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DEAR MISS DIX: What do men want? How can a girl know

how to please them?

You go out with one man and let him kiss you

and he calls you cheap and easy and doesn't date you any more. You go out with another man and don't let him kiss you and he does not

date you any more.

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What are we poor girls to do?

PUZZLED ONE

ANSWER: You might try just being yourself and establishing your own code of conduct and living up to it. Then you would attract the men that like your type and you would be much more apt to make a hit than you are when you attempt to be whatever you think u man wants you to be.

A girl saves a lot of wear and tear on her con- stitution by not trying to be a yes Women and Chant ing her morals and her manners to correspond with 1 1 every boy who comes along-

INDIVIDUAIJTY

When she does this she throws away the most attractive quality that any human being can possess, and that is personality. She be- comes nothing but a rubber stamp. with nothing to distinguish her from thousands of other girls. There is nothing distinctive about this mass-production type of girl that makes a man feel he prefers one

above another.

But the girl who doesn't pretend to be what she isn't. who has her convictions that she abides by. who has views that she holds to

has individuality. notice her because she is different.

She stands out from the herd. She makes a man

She makes a man feel that she

is worth while and worth having. She isn't just a rag doll that he will throw away as soon as he is tired of playing with her.

So my advice to you is not to try to please every man. You will find that it pays better in

yourself.

Please every way.

forget that not every man likes the same kind of girl. There are plenty of men who prefer girls who refuse to pay for a date by letting

men paw over them.

DEAR MISS DIX:

I have been engaged for almost three years

to a man who has splendid principles but a disagreeable disposition and I live in constant dread of doing something that he can find fault with or be suspicious of. Sometimes I think he is wonderful and at other times I almost hate him. but I can't seem to break with him.

My father died recently, leaving my mother and little sister de-

pendent on me.

my fiance, although he has a good. substantial income.

I have a splendid position; in fact. make more than

As things

ntand, I will have to keep my position for the next ten years if I want

to be independent of outside help. that long for me.

Of course. no man would wait

My fiance urges me to marry him. saying that he

can support all three of us, but I know better. What do you think would be the best‘thing for me to do. con- sidering that the young man's disposition has already made me doubt-

ful of the wisdom of marrying him?

INDEPENDENT

ANSWER: The man whose mind is filled with petty jealousles

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Spring Teas For Easter Week

The Easter holidays seem to be the ideal time for a tea. With new spring clothes and Easter “bonnets" to wear, everyone likes to be out among friends. some will have week—end guests and some will have daughter hoije from college to help with the entertaining. So, with pretty clothes to show, pretty ilowers for your table, and pretty things to eat. your Easter tea is sure to be a. big success.

Make your most attractive sand- wich trhy. just full of the most delightful locking and delicious tasting sandwiches you know how to make. They should be as color- iul as the spring flowers; open ones, rolls. ribbons and every shape and size. Make cheese petals on ham, crabmeat rosettes, chicken- almond triangles, tinted cream cheese stars, banana-peanut butter rolls and jelly pyramids.

Cheese Petals on Ham — Spread prepared deviled ham on buttered rounds of breed. Cut Swiss cheese very thin, in petal-like shapes, and arrange an the ham to resemble a flower. Out an unblanched almoml in a. circle for the centre. or use a plump raisin.

Cnbment R.oscttes—Mix 1 small can crabmeat with 2 tablespoons of mayonnaise. Heap on two-inch toast rounds. Arrange thin radish slices around cages. Makes about 30 open sandwiches.

Jelly Pyrssnids—Cut circles from white bread. so that half the circles are smaller than the others. spread the large circles with red currant jelly. top with the smaller circle. which has been spread with green mint Jelly. Top this small circle with a. rosette of cream cheese.

Garnlshes for Sandwich Tray- Bcsides the usual pickles. olives and crisp vegetables, plan some novel gamishes, like: Stuffed R.adishcs- Out off bottoms of radiahes to make them stand up. scoop out centres and notch edges. Chill and fill with ripe Cs/nembert cheese. Cream Cheese Pecans: Put two whole pecan meats together with cream cheese, tinted or plain white. They look nice and task nice too.

Tea sweets: Little cakes and cookies, to bring the tea to a gala ending, should be just as attrac- tive to look at as the sandwich

Dainty Cup Cakes — Make tiny chocolate cup cakes, cover with chocolate or mocha frosting. Roll sides of cakes in toasted coconut, or plain coconut tinted pale green. Make small white cupcakes. when baked and cool. insert a sharp knife into side of each and drop a heall teaspoon of lemon filliri,-. into openin,. Frost each cake with white seven-minute frosting. De- corate the top of each cake with spring flower bouquet, mode by tinting frosting several different pastel shades. and putting rosettes of different colors together on the top of the cup-cakes.

orange-"at Cookies —- cream ‘A cup butter or margarine with is cup of sugar. Add 1 en yolk, ‘A. teaspoon vsnills. 1 tablespoon lem- on Juicc and 1 tablespoon grated orange rind. Mix well. stir in 1 cup flour sifted with ‘L fnlspuoll salt. Mix to form 5 soft dough. Chill. Best 1 egg white slightly. Flour your hands, pinch ofl bits of the cooiry dough and shape into bolls. D3: balls in the egg white. than ro in finely chopped nulo. Place on grossed cooky sheets two inches apart. Put a piece of candied

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TWO VERSIONS of what women are n w e r . lsnd. Left: Protective clothing worn by lt.Iiss“l”a'mI:l§' l::::tor:,cse>'f“tll)r7chII!rll;tnis‘h Women's Voluntary Service, at a demonstration of civilian defense methods ‘against atomic warfare. Large, knee-high boots protect her feet as she

searches with s Gclgcr counter (held in right hand) for the radioactive material of the bombs. She also wears earphones and has a gas mask slung from her shoulders. Bi bt: Afternoon and evening dress by Gobcrt of Lon- : velvet bodice. it converts to a gown by the removal of the Jacket. The skirt hangs in

strapless evening " “__ panels.

Cook's Corner

TUNA SOUI-‘FILE

ii cup putter

l-3 cup all-purpose flour

1% cups milk

4 eggs, separated

1 teaspoon chopped onion

‘/4 teaspoon salt

Dash pepper

2 to.l-bespoons chopped parsley

54 pound canned tuns. fish

Melt butter and blend in flour until smooth. Gradually add milk and cook over low heat until mix- ture thiokons; stirring constantly to keep smooth. Beat eggs; add hot sauce gradually. Add onion, salt. pepper. parsley and flaked fish Oool slightly. Cas;eful~iy fold in stiffly beaten egg whites.

'I‘urn into uwreased tasserole. Bake in moderately .slow oven (32?) for about so minutes. or until puffy and delicately browned. serves 5.

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Q. I've heard that correct firm now dictates that one should light onc's own cigarette ‘from 3 match nrst. before lighting his compon- lon‘s, because of ohe initisl taste of sulphur when a match is struck. Is this correct?

A. No; it is still the proper thing to light your companions cigarette first. If you wish to avoid the sulphur taste, wait just s moment after striking the match before offering it to your friend.

Q. Who decides on the color scheme and style of drones worn by the maid-of-honor and brides- maids at a wedding?

A: The bride.

Q. . Is it proper for a woman to send flowers to s. most who in iii in s. hospital‘!

A. Yes, this is always gesture.

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Q. How can I test the purity of butter?

A. Place a small amount of but- ter in a teaspoon and hold it over a flame. If the butter is pure. it will form quietly and boil. If im- pure. it will crackle and sputter as it becomes heated.

Q. How can I stop a Imlil leak in a. pan. bucket. or tub?

A. Turn the receptacle a down. cover the leak with 5 little , ‘ ed sulphur. heat an knife blade until it is very hot. and spread the sulphur around the lelk.

Q. How can I help sick gold

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A.‘ it the gold run are ill. the chances are that they have been ovcrfcd. or their bowl‘ has

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not been kept clean. Over-feeding or lack of fresh water will soon kill them.

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We find that tbs family looks an upoash tbs wlorldlthccs morn- gs w an sr o expectancy. Tbdro is so muebpto look for from this-brand new season that no mat- ter how variable the weather. it is not disappointing. Glcanlng seeds and grit sbout the barnyard. though leaving on startled wings. tho covey of partridge welcomed Rob to his work today. Ester Jsmic ran in from his choring that is incidental to his father's. and quite helpful. to summon us to admire a flock of Canada

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But all we saw of it was a dark line fading into the gray veil of hovering fog of’ this morning. “And they were so low too!" Jamie said. “Just above the build- ing. Honk?" he echoed our quarry "I should say they did!" And then he sdded in words that reminded us of his grandfather "I think you must be deaf. not to have heard them. Why even the pup barked!" Yesterday young neighbors to him living over on the opposite slope. their fsrrn neighboring Mr. A.'s. saw with small boy’: amazement at the miracle of their return “a whole raft of robins on the lawn! Five, Ellen?" scornfully “more like twenty-five — yes all of twenty-five!" Back they come to us. the old. yet ever new and_ln- teresting delights that belong to this

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Jamie peered over the “gang- way" bridge this afternoon “to see if there was any sign of s trout about." But what would be seen in the disturbed mill-stream now flowing? Redly it courses, colored by the wash from road- wsy snd field. Muddy legged horses plodded gsllan-ily along to- day's road. I number of them. drawing their vsricd burdens. “It's a strange thing.lwhen you come to think of the present state of the roads." Mr. A. who had come on an evening csll remarked. “but there was more hauling done to- day than there was when the roads were good." "Yes." we nod-

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Better English 5 By I. O. WUIIIIII ;

1. Whatis wrongwitht.hi.ssen- term? "We and it to be a posi- tive not that he lives in the west- ern portion of the county."

2. What is the correct pronunc- iation of “con.nois.scur"7

3. which one of these words is misspelled? Psregoric;-gymnastic. Antartic. Pyrrhlc.

4. What does tho— word "syco- phsnt" mean?

5. What is a word beginning with sr that means "dismsit.ion; sdjustment"?

ANSWERS

1. Ssy, "We find it to be a (omit positive) fact that he lives in the western part of the county.‘ 2. Pronounce korn-i-our, o as in on. i as in it. u as in fur. principal sc- cont on lsst syllable. 3. Antarctic. 4. A servilc flstterer; parasite (Pronounce first syllable _siok). "Gcntlencss. which ‘ ‘ s to vir- tue. is to be carefully distinguish- ed from the fawning assent of sycophants." — Blair. 5. Arrange- mcnt.

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Paper Labels

sometimes it is difficult to re- move the paper labels from new pillow cases. sheets, etc. If the goods is pulled on the bi‘ around the label several times. 0 paper will usually lift of! very readily.

Smooth White Hand-

The bands can be kept smooth nnd white by using regularly I solution consisting of equal ports of glycerin and lemon juice, well mixed: a few drops of alcohol. and a tune ronwster can bc sdd:d as

s . Prevent Odor

Ths odor of cooking cabbage or onion can be prevented from P0!- meatinc the house by keeping s little vinegar boiling on the stove w them.

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when first my way to fair I took row peace in purse had I. And long I used to stud and look At things I could not buy.

New times are altered: if I can

To buy a thing I can; .

The peace are here and here's the fair.

But where's the lost young man?

To think that two and two are four" '

And neither five nor three

The heart of man has long been

sore And long 'tis like to be. —-A. E. I-Ioumnsn

man nown" msraan or “MAKE up"

Certainly any woman's use of cosmetics must pass the eye-test if she is going to win popular approval. In your campaign for perfect appearance, have you mastered the technique of using cosmetics to “make-dowri" in- stead of to “make-up"? It's the secret of many a woman's im- mediate improvement in sppear- snce — it. brings quick results that really show!

All you have to do is select the cosmetics that suit your type of skin and coloring and then apply them so they look as natural to you and as much a part of you as the color of your eyes and hair!

Kongo The Keynote

'I'h.st'.s exactly what they'll do. too. if you make certain your rouge strikes the right opening keynote. You would never want it to tell an untruhh about you by proclaiming that your cheeks wear an artificial. feverish flush instead of the true blush of beauty. I don't have to ask you which it is to be, but I do feel that now I've

rouge pot. I ought ‘to tell you exactly how never and how ni- wsys to use it and why.

Never use a shade that contro-

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lb! Tlliy, April 11

A QUITE unprcdlcinbic turn in the wheel of fortune may bring sudden joy as well as change. fresh opportunitles_ for progress, new sssocistions and environs.

by thrills, dramas and unforeseen happiness snd enjorysnents. Not only romance and adventure but unexpected benefits in employ- ment. new job. or contacts snd interest from influential sources. While the new and novel may be uppermost it would be well to keep hsrm ' ‘ relations in busi- ness. public life and the home.

list the birthday

Those whose birthday it is. are encouraged to be rcsdy to take sdv"s.ntsgc of a. sudden and wol- oomc turn in the tide (1 events. Definite change. now environs. associations and dramatic intu- osts may prove thrilling, of radi- cal importance to the private so well ss business life. New idosl. experiments. investigations. as well as routine affairs should give un- foreseen results. Influsltlll P01‘- sons in private. financial and pro- fessional standing may prove valu- able. Romance in private relations may give pleasure. invite change.

A child born on this day is equiv- ped for an influential and pro- gressive csrcar. perhaps with new ideas or talents. It can count up” support from higher-ups. in per-

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These events will be accompanied '4'?

sonsl as well as home life.

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diets your own skin color-mg. an. ways select the tint that picks up and emphasizes your own uadu. lyiu skin tones: ’ For tho (.1) skinned with blue undertones. a rouge that contains the aims blue tons such as orchid. vlolot, magenta or purple. for In creamy of skin. a range that con- tains yellow such as tangerine. Chinese. true-red. coral or rust.

Foundation Under loud’ ' Never apply rouge directly to the skin. Always blend it over and into your foundation if you use s cream, liquid or fluid rouge. I: You “It I dry rouge. you must go one step further and powder be. fore you place your rouge. And then, after lt'.s applied. you must powder lightly over it. ‘Never dab rouge in a circle. A1. ways apply it in s widening tr-1. sngle from the highest point on the cheek bone and blend it out to your hair line so that there is no line of demarcation in any di- rection.

Never. put on your rouge in s dimly lit room. Always go to g window during the daytime and to a bright light after dusk. '

Never use too much rouge. A little will give just the right im- premion of natural color always!

§Thai Body Of Yours?

$ By James W. Barton, ILD.

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MANAGING THE PATIENT WITII FATIGUE AND NERVOUBNES5

"Patients with chronic fatigue and uurvoumess ,“ every prac- tising physician. It is generally be. lieved that one-third to two- thirds of all patients who seek medical help have as the most sig- nificant cause of ill health s.n uno- tionsl or neurotic (nervous) dis- turbsnoe."

I am quoting Dr. Dwight L. wil- bur, ssn Francisco. in “The Jour- nal of the American Association."

The dlstuirbancc may show ii- self in various wsys but nervous- ness and fntdglle In among the

‘ sr_, the terms used to descr-be those cases are. chronic nervous exhaus- tion. , ssthcni; (general weakness»,

consti ‘onsl inadequacy or in- feriority, anxiety stain and de- prcasloo.

Formerly whm s pntisnt con-

sulted s physicion complaining of above symp‘ . uisrly ner- vousness. fatigue and anxiety

stats. the physician. Lita a can- ful physical exasninn“ . asvisnd the patient there was nothing to worry about and advised Mn to to forget the symptoms. Today the physician. recognising that the symptoms are caused by nervous exhaustion. anxiety stun and chronic tenseness. explain how these emotions may cause upseunents in the various organs. causing symptoms similar to those csused by real or organic disease.

It can be seen that a. physician trying to help s. case of nervous- ness and tot-lcuo has to boot the patient, not I disease. because no disease is present.

Dr. Wilbur states thatin tho treatment of these nervously ox- hausicd patients there are thm principles: .thc successful man- agement: st. convincing the pet- icnt or the rest disgnosis or trou- ble; second. improving or rollov- I the patient‘: symptoms. and th d. keeping the patient unrelv symptom-free and preventins I9‘ lapse once improvement has oc- curred. '