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Dorothy Dix Says

BEING NICE TO PEOPLE IS BEST TRAIT TO CULTIVATE‘

r‘! our So-Called Independence Is Often Only A _ Display Of Colossal Egotism And Costs i Your Friends

thshfiy were in Clzrisltfilchurftlri‘ and arrmsweresay gw ere- tired officer of the New Zealand ‘Southern Command, Colonel Shane; Richards had dined with them, and [he and Lorna were sitting alone on ta wide sirn-porch overlooking the Shanes’ exquisite garden. It was fa night for softer sentiments, the ‘air was sweet with the fragrance ,of stocks. and clear stars shone‘ a- lbove the ‘till trees. é " ! You dont seem exactly ke-ni Ricrards complained. "I'm getting friglltfully’ fed up with waiting!" "You're rut usually so DOSSGSSIVel" remar ed ma. "Darling, j adore you! I realize it more every day. I vivant you to be

-Dea.r Miu Dix—My mother and I have been arguing a question for some time and W6.’ cannot agree on it. She tells me I should ai- Wfllrs be “riice" to people, but I 11,121 very independent and I treat them

- _ as I peas? If I don't like any little thing about a boy, sucn as the way he drcsse , or his manners, or the kind of a game he plays, I just tell him so. and whether it offends hicn and he ricver comes back or not makes no difference i0 mo. But Mother is alvrays speakuig of personality and telling mv; to treat thorn iriccly. Recently I had a date with a new boy Ho dldrft have his cai- and, as it wa late at night when he strricd home, “other insisted on raking him iii her car. It angered me, but. Mother said thatit doesn't hurt to be nice to people. shall I listen to what Mother tells me, ergo my inedpcndclit ivay? JOSEPHINE. l ANS“'PIMBFIIIE nit-e to people is only fol- i lowing tire Golden Rule-win unto trlliers as you mi‘ ‘VH9!’ would lime. them (to unto you. Iii llliil. you will ! Richards leaned towllrds h" m find the one perfect code of hutniiii behavior. the halt’ 115th}. his dark eyes pas- Arid its very foundation stone is being‘ "nice to Simfilfi- 100311118 11D Bi» him 3* 5h‘! people. Pr-ing coirrtcoirs to thorn. showing thorn lay in 11B? Chill‘. 10ml fell 5° m‘ little attentions, Doing whatever you can to make life plcasiriiicr- r.nd tie moved herself that his emotion ea icr for those with whom you come in contac Helping the lame dog seemed to her almost like 911W- ovcr the stile. Siiblflg a young man ‘W’ ' “‘i' W i acting. irtm a long walk at irlght by tak- Arsswlg}: ._\vhy, my dear Mrs, “You and I —we understand one int; him home in her car, as your E, 5_ M , mm‘; you know that the another." He went on: "We've been mother did. chief thing that men marry for is lengaged for six months now, let's ‘There is nothing that infringes to get somebody io lay thing. on? _make it definite for March!" on your independence in being nice Wm; r; Gym“, Lonpa caught sight of Mrs. Shane to people You dorrt have to husband blames emerging from the house. 511d Said iluiikcy" to them or enslave your- thing that goes hurriedly: self You are merely kindly and hClLsChfild got a tiivorce, there “I'm afraid this is hardly the time helpful. You are not hypocritical wouldn't, be eriuiigi) rrrgrrjed or place to arrange lt!"

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or crbhoirest when you refrain from criticizing another and saying some- thing that will hurt his feelings or mortify him. You are merely be- ing (icceirt and civilized.

(‘nlossal Egoiism

It has been my unhappy lot to know many people who prided them elves upon their independ- dence and upon being plain spoken. and I have never known one of triem whose independence was not a cainoulflage for colossal egotism and uhcse plain speaking was not. lllfifilffl by envy and malice and all uiiclraritabieness. And I have hover known one who could take it when they met some one as boorish as themelves.

For no matter how we treat others, we want. everyone to be nice to us We want the rough places in life made smooth for us. We want to be admired, flattered, courted, and the last ‘thing on earth we desire is to have the plain. unvarnished truth spoken to us and to be reminded of our faults and foibles.

So I earnestly advise you to take your mother's advice and learn how to be nioe to people. It. will take you a longer way and by pleasanter paths than in- dependence will.

a e o DUAL PERSONALITY HARD TO DECIPHER

Dead Dorothy Dix-What would you do with a. husband who is always insisting that you do some- thing. and then after you do it blames you for it and denies that he ever‘ had any part in it? For instance we were ping on a trip and he insisted tha I buy a good hat. He went with me to chooe it and I got what he liked. but. now he says that I was crazy to pick it out, and that any woman who would wear such a hat should be in the insane asylum.

Again: I walk mvself to death house hunting and finally he will agree that some pace is O.K.. but as soon as we are settled he will begin finding fault ivith it and say that he never would have picked out such a house.

I have been to a lawyer to see about a divorce, for with such an unstable person you never know what to do, or even where you stand. It makes You feel that you are either married to twins or somebody having a dual person-

women left to make a quorum when the Lldles Tea Circle incl to de- bate "Is Marriage a Failure?"

Did you ever KNOW a. man who failed in busintss who didn't lay it on his wiles exti" v-Dancc, or her iallure l0 propcixy‘ encourage hirii? Did you OvCL‘ kiiuu‘ a tiruiik- itrd who ovasait (il'l\‘(‘ll to drink by his wiie? lJio you ovcr know a man who didn't bliiiirc hrs wuic for i hi. chidlrcn lzciirg iil-irriiiincrcd brat. , or for having snub n 2s and curroty hair, or" thing dull and stupid?

Did you ever know of a couple

going on a vacation. when it rained every day and the iris- .ii— toes were terrible and the hotels miserable. that the husband didn't blame his wife ior the weather and claim that she nicked out the place, anyway? ‘ _ 50 SOLI perceive that you are lU-it shllflfli.’ the common lot when your husband makes you the cape- goat. and what you need rs a sense of humor instead of a divorce Think it over and inst see how side-splittiiigly funnj; it is for your husband to try to have his face by holding you resumi- sible for all oi hi. mistakes and blunders. Latin. it off ilistcatl of Edi-ling sore about it.

If you irave a husband who is otherwise desirable. who pays the mus and Elves S011 fl 200d lioiiie and is reasonably amiable about OEh9l"Il'l&t[‘Cl'5, Just quit QUIITFL. 1118 with him about trying to hide behind YOU!‘ Skirt. . Just siiru" is off as part of the little om-‘tomi plex he has never" outgrown,

Ami If n» i5 filly comfort to vou rest assured that you have plenty °f fmlpflfly among our sister- women.

l! O I Tl-IE TEAM MUST PULL TOGETHER

Dear Miss Dl.'-—Wl woman take more irloyllblgloljloldgeat, 210m with her husband and lllqggc 1m than a husband should to gel a ong with his wife and keen her in love with him? B15371.“

ANSWER- No reason in the WOT“ "wilt that it is more lm. Dortant to a woman to keep her husband than it is for him to keep he“ Mflfflflzc is not only a woman‘; Bvocation. but her vocation. Wife- hood is her profession, her homi- is her workshop, her husband is her pay envelope. Arid so not onlv

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_A]t.hough the mirning apect is not auspicLus for immediate bene-

Richnrd drew back but added earnestly‘ under his breath:

"Anyhow, I adore you more and

more every clay ! "

Lorna. meanwhile. was surprised by an unmistakeable sense 0i re- lic" She went to lier room a few llllllllifs latcr to‘ put on her wrap. for ihcy were going to ii Red C109» all m Christchurch which the GD\'(‘l'llUI‘-G‘3l1£‘i‘i\l_ was atleiirlirtq. air...- Mar wa nvthe room, and

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"If you don't have a good hilly." sud lvIr-s itiarris c'r:1,v. "Its not .or want of trying!" _ “I'm tired to death of having a

iinrc," said Lorna, "so ‘ do‘ .i‘t clrccr mo in the lca t!_But the pro: pcct of the so-culled ‘serious? _ things of life is even worse. Mount Street. a handsome luisbanti. ccck- tail parties. possibly a baby if one could bring oneself to take so much I trouble Anti thcii a sickening pic- turt- in the magazine oi Mrs. Ai- lcn Richards with hcr eldest-born of something like that.“

lilies Marris picked up he!‘ em- broidery bag with a faint smile and the ambiguous remark:

“Utterly sickcniir" I agree!"

"It's just a trap.‘ Lorna stormed on. "You're attracted to someone for a while --nnd then you fiird they're just human beings like any- one clsc --if they aren't very much wor c!”

“All this doesn't sound very loyal to Allen!" Miss Marris suggested mildly.

"Yoyali" Lornals voice expressed a. world o impatience.

In my time we understood the meaning of the word 'loyalty’!" Miss Marris began. "We understood the meaning of many things ‘Ziat 3.ou._..

"I must go!" said Lorna. “You can see I must o this moment. darling, because A en is waiting for me, and you've told me so often what is wrong with my ideas. but

things except. as they are "

And the departed with a sweep of black taffeta skirts, the black lace hood on her head showing a curl of flaming hair on the pale check of her troubled, impetuous

- New undertakings, new partnr-ish ps

that ‘T

'she was with. It was getting oi". to-

fits, sudden changts or dccsons, Care and tact can steer you throug-l- to the more fawrabre afternoon as- pects which especially spcnscr memanical and industrial lines APRIL 21 to MAY 20 (Tauruw-

and drastic dcvation frm your prscribcd ccuzse or diLes will re- quire mcre than usual ski! and thought. Be detcrmned, hut lair.

MAY 21 to JUNE 21 (GCfll.llil— Finaiical tvansactcni. sales brdi.

Jildng material espec-l ially’ favrred. Thlk ilzings out carefully beioc ilCLllfl.

JUNE 22 to JULY 23 iCiircc i-— z ' ma)‘ be a tendency ' ' yzu j. t .ng y: r‘ 021511) Prc- trrcazra ged

cced with

plans.

hopefully

JULY 24 l) AUGUST ‘Z2 (L0,)- A dificizlt but very intcrcstrg and prcduct e day l 1' the on: who h-s cinotozial ctrtrwl and iollcivs lire, rules of c immon SCIISQ plus waatrt ire izr shz) has learned frtrn cx-l perieiicc. AUGUST 23 to SEPTEMBER 23} (Virgo) - S ‘n'e gccd fortune int practical matl-rrs, and some tiyngi mcmcnis, cipsc ally if ycu pirmltl little pesky things to lake you l. moi and at-tmtlzir away from the llliffll inrpzrtant. worth while issues Elim- ,' inato red lane for quicker effc ircv . SEPTEMBER 24 to OCTOBER 23 iI-ibra» - May not bc a money- dav but certainly is one for geti-Ingl places through gscd performance.’ and straight, thinking. M ei opposi-

Richards noticing her glance, gave Lorna a meaning look and a smile.

"Does he imagine I irilnd?" said Lorna. to herself, with a iort of ll‘- ritated contempt. It was the noise of the crowd which got on her nerves, not Allen's flirtatoiiis. Soon afterwards he and the blonde dis- appeared completely". Lorna began to be utterly bored with the oartv

wards nridiriuht: she ‘yielded lo a reckless impul e to go ironic. Hawks- ford, presumably. was waiting out- side with his car, it meant his driv- ing her home alone. but what did

face.

“If one could only get away from it all,“ she thought. wcarily, as she walked to meet Allen in the Shrines’

land went to the cloakroom to get

white panelled hall.

She closed her eyes. and for an instant she seemed to see the wide back country of New Zea- land, the lowlands rolling in wave on wave to the foot of the central mountain wall, empty, sirnlit. silent but for the whisper of wind among the tussock grasses.

"Peace!" she thought; and open- ed her eyes to see Allen before her.

"Come and have a spot before we go!" he said

CHAPTER. VI A SLIGHT AVENGED

The Governor-General was pre- sent at the reception, and the Morris's and Richards had seats be-

ality. We have dreadful quarrels end I have told him we had better depends upon h d ‘ - separate. For whv should two and making a siigcegnoézf ilelofiidatli? people go on living like this? age. MRS. E. s.

her happiness but her prmperijy

DOROTHY DIX.

DOILY IN CLUSTER AND WHEEL DESIGN

she care? She asked FlightLs Westry to order her car for hcr.

her wrap; Westry met her as :he came out.

"It seems the car isn't there lust now!" he told her, looking a trifle uncomfortable

"Not there?" said Lorna, in as- l/Onislrmctlt.

Hawksford was standing at We street door. He informed her as >he came towards him:

(To Be Continued)

DO AS THEY DO lN ENGLAND

hind the vice-regal chair on a slight dais at the end of the hall.

Lorna danced with Richards, and I after half an hour or s0. General i Marris returned t0 the Shanea’ with ' some other elder members of the party- Loma did not see him go, but Richards told her a few min. uics later: |

"Sir Weston has gone with the ' Shancs, but he has left the car] here for us."

They joined a artv of New Zea- land Air Force of loers: Lorna found herself dancing with a Plight-Lieu- tenant naimed Westry. Wgstry w“ English, knew people whom Lorna knew at home, and was di‘ posed to dliplfly marked admiration. In the supper room she was with Westry again. and she noticed her fiance obviously embarked on a terrific

fight

cold and

fatigue with HOT

Bovfil

flirtation with an exquisite “' " TILLIE THE TOILER _

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Your Individual

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tion with facts and unbeatable com- mcn sense.

OCTOBER 24 toNOVEMBlElR 2: (Smrpl ) Builders, engmeers ( . .1 and trariiportaticni, tool makers, pumbers txpert mechanics and all oi ycu w o are generally handy and clever: Give the best performance yzu know h:iw—ber.e- fits will Lllow.

NOVEMBER 23 t. DECEMBER 22 (Sig ttarlus _—- Move cautiously and patiently th:s moi-nag. Get y-qur- prii-pfl‘ marrngs, than you can act with DPJCI‘ pricis on and ac- curacy. A goid (lay for develop- niszrt, n c:.~.=ary cxpaiiscn and ac.- celeralron.

DECEMBER ‘J3 i) JANUARY 21

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DYOIIISTS Cl" DQIIlZlITIHIICBi

i'e.~p.i\.slb1l'.t-'cs with the needed courage and f~rt iud-e. Evmy day shculd be a tmc for at least some \\'"1‘llly are illlllllzllllfillt.

JANUARY 22 to FEBRUARY Z0 (Aqiiarirsr - Tiic un-rxpecied l3 vcry lkely to occur‘, Be iearTy t0 meet any cxig iicyyTbs dots not nec:s:arf1y' ircaii dfficult cs - it. c111 irrcan irnuuiily gfld irirturie. B: on your loos.

FEBRUARY 21 i3 MARCH 20 (P - The afirrn in can be

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A CHILD BORN ON THIS DAY will find soire l‘mt-:'t‘ciri in its restless ' ie 1:1‘ rlrnge and iririii»oiiie..t. It has a bright mind, is intuitive fllld a £13.61 student. Must bc taught to wifllltl firmly on to cultivate its finer qualities to the utmost. Caze- IQISIV chosen assccinus can b3 mot Ii-amrfirl. Good looks are prbrbly its heritage.

important Message to Folks Who llave

llEAll Blllll

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shrinks swollen

A MorningSmile

Bill~ua back and lick him.

Jack-But he's already given me two black eyes.

Bill-Well he can't give you any more, can he?

HE WAS SATISFIED

While Mrs. MacPhersim was bending over the washtub, rubbing and scrubbing, there came a tirud knock at thc back door.

Angry at the interruption, Mre. M_. flung open the door and stood w;th steaming hands on hips, eyeing a sad little pedlar.

"Did ye want t: see me?" she de- manded.

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BED CROSS

I sewed today-the room was large and bright And

many on my frzende were there. I made a dress-a sine fourteen, the pattern said, And wondered as I sewed. what girl In what fa: distant Wear it.

0, daughter cd mine what. tress c! time or circumstance lCoulld eguse the women of an alien an

To se-w for you. For your sake, in that dress of blue, I tutsléezi a scarlet handkerchief and

I took my turn at table and machine, And. as 1 cut and sewed, I breathed

' care

OI tiwo girls, turned Iouncen."

-By Myra Spuatford. in Good

House-keep "c lihgazirie.

CIIAISE LOM: GIVES NOTE 0F I.".‘~'I.'RY

A chaise longue gyes a woman the touch of luxury she loves in the , whether she has chosen

THE COOK'S CORNER

OATMEAL COOKIES

3-4 cup butter i 1-2 cups b own sugar

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1-2 cups fine rolled oats 1-2 cups "flour

2 tfaspoon soda

1 teaspoon baking powder

Pinch of salt 1 teaspoon vanilla

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Favorite Cowboy Songs Pep Up Parties, Dates

Kill-L UNJJLL UILRDLL UN.

With Songbooks All Join In

Sinai"; the cram! old cowboy songs, what a warm glow you feel! Even a shy group‘ mellow, When you pass the songbook: around. choose a favorite such as “The Cowboy's Dream" for a start: "The? say there will be a great

round-up

Ana cowboys like (lugieg will

d;

a n To be marked by the Riders o! iudlment

WM B"! Posted and know ev'ry

brand. Roll on, roll on, roll on, roll on, roll on, little clogies—"

For real mwboy flavor, "'11" Stutterin‘ Cowboy" is a dandy. "l-le stuttered so much, I'm a tellin’

you true, He had his own broncho a-stutter- in’ too."

With heads together over the songbooks. everyone will be calling out his favorite. Sure to be picked are “Home on the Range." "Git Along Little Dogies" and "Two. Gun Bonnle"—the gal who was

“Tough as any hombre,

But always on the level."

Our cowboy songbook has ll up! Western dlttieii of love and loneli- ness. home and far-away. Complete words. music and piano accompani- ment for each song: several have ftuitar diagrams.

Bend 20c in coins for your cc of P ar Ccwboy songs to e Gua ian Home Service, Be sure to writsgalainly your Name, Ad- dress an the Name of booklet,

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