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PAGE TWO THE GUARDIAN MARCH 21. 1954
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TELLING THE PATIENT II E HA5 CANOE!
some weeks ago I wroto An article on what. Ph.iladelpl'i.i1lph)'- lsicians told their cancer patients. Many physicians thought tho PSI" tent and relatives should bl told 'the truth without delay, others felt the truth should bs told
Expecting visitors for tea? The homemakers from Sterling W. gradually. have s simple as well as delicious A lmler lmm Ola R Bowen, recipe to ""19 -Wu emermm mm Bremen. Indiana. gives answer to Case. They'll hate some more sug- the suggesllolls mnlalned 1,, mg "5"mM mm wefkt um larticle and refers the Phllisdelplila C"0”0L-ii”: ”"”5 '3”?if3”35o5'l.?'2iff.?”l?..""i?.m3 1 m" empomwd m1'k- State Medical Association, April. 3 squares ”l0C”W9- li953. entitled "Should the Patient Cmk um” WW9 mwke tBs-. Told When Diagnosis is Can- Add 20 rolled ('ir.iliani vvarerslC(.r-'--- ind Vlmmai Dr. Bowen conducted 3 survey I-GI 0001 End F0” 1” C0C0"Ul- lof patients -477) between the ages -Mn. r. s. non. lot 18 and 90 in this 811341. to de- Sterllng W. Li termini-. if the patients wished to know whether or not they had cancer. whether they desired that their close relatives be told if they were afflicted with cancer. whether they thought persons with cancer should be fooled into thinking they
did not have it. and who they thought should tell the patient about the diagnosis of ciiiicciz Dr.
(7-lnxged Dmln hm, lBowen prepared a questionnaire with space for questions and If the pipe of the sink becomes reawnsl
”k)33ed' dmwlve Li pound M cop”. The answers to Dr. Bowen's 95"” m 2 quans of hm MIL" Ind questionnaire were about what we pm” It dim” m" Wpl" Repeat It might oxpect in these davs when necessary. A solution of soda and ml, malorlll. cl our men and VI-"9391 pmlrpd dml” m" V199 Wm women want to know the truth dl5bd39 379359 l "In general. the greatest number
Emm” l of persons not only desired to To remove yellow spots from know the truth but. also desired white enamel, nib uiih a flannel that. their close relatives be in-
garden formed. A large mzijority did not feel that Dilllvllls should be fooled in overwhelming number thought the physician should be the one to tell the patient about the illness. Many persons expressed the de- sire for co-operation between the physician. minister and close rel- atives in handling the sit.uation.'”
The age group of 31 to 50 seemed more cancer conscious than the younger age groups "Patients re- peatedly gave more extensive rea- sons for their desire for the truth."
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Dr. Bowen. in rnnclusion, states that it is his firm opinion that the patients desires should be
followed in this matter rather than the physicians. There are very few exceptions. The reasons for the patients knowledge of his con- dition are given in the article in the Journal of the American Med- ioal Association, as well in the exceptions.
Dr. Bowen found that the rea-
sons patients have for wanting to know the truth about whether or not they have cancer are far more numerous and important than the physicians ever dreamed. "Patients have shown that they can take the truth better than the dreadful fear and indecision of whether their physician is trying to shield them from the fact that they actually have cancer" 1 A final point is that the type of .treatment tisod-X-ray. radium. or lsurgery-shows the intelligent pat- ient that he likely has cancer.
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H ' 4 MW week HALF-SIZE CASUAL are again was one-s . clean. beautiful, without left-over Look at the scalloped button- lI'l8.l'K or stain of the last. come ing, action back, easy-walking to us at dawn "out of eternity" skirt - have you ever neon I this morning. Like s iresh piece smoother. unsrtar cuunll Pro- of note-paper, we I-h(;u(hI., or A poi-tlonededtoredthue, :1lli;rter, fitirlg winter-white field 0 the farm figure-d an you. whereon as yet no defacing trsillyou whereiit does lthe most. good! or path had: been made. iNo alterat. on worr es.
Reverently we received it and! Pattern 4528: Half Size: 1456. in iuwnys somewhat awed by thei16l-2, 18'&. 20M, 2230. 241,5. Elle miracle of its birth. Out of the 16l.'n takes 3'55 yudn 36-inch. shadows of night. it had conie.brightl This pattern may to use, limi- iuid promising, bearing anew an pie to sew. is tested for fit. HI! opportunity for fresh beginiriingsfcompletc illustrstediimtructlons. No matter the failures the faults: Send Thirty-nve cents (Ibo; in the very sinnlngs of last. weekgcoins (stamps cannot be accepted) here again was A world made new. for this pattern. Print plainly Site. Name, Address, style Number.
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his head into the pillow, drew the covers closely about a shoulder. "I reckon, Ellen, it's a bit too
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non. Take things as they come.”
iiistead. of trying to force issues.
Do not discuss your problems with strangers or mere acquaint,-l
ances during the am. hours. or , , ,
you may have cause to regret Young WICIOW, 5 Children v - ' d . . . . )0"I1'I1em8lIx:::lIIfl:oIIlndS the stars in Ponders 60""! OUI Man
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lplans you may have made lo, R. DEAR MISS DIX: I am 30 years old, ti widow with five children. jlaxallon or Pllmrbalnment slloulg 'My husband was killed a year ago. I have been so lonely ever since mlmlnllle llapplly. Romance nnd and althotlgh the children are wonderful company. it Just doesn't seeml
mllrlslllp are also lavmedl A mod to be enough. A young man who is helping me with my busincss has Ilmmd 01 hi-5 Y0l1U1.l0nQ.' Q0"?! from
lllmel loo, lo dlscuss navel plans laosked to take me out. and I wondered if it would be all right fogomei 0 nia F07 "'9 BIrthd3Y SEEK NEW FRIENDS
If ")m0""”W '5 -Vol" birmda-Vtl ANgWE.R: 'I'lit-re certainly would be nothing wrong in going out lime .393” ”h”ald Should be one oll with the young man: just be careful that you don't rush into R danger- lu-"”tp9”9d hulprlsesa i ous situation llll'Oil'1h sheer loneliness. I S)”T.palll 7.i- with you in your Pm-'99” Whwh Y0" ha” bee” difficulty. You should begin to get out among people and let new friends
on the verge of abandoning may ll l . lll ll ,'h- m ll l- suddenly take a turn for the bet-l ep Nu mug 15 ug mm
tor during May, and financial ventures long regarded as lost
DEAR MISS DIX: Last summer I met a girl. 17. who is a senior lin high school. I am 26, a teacher in another school. "W595 smmld begin '9 Pm-W" 5": We really love each other. and both our families know it Her moth- lb; :”'nl1ea ”::(9- Hence Ome stress er likes and approves of me. but her father has forbidden her to go m limmestllc "Filing" d5urmg Julyl out with me. How can we get him to change him mind? I-If-I. am Decembel" bulv Ke”"P”3' ANSWER: The girl is iinquestionablv very young for you and this Speakmgv Y0” P5'59”31 "e1””0n't is doubtlcss her father's reason for obiectioii. Before making a com 5h'P5 Shiluld bf eXC5P"l0”3”Y1 niitment to you, she really should date other boys for a while If sheds h"1”m0'”W5 during I-he 1551 5” too much in love with vou to entertain thoughts of anyone else you miifihuld Ofbl-the YEl8T- h. V i must wait until Dad changes his ind, or have a ion. . serious talk with l 9 Em 11?" 0 5C "V9 d”mlB him giving your side of the story. If he's convinced of your sincerity, "115 stimulating Yeti-F THEY F9511” he'll probably relent, and let you continue dating in some nervous tension duringl ' N0V9mb9T bulw if YOU 93" 573ml DEAR MISS DIX: I became acquainted last vear with a young man .V0Ul'S9” l0 WIRE 370" W” T931174? in service. We corrs-sponded quite frequently on ta strictlv friendly basis ilhmt Y0” Win 3090139115-I1. (RF more Hes coming home now, and has promised to call me I krow mtiny girls this way than you can In E 514114? who have been disappointed in these promised calls so I dont put much lol 3-nX16W- . l l stock in this one. Howrvcr, it he does call, and comes to see me. should 1 A Child boll? 0'" this MY W111 51! I h-ave a welcome-home present for him? iclever, ambitious and highly in-i ituitive by nature.
d ATJBWER: There's no necessity for a welcome home gift. If hei woim coon .::.':..: is .12: .yJ”.i;.ili”'.ll2:f..ii.”?.i”.l;”.J3;':3L; E is l WELLAND. (CPI-Magistrate T. Ml” Nlum um,” reply Penman, George Street on Wednesday so-'. corned the word M the father Ml problems of interest through this oolumn. - .16-year-old Raymond Damube that! l . he had administered I heating to llris son as suggested by the magis- i trate last week. The youth. found lguilty last week of theft of a car gin Welland, was placed on proba-l ltion for one year. l
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early to rise." he whispered. In the poultry-house across the yard, a bird of the morning crowed lustily.
"Which hen rouses him?" we chuckled.
"1-Tie sma.i'tcst!" James replied with some inference. The house was: still silent though intuition warn-t ed that there would be present stirrings.
"Did you rest well, was James' voice again.
"Like a babe on it's mother's
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By Josephine Culbertson
A KNOTTY PROBLEM one of the most difficult pro- .. . blems a defender can face is il- Enm? mt lustrated in the followinz deal:
breast,” we replied with a touch. North deal". 01 P0951 H9 ”5h9d' "And dm. Both sides vulnenbie. you not dream, Ellen?" l .53 "Not last nightwjust slept and 'A.,- 'l9P”" I A now: "That: the way with some peii- zxg pie" he commented in a puzlirii; .A93 .Q'l2 i tone. We could not know it the (M N .3353 i iiction was commended or was just ' Q64, W E .Kg too simple to be discussed. .73 S nqyu l'I dream about . . . last night” 4.95 he said mentioning the nzune of a .K1o5 I 9 K 10 9 this realm of "time and place." ' .34 "Diream of the dead-you'll nee gA1og32 the living” we quoted. l . But. there," James came to hini- The bud ngl so "I we” isclf on a thought which threw ?”""' Eh" 2 " P". l , . - , .. V , ass back the (OVGJS hastily, this ls no 3: Pa” SNT Pu.
ltime to be talking about dreams and the day biigiit in the win- P” P”' ll'lOW. Better to be up," he smiled. North cud mt, wcept, the three- trying to make some planned one notrump oonmict with full con- come true. Hurry the breakfast. fldence. but he finally decided will you, Ellen? I think I should that it might be fatal to reach l80 0111 HORN? wduy Y0 Rive "the for B, minor-suit game. iyoung lad" I hand at his work." l West opened the five of spadu. Dummy played low, East put up tne queen. and declarer took the trick with the king. A diamond iinesse, which lost to East. clear- ed the seven-card suit in dummy, and successful defense simply did not exist. Eastls spade return was cheer. ltakeii by West with the ace, but "How did you li-ave them?" islsoubh 5”” lied me spade an m not an idle question, when we put 5ug)ow"h::bs5elg; the vast dlnuencc llflgl? mblzgslllzlfgxggllrllm W”! it, at the first trick. East. mid "All smllesln ms usual "reply samll played the spade seven instead of iriea Us unit all ls well with the I "”””' 50”" 99”” W M be”
two. How good to send folks off L” than Wm the "em and new
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So we presently fed dry cat- sticks of maple into the first-fire Jamie had kindled and iii no time the household was off to the var- ious affairs of the day in good
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All smiles was this day ushered in the new work of work. And beautiful upon the hillsides now is the spell of this March night.
Until tomorrow - - - - Diiuy h ---- Good-night”...
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0 could not keep Wesf from run- ning off four spade tr::"s. Beyond question. it. was hard for
l Exist to know which card he siiauld play at the first trick-the seven
Anne Adams. Patterns
p East would lay or down the queen of spades to cover analysis, however. points to the jack - and play of the lower card. If South
Q. May one use 5 small pieci of bread for dipping up the gravy that is left on ouch plate?
A. It is bad manners to "wipe up" we gravy with a. piece of bread held in the fingers. However, it in all right to place the broad down in the gravy, and then eat it with I fork.
. When a man is in an elevator in an office building. and a wo- man acquaintance enters, should he remove his hat?
A. He should lift his hill. in greet- ing, but it is not necessary for him to remove it in an office elevator
Q. Is n man ever privileged to remain seated while being intro- duced?
A. No; he should always riv- regardless of whether the ofhet lperion is 5 man or s woman.
the queen of spades. Close
has A-x-x of spades. defense is
lovely South could cover the queen with hopeless, since South will hold up; the king or not. as he chose, but so East
should play South for just such a holding as he has- and of course. in that ciisc. the refusal to piirt with the spade lqueen on the first trick bccomrs Iessentlal.
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A. Aricr p&ll'lPl'Ill).' R rtioiii. take a plctc oi li-iiover M.LlllllpCr Rllfl
tack it in the attic wiicre it. is exposed to light and air If some time in the future R piitch is need- ed you will have it piece that is the salllo i-olnr as the paper of the roiim.
Q. How can I remove iodine
stains from white fabric?
A. By rubbing with kerosene and then naphtha soap. Let stand for about twenty minutes, and then wash in regular way with more naphtha soap.
Q. How can I improve the flavor
of French dressing?
A. Half A lime. with as much
lemon, mixed with the Front-h dres-
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Tn! OTIONOVANI Annlvl-Dlarmud ODMIOVID. his wife -114 eight children arrived from Dublin on St. Patrick's my to msko 0194' new home near Toronto. The O'Donavsns, ail red-handed and fluent in Gaelic, will live on a form provided by . Toronto fgglmf, Lu. 0'- powder for dresser amwm mix Donor-n pom with his wife Rouleen holding Gflilnne, ll inonuu. W
younzest child. The other children are (left. to right): Ksthlcm 11-
nmh 5. lmlr I. and Maura 3. . ((3? P110101
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