean of women at Queen's University here.

President Doris B. Saunders of

lnnipeg, winner of one of the federation'a first fellowships, said the new award was named for Dr. Douglas because the group feels she is one of ,Cnnada's outstand- ing women.

The only Canadian to have been president of the International Fed- eration of University Women. Dr. Douglas is one of the few women today who thinks in international rather than national terms, Miss Sanders said.

In her honor the Canadian fed- grating is giving the new annual fellowship to the international body to award to a student any- where in the world whom it thinks is most deserving.

' lniversiiy

In addition, local university women's clubs throughout Canada spend about 850,000 every three years to assist university under- gsldllltcl. Since 1928 the interna- tional federation has contributed :lll50.000 to scholars from 26 coun-

es. '

EDUCATIONAL WORK

Another phase of the university women's education work is to arouse and sustain interest in public affairs and in the status of women.

are currently agitating forpenal reforms, saying the emphasis in prisons should be on rehabilitation not punishment.

They also suggest that unem- ployment insurance be provided for ex-prisoners who have diffi- culty finding jobs after release. They say it may prevent offend- ers from repeating crimes.

The Canadian federation. whose unofficial motto is Study. Recom- mend, Act, also advocates treat- ment for as many criminal sexual psychopaths as possible and that those who do not benefit be con- fined to institutions.

Strong supporter for equal pay for equal work. the federation en- courages qualified women to stand for election to public offices. Mem- bers are reminded that when a

In the public affairs field they ,

qualified woman does agree to run for public office she needs their vote and support throughout her term.

VARIOUS STUDIES

The federation. which comprises It local groups. also is studying problems of older women work- ers. currcnt shortages of nurses

C. G. I. T. And Explorer Closing

A beautiful and impressive ser- vice was held in Borden United

Church on Sunday evening. June 17. at 7.3), when three Explorers and twelve C.G.I.'i'. girls took part in Graduation Exercises. Carol Love was in charge of the service. Mrs. Herbert Maclfenzlel Intermediate C.G.I.T. leader, told of the purpose of the service. scrip- ture was read by Bonnie Macbeaa and Dianne Gilllspie led in pr 'ihe offering was received by ar- bara y and Marjory Walsh. Three Explorers. Diane Learti. Norma Mackenzie, and Sandra Walsh graduated to C.G.l.'!'. after hlvlns completed threeyears of exploration under the leadership of Mrs. Herbert MICKIDIII, Mrs. lorne Cousins and their Present councillor. Miss Catherine oi-air. who conducted the graduation ex- ercises and seated and: girl I .

Mothers". On behalf of the girls presentations were made to Mrs. Macltenzie, Miss Craig, Miss Toomba and Mrs. Coggins.

Refreshments were served by Phyllis Trenholm, Hazel MacKen- zie, Carol Currie, Eleanor Stordy, Shelvie Bell. Irene Leard. Betty Campbell. Mrs. Heath Gordon, president of Social Club thanked the girls for a pleasant and in- splrin evening. to which Eliza- beth ead responded.

Rev. G.A. Cowper-Smith pro- nouncedthe benediction and every- one formed a circle and closed

th Taps.

Ltlle executive.

and t s, possibilities for an accelerated curriculum for the brighter child and laws. particu- larly the Dominion Succession Duty Act, affecting women.

The federation is cautious. it does not make recommendations without first thoroughly studying a subject because, it says, ignor- ance in action is dangerous.

"If our rnembea continue to utilize their university training in helping solve problenia of com-

unitles we may yet play a use- ful part in counte acting the de- structive forces that today are threatening our way of life." says

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by CAROLYN WILLETT

CANADIAN Press Staff Writer

0'l'i'AWA (CP) - With a pro- posed new system of sizing chil- dren's clothing, it won't matter whether youngsters are tall. short or chubby. If mother has a tape measure. she will Le able to buy clothes that fit her family. .smulard sizes, based on body measur 's rather than on age or weight and height, have been advocat d by housewive s and most Canadian shoppers for many years. .

The first progress report of the government specification board's committee on standard garment sizes says it will be months before garments manufactured to body measurements on the mar- ket. -

MAKING PROGRESS

But standard sizes for children's clothing are inching closer to reality with garment trials--using clothes made to specifications sug- gested by the committee-sched uied to be held here this summer or next fall.

Once chldlrc-n's sizes are set- tled the committce, with its manu- facturer, retailer and consumer representatives, will move on to detailed studies of standard sizes

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Standard Sized Children's -Clohiing ls Inching Nearer

for women's and men' wear. report said the suggested sizing system for children's wear would fit ap- proximately 90 per cent of Can- ada's ; to 17 age class and would provide 17 size groupings.

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first

It now must decide on a speci- hed manufacturers the differences between body and garment measurements. It will also ensure uniformity of fit in clothes made by different

pattern

For the 10 per' cent of the youngsters who might not fit into the suggested 17 size groupirgs, measurement data will be col- lected and made advallable to specialty manufacturers.

The clothing being studied by

compiled from body 11. measurements of 150,000 Ameri- can children and 300 Canadians. Scientific analysis by the Ontario Research Foundation showed that modifications the American data could be'used to an-. develop a Canadian line system.

ALLOWS FOR CHANGES

The committee, on the work since 1953, suggests that a stan- dard children's clothing.size be based on chest-hip and waist-hip measurements and developed sep- arately for boys and girls to al- low for changes in body propor-

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LET'S EAT

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"This evening. Madame, may I have the pleasure of taking you to a newly reopened famous dining place?" invited the Chef.

A walk of just five minutes brought us to the Hotel Biltmore. We walked up I short flight of steps into the Bowman Room.

JAZZED-UP DECOR.

”Bui. Chef, this has been closed for several years. The last time i was here the entire decor was Sat- zed up in black and white. Even glhe Enid chandeliers had bees! covcrcd with paint."

”Alsn. Madame, the elaborate lamps and the carved walls were hidden with paint. It was an ar- ilSll(' rrinie. But the management called in Raymond Loewy, the famous decorator, who CXPl0N3d

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W.l. PRESIDENT

MRS. .i.W. ADAMS

Mrs A W. Adams, president of c lei-(ls-raled Women's institutes Will be a guest of the Prince Ed- vlaril island Women's Institutes at

eir annual convention in Prince of Wales College.

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The committee has also pro- Posed that at first a number sim- ilar In the "size" usd now would appear on a label, in addition to the control measurements. llIDI('L'L0l.'S SIZING

Sizing by age is "ridiculous" says Mrs. Muriel W. Weaterburn of Ottawa, a committee member representing the Canadian Assad- aiion of Consumers.

The mother of two children aged 8 and 5, Mrs. Weatherburn says one look at the varying shapes and

sizes of children lined up by age for picnic racing should be proof mough that determining size by

A REAL LESSON

"This l'0(llTl carries I real les- son to liomemakers. Chef. Many of us have beautiful wood Panel- ing, fireplat-i-5 and pieces of fur- niture, their beauty hidden under paint. Instead of adding more paint, let's remove it and Ieveal the original real beauty,"

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eral chickens from which they re. fused to be separated, the then- tre management provided quart- ers for the animals in the lobby during the show.

age is unsatisfactory. "Manufacturing and shopping by body measurements is the only way in make sure clothing will fit." she said in an interview.

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bread; celery, jcllied gumbo soup; broiled nilgnon with French potato balls; fresh aspar- agus: tossed lettuce bowl; lemon sherbet with strawberries; cafe oir .

Note: For family service. you ' could use broiled sirloin or but-

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the saucei: a choice of asparagus or salad For dessert, lemon sher- bet with sugared sliced strawber-

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basic cooking could prepare and serve this dinner." observed our Chef "But the different touches are adapted to quick and easy home preparation"

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Jellied Gumbo Soup: Add 1 en-

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l , all the suriai-es under 19 layers waie r. Heat 1 410'; oz! can the ",”m"'"" mcludes ”."l"we5"' of paint, removed it and restored chicken gumbo in boiling. Stir in undeim-ar, sweaters. shirts, over- the gelatin,

When dissolved. arid 1 tsp. lemon

juice. Chill, refrigerate until be- ginning to thicken; stir and re- frigerate again until firm. Serve in cups. Garnish with cross and lemon wedges.

Sauce Bearnaissv Slice 1 peeled Add 3 tbsp. mild ider vinegar and 2 tbsp. tarragon

vinegar. Simmer 2 min.

Beat the yolks of 3 eggs to- gether with l-.'i tsp. salt, is tsp.

cayenne and ”z tsp. flour. Strain

in the vinegar. Cook and stir over hot water until the mixture thick- ens.

Remove from the heat. Beat in tbsp. butter, VI tsp. at a time.

Serve hot.

The Chef's final advice ' In dressing the lettuce salad. rst rub the bowl with garlic. For

tossing, use 3 parts olive oil and not more than 1 part vinegar in the authentic French style.

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