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town's "New Year Baby". A son of Mr. and Mrs. Fred Perry’ 73 Douglas Street. he arrived at. 4:48 Wednesday morning . . 4 and _weighed 7 pounds, 4 ounces. He and his parents will receive a number of useful gifts from these Charlottetown mer- chants who ioin together in wel-
coming this community's first
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women want. PREFER. SYMPATHY
And weren't you pretty short with the young wife who com- plains of being tied down with a baby, presently unable to get out and be sociable? Most of us have been through that stage. so we know she needs real sympathy and u'nderstanding—not referral to a psychologist.
MARY HAWORT_l_-_l
Must Present The Truth
Dear Mary Haworth: The wo-4 men in our club think you need a vacation. We were all so pleased with your counsel at first but lately you've written in a tired, disillusioned, c r o c h e ty vein. Or is someone else doing your work for you? That we can’t believe.
You shouldn’t let your own re- ligious theories sway you so much, in advising others who perhaps have different views. For example, there was a great contrast between answers given by you and another news- paper counsellor recently. In both cases. young divorcees had written. complaining of loneliness and asking how to find compan- ionship and meet men. Your re- ply was to live a quiet life and pray—or something to that effect. The~other expert said “let out in the world and meet men-and even mentioned places where to find them. which is what these
being educated, they are led to believe they're real persons, with talents and abilities. Then after marriage they are suddenly re- st-rieted, with little chance to get out—as baby sitters are scarce and costly, and husbands often unsympathetic. Young wives need practical advice on how to surmount these difficulties; and often the husbands need advice, too. As schools have failed to prepare girls for this period of ilfe, you counsellors should fill the gap.
It is fine to recommend books, to supplement your advice; but you shouldn’t do it.-' to ear your own burden. Being to to read a book or see a psychiatrist can be pretty exasperating. . ., . I have a friend WIIIO is a psychi- atrist, but his own life is so in-
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volved and he so cynical, that he would be the worst possible therapist. BRIGHT FUTURE
Finally, we're not at all sure
-that you and other advice-givers B
should always encourage a cou- ple to stay together, who are in- compatible and quarrelsome, like a couple of cats tied over a line. Perhaps a trial separation is bet- r, to show how much each needs the other — especially if there are no children, or the children are grown.
Friend Mary, you need rest and some new reading matter. You have a hard job and i-t’s get- ting you down. We have lots of faith in you; and think you can do an even better job in future. All the best. S. F.
LET GOD RULE
Dear S. F.: You astonlsh me. I never felt less tired. disillu- sioned or crochety. The truth is I feel wonderful; and in fact had been thinking my counsel was getting better. nowadays, be- cause administered in more ser- ene spirit.
Years ago I used to tackle every s u b j e at with fiirious energy. that some readers mis- took for 111 humor! I've since learned that God runs the uni- verse. and that I can afford to function in a less urgent way- and probably be more helpful be- cause of not trying to do it all!
Now about letting my religious theories sway me, in advising others with perhaps different views. One's religious sense is a part of what one is. And since I
ask my advice, I assume they want to know MY viewpoint- which naturally will incorporate what I honestly believe to be true of life. The person who aims to be all things to all people has
serving purpose. of trying to please. And the person who tries to please everybody, pleases no- body. So shall we just settle tor being I forthright.
NEED FAITH \
As for my alleged advice to a lonely divorcee, to lead a quiet life and pray, you've got me con- fused with somebody else, I think —or you’ve got the story. all mixed - up. My only recently lonely-heart problem of that type concerned a youthful widow who has dates and occasional beaux, but none with honorable intent- and she wants marriage. She lives in a man-scarce town, and I told her to upset the law of averages. which are against her, by learning to use constructive thinking to her advantage.‘ And so I furnished a list of books that give invaluable know - how along this line. Quite a different matter from advocating passive praying.-
“Faith without works is dead," you know. And people have got to learn to think for themselves, before they can ever take profit from outside guidance. I try to prod them into this kind of learn- ing. .
Found Russian People Friendly
MONTREAL (CP)—Mme. Jac- ques Beaudry, recently returned from a tour of Russia with orch- estra - conductor husband, says she found the Russian people uni- formly friendly but varying in temperament.
“Just as in the United States or Europe, the people of the south of Russia are more exhuberant more enthusiastic ._than their northern counterparts," she said Friday in an interview.
On the invitation of the Soviet ministry of culture, Mr. Beaudry was guest conductor of Russian orchestras in seven major cities.
Whenever he rehearsed, Mme. Beaudry was somewhere in the audience.
“I ‘never missed any of the 22 rehearsals," she said. “Many Rus- sians liked to attend the rehears- als, too — something not often done in Canada."
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As for the young mother’: re- jecting attitude towards the dis- ciplines of wifehood and mother- hood on a shoestring, she needs more than sympathy. She needs insight, perspective and a gen- eral toning-up of her will-to-do. This I gave her, in capsule dose, and told her where to get more of the same. Too bad we each have to work for wisdom that sticks to us, but that's the way life’ is. Thank you all for your genuinely fnlendly interest. M. H.
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