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Platonic Marriage _Isn’t Safe Bet for Widower itmof 24. - No Man 1s so Mean as the Tight- wad Husband — Is it Wrong for Girl to Accept Fur Coat From Employer?

Deer will DIX-I am a young man of 24, a widower. I am Very m- and detest the silly flapper with her lipsticks, giggle; “d pegging * _ g es. There ia a girl who loves me very dearly, who i; quieg, ¢fl@1flgd,

thrifty. a 200d housekeeper and can do an the things that flappers cannot do. She lpves the home and the fireside, children. and those are the things that 1 most ‘ desire.

I admire her and enjoy her company very much. but when my wife died my heart died, too, and I feel that I cannot love this girl as she loves me. Another objection to this Bill is that she is very short. I am nearly twelve inches taller than she is. Do you think i1 I married her we would be happy? X. X. X.

Alawer: t Certainly the girl's height Should be no bar to your union, unless your ideal women is

rdaughter of the gods, “divinely tall." Most men prefer the pocket Venus type of woman, and, if you will notice, when a man is particularly j fond of the woman to whom he is married he always speaks oi’ her as , may little wife,” no matter even if she is of Amazonian proportions.

r - As for your feeling that you have buried your heart in the grave o! your first vile and that you will never be able m care (qr my woman again, that is the pessimism of youth. The very young always take tragical views ol’ everything and believe that every misfortune is fatal, and that no sun will ever rise on their night o! sorrow,

-But we who are old and have seen much of life; who have outlived lorrows and outgrown disappointments; who have said so often, "This is the end of all happiness," when it was only the beginning of better things,

'" “It! know that the human heart is the most resilient of all created things.

. If at 44 you had lost your wife, you might say that, your heart was broken and that there would be no more love for you in the world, but at Bl a lost love is just a broken dream.

Your love for your wife, however beautiful and complete it was, was all 8 DOTS lcvfi- It W“ “Oi-hing to the passion that you will be able (061 Home day for a. woman who meets all the needs of your mature manhood, and for this reason i1: is a dangerous thing for you to marry I girl who comes up to your ideal but does not fire your fancy,

0f course, marrying a girl who adores you has its advantages, be- cause it enables you to assume the Grand Pasha. attitude in your home, which is always gratifying to a man's vanity. The wife who loves her husband better than he loves her is always his slave. She is always break- IDG 1161‘ 116911 trying to please him. I-lls august word is her law, and she la as humbly grateful for a. little kindness as a starving dog is for a bone.

But in love it is more blessed to give than to receive. There is noth- , jag more nauseous than kises from lips we do not care for, and the ai- fection we do not crave bores us to extinction. Especially is this true with men, and so I think it is a dangerous experiment for a youth of 24 to conclude that he has lost all power of loving and to marry a Woman (n , the platonic basis. He will want something more of life than lust a

eshift wife who is a good cook and saves his money.

DORUPHY DIX. I I I I I I

Dear Dorothy Dim-My problem is what to do with a stingy husband? I am married to a man who is rich for the community in which we live, but I do all my own housework and sewing to save the price of a servant and pinch every penny. My husband refuses to make me an allowance and buys for me himself only the plainest necessities in the way of

~ 0103195- In all the Years that I have been married I have never had a dollar that I could do with as I pleased. I have never had a pretty dress or hat or any of the little luxuries that women crave.

I do not try to have any women friends or to go anywhere bcause I am so humiliated by not having the proper clothes and not being able to N? 11W Pa“ 0! the eXpenses. What can you do with that kind of a man? " MRS. S.

Mews: " N015 mllvll. I Hm Il-fmid. because a. men who loves money better than he dcea his wife will always sacrifice her to his oupidity.

‘Hie only wmnan I ever knew who dealt successfully with e tight-

hueband was one who, after vainly trying m get, m suowsnce 1mm

. Went out and got herself a Job as a cloak model. Rather than

have the general public know how mean and close-listed he was, he gave Ml wife enough money to dress decently zipon,

. I often think that the best way for the average woman to deal with his question is to go on a strike.

All? V0513" W310 G095 the 000111118 and cleaning and baby-tending And lick-nursing and the million other odd jobs that are required. to run a home comfortably earns the wages of at least three or four servants in lddition to her board.

, 11 1191' hllfiblilld refuses t0 Tfiwknlvo the value of her services and to "lye her a. penny of her own to do with as she pleases, she i; foolish not

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g SMART FROCKS FOR ‘ FASHIONABLE PEOPLE

Illustrated Dressmaking Lessons Furnished - With Each Pattern

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The lovely model patterned fm to- day. even the amateur newer will find exceedingly simple m inning, The skirt ‘ ‘ of four “ , Joined center-front, center-back and at sides with the fitted hip area with biaaseamatomeeteachjoin. 1i,

d r fig- ure. The bodice has raglan sheui. ders. No sleeves to bother with to set into armholes. And ‘fine the pretty bodice trim in collar e iabot effect.

Black crepe 51k, u the Original model, la especially mm its white metal threaded crepe trim, .Wool crew. novelty GNDQ silk, rayon novelties. velvet, m, m other nice fabric: for this euiiy made model. ,

Style No. 956 is designed for ails 80, 38, 40, 42, 44 and 46 inohca bunt. Sine M requires 3% yards 89-inch maforiai with 5t yard 85-inch con- trasting. .

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ExKaiserk First Great-Grandchilrl

This photo, showing the smiling ex-crovm

Prince Wilhelm, of Prussia. oldest son of the former Gennm Crown Prince. incurred hi: father’! fllfilllefl-Sllrc in 1933 by marrying Dorothea von Salvati. n. commoner. m"! Tlmlllnclllif hi! r1811" W "N! c, however, is said to have been re-

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Quilt Patterns ‘a

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I cup water 1 cup canned pineapple lulu 1 tablespoon butter

2 cups oocoanu

1 baked 0-inch pie ghcll -

4 slices drained canned pineapple (cut in pieces)‘

(lombme sugar, flour and Belt in top of double boiler; add on will; then add water and Pineapple Jlllw gradually, mixing thoroughly. Place over rapidly-boiling water and 600K until thickened, and until I10 11W starch flavor remains, stirring con-

~Stlntly meantime. Remove from

heat and add butter. lemon 111M W1

l cup of cocoanut. C001. ‘Illm llllfl baked pie shell. Sprinkle with ra- cocoanut. Arrange pinc- applo piecce on top. Serve at once. Swiss Tarts 1 cup flour m‘ ti teaspoon ‘ 1A. cup butter or butter and short- ening. Ice cold water jam

Pastry

Sift flour once. measure, than I6- sift with salt; rub in the fat with finger tips; mix with cold water to a. stifl paste. Roll out and cut with a round cutter and use to line some small tartlet pans; put ‘A lea-WWI! Jam in each mszheii, then make the following fill z

1/. cup butter or butter and short- ening ‘

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2 eggs

2 cups flour

2 teaspoons baking powder

1A teaspoon salt

‘A cup milk

1A teaspoon vanilla

Cream butter and suaar; add the eggs well beaten, then gradually add in the combined and aifwd fllllll‘. baking powder and salt alternately with milk. Add vanilla; beat well-

Fiil tartlefs with spoonfuls of the cake filling and bake in a. fairly hot oven for about l6 to 30 minim‘- When cool. ice on top with conflic- tioners‘ icing.

FAITH

Faith is hot merely praying Upon your knees at night;

Faith is‘ not merely straying Through darkness to the light.

, Faith is not merely waiting

I For glory that may be,

. Faith is not merely hating

‘ The sinful ecstasy.

Faith is the brave endeavor - . l The splenedid enterprise, { I The strength to serve, whatever I

Conditions may arise. S.

Out out all pieces and piece to- gether as indicated on small block. Either prints or plain materials may be used. Set pieced blocks together with lain blocks in arrangement shown on quilt diagram- Finish edges with 8 inch border of mater- ial to match pieced blocks.

Allow for all seams when cutting pattern. l

Block finishes 14 inches square. 18 pieced blocks.

12 plain blocks.

6 inch border around quilt.

Material Required

2 1-3 yards material for plain blocks.

2 1-6 yards red material.

2 1-6 yards white material.

l yard. gold material. - 9% yards 8 inch binding.

When ordering give Number 32-3. When ordering give Number 29-6. Send 15c for a. book of quilt pat- terns containing '1 beautiful Grand- 3533p; MQULD

mother quilt designs — every pat- " - W"! dmimm- Boil a rabbit and remove the meat from the bones. Add a blade of sage Ula lflnnrd’: for Bare Feet B‘ spflg of P9551955 and u“? to M5‘ ~ ' son, and mince all together- Sim-

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HOUSEHOLD HINTS

SARAES FAVORITE

A strip of oiled silk, tacked to the back o1 * an armchair or Chesterfield before the loose cover is put on will protect the Definin- ent upholstery form pogible stains or grease marks. .

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'I‘o use up old pieces of wool, cast on 14 or 16 stitches and knit a. strip about 14 inches long in plain knit- ting, 'I'.hls makes as ideal non-slip cover for a coathanger. Pass the hook of the hanger through the centre of the strip and sew the edges all round together.

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To clean white felt blitz-Stuff the crown with soft paper and cover the hat thickly with dry calcined magnesia. Rub this in, in one direction, with u. piece of soft muslin, then shake and beat well to remove all traces of the powder.

mer until nearly d-Y in l-llfi

then pack into a mould.

Turn out when set. Wm. salads, A little beccn is some- times added! to the mixture 17650"? mnincing.

NAIL POLISH FASHIONS CHANGE WITH SEASONS

Nail polish fashions ohanse Wit-ll the seasons. ‘There's no more reason go;- e girl to wear the same shade 0! polish month after month than there is for to use the same liP- stick or to wear the same colors.

Joy instance, when you're nicely sun-tanned. cranes-Wile‘! YWBh and lipstick and dark powders are flattering. And vivid nail polish]

look well on your dark-skinned, hands. But when your skin is, bleached and wnlw. you med a} different set of cosmetics and: certainly a new shade of nail make-I

“pike new fall nail polishes are ele-

gance personified. Regardless of | their colors. they have e certain rich, clear look about them. 'I.‘herel are deep red shades which are. handsome with white evening dresses. And mahogany tones which

should be worn with exotic dinner

gowns, For street and informal

daytime occasions. there are

exquisite neutral shades. ‘Iihere are

varied, boo.

You can weer pale pink polish on

the street and know it's correct; or

youean go in for pearl gray that's

particularly nice with the new

greens and rusia. '"

srncml. PARTY swear Takeone and a tablespoon

and eerve' ' been rubbed through a fine sieve.

with brownish lights in it is sure to,

granulated gels/tine, quarter-om 001d water, half-cup boiling water” 9n cup sugar, Ono Skid B I181’! GU13 crushed canned rel-Pile!!!“ °n° tablespoon lemon Juice, half-cu? cream.

Boften gelatinc with the will

liquid in water and disolve with the boiling which u... rabbit “as cooked and water.

Add sugar and stir until dia- solved. Add respberries, which have

and lemon juice.

1st the mixture stand until it b9- gins to thicken. Then fold in cream which has been whiflimi m“

Serve very cold with whlPiWd cream.

LONESOME CHILDREN v VERY OFTEN CREATE DVlAGINAIl-Y FRIENDS

"whom are you talking to?" Mn. Smith asked. Jackie was in his playroom alone, not a eoui within conversation Ofil

"I was talking to ‘Iidttynlil!’ Nd Jackie.

Mrs. smith suddenly said. "Oh, Ibttynail. ‘That's nice. Well, you and Tottynail go ahead and have I good time.”

And out she breeaed wonderlns whether she had done the right thing or not. '

This was the second or third time she hod heard of “Tot-twill” There was no ‘Ibttynail-of course- Jackie had iuet made him (or her) up. He played alone most of the time. There were few children in the neighorhood and none his age. Jackie was three, plus, that is to say in his fourth year.

RIALISM VS. FANCY

His mother herself was a realist and so was his father. She had stacks of books that warned Illinst

and imagination and the ‘escapee’ of people who couldrft face faclo. .

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Royal Wedding Looms Nrer

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Happening:

‘Hie Duke of Kent-better known George, third con of the King-will attend. the funeral for animated King Alexander of Yukoelevia- At first it was thought. the Prince of Wale: would make the journey. Sir John Simon, Secretary for. Affairs, will attend the

state Bar-thou, the late Ilkcnch Foreign Minister, assassinated with Alex- under.

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Princess Marina, of Greece, be- troflied of the Duke of Kent, has chosen the brideanaaidl for her wedding at Westminster 'Abbey. November N. They are Princes! Ingrid, of Sweden. whose name was once linked with that of the Prince of Wales; Princess Juliana, of Hel- land; Princess Catherine of Greece. sister of the late King George of Greece, and Princess Kyra. daugh- terofGrankDukeCyrilofRuasla.

Princess Manna also invited Princess hxene of Greece. sister of Catherine, but it is uncertain that she will be able to accept. Princess Elizabeth and Princess Margaret Rose, daughters of the Duke and‘ Duchess of York, also will particl- petc in the wedding. The royal couple will honeymoon in lmgland. spending Christmas with Kin! George and Queen Mary at Send- ringhern.

Mrs. MacMillan, wife of the Prem- icr, the Hon. w. J. r. Maclvfilian,‘ entertained very delightfully at a. most enjoyable ten table bridge and, tea at the Canadian National ‘Hotel, on Thursday afternoon.

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Mire. Kaela-m of New York is being welcomed flome on a visit, Mr. and Mrs. K. M. Martin motored to Saint John to meet Mrs. Harlem‘

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I Dr. mdMraInhLYeowenton » a. two days motor trip to Moncton and Saint John this week, greatly enjoying their brie! holiday.

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Miss Mary Haasard and Miss

Norah lmgworth spent the week-

end ‘in Montreal. I

I I According ‘to present plans, the elder son of the Princess Royal will go to Eton in two years‘ time- probably in the summer term oi i986. v‘ ‘ Lasceiles is now ii. His younger brother will Join him there in the following year.

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Mrs. Murray of New Glasgow, N. 5., has been spending the week with her son Mr. Ralph Murray and Mrs. Murray,‘ Viiater Street.

Miss Ethel Stewart was among the Bridge rostesses this week entertaining on Monday evening for her friends.

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Dr. and Mrs. Philip Farrel ofl Boston, were recently given a sur- Prlaa party by their friends at their, home at Medford Highlands, The, occasion was the silver wedding an- niversary of the Farrels. Dr. Far- rell is a native of Tignish, P. E. 1., ma. Farrell, the former Maud Kinch, was born at Albert-on. PE. I.

Mrs. P‘. W. Christopher (Mrs. (Ririatopher is the former Mary MacDonald of Grand River, P. E. I. the doctor was born at Tignish), Dr. Howard Dalton, born at Tig- nieh, n. eon of the late Lieut-Gov- 9PM!‘ Dalton. Ex-Mayor Andrew (Bossy) Gillla, of Newburyport, fame, a native of Grand River, and| ms..Glllia, Dr. L. W. Christopher, of ‘rignish, Dr. Roy Johnson, oi Greenfield. Dr. and Mrs. J- l’... fihrlrtvpher. (the doctor is a native of ‘rignish, his wife is the former Frances May, of Saint John). Alls- ten Callaghan and his sister. Miss Florence. or so. Louis r, a. 1., and Ralph Hackett, of ‘finish. I I

Mril. Shaw and little eon of Hali- fax are being welcomed on a vim t" Ml‘!- Bhwl Dlrenta. m. and ma. John E. Gram-m s;

The Dominion Income Tux staff W" téwuheuzsgl or m. and me. Allan a e sup h , evening this week. wr- our om I I I

Mlal Nellie Seaman of Glace Bay returned ‘Tuesday after a short hclida, spent with her mother Mn, J- It); Bellman. Roccneath Apart- men . -

in hmor of mo. Bemamin’ xi» wcn celebrating her no. amn- lv- <

Among those present were Dr. and!

of the ,Week_

p“; owingto the-absence of the ‘g1 o! in Canada there n: no hum Part7. but the Countess of Beaabomugh and vil-

Dimccnnon entertained the

children in the afternoon and the tenants and employees at dinner in the evening. when sev- eral presentations were made. ' - o

1B‘. IDI.) V. L. Goodwin left last week on I. abort visit to her old home in Kifllifflll‘. (int.

Mia l Rosamond’ Richardson daughter of Mr- and ma. R413 Richardson of Situuneraide was the welcome guest of Miss Nan Shaw, city, lest week.en.d. .

Mira. Duff entertained a number of friends for Bridge at the home of Mis- MacGougm, Beaver Street on Thursday. . .

Mayor Lidktcne and Mrs. Iddatone have as their guest, Mira. Lidstonefii sister, Mrs. Cecil E. Whitney of Norwell, Mass.

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Miss Betty Robinson of Summer- side, is visiting ln Halifax the guea of Mrs. Arnold Wilson.

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Mrs. Will Strong entertained very pleasantly at the tee. hour on Mon- day at her home on Central Street Summcrside.

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Home friends will be enterested to know that Mrs. Allan Parsons, oi Montreal, has" returned from her cottage at Como and has taken up her residence at 2'! de Caason road. Her daughter, ‘Mrs. A. J. ‘Thomas, who spent the summer with her, has left for Winnipeg, to be with

I Mrs. Thomas for six weeks, after

which she will return to join her children and will spend the winter with Mrs. Parsons.

The Wright-Campbell wedding which took place in ‘Toronto rec- ently is of interest here as the one. is the only daughter of Mrs. Camp- bell and the late Hon. Colin H’. Campbell, former Attorney General of Manitoba and later Minister of Public Works o! the same province. The bride's only brother, Capt. Colin H. Campbell, Calgary, is a son-in-law of Mrs. E. P. Harrington of this City. '