A Few Frustrations Good For Modern Child Says Author

By DOROTHY ROI

they don't enjoy their children's companionship —- it's simply be-

_-bonornv . nix Heartless Intentions

and in tha_noo.i'tuture plan to marry a widowerwith two children 5 and 0 year-sold. Since tile death

In a'nlce event. today broughtv back a "peddlar-man" of the num-

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by on Island Fa.rmer’s,Wiie

e\'el'y0ile- - -In my school "he bei-ed " we must. from ih¢"l:::::

i Pnas omen’ Editor i- ‘-“-'°* " - 2.-.:::: s M W M» "* .=*=..:s:*= W °* ~.~'.-.~"°-= °.‘.‘.‘.l rs. i=.".==..::° Mame" have been Manna “,1 mac mmuln lived with their use 3115- in a first visit o "la yea; tom“ :15’ . 1;‘ d n—the young lean: bewildered too long byh clpnilictlns Page 18 The Guardian Thursday, May a, 1954 §:_f°';':,-0,‘; ‘fig: «"10 41r<:'i_l=¢-W: 53:‘... $0,‘; nag. .w.,.,°..:;° W 2* errand 3:d“3.!i‘u.snoc:m§° hard. theories of child DSYC ODKY. says FEW FRUSTBATIONS GOOD cu!" we no.“ Jun“ “my to nu “I "D “what ue your negpdzx;

Elisabeth Logan Davis, a New Jersey minister's wife and author of the new book." Mothers of America."

In research on the lives of the

Mrs. Davis has little use for the so-called ‘progressive schools whose theory was that children should be allowed to express them- selves-—to prevent future frustra-

SULTANA CAKE

Adams-MacDonald Wedd' .

sldering taking the yoimgstnrs from their present home because I ‘can't bear the thought of my husband's in-laws having any share

in his life. If the children stay where they

query of a canny fellow who had chosen to come to the yard on foot one morning of en oldlyear. "The spring-‘ ‘ ‘ eakened it and we hsvon’i got around to re-

Bocks for the boys? shirts? su-9,

ters? or maybe a'di-es; lo, mm

self?"

‘And so farwying in me bra" little assortment oi marchsnan,

mothers of famous people de- _ V , d Bu‘ “M chug“ d d h ! . bed . he b ck. Mrs‘ D...“ Lions. Bays Mrs. Davis: 1 cup butter are. nsizurally boil visit them so pairing it yet. " e , isp yed or our interest. some. :;o,.,,.,l: ma: mt?“ 0; them hug “Don't worry about frustrating 3 cups white sugar will come under the influence of “the salesmen rik itl thing oi (the atmosphere and m_ “um thing, in common; 5“-la your Child by making him be- 4 beaten eggs his first wlies family. After we A young. dark-eyed. darklsh skin- or oi ar-any lsnds—oi ll“ religious beliefs have. A lew frustrations are good 1 cup milk have the children. I intend to nod fellow this was, bright and basaars and mu-lieu of that and.

break all ties between them and their grsndparents. It may take time for me to win their love. but I know I can do it. Is there a sure way to handle this sit- uation satisfactorily?

quick and llkenhle who brought out Near-East. we lingered mm his store-on-wheels to our door nisktng odd selections. All in, this morning. “And how, Mother. while chatting of place; he had have you...hov.- do they say it?" known: Palestine-Lebanon.” .)e,u_ wintered?" he greeted us with s salem...Beirutf "You know Beirut? merry gmlle, A stylish clty—you know what I

“I"lnel" we la‘ hed "just fine!’ mean? Fashions. like Paris am; At his words. ad oi the gi-ee.n- New York. Nice” he smiled, --but

discipline. deep and not much money. She believes it is time for mothers to get back to some of the old common sense _ _ mmda,.ds'o, child ,-‘hing, um gm». ister husband and writing various get much of the advice that has magazine Irtlcles and vlavs.mlldr!- been ladled out to them in the Davis has raised lwovdaugh is—— last 25 years. ‘successfully. She believes. The)’

3‘-i cups sifted flour (use Vi cup to flour the fruit)

4 level teaspoons baking powder

Soil

1 lb. sultsina raisins

Mixed peel and cherries if liked

Flavor Wllh lemon.

Place in tube pan that has been

for him. He's going.to have to meet them in adult life, anyway." In addition to helping her min-

T. A. Davis. doctor oi

“Today's mothers are too prone to depend on the school to teach discipline. the Sunday school to vearh religion and the community in supply Tl’Cl‘r.ll on." she said in. an interview.

“This isn't becauselslory writer.

are Anne Logan inlernsl medicine at Eellevue Hos- pital. and Mrs. Theodore Good- man, -wife of an army captain. mother of two children and a short

I Morning Smile I

An Oklahoma judge once stopped

How Can I?’

By Anne Ashley Q. How can I keep the rain

lined with greased paper and bake in moderate oven 15.4 hours.

_Albany Pleasant Circle W. I.

That Body of Yours By James W. Barton. M D. LOW BACK PAIN

Several years ago I spent some time doing postgraduate work at

CHILDREN'S HAPPINESS I8 PARAMOUNT

ANSWIE: My idea of a solution "would be for everyone connected [with these youngsters to pray fre- quently and fervently, "God help itheml" » '

‘ I hope sincerely that your future husband will not permit you to get away with this cruel scheme. You have no love or even affection for chudren: your only i-housht ll jealous spite. You are willing to

we could fancy them covered again whltely with a gently Iettlina snowfall: One

the bare silver branches and sur- laced roofs in rare marble. And

and beauty of that restful season

persistence at a tidbit instead of the rippling 1ove—ca.lls worm on the lawn. There was sound oi birds of the moments. we were of posturing sheep and liimbkim enjoying the quiet and serenity on the meadow below. From the direction oi Alderleo. we caught

lng meadows and the red-brown here ,too on this Island. it is also promise of the grain-lands about. good.’

“And now you have a wife?" "Ya" his laugh was happy,

which powdered “meaning: work harder. sell more. wlnsomely tho evergreens, capped Have to, for zit the ceremony you the fence-posts. moulded tenderly promlse..soiemn, yes!"

A gentlemanly robin tugged with oi angle

a lair-3,9”. wrangle in a murder from mjmmg porch pumwsr, .me Massachusem General Hospl. sacrifice the welfare of two little "am. we be“ of the tucwr where we

case with. "Gentlemen, the onl-. issue balm-e this court is: Should the deceased have went?"

A. Outdoor pillows should hall” an inner covering of oilcloth. and an outer covering of some attract- ive washable material. Then there

Lal, Boston, and was astonished at the number of cases of low back pain which 0('i'ul'l'Ed. While there were various causes for the large

children simply because YOWT9 jealous oi your in d€°€«55°l"a PH’- cntsl ~

Doesn't that sound petty and mean? You should be willing. and

mother, how are they?"

“And the boys. who miss a farmers were at “the spreading." It was a good day, clean and aweel and full oi spring-promise for all

It is gone now. Tied up in .

“Well—and in school." “School is good...ior everyone."

"m be “° “'‘’“'3’ "hm" ‘hem °“ 3 lillmb<‘l' Of Patients Who FEPOFW1 35 h nds helped ex ress the starry-patterned night-blue ' v - ~ ~ ‘ ' take the little ones so Ey°"v 3 - V “W15 Better English zrgmdal, as the rain will not inluie that vllme. most of lhfiltill gave bu gzfigfiyofi husband would have hm words. is the scroll which records Lhg By D. c. Williams Q '”O“, can 1 mp ,,..m..5 ;,e.;,~; }‘e‘j,‘°;f’,d"fm§,’§:,’.‘§,eff'2f aflvydgyg chum“ Wm, mm_ 3“. mu, ougm d"Cvocrid forMtliose1 Jllho willlshone of its fleeting. pleasant ' , , ,_ ’ ' - - ay arm— e" w a a rig A0 I. ‘L “W” is “'“’“l‘ “Pi? ”“-‘ 59“: " T“"-‘ “‘“, “"9 "*5" “ '““-V ail:-rward acme vain occurljed ill “°" "' ”.° ‘ff,’ .";°“‘3,‘:,n°‘,,$°:§, smile “I should like to farml—for Until tomorrow—Dia.ry—Goocl. iencen “'rhPya1‘Q excgssflelv happy, are placed, umiaslied. in a lai and mm. back and the orlhnmdlc db ins all ties .vle n h husmessman M0 ‘or merchant ‘or “SM . . V. g , , , . . . and neither one of them seem lo the lid S(‘l€“€d On ilEh'l}- Place par-tmerii oi that large hospital was P€0P1e Wm ha“ give“ "h°mb;_“fih

loving care almost since Either you take the children be- _ cause (1) you love them. honestly Pictured above are Mr. and Mrs. Lorne Adams following their believe you can win their IOVC

always busy. Today thvre are perhaps more cases of arthritis in which low back

. “we 3 care in me um-]d_" in the coldest part of the refrig- . |

. ,. 2 What is i‘r.«~ cm-iect pronunci- H3101‘- “ anion of "indisputable"? I Q. How can I rr-move stubborn

Modern Etiquette By Roberta bee

Household Scrapbook

3. which one of these words is SP0“ 0“ “'11”? With?!‘ 51i0€S7 pain is ihe main symptom of which . . _ misspelled’! B:-nigiianl, beniflclaill‘, A- Try Tllbblllfl 1121111!’ With 5 the patient complains. manmge at H") B‘''"'’“ P"‘rs°""3e' OL°‘"y- °" AP”! 28”‘- The i»hl”0ll8h Y0‘-‘T °w“ ““5um'm3 dc‘ 3! 3059'“ [50 vcry fine grade or 5a_ndpflpef_ In the onmrio Medical Revmwv ceremony was performed by Rev. C. O. Howleil. The bride is the ‘anon and patience in an effort Q_ 15 it proper for 3 bl-jde_e]ec[

belligerent. bibliopole. 4. What does the word "gr-alis"‘ mean‘! i 5. Whar is a word bPE|llI‘lln;; with uns that means "unprincip-

former Wanda Isabelle McDonald, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Atwood McDonald of Glenvvood. P. E. 1.. and the groom is a son of Mr. and Mr.-‘. Rahy Adams of Knulsfnrd. The groom was supported by Mr. Kenneth Swoci llcfli while . ss Belly MacPhcrson (right) acted as bi'idi=smaid.--(Photo by I). W. Sl‘fll‘.\).

to call her friends by telephone to request that they serve as brides- maids at her wedding?

To make a dressing for white A I‘ L‘ much better if she . calls show mix 3 ounces cream of tartar. upon each one personally for ml

to establish a.true home for your new family, or (2) you leave them with their grandparents. whose care has been inspired by love.

”’T““‘— Dr. Donald C. Graham. Depart-

. . . . mcm of Medicine. l'nivcrslty of LICENCE PLATE (‘H E'A“AY Tnrmiln. and Suiiiiybmok and SI. ST. CA'l'HAl-LINES. Om.

l\ficlmel‘s I-lospi'aLs', states that

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AVSWERS Joxnfgn shiléolmg "$385". buy‘ back pain. as with the malorlty of _ DEAR Miss DIX: I've been #1 glifiexnflffihfiuicisfig °‘:’“xr‘°e ghm purpose. If this is not possible. as

s - a shotgun mm; pom, amved Mom otlicr aiinonis. early cases should Contract Bridge The Stars Say dating Naomi for almost a year end and when thoroughly dry, mb Wm‘ lrfiethe fcpsedtlzf ogt-ti:-fowfn friends

L Say’ wrhey are exceedmgy day when he spoiled a stolen Car include a careful history. Dil_ ml 3 10“ mm Culbertson we are making plans to e ma.r- . mixture of prepared chuk um ri ren y o o requesl exaniiimiion. and an adequate lab- 5' I‘ By Eatrellita ried this fall. She was married st magnwum carbonate should be written by hand.

happy, and neither one of them from its licenci plate while filling seems to have a care in the world." N19 Z35 tank R089-l‘ Rivers. 17. mid 2. Accent second syllable. not the William Maldcs. boih of Toronto! third. 3. Beneficially. 4. For noth- were charged with car theft John-

Q. I've heard that it is improper focomment on another person‘: Pun‘ G“"“' clothes. Does this mean one should

To hasten plant “Gwyn mu, . not admire or compliment mother

18, divorced and has two little boys. Shclsnowztandlamfisol leel.we are old enough to know what we want. However, she has

or3'or_v and X-ray szudy.

in the first place, it should in l‘9l1‘l(‘nlbr‘l'Cd tluit ivlillo l'.’Sf is mt- inipnztiiit factor in trcatmenl. ii

T00 CAl'Tl0US The bidding or the hand below, caused a free-for-all argument ll'l|

For Tomorrow WITH this day's lunar vibra- tions. affairs are bound to move

to dancing.

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Send order to ANNE ADAMS I/o The Guardian, so 111- g ‘ West. Toronto, omu-lo, 9” Sufi”

Bhililsnigxaiive ...also soothes llpsei Tummy!

Child’: eralkinss. sour turnvnyx breath sad ensued tongue of eonsti stion are auiekiy rdfsvad with new Chil ran’: Own

ableu Taken at bedtime. they lruhnn ‘VII! sum!!! - work fiontly in the .riornin . Good lasting! o iiayah drugs. "P"lllg V3550 5! the makers of Baby's )7: ’l‘alIiot‘x'—ymir neurones of quality. afit on the 1'lllDI'Fl'ChGlIIr"iIlluVl Jar you aluld.

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The mobility of all parts of the spine with the patient rocking in all directions with knees kept straight is also noted.

Examination, particularly of the lower limbs, with investigation oi wasting of the leg muscles and lender reflexes should be included in the physical examination. "The location of tender areas and pain- produclng activities should be noted."

“The investigation of the primary cancer sites in men and women oi the cancer age is important to pat- ents with low back pain.‘ '

The X-ray studies are also very important in these patlents—front, back. both sides and the oblique positions.

Dr. Graham states that acute or chronic strain of the low back, oc- cupatlonal and recreational. ire- illlellily associated with faulty pos- ture. muscular weakness. and obes- ity is probably the oommones cause of backache.

_‘'Even the well-built individual will develop backache ll‘ he en. gages too long and too violently ir. a form of activity to which he is unaccustomed." This brings up the matter of ex. erclse in these acute cases of low back pain. Our rehabilitation ex- ports in our military and gene;-3) hospitals are able to have the patient perform exercises by which he can stretch the muscles and joints safely without injuring the structures supporting the body. However. those rehablltatlon ax- perls imprem upon the patient the value of regular and persistent practice of these exercises but usually A period of rest in acute cases of low back pain as first pres- cribed.

GOOD RECOVERY CANVEY ISLAND. England (or)

The players were not hlgh-rank- ing experts, but they were well above average. This was the suc- tlon:

North East south West 1 A Pass 3 Q Pas 4 Q Pass 4 N '1‘ Pass 5 9 Pass 5 N '1' Pass 6 Q Pass 6 N '1‘ Pass Pass Pass

After the opening lead of a heart. South could spread the hand for all the tricks. and an argumcnl. then started over whether or not South had been timid in reach- ing only a small slam.

South‘s stand (On winch he was supported by several spectators and opposed by others) was that de-, spite North's raise to four dia-i minds and his later promise of one ace and two kings, there was grave danger that North would turn up with the ace-king oi spades, four diamonds in the ten, and the king of hearts, thus mak- ing it necessary to catch the dia-

questionably correct, but in this case he was unduly pessimistic. It is undeniable that North might have held the heart king instead of the diamond king. but in view of his direct raise to four dia- monds lwhlch incidentally was a questionable action, since North's hand was a dead. minimum) the combination chance that he would

supply the diamond king or that if he lacked that important card a diamond finesse would succeed. was good enough to justify the grand-slam effort. It was reason- able to assume. right from the

way to make improvements in your Present Set-lip. and if you encoun- ier minor obstacles. regard them as a challenge.

You have reason for timlsm now.

Domestic affairs. romance and courtship will be under fine aspects durlng the summer months and this will also be an excellent period for developing cultural interests. hobbies and other relaxing pur- suits: a good time. too. for encour- aging new friendships.

Aid given to a community prol- ecl during the fall could consider- ably enhance your prestige and popularity.

A child born on this day will be endowed with self-confidence. great energy and ability to lead.

greet op-

Married In Hamilton

in St. P a u 1 ' ‘P b ' Church decorated S in rliisniiruralilild white spring flowers and ferns with Rev. w. A. McLeod official:

mond king. which would he mis- - . ,

sing. A grand-slam contract lack- g:f;gh€::h§;'n1$[r hggay MrEld;'[d3§l ing the king of the key sult would Eldridge becarfie the him '5' obviously be a bad risk, South W,-mam'New,on ‘Penny S: “I. p°“"'°“ °"‘- Mr. and Mrs Peter l‘-‘ennn of

South's last statement was un- ' Y "

Belfast. Prince Edward Island. on Friday. April 18th.

Given in marriage by the fa. thcr. the bride wore a gown of brocaded Swiss organza with ions sleeves. and fitted bodice with full skirt. A pearl trimmed cap held her finger length veil. and she carried a white Bible

with a pale mauve orchid and white streamers. Mrs. Eldon At-

ter for you to break the engage- ment sind lndailnliely postpone all marital plans.

kinson of Chatsworth. 0nt.. was matron of honour in pink organdy and she carried pink carnations. The bridesmaids. Mrs. Ronald Salt, and Mrs. Jack Elliott. of Hamilton. Ont.. were dressed in pink organdy with pink head- dresses and carried bouqupts of pink carnations. Edward Grey 0! Hamilton. 0ni.. was best man. The ushers were Ronald Salt of Hamilton and Archibald" Eldridge of Wows. Ont... brother of the bride. The reception was held in the Pacific Hotel. The bride‘s mother received in navy sh‘eer with I corsage of pink roses. The groom's sister-in-law. Mrs. Mal- colm Penny oi Hamilton. 0nt.. as- sisted. in grey suit with white corsage. On a short wedding trip in Southern Ontario. the bride wore a grey suit with white accessor- ics. They will reside in Hamil- ton. uucsts were present from Sar- nia. St. Catharlnes. Hamilton. To- ronto. Detroit. and Jackson, Mlch., Owen Sound and London.

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