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Dorothy Db: Letter Box

Jealous Father Who Denies His Daughter All the Pleasures of Youth-Can Middle- Aged Men Love 3g Deeply as l Young Men?

Dear Miss Dix-My husband is s ilne men, s good father and a sen- crous provider, but he loves his cbildrm very selfishly and seeks to mono- polize them. We have a young daughter of l6 whom he denies all $118 privileges that the other girls of her age have. 8hr is not permitted tospeak to a boy if her father can i prevent it. Bhe can never attend a party 0f 8011001 children or go to s picnic or any 0"“!!! b00005‘? boys will be there. we have a beautiful home, but she cannot hove a party unless it is strictly r- sirl aiIair. She is not permitted to drive a car or ride with any one else except her parents. When 811B 18 away from home her every moment must be ac- counted for, either at school or church. She can't go out anywhere at night, not even tn i1 movie. 00' cause that would interfere with her rest. she can't skate or take part in any “tilled” because she iniunt gl-t hurt, and so on and on. What can I do about it. for I hi"?

o, sol! my girl's youth blighted by being cut off from all theoljrler-iurer 01-’ her time of life? UNI!“ ‘ Y M “Eu

“Well, alright, teacher, who; if I dill any Curtior discov- ered ltfril-ll, we illl nlukn mis- takes. Besides. l'n1 thinking about something to cab- that's imporillllt, too.”

“Well, school again! I wmuler if that clock is working. lion’! suppose there's nllloh use asking, though-teachers don't care.”

Answer: A - Tlicrc are two kinds of domestic tyrants. One rules his family Wm’!

a rod of iron because he is mean and little and narrow and Belflsh and mmm up with self-conceit, and it flutters his ego to 11119086 hi8 W111 "P0" his household and make his wife and his children crinse before him-

The tyranny of the other domestic Ncro sprlnEH "'0!" a 5°" 01' dis‘ tortcd love. lie wants to be all,in all to his family- 50 he k099i wife and children segregated in the home and cuts them oft from all other contacts us much as possible. He does not want them to have a thought nor a wish nor a desire nor an interest that doesn't center around j

himself.

"Coo, lllom. when I grow llp I'll) going to he a chef ill the (Ilurk kitchens, then I run out all thepnrk nntl lacuna I wllllt . s . can I have three helplzlgs 10-day?”

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“Whee, there goes the bell at lust.’ I’ll bet Mom has ’cm ' waiting on the fable for rue- I hope silo hns made n big disllul.”

Your husband seems to belong to this latter type, and it is not cruelty that causes him to deny your daughter all the Yfliithflil P16050108 that she craves, but the fear that when she once gets out among Kiri! and 1903's of her ownage, she will prefer their society to his. And the reason that - he will not let her have any boy friends is just jealviily-

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Many fathers have told me that when their daughters had their first i beau they were Just as green-eyed as any young lover could have been. ' It simply tore their hearts to pieces to be forced to realize that their little girls had grown up and were interested in other men, and that before long they would have to make way for sweethearts and husbands.

But these men were big enough to accept the situation philosophic- ally, and your husband will have to do the same thring or else he will bring down tragedy upon himself and the girl.

For no modem girl is going to permit herself to be kept a prisoner and deprived of her playtime and playmates. Gone are the days when| you could lock a girl in a turret and keep her n prisoner. ' Gone also are the days when parents could enforce arbitrary obedience on a girl end mnko her sit at home and twiddle her thumbs and go out only when Papa felt like taking her.

And dou’t forget to serve Clark’a Vegetable Soup these cold days . . . it’s nourishingl

When grown-up children give obedience to their parents nowadays it 11s voluntary. It is because their parents treat them fairly end rea- lsonably, and the children respect their judgment and are willing to be

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inical, the children revolt and simply snap their fingers in father's face.

Your husband can refuse to let I in sports and to let boys come to the house, He can't go with her every minute of the day, and he can't keep her in

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and the circling wings of romance. v women seldom fall in love and seldom marry. They cannot conjure up; the feeling for another that makes them willing to sacrifice their freedom, their little ways, their pleasant little habits, their individuality. ‘They

have grown too selfish and cautious.

l‘ guided by it. But when the parents are arbitrary and unjust and tyran- hap live at a hotel. "He says there is not hln

doesnt like to be married and domestic life grown girl go to parties or take part two children and he came to see them the other day. but he is not grunt-present. my whole soul.

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Dear Miss Dix-J have been married for eight and a half years very pily until three weeks ago when my husband left me and went to g the matter with me, only he Just gets on his nerves. We have ‘

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ut does one fall in love after youth has passed? Your ; case seems to indicate that he doesn't and that much as a man would like y 0 s I to thrill and chill with all the ardors of romantic love, he is powerless to i i Mflffllflg Soul;

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And still another thing that your dsughtm‘ will do will be to leave; home st the earliest - moment in search of the freedom that has? jbcen denied. The chances are that she will marry the first man who: lasks lier and if she takes a good-for-nothing wastrel it will be hei- father's‘ I fault. l i l ___ | Perhaps when your husband considers these things lie miq adapt; p, ‘-mcrc liberal attitude toward your daughter. Perhaps he will have sense , run a family now the way our grand- fathers did than we can run a business the same day. ‘Those who try it ,c0mc to bankruptcy. r DQRQTHY DIX

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