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TIIE GUARDIAN

JULY 22. 1953

A lliliott-Worthy Wedding

Reverend Canon .1. T. Ibbott. rector of st. Paul's Anglican Church. was married in the church of which he has been in charge to Mrs. Bessie Heartz Gillarn Worthy by the Right Reverend R. H. Wat- erman. Lord Bishop of Nova Scotla. assisted by Reverend Canon E. M. Malone. Marriage vows were ex- changed yesterday morning at 8.30.

The bride was given in marriage by her father, Mr. W. Gillam. Mrs. Herbert L, MacPherson was matron of honor. The grocmsnian was Mr. George G. Wood and Mr. Thomas D. DeBlois was usher.

The choir sang "The Voice That Breathed o'er Eden" and "0 Per- fect Love" under the direction of organist and choirmaster. Mr. Paul Cudmore, A. Mus.

Canon Ibbott and Mrs. lbbott left on a brief motor mp to Toron- to. Ont.. and on their return trip will spend the rest of the summer it Btnnhope.

cece:s:e:a:e' Cook's Corner Lorelei Salad Dressing

Two whole cggs or4 yolks. ll cup vinegar or lemon juice. I cup sour milk or cream til sour milk is used add 2 t-.ibl:spoons butter at the enclt. lg tablespoon sugar, 1: teaspoon salt. ii tea- l-poon each mustard and paprika

Mix dry ingredients. Beat eggs Intil light and add all other in- zredlents. Stir in double boiler un- til thickened, ltcmovo from heat ind beat well. Do not cook this one noment after it has thickened. if it curdles. strain it before cooling.

Sour Cream Salad Dressing

in top of double boiler mix 1.- tesspoon salt. 1 teaspoon sugar. ll teaspoon mustard, '1: teaspoon pep- per. Beat in 1 egg. then slowly add 1 cup sour cream. stirring over heat. Stir until it thickens and immedi- ately remove from heat. when cool. add 1 teaspoon either vinegar or lemon juice. Delicious with shred- ded garden lettuce.

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In order to achieve your desires. discus practical methods with an associate this day and then get busy. This is not a period to sit back and wait for things to hap- pen. but one in which to take the initiative after careful study and analysis ofthe projectat hand.

This is also an excellent time to put your skills to better use and. if possible. to discover new talents

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Turpentine. kerosene and clean- ing fluid are all good for paint spot removal. unless the spots are old. For old paint spots. try combin- ing equal parts of turpentine and acetone (or nail polish remover). as long as the fabric involved is not acetate rayon. and use it as you would ordinary cleaning fluid.

Scorched Linen

If you scorch linen. cut a raw on- ion in half and rub the flat side on the discolored area: then soak linen in cold water several hours

Hard Putty .

Putty that has become hard and dry can be revived by mixing it well with a few drops of linseed oil.

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A. Cover it with a thin coating of laundry starch. Let this dry. then polish it off with a dry soft cloth.

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Q. if a girl has in definite en- gagement with a man. and he does not. call her. what would you sug- gest that she do?

A. Wait' a reasonable length of time, even an hour. then leave a message with someone or a note. saying that she has gone out. When this man does call or telephone to explain. if he does. then she should use her best judgement as to whe- ther he should be forgiven or not.

Q. What is the preferable time for one to make a chance call?

A. Sunday afternoon or evening a.r.e..the most P991113! times for this type of visit. ' ” " '

Q. May it bride's maid of honor or bridesmaids wear any kind of or- naments?

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FIRST. THE FAMILY DOTOB

some years ago .3 middle-aged woman called up her brother - a. general physician - by long dis- snce and asked him the name of I good heart specialist in her city. He asked her a few questions re- garding shortnees of breath, swell- ing of feet - but she wanted to consult a heart specialist. Without further ado. he named a noted heart specialist in her city. short- ly afterward, he received an 'in- dignant letter from the heart specialist for referring a "heart" patient who had no signs of heart disease. -

Why was the heart specialist so indignant? The heart and other specialists want patients referred to them .who have first consulted I. general physician, those whose report they wish to study before examining patient. This ssveii much time for patient and phy- sician and gives the specialist much information which could have a bearing on any heart or other special organ or organs.

In "Today's Health," published by the American Medical Associa- tion. Dr. Stanley B. Weld. "Con- necticut State Medical .lournal.' has a short editorial headed; "First. the Family Doctor." in which he states:

"It may seem strange that I, a specialist. advise you to consult your family doctor first and see the specialist second. There are occasional exceptions but, by and large. it is a good rule for you to follow. First of all, it may save both time and money. Your family

physician knows you and your background well. he knows your medical history (illnesses and

operatioiisl. your family heritage. and your emotional reactions. He knows that many symptoms may be the direct result of faulty habits, inadequate or improper diet, pro- longed fatigue or the great bug- bear. worry." g

As we study the above simple facts and remember that some pa- tients miike a mountain out of a moleliill and others make a niole- hiil out of ii niouiilain. we can readily understand how much use- ful information a patient can give the specialist as he gives him the physician's report. or the phy- sician sends his report to the specialist. .

D2". Weld states ft:,':iiher. "Do not delay making an appointment Willi your doctor. He is in busy man and not always available on short notice. Request a thorough examination and do not be sat- isfied with anything else. Treat- ment adriscd or given should not be accepted without first a good examination. If consultation with a specialist is recommended after ii thorough examination. take your doctors” advice and follow it with confidence.”

I believe if patients would fol- low the above simple method of procedure, they would best achieve their real goal which was to find out their actual physical condition.

TOURIST ATTRACTION

REGINA (CPI - Twenty-three per-cent more United Statm cars entered Saskatchewan in the first five months of this year than dur- ing a similar period of 1952, the tourist office announced.

Canadian ll.c.M.P. outfit Makes Hit

T red cost end hip real-life. brought waves of 513- Beach. Calif. Rere. her brief ver- W stockings of Miss plsuu as she appeared in Min - - Lil Tbelnin amvu in Universe compcutlon at Long

slon of the R.0.M.P. uniform en- ugee the attention of net: Knapp. mu New York. A

cmilliiii Bride and Iler lirooni to Holiday In lies

Newlyweds British film mag- ing at the airport in London for nate Sir Alexander Korda. aged their departure to Nice. France, for 59. and his 25-year-old actress wife.ln three-tveeks' cruise aboard Sir the former Alexandre Boycun of;Alexander's yacht. They were mar- Fort William. Ont.. are seen arriv-tried last month in France.

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Young Husband Strays

Wife. Expectant Mother. On Edge. Believing Mate May Wani Divorce DEAR MISS DIX: I have been married for eighteen months and ex-

pect my baby next. month. In all this time Dzin has been so good to me and I love him very much. btit now I find that I am faced with R prob-

lem. During the last few months I have noticed that he has become irritable and now he says he no” longer loves me. but has been seeing aiiothcr wo- man. He hasn't asked for a divorce. but I am on cdge wondering when the request will come. WILMA THE CHILD MAY WIN FATHER

ANSWER: The prospect of fatherhood is a be- wildering one. and some men react in mysterious ways to their new responsibility. Your husband seems to be unconsciously i-ejecting it, and his effort to seek affection without obligation is shown in his nttentlon to a woman. who has no claim on him. when the baby arrives. he'll undoubtedly return to

Ilurlel Nissan his normal. paternal self. and give the new member of the family his

just due of love and attention. Wait and see what develops in the

next month.

DEAR MISS DIX: I am upset about a dear friend of mine. Sylvia. She had a misunderstanding with Adele. El mutual friend. and though Adele has apologized for her part in the trouble. Sylvia refuses to ac- cept the apology or return to their former status of friendship. I think she is wrong. but how can I tell her so? MARY G.

ANSWER: One of the meanest. and most childish things a person can do is to persist stubbornly in maintaining a quarrel after an apology has been made. There's nothing more Adele can do; and Sylvia is very wrong to withhold forgiveness. Beyond telling her this,

there's little you can do to patch things up. Almost any effort will only add 'fuel to the fire and strengthen Sylvia's determination to con- tinue the misunderstanding. '

DEAR MISS DIX: I am quite interested in a young man at my office. and would like to know how I can go about meeting him. Al- though I pass him in the corridor he never says hello to me.

RM.

ANSWER: It's the lady's privilege to speak first. and certairily there could be no difficulty about your bidding him it cheerful "good morn- ing." If he's interested, he'll take full advantage of your overture. If you feel particularly formal. why not have a co-worker introduce you both? In a place of business. however, such formality would be rather out of place.

DEAR MISS DIX: .For the past three years I've been in love with Elijah. who also declared his love for me. Last summer he went to California and wrote me three or four times a week. When he re- turned. a schuolmate said she was in love with him and that he loved her. too. Other people have verified the fact that they go out to-

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STORY IN QUILT

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A man and his wife. celebrating the Coronation. called at a public- house for a drink. The husband! asked for I pint and the wife had a cocktail. The woman asked the barman for in cherry. but he didn't understand and fetched the nun- sger. who supplied one. Upon which the barman exclaimed to the hus- band: "What would you like in your pint - s toffee-apple?”

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"Tell me more sboutycur ferm- ing.iEllenyl' a visiting vaicstlonist since returned to her own State. begged on a day of. long ago. "Is it in perfect u-y u seem to find it? Or is the occupation not still as it is mostly painted: an arduous and rather monotonous life?"

swallows drifted in happy flight about the yard, shedding me sun- light gracefully from dark burn- ished wings; wild ducks in a pair lifted from the bottom of the val- ley and flew into the south of the morning: the sun sipped its nec- tar of dew from the hillsides: and arched in a high curve above the summer farmlands. the sky was cloudlessly blue. A Flicker tapped out code against the grey iirnb of an ancient orchard tree.

"That is a laugh!" . we decoded it, "you tell her. Ellcni"

"Perfect!" we echoed with a smile. "Well. after all. they say nothing is perfect except on paperl But when you come to weight them seriously not only farming but all callings and occupations have their less appealing side. Folks do. you know, 'keep the fair side to London? " - "Oh yes. I know," "but still I can't seem to get that old notion out of my mind . . . the tell that goes with working on the land."

"Since Eden." we chuckled. "ev- eryone must toil - they do youi know, one way or another . . . even the wealthy have to worry over their wealth and think up

she nodded.

new amusements to entertain themselves!" ”Toil . . . " we considered it;

though we are busy on these forms of ours, toll is not a word that en- ters into their operation. On the opposite slope on a smait and ver- satile little tractor a farmer was cultivating, without much drain on his energy, his field of potatoes: a farmer's car of imposing lines flashed by, we suspected on busi- ness in connection with his farm; this truck eased down the lane to return us the cream cans from the

i'lding it with infinitely moi'e ease than his bicycle. appeared in sight on the tractor, on his way to the mill for boards.

"You tell her, Ellen!" the code was repeated. "Toll . . . don't you think we

confuse that word with 'busy' - thcrc is a difference you know! On farms our interests are so many and varied. we are busy. but not bound slaves at alll And farming has its concerns: we have those days when things are out of line- an animal dies. a machine much

wait repairs or replacement; in the heat of some endeavour when time is at a premium. a matter of fencing thrusts itself between. But usually because ours are. we would say. born farmers. we are able to

Peck these 3--you're all set for a weekend of funl Halter. shorts. skirt mix and match endlessly with other sepu-eta - take you out day or evening - keep you- cool. active.

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We heard Grsncldaughtlere laugh- ing: "Here let me do that! What do men know about mixing cakes?" From the barn came the regular beat of hammers. the ring of the saw; James was there with the help. a dozen intriguing, interests in mind barn. herds flocks, fields... and the insistent blos- som oii the haylandsl "Monotonous." we repeated. "oh no. with us it's anything but that! It's. . but how could we find words to describe it's delights as we saw them to this career-girl from an office in '. great city!

"I'm beginning to think the world has a mistaken conception of farming." she smiled. "I rather wish." she chuckled. "I had met up with an Island farmer myself -somewhere back along. But I guess there is little we can do about

it now; we must leave things as they are . . . 'no question - no re- grets.' "

Night now with "a thousand eyes." cuddles the quiet farm- lands.

Until tomorrow - - - Diary- - -

Good-night . . . . .

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1. what is wrong with this sen- tence? "There is no necessity of us going right away."

2. What is the correct pronouncin- tion of "celibracy"?

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3. which one of these words is mispelled? Alamode. alacrity. al- batross. allienate.

4. what does the word "phleg- matic" mean?

5. What is a word beginning of that means "shameless boldness '?

ANSWERS

1. Say. "There is no necessity of our going immediately." 2. Pro- nounce sci-l-ba-si. e as in sell. both i's as in it. a unstressed. 'ac-

mnintain the even tenor of our days." "But it does hccmne monoton-

ous?" she queried. "there is that over and over again' to it. isn't there?"

"Monotonous?" It is a queer

word. pretttly lettered but never- theless pitifttl in its significence

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