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DOROTHY DIX SAYS -

Marriage vs. Bacheiorhood

Most Husbands Healthier, Happier, More Prosperous Than Single Men

DEAR MISS DIX: in married life compared with the bachelor state? thinking of marriage, but my male friends say. "Don't be craZY- clalm no girl is worth it. They believe in t theory. How can I be reasonably sure that the girl I love no\v will prove to be the only one for me the rest of my life? I have known

_ her fi\'e years and love her now more than I ever did. B. F.

The take-‘eni-and-leave-‘em theory that your bachelor friends advance never yet has made for happiness, What a man wants is not these light loves of women who care as little for him as he does for them, but the deep, abiding love of a woman who is his very own. He doesn't want the love of a day or an hour, He wants the love that \vill endure forever.

Married men are healthier than single oncs bccausc they live a more ordered life. It is because they are not so free to roam around at night that they spend their evenings quietly at home, that they (‘at home cooking instead of restaurant food, and that their wives nag them about keeping their feet dry. that gives them length of days.

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GIVES HIM CHILDREN

Marriage givcs a man children, and that gives him an interest in life that nothing else does. lie lives his life over again in his boys and girls. Often he realizes his ambitions in them and he has a pride in their achievements that he has never felt in any thing he has done himself.

Married men are, as a rule, more prosperous than bachelors be- cause it is not until aitcr a man is married that he really settles down to his job and puts his back and his heart in it. Nor do man)’ men begin to save until after tht‘.\' llfit nlaffled»

If you have found a girl that you care for more after five years of acquaintanccship than you did at the beginning. 1 “mild 50)’ 5h?"- she is a mighty safe bet, so go along and marry i101’-

DEAR MISS DIX: It n better to ii-t your lW-‘hnnd know that rnul

are 90nd and true tn him and that he has nothing In worrgv over

or is it better to keep him guessing iind make him jealous? I love k l' f eve‘.

any husband dearly and want ‘to eep iini or r ANXIOUS

The techniques of courtship and marriage are en-

Before marriage a woman does well to disguise .l*.er feelings and not let a man fccl too certain of her or know how much she cares for him, but alter marriage a woman's strongest hold upon her husband is his certainty of her deep and abiding affection tor him. '

I can think of nothing that is more calculated to klll a man s love for his wife than to suspect her of having affairs with other men or of carrying on cheap flirtations. Nor can I think of anything that will do more to hold a man than his respect for her, his knowledge that

ANSWER: tirely different.

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pain has been the which acetylsalicylic acid (aspirin) has been mostly used.

_tiem frcrn receiving the large dose of aspirin necessary to control rheu- |maiic pain. Some months ago l ispoke of the results obtained by a research worker by using succinic acid with aspirin or acetylsalicyllc acid; these patients were able to use the large doses without serious reactions by using also large doses of sumlnic acid. Some explanation of why suoclnic acid makes it possible to use the necessary large doses of acetylsal- icylic acid is reported by Drs. M. R Castcx and F. E. Labourt in “The Medical Journal of Argentina." These research workers found that suoclnic acid when injected into a vein stimulates the respiration. The eflect lasts two to 4H hours. Those injections of succinic acid were given to normal or healthy indivi- duals, and also to a group of 7 pat- ients suffering with difficult breathing. The injection of succinic arid into a vein in these 7 patients stimulated respiration, as shown in the increase in the vita or air cap» acity of the lungs. By measurement with the spircmeter there was an increase in the amount of’ air breathed in and out of the lungs with each breath. and also an in- crease in the amount of air that is always present in the lungF. the residual air. This effect lasted for more than one hour. In s patient undergoing an st- tack of asthma, the succinic acid had a constant stimulatng effect on respiration that lasted for more than an hour and lessened the spas- mndic effect of the chest muscles. In cases of heart disease it was found by the electro-cardiagram readings that; succinic acid injected inio a vein, increases the amount of oxygen used by the muscle cells

she has rock-bottom principles that nothing Cnn 5htIkP- V _ Don't make the mistake that so many women do in thinking thati "iealousy s the food of love. It is not. It is rank poison to it andi it slays ii quicker than anything else in the world. Faith and trustl are essential to any real happiness in love. i

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DEAR MISS DIX: The girl I am going with wan but I love her? J. J.

her and keep it a secret. I have nothing to marry on,

Don't 1e; Qny_ girl persuade you to marry her until and, above all, don‘: let any girl persuade you If you are going to marry her, be man enough to do it openly before the world. And don't; marry “Ill-ll W" 8TB “hi9 in support your wife, It is selfish for a child to marry and expect its ‘parents to assume the burden of supporting its husband 0r Wife-

ANSWER: ,\ou are ready to marry to marry her secretly.

DOROTHY DIX cannot reply personally to renders, but will uns- wer problems of general interest through her column.

in stitches which give s tweed- textured surface in monoloncs as

well as many more stitch patterns land some two-color patterns or

‘yarns which knit up into the popular tweedy look.

Lots of fresh style ideas have been injected into knitwear, like high shoulder pockets, unmount- ed sleeves. the cardigan jacket. new "pleat" construction in skirts and more cuff details on sleeves. ,

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with ruin. and presented to l-I.R.li. Association of Master Bakers, C0

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Happy birthday!

s his first birthday. but his fallicr. Malta for sea duly with the Royal young son blow the candle on his

first birthday cake. Which, incidently, is a 40 pound cake. flavoured

Princess Elizabeth by the National nfectioners and Caterers of Man-

PhESlCT. Eng. Here the infant Prince is seen playing with his mother on

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For Tuesday. November l5

THE prospects for splendid op- partunitics. fresh fields of operation. new contacts and agreements, may depend 0n an astute as well as seri- ous and sagacious understztlidintg of an event or occurrence suddenly gaming up for quick decision. While such may have significance in a. romantic, professional or swim Con. riectioii,_ yet labor, pOSSEiSiOlL and position are intfirnately tied up with ultimate conclusions and wise be- havior. Much surprising profit as well as pleasure are involved for sound, reasonable actions.

FOr the Birthday

Those whose birthday it is are advised to take time for wise deci- sions and keen study before jump- illg IIIiO strange or perhaps dramat- ic positions suddenly arising; these affecting not only business and real possessions or prospects. but also domestic, social and rcmanilc pros- pects. Sudden developments ask for serious reflection from every angle, as radical and far-reaching denoue- ments depend upon present manipu- lation.

A child born on this day should

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Furniture Polish

“Equal parts 0f boiled linseed oil. turpentine, and white vinegan-ap- plied with a bit of wool material and polished with a silk cloth re- news the finish on furniture, corr- ceallng small blemishes.

l-‘irm Custard

Firm custard may be made with- out heating in the oven. Place the cups in a shallow pan and surround them with water. Then covcr the pan tightly and set it over a flame so low that the water docs not lsoli.

Sude Shoes

The shiny spots on suede shoes may be removed by rubbing with sandpaper. Use a wire brush, ob- tainable at any shoe store, for burshlng suede shoes.

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Q. How can I take proper care of paint brushes?

A. After each paint Job the brushes should be placed in n n», ceptacle filled with turpentine, and when the work is completely finish- ed. wash them well in soap and water. Much of the paint can be squeezed out first with the hands. covered with newspaper. Very thorough washing is necessary; the hairs may haire to be well ivorked or massaged in hot soapy water be- fore all the paint can be removed. The brushes should then be dxled thoroughly.

Q. How can I make c thickening for soup?

A. Make the thickening by using tapioca. Boil the tapioca. until clear. and then strain the liquid into the soup. The result will be cleu" soup, Haw can I obliterate g sq-sten on walnut furniture?

A._ By rubbing over the scrsfch with a fresh shelled walnut hull.

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Q. When is the prOper time for the guests st a. church wedding to leave their seals?

A. Not until the very end of the reoesslonal. the march from the altar to the rear of the church. and also after the bride's mother snd the bridegroom‘: mother have been escorted by ushers to tho refl- or the church. It l: very bad form to break into the recessionsl march to offer congratulations.

. should bne change his fork over to the right hand after cutting nfl n Dortion of mm with knife and fork?

A. This is kmwn u "zig-zag" est- lng. and is now avoided. It. is bet- ier to be sbio w use either hand in-

‘terchsngeabiy while eating.

Q. In it up to the mm or the wooun. who have Jlllt been intro- duced. Y0 MY. “I'm llld to have met you” when leaving each other?

A. The man should say this, while the women r , -' with a llnile and I "that you.‘ ,_

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The dear old lady. wandering about hazily at a very costly society wedding reception. came upon a young man in faultless morning dress. _

“Oh." she chirped. "Dear me you're the bridegroom, oi.’ course."

"No," he answered glumly. "I was eliminated in the quarter-finals."

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5y An lsluad Farmer's Wife F-Q-ooun-oe-ooo-as-oe-aivo

“Times have certainly changed", James remarks. He says it rather sadly, and after a spell of con- templation, as though the short- comings of a people weighed heav- ily on his shoulders-—-if shori- comings they be. His comment touched a remembered chord, to remind us of the sayings of elderly men of an era of living now buried with them in the past. They too summed up the findings, of their day and age. as they sat, resting hands, that had known the toil o! stumping and tiliing virgin soil, of lumberings and barn-raisings, of pioneer sowings and reapings, on their canes, when the event of the mall's arriving had brought them from the neighborhood to a cor- her-store in memory. Snowy beards they had. and eyes that were kindly and tolerant. that had looked upon living that was strangely different from ours.

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And gifted with many a talent lost to this generation and wise from battling the years, we recall that thcre were times when they spoke with concern of the “light thinking" they considered was creeping in to their times. "I'm thinking the world is getting worse instead of better", one said, "indeed folks aren't living the good lives of their ancestors! They're straying from their fath- ers‘ way". And another nodded, “this generation now coming up is inclined only to pleasure" and we a small sensitive child mourn- rd a bit with these patriarchs as they wondered “Where will it all and?" and sighed with them over a world then apparently on the very brink of ruin.

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That was near to a half century ago and still the folks go to their sowings and reapings, ‘their toils and their pleasures. Pretty much as always, young people go their happy ways, as thoughtful, or per- haps as careless as did their for- bears at like ages, and we who are older check ourselves in time or perhaps find we are expressing similar sentiments of our day and age to those of the elderly gentlemen of the long ago. “Yes", James continues speaking into space "times have changed since I was a boy. Then, for relaxation and inspiration through the week, folks went to their mid-week prayer-meeting. Now", and he lingers on the word, "they go to the Movies or some other form of light entertainment and", he adds “appear to enjoy them! Dear. dear" he goes on. and we smile a! the familiar words which echo from generation to generation though they contain an inference not wholly lost to us "they're not much like the older generation we knew!"

And we having learned some- thing from the years, know as does James, who on occasion is inclin- ed like granddaughter to “make believe" for our benefit, that no matter the day and age, st heart succeeding generations are pretty much alike. though they are borne

along with the times to new en- vironments and interests — and changed points of view. Not of

course on basic principles of liv- ing, but in incidentalsto it—ln improved methods of farming, in transportation, in foods and dress and in amusements. James‘ re- marks have been in regard to the latter, now that borne to us in the march of time, motion pictures are being shown fortnightly in the community hall. down the river road. Though James ageing now pretends to be against such light forms of entertainment. on oc- casion we have heard him men- tion to our bachelor-visitors cer- tain tantalizing remembrances of those limes "when you could hold hands with your-what do they call them now? Girl-friend" in the days of the silent film, of which we are led to believe he was a frequent attendant! We believe too, that if the past gen. eratlon he speaks of to admire for their Rood living were to come buck 1° “9-58)’ if great-grand- father to Jamie were to step down from the group on the parlor man. tle. to have squired us, his daugh- ter-in-lsw to the hsll this even- ing. it would not have been to frown upon the Movie. a current- 1y popular form of entertainment, but on the contrary to marvel over the mystery and fascination of it and as we, to gain something from it to educate or inspire, as suc- ceeding scenes unfolded. I I O

"it's a funny thing. isn't it, E]. ion?" James breaks our recent “"51"?! "you'd have felt terrible if you had happened to see s hun- Rry mun in the picture. It would likely have moved you to tears, now wouldn't it? It would be more actual, so to speak. than if you viewed it in real life!" And our chuckles mingle. as we sc- leeigowledge the hint for a cup of

Until tomorrow — Diary-Good- night - . -

Rice. cooked so that the grains are separate but. tender, is delici- ous in a salad. Mix diced cooked chicken. cooked drained green peas, and finely diced celery with the rice. and moisten with boiler! nlnd dressing well seasoned with mustard and sugar. Serve on salad greens and garnish with hlrd- “Oketl I-‘II. Iruu pepper, and tomato.

AUTUMN

Autumn has come trailing across the field Her mottled robe of gold crimson leaves A train of splendor. Skillfully she weaves , A blanket for the grasses as shield.

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The day is spent and from the wood concealed

The great owl spreads his wings. Bursting with sheaves

The barn is host to sparrows. and the caves

Shelter the empty nests swallows urheeled.

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Spring came with trilliuml and daffodils, And Suinincr knew the scent of clover bloom And the warin color of the ripen- ing grain. But autumn lures our eyes to vales and hills And captures. through the shuttle of hci" loom, The rcd of buckwheat stubble un- der'rain. -Margarct Furness MacLeod.

Attention. brides!

Would you like a brand new irousscau for $1312‘! One that in- cludes eight new dresses, two top- coats, 50 articles of assorted un- derwear, and other items scaled accordingly’!

Ii. may sound like a fairy tale, but it has been done. Here's the catch, tliough—tliat was in i864. Just how good it was in the "good old days" when in a docu- mcnt received by the Public Archives from Mrs. James Faulds, 112 Churchill Street, Portsmouth. Ont., showing the original list of the trousseau bought by hcr moth- er, Anna McLeod. of Quebec City, before her marriage in June, i864 to RevwT. W. Jeffery, Wesleyan Methodist minister in Richmond and Mclburne.

“When about to be married. Mamma gave me $200, to spend", Anna McLeod wrote. and then goes on to prove that women's nature is still the same no matter how much prices have changed by listing articles adding up to $212.

Women the world over like to face married life with their best trousseau forward, and most brides look on their wedding day as a good excuse for a prolonged shopping spree. Anna was no exception, and by the time she had spent her $212 her list in- cludcd eight dresses, two coats. one shawl, sevcn nightgowns. l0