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DIVORCE O EN NECESSARY T0 PREVENT RUINING LIVES

However, Thousands Of Couples Separate Because Of Desire For Change

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DEAR MISS DIX-There is no denying that divorce is always a. trag- edy, for it ntcans the end of so many dreams, the shattering oi so much -.l that should have been fine and beautiful but has become sordid and hide- otts. Nor is there any denying that it is best for children to have both parents IF the father and mother are liaDDy together. bu! Ll they M‘? KIM. it's iiell tor lkll‘ children and the parents.

I know wiiercof I speak because it is what my husband and I are going through right now. For flve years my husband and I have been endur- ing each other because we felt it was our dtity to keep u the semblance

. , . . of a home for the sake of our ch ldren. but I am l‘ slowly and surely getting to the point where I think the dav will come when they will say to us, "why in the vyorid didn't you part when you felt toward each other as you do and knew you were ruining each otliers' lives?"

Well. Miss Dix. my daughter is l4 and my son is 10 There wotiid be many years until the! leave us and 5ft up liomcs of lIlEIl‘ own. Its a long prison tcriii for having committed th€_Ci‘lll'lC of making a mistake in marriage and bringing two children into the world.

LITTLE FOX.

iusE/[EEVEXTO Pcusn MY GUN - THEN FOR ECONOMY l USE THE 5AME TISSUE TO PUT A SHINE ON MY BELT AND BOOTS ’ (From a lc/Irr 17,. it. s. w.)

ASWEIR-Whetlier a divorce is right or wrong and whether it is better for a disgruntlrd couple with chiicrcn to part and go their separate ways. or to declare some sort of an armistice that will ' v » enable them to live together for the sake of their children, depends altogether upon the circumstances in the case, and the strength of character of the man and woman. _

Often a divorce is asniuch a necessity as a major operation. The ﬁne young iiian who marries in good faith a girl ho _bCll€V€d to bcgall that was sweet and lovely. and finds lier out. to be a Virago or libertine; the trusting young girl who marries a man who is a great lover but who turn! into a brutal husband, are certainly justified in leaving the inates who would ruin their lives. Nor is aiiv morality achieved by forcing two mople to live together who are so antagonistic in temperament that they bring out everything that is bad in each others natures, and poison with their hate the very food that they eat together.

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primed. Peel and slice the onion; lessen the 5pm..‘ o; the cooking“

remove seeds tom the pepper and chop it fine. Arrange in a kettle layers of the cucumber 511cc; onion

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and allow to stand overnight. In the morning. drain and rinse. Add . turmeric, mustard seed and cc" _ seed. Cover with vine- gar and heat. to thr- boiling point Sintiner ‘"11 mllltiies and pack in hot sterile jars. Seal,

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SWEET HAWAII

ORANGE MARMALADE puts the tvycctness in this appetizing loaf — a. citiirk bread for any mcal. Mix together 3 cups flour. 1 teaspoon salt. ll tc-tispoons baking powder. 2 eggs, beaten; 1-2 cup orange mar- mnlztrlc. 1-4 cup orange juice and [-4 cup milk. Blend and add 1-2 cup brokcnt nuts or chopped dried

runes, raisins 0-; dates. and 2 lleabespoons fat. melted. Pour into greased loaf pan and bake an hour n moderate oven.

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To Charlottetown Guardian. Needlework Department.

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Two Gemians met in Paris. Carl to Fritz: "Have you a good

“Yes. I have a very good job. I sit on the Eiffel Tower and watch for the English 1o wave the white

"Not much," Fritz answered. “but

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FICKLENESS CAUSES MANY DIVORCES _

But there are thousands of divorces that have no reason behind them but arc just the result of idleness or whims or ﬁcklencss or niorbidness or a mere desire for change. Every day you can read in the news apers the account of people who have gotten divorces because one like to go to the iTlOVIiS and the other didn't, or because the husband became jealous of the wife‘s cat, or thc husband wouldn't let the wife keep a dog, or be- cause they had just gotten tired of each other and thought they would like a change. -

These are the divorce cases in which the husbands and wives could patch up their difficulties. kiss and make up and live together happily ever afterward. The same reasoning applies to husbands and wives con- tinuing to litre together, after they have ceased to love each other, for the like of giving their children the security of a home in which to grow up

and the benefit of having both a. mother's and a father's influence in their

upbringing.

No one will dispute that in the wreck of every marriage tI-ie children are the chief sufferers. Their homes are torn down over their liiads. They are snatched from the environment they know and thrust into a strange llie. They are made to take sides in their parents’ quarrels and to have their ideals of their fathers and mot-hers smircii/ed bv the charges they bring against each other. And when their fathers and mothers remai-ry. H8 1116i‘ tlfﬂﬁrﬂllv d0. they are shuttled back and forth between the two homes. knowing themselves an encumbrance in both.

CONSIDER CHILDREN

Yet the parental influence of which we speak so much can be as much of a curse as a blessing ton child and can Warp his or htr nature as well as make it fine and beautiful. No mother can think that her child will be ‘benefited by living in close contact with a, father who is a drunkard or a libertine, nor can any man want his little daughter to be reared by a mother who has loose morals and will instill in lier, hei- own low code o! conduct. And this being true it is the duty in many cases for a man and woman. to save their children from a vicious father or mother.

jvltiny’ married couples who have conic to dislike each other continue to live together for the sake of their children in an association that is a torment to them both. This calls for a great sacrifice on their part but the sacriﬁce 1's only worth while i_f they are big enough and strong enbugh to control their temper and tongues and live together in peace and friend- liness. For it is far better for the children to have one parent than taro who are continually ﬁghting. and to live in a shack or cyan in an orrhnn in a hcine that is a place of discord. of crlininations. and yg-

PLAY FOR. TIME DEAR DIX-—We_ha.ve_ a ﬁne and lovely daughter who is 21. We ltrue giten lier every educational advantage sine graduated ctiin iaudc at college and has now a fine position in ivhich she is makin a 510°? kiillﬂly- When she was a high school girl sh: had a crushlm ‘tzne flgilgtingcgtblailrlni-icio, but it seemed to wear itself out and I thought she had

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boy is personally a nice eiiibustzﬁ eﬁaplnerilealﬁﬁtidiitlfigﬁlw yhellzrL Th; is now a lieutenant in the army. but he has never earned a llvin n5 m trade or profession and no way of taking care of a wife Worst all! ‘i110 hlongs to a family‘ that has a. bad record. His twin brother ‘was sent t: he Still/e Dcnetcntiary foi stealing ﬁve years ago and local gossip says 111s rﬁggligrnis a1 klcptomanlric and his sister has a shadv reputation. ‘

. *1 _l- MY} Opposed to my datiglitiers making such a marriage. especially as I dont think she is in love with the boy. I think sheaf; marrying just because all the other girls tire getting married. l her feel as if she were sort of left out. What can I do to stop it?

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Leisure

The Woman's Realm

LFYOU THINK

Life is a game, than be sure to know the rules.

Life is a jolte, then begin laughinz at your own folly.

Life is a mystery. then begin study- lng it is earnest. .

Lire l5 a farce, then iii-meet your own foilies.

Life ls a tragedy. than begin to flll it with faith. Life is a business, business of it. Life is an adventure, then set out

with faith kl God and WWI‘

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Have the tapes on your venetian blinds become discolored beyond re- pglf? wen now L; your chance to add that needed dash of color to your windows. Practically all ill" dime stozes are now carrying a line of tapes in gay colors and various designs. They are sold in rols and have a. gummed backing tniit makes it so easy to place right 0W1” your old tapes in a few minutes Try them in one room and the re- sult wll‘ make you dash back to buy enough to dress up the rest 01 your house.

FOR EVERY WON-AN‘

There's a form of exercise that almost every one. be she slender or 511m, may take; Walking in a com- fortable pair of low-heeled shoes for a, br‘sy pace after each meal exer- cises the entire body. It stimulates circulation so that it auraes with renewed vigour and one feels more onfhttslastic about everything. Wnllrlrl" is a good way. to". to hon out the worry creases in the braid.

Freqeuently in» shells slick lb c-sghtv-conked. hard-cooked e938 This can. be remedied. if. as sqfm M the eggs are done. the shelc are

lnaitpensivel Vegetables Are Good To Will Add Zest,

Flavor To War-Time

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inexpensive vegetables are

Every-d . ﬂy flavor to war-time meals

ll add nest and Publicity and Eixtenslon Division, Dominion Department 0f Alrlcllltllre

New Folder Containing Sugarlesa And Iiow-Slluar Revive! Prt reﬂ

the base of a. wide variety of delicious W1 Send for the new folder which contains sugarless and low-sugar recipes. prcpa red by the Consumer Section, and obtainable {mm

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nldnluuidmllmq “War-time Pickles and Relidiec".

.Ottawa. ‘tggmbepcrtmcnt of Aphids‘;

cracked, the Gill dropped into cold water to cool. and ion ﬁnd in the rofi-iegeratol. Wnen ready to serve. the shall: will come off easily.

GUT ALL TX LIGIT YOU PAY FOI-

Unlau oii have n regain: ule for c aziing lamps and bulbs. you may be losing u much as thirty per cent. of the light you pay for. Dusty shades and grimy bulbs can absorb a. surprising amount. of illumination. Make their cleaning a regular chore. Disconnect the lamp. remove bulb. Duct ctr wash lamp. according to material which it is made of. Wipe off the bulb with a damp, soapy ciotti, Rinse

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Lovely Curtain: Are Easy to Main

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Slit-lug Style Wan Corsage!

What could be more charming than these fresh, flowing curtain of white organelle. crowned with ar- tificial flowenl ‘

You can make than lull; yo leif-rufflel, swag and llll-wlth a

‘few professional lilntl.

. Your swag ll nothing but I straight piece of good: about one and a third time: the length of your valance board, and twice u deep u the finlnlied uug.

You Inlp off it and: on I in! and cut the lower edge in l broad Mllloli. Sew tho rufﬂc to thin lower edge and ntltcli tape to the top edge; then drape IWII and tack hi; to ‘along

eolurn a I a l add I inchel It‘)! ll-irinkogopfnlrtlko them up in a tuck near tho top.

When you new the ruffle: oil allow

plenty of fulnen |t_t.h0 corpora to

prevent "hooplug." Simple, with our ﬂ-pgp lngﬂuqq

And Tested In Ca a’! K Mixed pickles are always favorites and these two recipes are "torus." Their low sugar content makes them perfect war time recipes.

Sour MIKE! Vegetable Pickle

(Onions. cucumber. cauliflower and green tomato)

These vegetables may be used separately or mixed. Wash and 0T0- pare vegetables. Make n. brine using 2 nuarts boiling water and 1V1 cups salt. pour ovrr vegetables and lct stand. two days. Drain and cover with frcsh brine. and again let stand two days and drain. When tislnﬁ! onions. take frcnh lirlnc and heat to boiling point" .1 in the onions and boll 3 mlnti Cover veile-

i gallon but vlneim-

1 mp sugar (optional)

4 red Dﬁllliefs

2 sticks cinnamon

_2 tablespoons whole spice 2 tablespoons mace

Tie 501668 in o. cheesecloth bag and boil in vinegar for i0 minutes: pour over vegetables: bottle

For mustard pickles. prepare vege- tabls as for sour mixed pickles. using the following sauce:-

‘fi-li cup wilnr

2 tablespoons flour

i ounce ground mustard

i pint vinegar

Mix the dry ingredients and add the hot vinegar. Cook till well thick-

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to. . d ..ln. tables with pickle mixture made as ‘meal Pour while hot over the WIN-

follows :-

Hold 6 ears corn l head cabblat 2 large onions

tion booklet to guide you! 3M“ with ﬂllaninl and pictures how to make swag: and encodes. fitted val. arices. French plain, COIMCQI and WW1! curtain and drapery Sena 20c ‘ i f of "New 1dé§.°1"n“'in§'in§‘“"q.,,¢°°",.,, Draperies" to Charlottetown Guardian Harm ice. Be sure to write pialnly your name, Addnll and the name of booklet.

1 cup brown sugar

1 tablespoon mustard

3 cubs white vinegar

"A teaspoon tumerlc

3 tablesoons flour

Cut the corn from the com. chop all the other vegetables ﬁnely and place all together -in a preserving kettle Pour 1% cups of vineirar over the vegetables

Mix the sugar. salt. mustard. tur- meric and flour with the remainir- 11.6 cups vinegar Combine the two mixtures: bring to boiling point and let simmer 46 minute Fill hot Ital-tin bottles

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with cloth wrung out of clear water. Dry. Be sure bulb, especially the metal cap. h entirely dry before replacing in lamp. Brush silk shades with soft brush. unless apt‘- clai cleaning 1| called for; dust parchment or paper shades.

TOMATOES ARE VEGE- ' TABI-l-n

I a tomato a fruit or a vege- table? This question has been hur- led at W. P. T. B. official; from Halifax to Victoria. The answer is. Tomatoes are vegetables, at least they are so regarded under the sugar rationing order. means that no mm sugar can be obtained for their preservation.

HOTEL RESIDENTI

Permanent resident; of hotel; and institutions must surrender their ration cards to tho proprietor in order t0 get their tea. and coffee ration. The same rule applies to sugar coupons.

LUNCl-IEON '5' SH

Save leftover cooked breakfast

cereal to serve up for next day's l

lunch. Slice told cereal and fry until crisp and brown and serve with syrup, honey, oi- preserves,

DINNER. ‘IN A BALL

Dehydration has achieved a new hi h in Britain. Farm products rrc be ng refined into “gren baseballs.’ In central plants, cabbage and beets spinach and a carrot or two. wlil‘ celery and onions for flavour, arr rolled into one and r""'iced in bull: so that a "basebalh o itnins ieafv food for an average . inily dinner. It provides a. new method of send- ing vdtrmines to the troops.

SAVE VITAMINS

If you're one who has been pour- ing vitamins down the sink (watt-t in which vegeabales have been cooked), lose no time about mend- ing your ways. Utilize them in soups, hot and chilled, in grayies. stews. and dhllled and seasoned vegetable Juice cocktails.

If the cane in the cane-seated mat: l5 beginnilng to loosen. wash it in a strong solution of soda and water and let it dry thoroughly When dry. it will be found that the can; has shrunk and the set tight- ene .

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You+lilul Slur Goes To High School

HOLLYWOOD — Joan Leslie has enrolled as an honororbmem- ber oi the Class of I943, nivor- siiy High School. L09 A"9°l°5- lso as not to miss the event 559 has been looking lorwartiio all her lilo: receiving lier diploma as a mom of a largo Qwdll‘ afing class. _

A siege child all lier lllG, Joan has attended school between ille- aler and night club engagemenﬁ from Georgia to Canada and M had private tutors under the Cfll- fornia Stale Board of Education} since she has been in Hollywood

"But l want loliengraduetej; ‘us? like other girls. n she iol l lriends on the set cl Tllittllllld Way" at Warner Bros. 59"“! '" movies is swell and all ‘llfﬂﬁ bl“ l wool two things — b b“! _‘_3'°d' nation and a big weddlﬂq-

Needlecraft A

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CAMPUS CLOTHFS

That Pals a lligth Entrance Bum lb: college oi- high school. or

ll" just foi- whatever busy life you lead.

thin three-piece outfit in ideal. and pays you three-fold for making

Styles No aazc is designed for slus l2. i4. l6. 1B and 20. Size I6 roquirog l 5-8 yards 39-inch fabric for lleevelus iwlﬂtl l 3-4 YlYd! ti" “m; 1 1-5 yards for long-sleeved blouse.

1b order- pattem: Write 0r send picture with your name and ad- dress with 20 cents in coin 0r stamps to the Needlecraft- Bureau. Tim dhai-iottemwn Guardian. Needlecraft Department.

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