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MARY HAWORTL-l Ailing Wife Deserves Better

MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Dear Mary Haworth: When one's husband has been faithful 35 .years. lhen turns to an affair with lanother woman. how does one go ion living”? This is our story, that ii would have thought unbelievable. 1a few years ago. , 1 am 58, and Jake it'll call himl ,i.s 60. We are partners in farming, i ioperating 600 acres, living frug- ally, with almost no vacations and no modern conveniences until a few years ago. We have six grown children and several grandchil-

WOMEN

Lass Caroline llchura. Woman's Editor. Pknaa SM

1 Page 8, The Guardian Tuesday, Oct. 23. 1956

dren, all healthy and intelligent.

The other woman is and has young children. She doesn't go to church and professes no religion; but she is a good housekeeper. wiilt a pleasant relaxed disposit- ion.

i.lake. etc. etc, that I was often tired and i-toss. Also. a physical iailnient had been growing stead- ily uorse for the last three years. iduring which time I dreaded con- jugal intimacy. REFLSES DIVORCE

I am in the hospital today.

st-hctiiiletl for surgery tomorrowi

HAPPENINGS

i The Provincial Vocational

School held lls sertlnd Social eventl ol the year 1936-57 in the Academ- ic Classroom un Thursday evening i October 18. The chaperones for the evening were Mr. and Mrs. Ed-

I l”t'alll(' I have been very . much at fault, so busy with houae- WEN Mncpha" "ll i-ll”- Vin" .work gardening, bookkeeping for-, Cl0W-

l Modern and old time dancing under the superxtsion of Mr. Jos- eph Murphy, was enjoyed by all.J -Music was supplied by a record player Wl'll('l'l was recently purchas-i . ed for the school Vlllll Student Coun- ll cil Funds. I

Miss Fratu-t-s Wilson. ll .N'.. wast

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PARKER-GAMBLE NUPTIALS

morning upon. as did the children. My hus-it lI00Il El 8 W3

that our doctor inslstedlthe guest of honor Sunday after-1 gitcn by Miss Lil-

Pictured above are Mr and Mrs tlgar Parker whose marrlaliC ok place on Sept. 22 at the Char- i tletown Baptist Church by Rev. 3 . L. Mitton. 3 The bride, the former Gertrude '& amble. was attended by Miss tan Bryenton, while the groom gg supported by Mr. Freddie it

l.i:lLLEN'S DIARY

A Cricket Sli

"You'll hardly believe it. . .not fter first snow and the cool weath-y 3 we've had, but come and hear I for yourself!" Granddaughter

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B. .9 . its evening to summon us out of ours. 7i "There!" she smiled alter we ad listened breathless in the yard. :. It's a cricket singing! its not the i ,.all yet, is it'.'” she offered. l 'Autumn is a much prettier word " t it was Autumn that today con- .I1ued to cast a lovely spell over Ie stubbled fields and the ins!- res. Warm. remember? Sum- .iery. Ideal for lifting the dahlias . nd "Glads” - leaving them a while i ten to dry in the sunlight before g he storing; for gatherinfl "D 199115 f flowers one must have for next L pring. . .bschelor's buttons. of the ii are pack we had sown which gave it in Biblical return an hundred-

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band was indifferent to it until

lian Duchemin. 106 Edward Street

Mrs. W. R. Aitken poured tea.

Those assisting were Miss Louise,

Hasard. Mrs. R. R. Sutherland. and Miss Sybil Gordon. A lovely gift was presented to Miss Wilson to mark the happy event.

Mrs. and Mrs. Laurie Beliiveau of Moncton, New Brunswick. spent the weekend in Charlottetown. They were the guests of Miss Flor- lence Bradley and Mr. Frank Brad-

ey.

Mr. and Mrs. John A. MacLenn have returned to their home in Newton Centre. Mass.. after spend- ing the past week in Dunhlane with Mrs. Herbert B. Macwilliams and family.

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Lady Dashwood. C 5:.-n wife of Britain's premier has-out, is to visit Canada in November af- ter a lecture tour in NI? Ulllf-Dd

States. g 1i. 1, expected she will stay with

ggy, She also hopes to visit Tor- onto.

Lady Dashwood was born Helen Moira Eaton. daughter of Col. Vernon Eaton who was killed in 1915 .i vimy Ridge while com- mgnding the 3rd Canadian divi- aional artillery. Her mother was the younger daughter of Archibald

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For-r'rt"e.r' Caniadictn Will -Lecture-Tour In U. 5.

Governor - General Vincent Maa- IQ

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F-its Randolph ol Fredericton. whose Jorbears were among the early colonial governors of the United States.

Lady Dashwood left Canada at the age ol 10 and was married in to Sir John Dashwood. hey live at West Wycombe park in a

1014 Sir John gave West Wycomhe Park to the National Trust. During her, lecture tour Lsdy Dubwood hopes to interest Am- erican tburists in visiting West Wyeombe. ' -

CAPE EGMONT WJ. Members len's institute met Mrs. Tilmon Gallant for their thly meeting. Recitation opened the meeting and roll call was answered by if members and 3 visitors.

Sick committee reported 5 had been visited and treated with frtlits. It was decided to furnish socks. mitts. etc at November meeting. to be sold for the society and also hold a uhist party at the home of Mrs. John W. Gallant.

During the past month the sec-

at the home of mom i

of prayer I

ly in the Parish Hall during the

of Cape llgmont Wom- winter. the first of which was held

on October 10th. It was decided to have catechism classes in the church instead of in the homes for the children of the village. The members of the League offered to take care of the altar linens. Mon- ey was voted to buy table linens. Also curtains for the Parochial g House. and to pay for prize do- nated by league for lottery at the l chicken supper. The busin s portion of the meet- ing being co eluded. a social hour was spent. during which father

retary reported S2000 towards the Smith. on behalf of the members purchase of books for the school 0; the Lngue, extended . wet. library. Next meeting Is It the .' come to members of two families,

vwho are newcomers not only to

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Whole Family l Goes Guiding TORONTU (CF)--Till NI way tnbuildacII.IIlHll'I.first-aidaad other lirl snide ts

. Lorna. I1. and Marion. I. are equally enth ' " .

Their mother. Mrs. Donald Wil- son. has then camp nwthe for three sumrne - at a big girl guide camp near Norland in Ontario's lialiburton area north of Lindsay. Their father. a naval veteran who is a bank manager, gives advice on tying knots.

and 46 hospital calls reported and I books read. Mrs. C.B. Mstheson gave a read- ing. "Pull a weed and plant a flower." Mrs. Manse introduced the new study book "South East Asis" assisted by Mrs. J.L. Lepage. Mrs. C.B. Matheson and Mrs. L. W. Ripley. The November meeting to be at Mrs. John Craswells. Roll call is to be word. "Gift." Mrs. Orville Sellar, Mrs. J.S. MacLeod and Mrs. Cyril Smith are to be in charge of the study book. Mrs. J. E. Cousins is to write the letter to our Prayer Missionary.

Lunch for November, Mrs. Le- page, Mrs. Moase and Mrs. Mac- lgod. The meeting closed with the

Goldcordsthehlghestswardaln M 111161!!!

,stne in through the moonlight 0"

After the rereinony a reception

l0l' both lamlll" Vi” held " me very much-one may lose the per-

lottetown where the groom is em- ployed by F, W. Woolworth Co.

ll Sings

of fallen leaves . Anti laughed a little girl's merry laugh and aur- prised, when the inert bundle stir- red and a pixyish face anti green ieyes appeared presently and then a sleek quick body sprang up and away.

And "stay a while!" she bt-ggctl when at length we too should hate been off to our work. "There may never be another day like this be- fore the cold weather sets in." she said. So pleasant it has there in the sunshine - spread day.

"What does the sparrow sa.V'”' she smiled pointing ntit one perch- ed on a golden twig of oak. V

"'The holidays are slipping--a little girl will soon be back to her school sgain'

"But i shan't mind that . . Tell- me more” she said i

"He wishes it were summertime in bloom and

retcntlv.

would have died for me, but feels so differently now that he doesn't , iknnw if he will ever want me "mgt

home of Mrs Felix Gallant

I have laid Jake I love him T H 7 77 MlS('(ll'('HE H. 8.

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ll1)tlimePofk'(l1lrl and rs o n am :(Ir'lvni)l!l(i,rlh?3,Illa:gVaTnllO::n The regular nmmhly ,m,euni cg 9 II" 8 9. : - ' .

A . . - th Miscuuth Home and Sc 00

The couple mu rum, mgchm. lnni up. He says that once he Asesocmion V35 held in the Con,

vent auditorium on Thursday eve- (lctober it. with Mr. Jerry Richard presiding. The Secretary read the minutes of the previous meeting. These were avPT0V9d '5 read. The Treasurer. Mrs. D. H. gave the financial state he Convenor of the Mem-

again. He thinks he loves the other women and wants a divorce. and a property division so he can marry her. The other woman's husband canal"- found out about the same time I "'9'"- T . . Hf d did. and sued. but we managed 5975”? i"""”'""'.M”' i ”.d to quiet things with I money sei- Wpimed lhmymur Pm tlement. and have kept it from "P m9"'b9"5- our children (except one son) and Correspondence read was: . the public. letter irom the Plllllls Ul Ml? Jake has been going to cliurch couchc St'll0Ul i0 9Xl-"P35 me” recently the had almost quit be- tV,l'Hlllll(l.i' to all the mcnibrrs 0i d School for all they

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furel; and is kinder to me. and the Home an g takes me some places. But will i did toward making the recent ever win him back” ()r will be just Field Day the success that it

I was. A letter from the Provincial Home and School stating that the

be caged, always longing for her? W.F lsemi-annual meetinll 0' "19 "mm

UNFAIR T0 SELF

n,c.A.yy c.y.L WI-TSTMORELAND W.l. Mrs. Wrtxon Moore was hostess The regular monthly meeting all to the Wesltiiurcland w.l. which the R.C.A.F. Subdivision of the- was held Tuesday evening. Oct. Catholic Women's League was znd. Meeting opened in usual man- held on Tuesday. October 9th The nor with the President Mrs. Bert President, Mrs. R. G. Jay presid- Trowsdale presiding. ed and. in the absence of the Splr-i Roll call was answered by sev- iitual Director. opened the meet-ten membcrs Minutes of previous lug with the League prayer. meeting ucre read and approved. . Minutes of the last meeting and Reports of committees were then lan executive meeting were readiheard. School committee request- by the Recording secfgtaryl Mn, 1 ed alchohol was needed for Sciencel 1, Daley, -Kit in School. There being no nth-I cunespondence read by ma (gm-. er reports. appointments of new Fesponding Secretary, Mrs. C. c0")m'il'-T5 f0l10W9fl1 Monty. included letters from the Slclh MP5; R0Y i-T05-imanli M"- following: Mrs. J. Arsensult re "eh" Canfleld .fre - appointed): the appointment of Mrs. it. (i. .inylSch,00l- Mm Wrlxon Moore: Edu- uf the Provincial Council as Con-l"l""'”'- M'5- 'l3'"95 M90”? M”- Venm. ,0, the Cruude for Goodiltoy Gallant: Social. Mrs. Bert Reading and ML A. M. Clark "iTrowsdale. Mrs. Hal Rogerson; the P.F..l. Tuberculosis Leaguel "Mlle M” 13'5"" Marat M”- gluncheon A complete two” cf the Bert Trowsdale, Mrs. Roy Cross-

this parish but also to this coun- try. and a gift was ys t s' to each, A delicious lunch was serv- ed. and the meeting adjourned.

Lord's Prayer.

HUNTER RIVER W.M.8. The October meeting of the Aux- iliary of the W.M.S. was held at the home of Mrs. W.M. Montgom- cry.

The Vice-President. Mrs. J. S. MacLeod presided and opened the meeting with the singing of hymn "At the Name of Jesus every knee shall Bow". The program in the Missionary Monthly was followed the theme being "A Dwelling Place of God". with Scripture readings and questions to ponder and dis- cuss.

Mrs. Seaman gave a reading and Mrs. MacLeod offered prayer. Hymn "Christ is made the sure foundation" was sung followed by the circle of prayer. 20 members and 1 Visitor present. 103 social ?...:..mm.m:mm

Dear Vl'.F.: it nould be unfair and School was to be held in Char-

to blame yourself primarily for lottetown on October 22. It was

this tragedy. Jake bears a full moved by John C. Poirier and sec-

sharr of responsibility for it to0.londed by Joseph Maclylillan that follow Y. the amoral other woman 310.00 be taken from the funds to ports:

Likewis

II a gratuitous wrong-doer. with-'t dgfrgy travelling expenses of five

out justification. in leading himidelegates.

on. as a supposed prize catch- thus wilfully-aggravating the dam- direct,-E55 M the 4.H Garden age to marriage that long routine. reported mat this club consi

and mutual negligence, and your 0, may members and that many

ill health had inflicted.

Apparently Jake nurses an in-

had won money PNW5 l0? ill?"

vegetables on Achievement Day.

Reverend Sister St. Emmanuel. tcrtainment. Mrs. Club . Press. Mrs. J. M. Forestell. Mrs. sled :Roy's report stated that Christmas

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I' '3' ed dead," completely with the gold Good-N

again-with roses clovent. .

"And .-ttrawberry-timef she nod- ded.

"Yes and the days long and lazy. with lingering sunsets and thrush- esl songs "' - H

"But I like this time of year too she said. g"l love the colors in the till) the round mauvish seed-pods. trees.I i like to watch the git-air: he gold of Chinese lanterns. and fall, like those of thc poplai rill hr ticlicacv of baby's breath to now. One would ihiiik they were i . tllflllllltlf it. , lt vv.-is an afternoon when the sun .-And somehow the flowers W ind warmth and ittillneiis callediseem prettier: the pansies ' his farmwife from indoor affairs mariimlds anti the nkhlofda 0 tom Granddaughter. a little lone the pumpkins Sh? C "C P ind lost with Mack off to mannish Halloween! mrk at Robin as she played with And here now. well into the v.,he kittens onlthe lawn. iinoollllllht ”'ll0m9 F" 0"" l'3;",':l:;'

She covered a cute black one! Home from Robs mange I .

at on its back eves closed. "play- Until tomorrow - - -Diary . ight... .

5. lid in beauty of blossom - to have '1 s remember that somewhere I re- " ' cnl bride had chosen their fragile 'rtit-e for her bridal bouquet. Ltrangcncss of marigold seeds. titi hollyhnck we picked too. to ' iir lasting bloom lhrotlllll mm? 1 ' 'hc-r'.summer. And for an attract- l in liotizitiet-sprays of globe thistle

left and and "for

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WHEATLEY RIVER WJ. 'wool blagket (t.tl;b:elI0t::E:rals2tl:; . a an - - i In” NH," m."Mmy menmg M l(;:'lTIl'OI1ItQd to Father Pt-yton's J the Wheatley River W.l. was at gnu”, Cnmam, :1"? l"""WwS Ml: P:""i'l':RR3';':'l it was moved by Mrs. PHlA()lI.:0R(i am on net! I.V V?" v '.gn and seconded by Mrs re nher 3rd. in the absence of the wrrison um um f'TPlild"ll- ll" Vl("sP'9,':l'3l'"l- - help buy seats for Curran Ban Hall. Harold Buniain look c arge 0 e The memb,” were rpqupsled in meeting which opened W”-ll "Wihand in collections for the Sacred "Ode" followed by the MI?! 3lClV-- Heart Radio Program and to bring art collect in unison. The roll rail 3 . question 10,- the question box for was answered by '9" "'""'b9:;;fthe regional convention and two visitors. The mill"!!! ' Mrs. Terrence Lamptiier kintlly the previous meetinll were read.'lnvlted the members to her home approved and signed. "for their next meeting. Lunch com- The committee: save their re- mittee: Mrs Charles Aylward: ' ports and the following were ap-.Mrs. Leo Doyle: Mrs. Louis Ayl- pointed for next month. Sehoolnward: Mrs, Herbert Cnrrigan. Mrs. Harold Chandler and Mrs.l After many interesting instruct- llitmld Buntain: Sick. Mrs. Alfred innit and directions by Rev. Father Axwnrthv and Mrs. Fred MscRse: Wood stressing the spiritual part of Lunch. .Mrs. Milton Rockham. the League the meeting closed and

M , n gt; Barrett and Mrs. Leo the Act of Contterrstion to the . nnrrld Lira: Prolramme. Mrs. Har- Blessed Virgin Mary was read. ' H "M m""'”'i

old Chnndlended .0 h an "M -- - it was deci IV! I. the M" "wind -M ,0 In .I lrr.ivstNG'r0N A.Y.P.A. ,.,.y, tor the hall kitchen. Mrsw The. regular meeting of St Fred MucRae. Mrs. Gordon Andn Marks A.Y P.A. was held in the rows and Mrs. Harry Linq were l;:.lld:1.or:dagill0;Siber sth.dVice -1 W. M . committee for same. . e VII. 0 goon chon uctriqng some plans were made for as -i the meet ngl. pening ymn o. print: to the Hunter River Mason I1iM'1. was f3: ovlved Vllf p'rayc-r and " " Mnmm I'.:uf vFan:"d::lr"e"a'duagIi.d approzd 'l!l::li'l'l'l('r :3: ';:,.t:g.: r'tra:nAId Refresh-i his report. Collection of one dollar

or course some time in Novemlr

Twenty members were In attend-i hm” unimrleornmir was appointed to ''""'l”"' '" "” N'"""b" prepare a eroenm for the Hallow. Ins Collect” ' "' ,,,,'lea Party to be held at Crapaud The media! '-''""t' W '”"m October soot. Lloyd Profitt moved Island Hymn I” i” """'h the meeting adjourned. A candle Lunch was served hr "-0 ” light service followed and all pre- IPM and CMIIIIMNCO ll CKYIG ”.Mt',..1.'Eh': munxrgmp end; as nor . Domin n 91'. IUGINI1 C. W. In Sapervimf of Children's work then addressed the meeting and spoke :aAtlienf'nar-'t'oidhoINl'ma of the All . . each one can help in his or her own parish: lhyl assisting in 8.8. work or being leadcs of other Junior Groups. Meeting cont-hided with the hen-T e&tia. Games were enjoyed and he! served to ajLpremn.

XWll.I.COVlW.l.

er. Mrs. James VII"!

new pennies;only larger of course! .

sub-division l

m Wilfred and Mrs. Edison Mnc1,p.n,

h and forty five cents was taken; M"

juretl atiitudntowards your lat- Two K-ms, ter year flagging performance as R0531" n,.5Rm-hes. won ; tree a sweetheart-blindly ignoring the mp .0 H", To,-nniu Flt,-g tn gporis, central fact of your encroaching at the Rural ymlm pm; in can major illness. tiredness and dis- louemvm. Mis..,,ucha

vigor. and consequent lessening of sexual interest.

.' I" "4," M yo.” ailing pllghtlthis success, the President also yand your perennial devotion. and i

. year.

your continuing loyal efforts to f 1' 1 TI. sen? as . mam work". Jake had lant had also won a ree rip a

his mama” .w"”.Tm M" "d to be proud of these achievements. ldmnsh y"”' ”' ”'d”'e” 5” l" Next came the roll call of meni-

.heallh, for better for worse. Then be" present 1,, SR wgyjch class

was me "am" i" '"""l”" "he" would have the shield, donated by

his fidelity WW” M" mm "Fl Reverend Father Kelly tothe class

i meaning and actual merit. SLAVES OF SIN

But then is the time. unfortunat- El.V. when he, fell down on the pmmsim" 0 hm”! ' "'3" "M convenor of the Fducation Com- .-ihowed Just how unreasonably sel- mmte. mm delivered an address

fish he is. at heart. Thi i th .. . .. dawn" M demunstraxmf 9 entitled Education . She kept her

turning to the other woman with

with the highest attendance at this meeting. To Grade X11 Class went this honor.

Reverend Sister St. Hildebcrt,

lined the true purpose of education.

3 ham luck 5""-V ”' hm” ml” and the responsibility of both par- t ents and teachers to train the char-

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treated at home. As for his desire to marry his

llersons who sin becomes the slave of sin. And in this sense. Jake is of mm mm and body still under her spell, 55390-.ih9.V are equally victimized in thtsgrespect. perhaps. time. with the help of prayer. con. ittructive fellowship and on-going marriage. he should gradually N. .cover moral perspective. self-con. trol. andigrsteful appreciation at you. i think. M.H. I Mary Hawnrth counsels through .her column. not by mail or pay. lsoanl lI'IlEl'Vl.?lA'. Write her in can

Lot this newspiper,

manuel discussed the question:

D. H. Gallant. leader:

No. 3, Mrs. P. C. Martin, Leader:

Next place of meeting with Mrs,

"0" CB” -- Payment of dues. This being the annual meeting an pro.l Kramme committee was appointed Ham? C00lflI1ll sale realized 82.45.