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THE GUARDIAN

JUNE 18, 1952

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Modern Etlquetio

By Robert: Me

That Body Of Yours

By June: W. aimon.' nu).

Q. What is the proper procedure when a man and woman enter any public or private vehicle?

A. The woman always precedes her male escort when entering any vehicle, and he assists her. The woman seats herself at the farther side of the seat, unless there is a special reason for an- other arrangement.

Q. Is it. necessary to have some- one lay the appropriate music at it. house wedding. or is a record player in good taste?

A. The record player is in quite good taste, and is proving very popular at today's home weddings.

Q. Is it good manners ever to take bread at the table with the fork?

A. Never, under any circum- stances. is it permissible to lift bread with the fork.

ousehold Scrapbook?

By Roberta Lee 193 nmoml White Dresses

To keep the white silk sport dresses snowy white wash in cold water and white suds, and dry in I. dark place. If washed before they are allowed to soil very badly, it is not difficult to get. the soil out with colder water.

Bamboo Rake

A bamboo rake is a good invest- nent for the lawn. It is easier to handle than a steel rake, and its flexible prongs will remove the leaves and grass without injuring To grass.

Tar status If there are tar stains on silk

or worsted materials, try rubbing them with alcohol.

KVW Cook's Corner Orange Custard Pie

8 eggs

ll. cups sugar

1 2-3 cups evaporated milk (1

tall can).

1 1-3 cups orange juice

2 teaspoons orange rind, grated

Beat 1 whole egg and 2 eg.-z yolks. Add 1 cup of sugar; blend well. Add the evaporated milk, orange juice and rind. Pour into an unbaked pastry shell and bake 35 to 40 minutes in a hot ovcn. 425 degrees F. Cool slightly and cover with a. meringue made with 2 egg whites and 4 tablespoons sugar.

Brown in a. moderate oven, 350 degrees F. about 20 minutes. or until nicely browned.

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THE VALUE OF OUT-PATIENT MENTAL CLINICS

Just a few years ago it was rea- lized that, at the rate. at which our mental hospitals were filling up, eventually one-half of the pop- ulation would be needed to care for the other half, which would be confined in these hospitals. For- tunately, the shock method of treat- ment by insulin, metrami and elec- tricity was discovered. A large per- centage of cases were cured and many patients improve to the point where thye were no longer in need of special care.

However, our mental specialists. by means of out-patient clinics, are able to treat many panentsin the early stages of mental disease. Many of these are so helped that they will make useful citizens and it will never be necessary to place them in mental hospitals.

In the British Medical Journal. Dr. H. Wilson writes about the eariv diagnosis of schizophrenia, that type of mental disease in which the patient appears to be absolute- ly normal at times and at other times behaves in an abnormal manner.

The main symptom in schizoph- re-nia is "disordered thought." A- bout; three-quarters of these cases begin between the ages of 15 and 30. Unfortunately, the behavior of some teen-agers who are normal is sometimes not unlike that of schi- zophrenia. "Often the home envi- ronment is fllled with wooiy-mind- ed, imdepeiidabie, unstable persons. The body build is often the thin, test-tuibe type with cold hands and feet, without emotional warmth, incapable of genuine friendship, either coldly calculating or indir- ferent." The early or beginning symptoms are a falling off in nor- mal interests and failure in con- centration. "The patient is aloof and dreamy, may say that things seem different and that he feels changed." If asked the cause of his changed feelings, he can't ex- plain it or blame others. ,

Interference with normal think- ing may be shown by blockage of his thoughts. failure to answer questions directly and perplexity. There may be much procrastination or putting off duties, idling and loss of interest in sell.

The psychiatrist, by patient ques- tioning, may bring the patient out of his dream state and gradually help him to straighten out his dis- ordered thoughts. If placed back early on the right track in his thoughts, he may recover complete- ly.

We can readily see how out-pat- lent mental clinics may prevent many cases being sent; to mental hospitals.

Morning Smile

"Aren't you glad now," said father, "that you prayed for a baby sister?"

”Yes," replied Tommy, after an- other glance at the twins. "And aren't you glad I sio ed wh I did?” DP en

Wit "D0199 Yell through the screen

door. Mother - you're straining your voice." Desperate

"I always encourage my nus- band to recline in an easy-chair and put his feet on the mantle- piece.”

..why.,..

"When he goes to bed there is usually some small change in the chair."

Patching Wall Paper

When patching wall paper. but the patches in the sunshine and let stand until the colors have faded to match the color of the

used paper.

Garden Topics

By GORDON LINDSAY SMITH

Still 'I'l.me For I Show

There is still plenty of time for a big show of flowers and A fine yield of vegetables. In fact one can go on sowing all sorts of seeds and setting out plants right up to July in many parts of Canada and still get good results. With a bit of luck in the weather, mostly in the way of showers, growth is very rapid during the extraordin- ary long hours of sunlight we have in June. To catch up experienced gardeners will use a little extra care with these late started gar- dens. They will make sure the soil is well cultivated and enrich- ed where at all possible with chemical fertilizer or manure. They will thin seedlings to give them plenty of room. With cer- tain flowers and vegetables that require a long season to bloom or mature they will use well started plants, watering carefully and perhaps shading cm the hot sun for a few days a ter they are set out.

Spread Them Out

Even if we are only starting our garden now, it will be a mistake to plant all the seed at the same time. In both vegetables and flowers one siiould aim at a suc- cession of crops or bloom. With quick nioturing things-like beans, radish, spinach, lettuce, carrots and so on the best plan is to make successive sowliigs two weeks apart right up to early July. This will bring on a continuous supply of vegetables in the very prime of condition. With flowers, a cer- taln amount of succession is pos- slble, especially with those which normally are in bloom within six to ten weeks after planting. Many people make it a practice to save a little of the seed in each packet, then plant this a few weeks later. In this way we also have some protection against a very late frost, or flood or other damage which may destroy the first sow- ing. .

Planting For The New Type Homes

While the general rules for per- manent planting about the home still apply, in the case of the new type, one floor bungalows and ranch style houses some varia- tions from the old ideas are re-

R. W. Oliver of the Central Ex- perimental Farm at Ottawa, is in the use of smaller shrubs and trees so that we don't over shadow the smaller houses. Driveways, which must be shovelled in winter also present a problem. Many of our shrubs do not relish a lot of extra snow piled on them in the winter months. Like humans they cannot breathe easily under such treatment. But Japanese Yew and lowspieading Junlpers do not seem to mind. States Mr. Oliver:

Most of our formerly -popular shrubs are too tail to be used around the low spreading, flat roofed bungalows that are being built. Planting may be done further from the walls to avoid the drip from overhanging eaves. Low moundcd or spreading forms seem to be more suitable, than more erect ones.

Among evergreens the rounded forms of mugo pine and globe ce- dar, the spreading forms mention- ed above, and the broad pyramids of dwarf varieties of spruce are the most suitable. The broad win- dows, close to the ground require loiv spreading ground covers to be used, such as pachysandra in shade or horizontal cotoneaster and Euonymus vegeta in sun. Low clipped hedges of barberry, Korean box or alpine current are effective and match the house lines well.

Small trees such as weeping mountain ash, camperdowu elm, Japanese lilac and rcsybloom crab. are most suitable but larger shade trees look out of proportion ex- cept at considerable distance from the house. '

As with all changes, says Mr. Oliver, it will take us some time to adjust ourselves to these new fashions and in the process mis- takes may occur. It is always wise to plan carefully on paper before doing the actual planting.

Next Week - Preparing for Sum- mer. Late Planting I-lints.

The Stars Soy - -

By Genevieve Kembls

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New Sunlight is all pure, attire-soapy and better-than-ever

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For Tomorrow

The prevailing lunar and mu- tual aspects of major planets could accent certain activities or rare exciting events. While there may be peculiar or agitated stress on the emotions and mental re- actions. an event or contact could be spectacular and indicate some sort of public or professional hon- ors, dlgnlties or acclaim. Do not blunder into a false position, high stakes being involved. ,

For the iimiiuy ' i

are urged to keep their ideas. thoughts and emotions well in hand, free from complication. false nations or Jumping at can. clusiom. This advice is in antici- pation of an exceptional, thrilling or spectacular climax in recogni- tion of some unusually clever per. formance or accomplishment in professional, political or other distinctive .achlevement. Accept gracefully without going ox. tremes. Shun extravuances.

A child born on this day may be blessed with many exceptional talents, abilities and aspirations. achieving a place of honor and

commended. The main change, says A

Thole whose birthday it al

Sister Mary Lawrence, the form- er Anne I-lennessey, ughter of Mrs. Lawrence and the late Law-

rence I-Isnnessey of Holy Redeemer Parish. Oity, Saturday morning, May 24, made her final Profession at the Precious Blood Monaste ,, Charlottetown.

His Excellency Bishop Boyle was assisted by Rev. P. F. MacDonald, and the servers were Garry Doiron and Brian Rush, the former be- ing a nephew of sister.

Rev. A. Macbellan. C.SsR.,' rec- tor of Holy Redeemer Parish de- livered a very impressive sermon.

A close friend 0 the family

tcndance were: Rev. F. Corcoran. Lellan, Rev. A. MacDonald, Rev. M. Francis. The family and sev- eral immediatc friends also at- tended.

Other religious who were un- able to attend the service called later to congratulate Sister and her family were: Monsignleur Maurice MacDonald. Rev. P. Mac- Mahon, D.D., Rev. B. Gillie, D.D., and Dev. D. McTague. one of the happy features of the day was a telephone call from Rev. Father Baines, C.Ss.R., conveying his con- gratulations from the Charlotte-

Makes Final Profession At Precious Blood Monastery ,

town Hospital.

At the close of the ceremony His Excellency Bishop Boyle con- gratulated Sister Mary Lawrence, the Sisters and her family.

The family would have been very happy and proud to have asked many others, but due to the tiny chapel the Sisters have in their Monastery it was impossible to do so.

husband had an affair.' and can't bring myself to confront - and if he does, an end. If he would I could forgive keep the secret, matter what he yous are forced. my problem.

ANSWER:

sacrifice. What pleasure you a

Muriel Niuen

he's concerned. You feel that if

lure. would. Once you have the story, iunliy from then on.

It seldom pays to delve too cl

worst. Face the facts! Your hus

own unrest. band? gotten! "Let the deaol Past bury advice could not be given.

marriage by keeping unpleasant. make a mistake. and stone for it Return his kindness with sincere fectlon. . "worth considerable sacrifice and

really not too great a oncesslon. gracefully what has to be done!

DEAR. MISS DIX: I am ve known for eleven months. He is regularly up to a few weeks a college graduate. and I am 18. again, 'or forget about him?

ANSWER: You are certainly

DEAR. MISS DIX:

of complaint about either one.

reason for embarrassing you in p for those with clowning instincts can be to those who are the butt it. can't you convince your fsmll

of your attitude, they would stop

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If you love your husband. have faith in him now.

previously told me he loved me. and wanted to marry me.

writing and should ask for an explanation. mail service has failed, rather than his ardor. letter. saying you haven't had mail from him in some time and won- der what happened to Uncle Sam's postofflce department. elicits no reply, better let the matter drop.

probably call it "kidding" and think they are very funny.

feelings are being grlevously hurt?

Forget The Pasl!

4 Rel-lashing Husb-end,'s Flnlsliecl Affair Will Benefit No One

DEAR MISS DIX: The bottom has dropped out of my marriage and I am thoroughly niiserableand unhappy. He thinks I don't know about it, but I do.

Some time ago my

him with it. I fear he will deny it I know our marriage will be at

only tell me of his own free will him, but the longer he tries to the less faith I have in him. No. does for me, my smiles and thank-

There seems to be no answer to

LG.

There is a. very definite answer to

your problem, but it depends on whether you con- sider the salvation of your marriage worth a little

you must sacrifice is the sadistic pparently contemplate in making

your husband give a full confession of his mis- deeds-which apparently are entirely a thing of the past as far as

he doesn't tell, your marriage is

doomed: I nssure you that if he does confess. you face a broken fu- You think you would forgive and trust him; I doubt if you

you'll bring it up at every oppor-

PROBING WON'T PAY

osely into the. private lives of even

our closest relatives; in your case it would be foolhardlness at its

band has erred. Incidentally, have

you acquired .thls knowledge through trustworthy sources: are you sure your suspicions are founded on fact? ment, however, that you are certain of his lnfldellly. The affair is a thing of the past, with nothing existing in the future except your Wouldn't it be unwise to bring it all back to your hus- Why remind him of something you sincerely hope he has for-,

We'll assume for the mo-

its dead!" said the poet, and truer

Guard your end untimely, discussions out of it

and trust to a happy future. Your husband is not the first man to

by deep devotion. Don't fall liim! smiles and his love with equal af-

Forgettlng won't be easy for you, but a good marriage is

what is demanded of you now Is Prove your womanhood by doing

ry much in love with a man I've in the Air Force. His letters came ago, when they stopped. He had He la 22, Should I try to get him to write

SHIRLEY entitled to know why he stopped It is quite possible that Write him a friendly

If this

My husband and my son have an awful habit of insulting me in front of company. They embarrass me terribly. In all other respects they are very devoted to me and I havent a word

I don't. think it's nice of them to

treat me so, and wonder how I can put. a stop to it.

MARG

ANSWER: The trouble. Msrg. is that your husband and son are a couple of incurable pranklierl end you have no sense of humor. A bad combination. but one you should learn to endure. Since they are so considerate of you in every other way. they can have no other

ublic.- You call it "lnsultlnlt": they It's hard to realize how agonizing their jokes or them. Instead of fussing about y, by serious discussion. that your I'm sure if they are convinced the fun.

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It has been our misfortune to miss this year, the shearing at Aiderlea. To be absent during the pleasant excitement of rounding the flock from their pasture to the con- fines of the fold in the shed and to be denied the pleasure of watching

comes in so enchanting a season, one does not gvrmnble over-the time taken away from the pursuit of her household affairs-Buttercups pet- alled in gold are now by streamside alders new-gowned, birds, busily tak- en up with their living, and the days altogether sweet.

What a commotion there would be today herding the flock from the field across the creek, along the "gang-rway" bridge and up the lane by the grain-lfleld to the barnyardl We recall that once an early angler in the neighborhood unaccustomed to the scene grab- bed his tin of bait and basket and hurriedly betook himself away from the confusion of sounds. Ewes bleat anxiously and the lambs cry as pitifully as might small lost child- ren, in these momentary separations of herding. The farmers calls too, ring out with an echo as directions are borne to their helpers.

Garbed in old overalls, shirt-sleeves rolled, necks open, shears whet- ted, the furthers select their sub- jects. and on a platform of boards placed on the earthen floor of the fold the shearing begins. James shears expertly using his left hand as is natural with him, and does not incline to take much part in any conversation while the work is in progress.

He may offer short comments re- latrive to the flock or the fleeces; he may speak of the time "We took

on the back of the driving wagon- with the chestnut horse it was- and got ninety dollars for it! Wool was high that year. "Or he may compare various ewes. or mention their lineage - "Did you know that we have four generations in oilr flock? "Grand-daughter queried blithely one morning this spring when we stopped to admire the early lambs in iihe fold. ”Yes", she nodded, "baby, mother, grandmoth- er and great-grandmother. Would you like me to show you?"

The shearing, commencing this afternoon is the present, interest at Alderlea. Doubtless James would break silence then to make com- ment over the weight of this or that animal-to say that to his mind "Their appearance was deceiving" because he "really hadnlt expected them to weigh so well." Because the select of the fat cattle both here and at home. stabled until now. went to market this morning and the matter would be still mash in his mind.