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Dorothy . Dix's Letter Box

[It Except in Rare Cases Marriage is Only for

Those Who Can Afford it —- The Bills to be Paid Often Offset the Romantic Advantages

Dear Mia: Dix-W are a couple in love and want to got married. husband-tom and I an both M old and he in-Si5ts on being ed at once, but if we do we have to live 1n a ‘furnished room for a few months. have a very simple wedding. n0 bridal trip and none of the trimmings of a reel wedding. Besides. he and I both have some bills that we have to pay on for several months anyhow. Although my fiance has a good Government job. w keep it will require him to go to school flve nights 1, week for three years or longer. That will leave me at home alone on these niams. I have a devenl; job that will take care of my own needs. but if we get married his school and the incidental expenses will exhaust that. Do you think that we should 1 wait until all bills are paid up and We can have a .» regular wedding and move into an fl-Purtmcnl? 0r l should we get married now. with nothing to look forward to for several months at left?

Answer: .

Necessarily you must make your own decision In such an important, matter. A_ scntimentalist would tell you to go on with the wedding with- out stopping to consider the state of your finances. He would say that love can turn the dingiest and most squalid room into a paradise. slid tha bread‘ and cheese are angel's food if flavored by kisses.

But a realist would say WAIT. He would say that love that is not gti-ong eno h to last over a few months of waiting is a poor thing that. will not en ure a lifetime. He would say that anything that is worth having is worth working for and sacrificing for. He would iny that marriage isn't all romance; that it is bills for food and lodging and heat and Iaght and clothes and amusements and sickness and that if it is not adrequzitellydl financed it will go bartkrupt just as surely as any other ven-,

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He would say that he has known so many marriages that have gone | on the rocks Just because a boy and girl were so anxious to Ket mflflied that they would not wait until they were ready to marry. He would say that if only they had waited until thev were free of debt and had saved enough money to go to housekeeping in even the simplest way they would have hrd a hrlppy and a prosperous life together. But iliev didn't do it.

ey married and piled new debts on old‘ debts until the sound of the bill collector was the first thing they heard in the morning and the laSL 1min): they heard at night. They never had a chance to be free, to be happy. w grow together. For thev had not even anything pleasant lo talk about and in time each came to blame the other for their plight.

5o I urge you to consider the practical as well as the sentimental eidc of marriage before you ru=h into it. Whcth-Er you are married l!) a wliite satin dress and orange blossoms or a street suit does not matter. But Iiaving enough money to live iii a decent bill does matter. For you will be just as hungTv after marriage 8s you are before; you will take just the same interest in the new styles and you‘ alli want to go to the movies just the same. You can get mighty and tired of looking at the same man or woman ifthnt 1S everything you‘ have to do. Bo put ofi your marriage until you can afford it.

Uncouth Brother-in-Law _

Deal‘ Miss Dix—We are a family of six ivlth a grand mother and father. All of us children are married and we visit our parents as often‘ as we can and have lovely timu that are only marred bvfhe presence of; one of my sister's husband. He is college bred and tries to show his, superiority by continually correcting Father and Mother about then. grammar or pronunciation or some homely phrase they use. He infer- rupts them in the midst of _ pro eiit, and frequently bursts out laughing louldy at some error they make. How can we stop him? Mother and Father are deeply hurt by his conduct and we all feel so sorry for them and so resentful at him for Rumilinting two of the finest old people in the world. OHIO GIRL.

nsvrert

and irpbringing of a gentlemen, dealing with him. as that is the Hence my suggestion is that your take this uncouth chap aside and fell _ of him, and that they will not stand for his insulting their parent-i. and that if he expects to sit at the family table any more he has to conduct himself with at least common civility. We doubt this man considers him-l aeif far superior to the family he has married into, and showing cit. Well. it will his egotism de- flated a little. the heads c-f shallow-brained fools. but it does. And there is nobody more! Lnufferable than the intellectual pr . Hoodlum: for Daughters

Deer Miss Dix-J was a widow with if married my present husband. I admit that they were spoiled and lazy and undisciplined. They never ipieked up their clztlies and had been al- lowed to do and mam around as they pleased. Now, my husband is one of the flneit men I ever knew. He is clean and neat and wants every- thing Just so. He has never had any children of his own and my child- ren get on his nerves with their slovenly way of living and dblllg things. He hasn't said anything, but he 1001s so unhappy that I am wondering l-l he is not going to leave me. Of course. in a few years the girls will soon be either married or at work. but what can I do until that time comes? I glint want to lose my husband. WORRIED WOMAN.

newer:

I don't think that even a lion tamer would have the nerve Io try to

discipline two adolescent girls and teach them new tricks.

' iWomen ’s § Realm

111B can save the from shipwreck."

anything they are saying no matter who 1'31’ H*4¢-¢H

——Gilllll

that 15 h“ way o; __The early morning hours (up to 6 A M.) warn against subterfuge. Be careful dealing with strangers. Balance of period, until 6:30 P.M.,l favors personal achievement, espcc- l two dflugmen; l2 and 14‘ when iiilly in professional and artistic PIITSIIIIS.

Hence your ‘T

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JOHN WESLEY’! iwu;

9° I11 "w 800d you can, BY all the means you can, In all the ways you can, l" I111 "18 Places you can, At all the times you can, T0 ll“ the People you can, As long as ever you can.

so CHEER. uri William Pitt b}... "when, 15

svgrwly anything around us but ruin and despair."

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Wilberforce In the early 1800's:

in: I IIIIIISEWIFE

AND IIEII ACTIVITIES .,

"I Moors in many dance halls in 0mm England have had to be Nimrod

because of the damage caused by

boisterous performance of

"Iambeth Walk" and other popu-i

lar dances.

Cuba has banned the exportation of comp iron without express authorization by the government. University of Missouri em- ployment officials say that men students are more in demand than

girls as nursemaids to watch chiid- -

i-en while parents are out at night.

dare not niarr, th f t ‘so dark and unsetltrled-ne u ure h The clutch pedal of the average

automobile should have at least

1M0 GT9)’ in 1819: "Everything one inch of free movement before

is tending to a convulsion" l

Duke Wellington. on the eve of

his death (1851): "1 thank God 1.‘ will be spared from seeing the con-J summation of ruin that is gather- ing around."

Lord Sliaftesbury (1848): “Noth- British Empire

-—’I‘he English Digest. Burning Aufumn_

leaves may

0811842 vegetable gardens to “burn up"..next Summer, warns a horti- culiurlst, cayed leaves provide humus and are a valuable source of moisture to garden crops.

pointing out that de-

Despiie the war lace makers

of France expect to receive nrmr- iy $2,000,000 for their wares tiiisf place and meet the Emile? Y9“?-

By FRANCES 1 Copyright.

it begins to take ho’d.

Ii-aly has banned the shipping of automobiles -out of the country without special government per- mit.

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I Morning Smile g i "Your mistress tells me, Jane,

that you wish to leave us to be- come an attendant at a mental

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she vim-urea to protest- I hVghfl-I oilierenoe did it make to

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Star forced herself to say 1181138 "I make ‘n .. I "Break it tonight," Ooates de- ndcd. m?'——with a gentleman who has lalready retired," star went on. She saw Barton Underwood making way toward their ta . I young man is asleelrwrhllls! "Miss nnnngn Barton leaned over his chair. "l'm punish- ‘ing Stunt-rotmbyxtnot letting 111m he!" g _.. you would punish me Star objected. "He admitted his mis- rtiakket likaeua soldier Mr. lllgfldflggOl-gé ‘ a 's anyone can as - don't insist on hurting im any ore." mBarton smiled down at the lovely face pieadllng so girioefuily for his child. He had a vision, too. of Stuart —~after he had heard the ultimatum —turnlng toward the wall and bury-

liand clenched to keep from W0- testing. star had said he must take his punishment like a man.

"I don't bell-eve he's asleep yet," Barton announced.

Star rose quickly, her face brlggit

1105001113’ .with happiness, and walked tow

“That's right, sir." said Jane.

"What experience have you had?"

“Well, sir, I've been here for three years!"

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1939. King Features Syndicate Inc.)

Look in the section your birthday comes In. and find what your outlook Is, according to the stars.

For Tuesday. Nov. 21st MARCH 21 to APRIL 20 (Aries) to be made through in-.

tei-ests, [

Inasmuch as your broilher-in-law seems to have none of the Instincts‘ quark“ Md mechanical ‘g’ {and '

setup i

for progresslvcness in ail matters.

APRIL 21 t0 MAY 20 (Taurus)

MAY 21 to JUNE 21 (Gemini),

-Much can be accomplished if you attack your work with sincerity of purpose, nobility of character anda thorough knowledge of what you are doing. It is also important you not leave your task until you have gained your objective.

JUNE 22 to JULY 23 (Cancer) Coordinate all your splendid

case looks pretiv hopeless. for no agony could be greater than that which forces and apply them assiduously

a neat old bachelor would expe roof with two youngsters who scatter their and who show no regard for his personal ,

Only a man who was a lie-angel would endure sitcli martyrdom, and to you need not be surprised if you find some day he has folded his tent and faded away. Your only chance of preventing

rlence in liavl treasures

in the Slimmer. - Bllt Why did you misc your daughters up to be hcodliims instead of; ladies? DOROTHY DIX.

iTodays Popular Desdig By Carol Aimes

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DAFFODIL CROCHET BATHROOM SET

DESIGN N0. 432

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we ma .

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land your employer's or associates’

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business of succeeding in

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Au-améluups

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two brothers and the otlier-son-in-iaw office; shlpplni; and Bflvelnmenl. hlm lust exactly what they think projects. A fine planetary

ters, collections.

ahead,

AUGUST 23 to SEPTEMBER 23 (Virgo) -- Holds encouragement for all you who will put aside pet- ty grievances and devote time and ability to putting across your healthy plans and ideas. A big day for worthy aims.

SEEYIEIMIBER 24 to OCTOBER 23 (Libra) -- Friendly vibrations, especially for legal business, edu- cational and religious matters and taking cative part in legislaL-icn and projects for your and your children's future good. General progress and routine affairs in first order.

OCTOBER 24 to NOVEMBER 22 (Scorpio) - You born before Nov. l0 should find your work and other interests a pleasure. Matters relating to employment and moneys most favored. You Scorpio- folk will notice greater gains in private affairs, artistic endeavors and domesticity.

NOVEMBER 23 to DECEMBER

(Sagittarius) -- very stimulat- ing and beneficent for general headway In established business, ‘ound investment, reasonable ex-

insion, new undertakings, sales,

“nufacturing. Think!

DECEMBER 23 to JANUARY 2i

‘aprlconn -- Born after Jan5?

iition is advised in the conduct

your affair-s. Avoid aggressive

"tics. All Ca-pricornians: You

ould fiouris iri progressive

titers. Good Luck!

JANUARY‘ 22 to FEBRUARY 20 Aquarius) - Penetraiive insight essential in deals involving expem

Push straight

iditures, in giving promissory notes foi- making bids cn extensvie pro-

jects. A good day IF‘ erciseli. FEBRUARY 21 to MARCH 20 (Pisces) - Salesman or seleswo- rman. cferk. industrial worker, teacher, scientist and investigator; you employed in large institutions and government departments: police, detectives, firemen: Stars smile benignly on you and yours. -All of you: Work for your plans and dreams. I A CHILD BORN ON THIS DAY 1 will be, if properly reared and re- {nsoned with. studious, sincere, 0p- ftiinistic and capable of great _achievement in constructive a4:- ltivities. A Scorpio-Sagittarius; ous- ‘pal with strong characteristics. Should overcome a tendency to be ‘brusque and learn I» be more con- sistent in effort.

care is ex-

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COLDS

the door——to the dark cabin where Stuart had decided that even a man might be permitted to sob if he pressed his lips tightly WSW-her s0 that no sound escaped.

. "Ooohl It's so windy!" G101‘!!! shivered and ducked into a fairy sheltered corner. Kent followed her there slowly. Grildgingly he put an arm around her as she snllzilled ill! to his coat. "Gloria-I've got to to you," he said detei-minedly. ‘Its about——abcut that letter . . ." “Kent, is that the North Star—_—— the big one? Pardon me. darling. but it seems so silly to be prosaic up

h _ X are acne North Star and this e."

"It isn't the isn't silly to m

"Don't be angry.” Gloria mur- mured. "Since I've been on this m I can almost see why you like stupid old bOatr-reilly I @3113’

Kent's heart sank- What If she

lmarry him now. with no conditions? i "Oh, no—-you—-you wouldn't like lit at all," lie said desperately. "You were perfectly r1 ht—-"

“Then you wil take up a land practice? 0h, darlingll’ impulsively Gloria threw both arms around his nee

"Careful someones comirigi"

ALL IS BRIGHT

By ELEANOR BROWNE.

To Bunnies." - A Christ-mu Grain ...Glwfl|olPlrlfilI ...l MdyAdverltlireBeIt-v m‘ Gold glare-LOVE.

"There I: a boat defi." Gloria said iflltly.

only one date every childre

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‘mkuiewwllneyouupfllenflmn Wig readingforcliild-

tor-ted. - v ages.

i Kent's milky silence made 6hr always passed in a wgirl of activity. sure the thrust had gone home. 80 8 hoped the girl raking her

m" ‘élfitlffifltiéfiiitiitdsoe t; $32.!” "°‘#td“2§tia.;'ii°ih"f.ii£'§ -a rendezvous on deck? star won- devel- wipe out

mam the children's fees as they saw the onedlzright star on top come crash.- wn

wondered if her face did not reflect aometli of w t those n must have elt. titular Christmas been this cruise. She wanted be Eerfect. gleaming through the dar months, Fer-Ira years, that would surely ollow. Yet already

here was a touch of the

Gloria dropped her arms, but she did not move away. In a guilty sil- ence Lhey waited as the footste came nearer and nearer. Suddeny Captain Porter stood before them. his sharp eyes seeing Kent's quick salute, Gloria's affected shyness. For a second the Captain auxd in surprise and then went on urriedly. Kent could almost see him thinking: Engaged to one lrl. kissing another.

‘More unpleasant‘! gosipl

Star stepped cautiously onto the windswept deck. Elie didn't want to meet Coateg just now. She saw a dim form approaching. Saw the quick gure way he walked, the gleam of is wrist watch as he passed a lighted window. It was castes. Oi course she could go back. Yet it was such a gorgeous nighti Who was it said you could always go three ways? She didn't want to “go down or sideways-but she she c0 d

go up!

Star ran lightly toward the stairs. 4 Her heart was pounding as she reached the to‘? and paused to catch ‘her breath an listen. Coates walked on quickly-to the 1adder~past it. ‘With a sigh of relief Star run aft.

No one but a. stupid plundering girl, Star thought afterward bitterly would have so heedlessly disturbed people. No one else would have been so entirely engrossed in her own thoughts that she would practically walk info a couple before she halted.

Even after she had heard her ‘roommates paslonate. "Kent. you .mustn't say that. You mustnti" star had stood rooted to the spct where Gloria's arms were flung around Kent's neck-while their lips were Jiressed together.

An then instead of slipping away Star had said primly, "I beg your

pardoni"

No wonder Kait had looked up Jvlth such a guilty start. It was icnough to make any man angry.

. it was enough to make any j qirl cry a little, even though she was happy that Gloria had patched l the quarrel with her sweethear. She had known all along that Kent

mid Gloria were to be married. No. .

she wasn't weeping about that. was oniy-—-she wished she had drowned before she had that love scene burned into her memory.

CHAPTER X1

With her feet propped against the rail and her eyes looking dern into the turbulent water. Star felt lonelier than she had ever felt be- fore in her life. Ten days Io Christmas! If she were home this would be a time of whispered con- sultations v/Ith the children's motii-