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Enslaved Mother

Women flan ilveriio For Offspring Ami Invite Much Trouble '

DEAR DOROTHY DIX: Do you think a mother can be too do- voted to her children? From the time my .ittle girl was born I have never left her for a single hour. I have literally watched over her day and night. I have never gone to any place of amusement unless I could take her with me. Since she was able to come to the table I have never served any food except the kind that she could eat. I have bought her pretty clothes and gone shabby myself.

I have lost all of my old friends because I won't go to tlie places they do. What grieves me is that my husband doesn't seem to feel about Baby as I do. She seems to bore him l-le doesn't want her around all the time and gets angry with me when I won't leave he; to go out with him.

Don't you think that he is wrong and that I am right. and that a mother's first duty is to her child?

WONDERING MOTHER.

ANSWER: Certainly a mother owes a duty to her child but it doesn't include making herseifa slave to her, and that is what you are doing, And let me warn you that you are laying up a lot of trouble for yourself. You are bringing up your little girl to think that she is the most important person in the world. and that everybody and everything should be sacrificed for her, and that will inevitably make her one of the brats everybody hates.

CAN BE OVERDONE

She will have no respect for you because you have always grovel- ad before her, and when the time comes when you will need to use authority over her, you will find that you have none. Children invari- ably walk over doormat mothers and kick the-in around.

Don't forget that you can lose a husband to s baby just as easily as you can to another woman. When a wife gets so absorbed in Junior that she doesn't take the trouble to dress up for her husband. or to step out with him, or try to entertain nim, he puts on his hat and goes out in search of livelier companionship.

Undoubtedly a mother owes a duty to her children, but the priority goes to her husband.

DEAR MISS DIX: A year ago I was a widow with five children dependent on me for support. I had a home of my own paid for and s good job. A man came along with whom I fell in love. He made s lot of promises about taking me out of work and supporting me and the children if I married him. l

He moved in. I gave him the best of care and home life. He seemed to enjoy the care and the good home and was regular for his meals, but he has failed entirely to support me ard my family and has beaten me more than once.

He left the home a short time ago and I started a divorce suit against him. Now he wants to come back and make up. I still love him. What should I do about it? Make him pay up first and then try him again? Or make him pay and lei. him go elsewhere?

MOLLIE

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A. First the ushers, according to 11918311. 'he shortest leading; then the bridesmaids. according lo height; the" "19 meld of honor, then the flower girl, and last the bpidg on

Q. Is it always necessary to have announced when calling on someone who ls staying in l

A- Yfli. we .nust always announce our presence or be announced by one of the attendants. D.» not take the libelty of going to a rorm with.

Q. Should one ever hold a forkfui or spoonful of food pofyeq 1n [he air while talking at the table?

A. Ni); it is ill-bred to do so.

o§q Better English

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1. What is wrong with this sent- Pave? ‘I planted it in blclt of the

2. Whit is the correct pronunca-

3. Which one of these words is misspelled? Aflcmpanimeni, deduce-

"finite"

5. W111? is a word beginning with “dzsobeliisntm?

l. In back of is not good usage. and is condemned in. a barbarism by some authorities. Say. “l planted it behind the house." 2. Pronounce a-ku-meh, a as in add unstressed. Ll as in cube, e as in ruen, accent 3. Delriment. 4. imitations. (Pronounce both i's as in .:e. accent first syllable). “Men's finite mind cannot. fathom these mysiwria." 5.

THE CHARLOTT

Ellen ‘a Diary

By an Island Farmer's Wlfg

Yesterday afternoon. strange hills were bathed in sun- light. and shadows lay la the un.

ed the famous "Anne" country, pt the North Shore ‘of The Island. Quite by chance we ‘came there. with relatives of the family, and in a brand new car. I suppose. ii left entirely to his own incline. lions, without being taken as it

remain at ours or the nealrcws’ home. but then consenting. we both, found much interest and enjoy- ment in the outing.

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it was, James had time to admire this or that growing crop; to catch glimpses of herds or flocks on pasture; to wonder about a miss in a field of blossoming potatoes. which even then did not elude his sight; to exciaim with ms over a garden of bright flowers; to dis- cuss the exceiient situation of some farmstead and wonder whv an- other “is set like that. or in that spot, wher a sight commandinc, a better view" might be had chse by. And for the distance. ever- changing and delightful vistas were spread before us to pass all too quickly from sight.

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Vlitn little encouragement, ‘l’ our driver had known of it in time to stop the machine, James would willingly have entered a strange field of grain along our route of travel to chase a prowling heifer’ out. "book at that cow in the grain!" he said with concern when for a moment we caught sight of| one contentedly feeding there. bull even before his words had fallen, we had left the scene behind. and were away beyond a hill. “PKWY?! be C0"llllg shortly now" I said "Z0 take her home to be milked." I

James. The incident lingered in ‘lis mind, and he mentioned it after we returned home. "We should have put that cow out. of the slain. E1- ,en? Yes we should have. Olir nes- lect might he the cause of some

mcl- sabbath afternoon on this Is- land of ours? But the words a Minister harl read lIl my heel-ins lll theemorning came back to me. i“Whlch of these . . think 9°" 4V" neighbor?" and where I was con- cerned, I'm afraid "the seed" had fallen on careless ground. Grain fields. some alrearlv 116817131"! l“ catch the golden glinls of harvest. Wflved fetchlnfly in the light breeze; rivers wound between green ‘bunks. sparkling in the sunshine and occasionally woodland! P05!

“Asthma. Causes and Treatment.” ' tier upon tier, rich and beautiful , in 5......» dress. and ll mew; Cook s Corner ihill-tOp delightful Island pastorals‘ . appeared "m? l“. |ao<@oo%oo¢>oo@ c‘ ~"' . " i d ’ f l M , S .1 COFFEE CREAMS

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ous Island "810"- Wi ""9996 l“ O lng In! e 5 3-4 cup strained. strand coffee a quiet and snug farmhouse. where l u _ N a a. i l cup sugar a couple, who have reached that ' ltabmspoon 11gb‘ wm gyrup

time of life, when they "farm "sht- Iy" dwell. And live, I am sure a nice life. with leisure to willy many interests. tlllt perhaps wold not be had amid their busier dayb- She is one, and I wpvflifi n0“ tneir number is small. W!“ ‘"1"’ the talented creator of Anne shir- ley intimately. Indeed she "mourn- ed her as a sister when she r-ifi-‘Pil ‘way -50 (inc a person she was nlways- and so kind and lovely.’ She could tell us interesting stor- il-s of their school days weather. .when the seeds of a brilliant-and flovable, literary career Wm! El- ready showing tlrly touches of first ’green leaves. The promise of what [was bound to come. was there on la slate in s country school-room. I suspect the teacher would be stern, and frown on such 'idie" wrlllllfi! ' in class hours. little knowing that "genius was there.’

He or she would be more. cori- celned at the time about ‘nstlll- ing the three R's info the minds of his scholars. And r wonder if at a sign. she would erase these writ- ings hastily. a bit ashamed of them but also intrigued with the llvilhf pictures she lllfl created with her pencil. Did l.» wipe nwsv hewf n ~- ing wedding’ and sad '.\'llhlflf""l i‘ her class-mates with a squirt of water from a discarded but still faintly perfumed scent bottle end I (now irone info history and almost forgotten by manyl) a “slate clothit". Leave the "traditional white satin and veil" and the‘ “beautiful memorials" and return to humdrum studies? I wonlleri l’

hope the teachers who cmre so soon u: ‘f and class rooms wllll learn to di em and ulcourac-e snv bent fn a ouoll and mix their, sl-l-uoline wisely. and thus “in the iovaltv and esteem of their schol- are-and lay un a "crown in glory." And now that I can l“. ercelv make them out between ‘he lights. our - hay-mam are rotor-liar from n ~ lows! tiny av Rob's. And who is the sr-vsfi erect figure between the two 'on the vfde hay worn? Wire.

spend the night at Alderlea wllh granbladdy-and me’! . mgntfll tomorrow - Diary -0ooil-

OIIMofisr with: "Wlllafansflyef none ct. er than Ja-n e. come r Pd b0 HWlrd Hillhes and Henry Kaiser has brought stories of expens- um so? ivo parties given by Hughes at which government officials were eriiar- H. "l" " '°° " V“ m ‘..“'.‘: rained. Publicity man for Hughes, Johnny Meyer. showh here with w“ \ Actress Janet Thomas st a party. is charged by an investigating coin- EC CA o] NT" E NT EK

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ETOWN GUARDIAN . '

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‘ By Roberta Ln

.1435! AlISlU-KNISB WITH NEW i TYPE OF AIRPLANE

‘ Home were use. in ll plane tl-lp “m” lmmun‘ from Lindon to Paris, I found the [noise of the engines rang in my ‘ears for some time afterwards. In a later trip I found that the noise oi’ the engines had been controlled and I was able to converse with

noise, some passengers stiu get air~ Sick. and efforts to make air travel- ling completely Ciilllfilflllble have been under investigation for some

Stiff Shoes If a little Vaseline jciiy is applied ‘to

‘hilt-the "Journal o‘ Aviation Med lmiablet. The Jmy smuld he rubbHL - . I we could have longed more b icing," s‘. Paul. D; A‘ DI Tum: flnmonelne leather with a P-BCB/Oli long the way, which is not to bs states time mp altitude u, mqghb ' considered in a new machine As conditioned plane 355mg; .1“ mm,

S h d l“ ifori of r low altitude wen when m" e cod

lflylng at high altitudes. 'lhis type of plane prevents most cases of ‘discomfort which occur in the air. Because of smoother air prevailing ‘at the higher crusing levels and the rapid ascPnts anti descent; made possible with this new equipment, airsickness rates should greatly ldecrease. Also, ear dzc-urbppces Iwhich llteriere with comfort fihould lalmosi: onmpltteiy disappear a5 the ipressurc against the outer side of the ca‘ drum is now controlled. BBCBlLaF the passenger is not ex- iposed toythe effects of allltllde with this new equivalent till-ls is little or no med to use oxygen. This uill come as -we‘.cdrne news to those who have visions of having iu gasp for air and have to wear the c-xygen equipment. As Bach airplane line

the cover immediately tile pan in a vessel of no,

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The Stars Say -

By GENEV-I-lltrli KEMBLE

Fo- Tue-allay, August 1g

ence. w'th little headway, according

positions seem sound,

develops new eqizlpment for comicii. it is fused

:l'.anges in equipment developed even during the con. struction to a1d to passenger com- fort. .

Dr. Tuttle makes the startling‘ statement that the air transport-i atlon industry's adoptian of ihel

other needful cooperation. It is puss

pressure-cabin type qt airline re-l

aienced renssurinely at my Wm"- fleets the greatest smile rorwnraifirgfédmigh‘ ‘mm °’“"‘“'“5““' °“ for him. and "w" dllmlmd the ever made n passengl-r comfort ' matter lightly. But not so with Ho“ ~

For the Birthday

Scrapbook

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To speed up th de'ro=ti . cess oi’ your elecftric ‘ refrllglergiginl oh’ "t "your- u“ w u" huvmly turn it to the "off” pOSliPCII. Empty the ice cube trays, refill with not water. int-n pilt back Info the eva-' Poralor. and cfosc rltlrlgefator dOOLlND m“ ca“ wreck Wu’ m

petroleum _ swf.‘ leather Shoes. it will make them soft and

If food bacomrs scorcixc romqvp id place!

Allow 1L to mmair. for l5 or 30|lives cant‘ suddenly become ‘sports' 155W Will with safety. particularly if

An exlremczy lively and slrenu-- oils state of affairs in winch lhere‘ l! mllc! of eXcifenlcnt and iurbul-' office into a home carry their P91‘- is seonfifectionist ideals into the job of i0 conflllting planemry; housewife, claims a Cleveland psy- E-Ugyrlei- All-‘lvllgh plans and pro-lchiatrist. rrasonable..tend to treat their children "lid t" WBYT-lnii U"! urge. of hlghlfhough they were little typewriters ambitions, yet it may 0e di-fflcultdor cash registers.

to convince needed capital OI‘ pro-l motion ‘rczh .nfluential sources, orihusiness experience for the

ible that opposition might- be traced to the "infrlendlinese of an elderly relative ol- female. In any case. shun erratic, impulsive or forceful tactics. "Pry the diplomatic approach tact or finesse The project. at first‘

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Fashions/Literature

iLivinglSlLeisure [nae woman's REALMA?

5E1" YOUR SAIL

Duty of Civil Disobedience," Wm; ten when the latter was jailed m} non-payment of taxes on his l-abyi - ga e. at Walden Pond. . |And then, no matter what winds i prevail, EVERYTHING axcarr rim‘

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. In abou. 15 minutes the ref ‘ger t-' “Y3 —'-' gjig- Calggxfteo ~22? Clix: passengers without any dif- or tvill have defrosted to this] polanll N" mist shall hinder. n0 storm Bridesmaid? Blonde? Cel-talruy ,1 m d ' Y3 where the ice can bu scam-r on, n9.| shell W155. Madam . . Best man with a mOugn ~18 an sound of the sea. He, Despite the steadiness of planes set l-cr-geratol- [Though far you wander and ions tache Well lt‘ll take ll bit l would perhaps have preferred to and the removal o: pl-Wbcany an “ ' I you roam mg b,“ Wei" make 1t lt-S ‘P. s‘: ' ' - '~ l a r.

Through salt sea sprays and o'er white sea foam.

No wind that can hlow but shall speed you Home. -Exc.

of the "Get-you-married" servi-cy

This sort of thing goes on m clay long at the office of Mrs. lieu. reen Jordan. who ha! started _ a new kind of agency in Brita"; and is doing a boom business p5,, service provides bridesmaids. m; men. ushers and mairons of ham; ai an hour's notice, and takes (‘mg of all the \VPfli'lll’\£! llfifillilf‘ mp from the license to thr- honeymoon hotel.

Mrs. Jordan has taken pill.’ on poor- young things who have m) one to heln them with all iiw- p5. sential preliminaries of a \l‘P!l'll.'lZ -she says it's amavint! how ‘.'.'"__g some of them are about it mu Never mind. fhev can leave n!) the arrangements in her Parqbfg

PAST PLAY-TIME

Middle-agers should resist the temptation to indulge in violent physical exertion on their annual holidays. Health people at Ottawa r-iivarn: “Those who live sedentary

they are past the piav-time of life. The family doctor, familiar with their normal types of activity. should he consulted about the tvne of recrea- tion which will benefit them. and not harm them."

I 'hands . . . She'll tinder-take tn yo. l vide everythinlz-_ except of owing I PERI-‘EPTION lfi OFTEN - a bridegroom or a hridei

' mnsolua ___.

Many mothers who step from an CANNING RASPBERRIES RAW Pack berries in sealers or c3313 and cover with boiling syrup. ienl». ing head-space. Completely seal. Place on several layers of now;- paners in a tub and pour in Cnfillih boiling water. care should be tak- en not to pour it directly on seal- ers. Place a blanket or rug or." the tub. tucking it in iveil aro lnd the sides. Leave i0 to l2 hours.

Such women. he says, as

blaming per- - fectionist attitude of so many modern housewives. for the perfec- tionist housewife is not a rare bird to-dav. she's a common and easiiv recognized type. comments Ruth Miilett.

Her House is a dead Rlvfi-BWBV to her struggle for perfection. Whether she goes in for antique or_modern furniture. her house is furnished and decorated to im-

He may he right in

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How Can ll!

By Anne Ashley

I am passing along the above in-l

Those whose birthday it is may

formatiln so that lrlany who avoid airplane travel be-‘ause of plane sickness. will know about this pres- sure-cabin type 0f airplane and how it has so greatly reclucel tlhe num-

ihave a year 2n ivhich all SUCVJESL, Progress and achievement depend upon their skill in lmplF-Bing im- portant personage pl the worth and soundness of their

_ plans. prc-J- are allowed fo nlay, then mother

man 105mg his. "Zw; b“ o! ‘MN’ ecis and amt/Mons. There may be is a perfectionist. 1 h _ stubborr resistance from family A husband. too will show unm s- Igdmllfihlijérirlx? 92:1 123352213 ASTHMA, CAUSE: and TREAT- relatifln‘. or from unfriendly ederiy takeahle signs of havinl: married a m“ cone was 1051i h“ gram‘ Yeti MENT females or others with ‘rid fash- perfectionist. He. wouldn't dare lay rill. of all could begpoor on a Sum- k- ioned" lceas. But emotional or his hat on a living-room table or

The cause or causes of asthma were unknown until recarfly. Now that it l1. known that allergy. nbse and throat defects. emotional dis- turbances call cause the attacks most asthmatics can b» helped.

icmpestuous acts would not prove the constructive course; better try a diplomatic and taltful method of approach. with some change; or re- visions to meet objections. shun all waste. and extravagiulle.

one room or the basement is

press Mrs. Jones first and serve the familvfis needs second.

Her children are another tip. If the.

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Q. How can I remove wall papa. easily? A. Wal. paper can be removel

only nart of the house where they

out. his feet on the davenport. As for the perfectionist herself.

easily if one will use a llcaplni tablespoon of saltpeter to a galloi of hot water and apply to tnl paper with a brusli. A \l\"ll|€\\'flll brush is best for this purpose. Th: water should be kept hot, and afte; t. few applications the paper can bi easily dulled off.