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t. 5 i 1 t faaby. I married a very young girl-she is only l9 nova-and I love her very . ‘ nuch, but she has one fault, and that nearly runsvme crazy. She can't ex- II é ist away from her people. She spends most of every \. \'\, Q day at mother's house and then insists on dragging me r r r l, . _ back there at night, and I am so fed up on my in-laws ““““_ ‘ I I ; that I feel like screaming when I see one of them. l‘ — » .' z This has got on my nerves so that I am thinking of t l getting a divorce. Do you think I will be Justified, I or am I bound to stick it out? HENRY. , i’ Answer: k _ I -~ Why, Henry, you know well enough" that an over- \ dose of your wife's family isn't sufficient grounds for . " i” divorce. You can't renege on the vows that you made i} Q _ at the altar to love and cherish and protect your wife _ " fi ' iS long as life lasted; you can't break up your home and half-orphan your 1 _ thild Just because you are so tired of hearins ffliher-in-laws oft-rePeBl-ed . QEIHhat you are afraid that you will commit. murderif you have to listen to lhcm one more time and because mother and the girls bore you t0 W815 on with their gossip about family afiairs. ~- . .t's - ~ . Ff} _ ‘Marriage isn't only the culmination of a love affaiiz. It is the signing’ an‘ -' if‘ up of the papers in a business contract and you~can‘t throw it up because it *3 .i j "inns sulne unpleasant features to it. You made your trade and it is.a bind- go , l: ting one and you are bound to stick to it. , s n , ' I’ . ‘ list . /» Don't judge your wife too harshly. Try to understand her point oi view l! l t {a little. To begin with, she was too young when you married her. A girl Sh‘) . fat 1'1 ‘is just a child and it is natural that she should cling like a child to e__ e ‘zier lnother and depend on mother's advice and let mother run her affairs ‘L! ‘for her. - K“ , Try to be lust. After all, your wife being overly devoted to her family “s n sin that leans to virtues side. It shows that she has a loyal and de- H” I wotcd soul and that is not a bad thing for a wife to have, for if she is faith- ,‘ ‘ ‘Yul in lici- own the chances are that she will be faithful to you. m“ j ' . Somehow. women seem lo bc far more bound by the blood tie than men ‘ ~ i ire. ‘When a man marries. if he loves his wife, he concentrates his interest L“: I and aiTe-uzion on his own household. They make his little world so com- nsh 1310101] that often he becomes estranged from his brothers and sisters and m even nrglruts the mother who bore him. There are many men who do not ‘m ._ ‘ivlllllv a ll" .sr to their mothers once a year, but a woman nearly always keeps M; ' the love fires burning on the family altar. ' > > H“ So make that excuse for your wife and so long as she does not neglect "h your u\\".i home make no objections to her spending‘ halfher days in her nu: mother's house. When all is said, it is a pretty safe place for her to be. M! Shi- migh". be running around to tea dances and "places of that sort, you um iznolv. ' ‘y _‘ ' But you have a right to refuse to be dragged to your in-laws every even- iizig and you might compromise on that issue. I would tell her frankly that Q1 ' "it was she whom I married, and not her family, and that they didn't inter- _ '9" ..t. ine as they did hei- and that f would like to have my home and my wife ‘ _ l“ 1'0 myself sometimes. » _ _-.., _ , _ e / lea i ‘e , _ ' 1' ; V _ I e _ _ I ' No. 2604—Capelet collar and bows accent a-plain crepe silk frock, spon- ; ~ s - s 1.111. iiirzszz: i§.‘.‘.'..';’;‘..§"tilt?'i."“i.f.fiii“fififi.i‘ii;fli‘i' It - W - M - I ._ n? Weonmuc protection to you e e n; 2pc! ou ne in the front skirt. A narrow belt marks the natural waist- um H. t ~~ _ u . . . ‘ ~ ‘ . es gned for sizes 14, l6, 19, 20 years, 36, 38, 40 and szinches bust. The [an . _ _ e v _ 36-inch size requires a7’. yards of 39-inch material. £0)‘ ._,, vhDifill‘ M155 13>1X—W9 life B V"? hflllplly Ylllfflfid COl-‘PIB lmd» 151911011811 We No. 3190-—All the smart young women are wearing snappy jacket suits We} 11s Disses? gauge hie-id tzsctheiltleeven vex; without 18w; of lightweight woolen. The one sketched is just adorable with the boom M l’, i q - .1 - c wo eréhs, ano er rnarr 1 couple a ou of‘ dress in lighter blending tone. The pointed treatment of 5km; cream; i I. _ , V‘ is W unwell agghlrltloczlaxeeveiuiéeolegehtlgueigcfixzm ctr‘; aifieltlhgazlefibll; eogegrpeltlz-lal 36%; siltimnesi through the hips and waist. Designed for sizes 16. 1B years. an t, e V . he - _ _ e - __ V; x L mgtegm in; sky/inches bust. The 36-inch size requires 4% yards of 39-inch .13., - '. V s. ___,,___.._ __ . , ' ’ 2 Yards 0! 39-1110}! material for waist and jacket llnlng 5nd ‘ ‘ ~.~ .' st . v . 3% yards of binding. _ _ , _ ( ' Anr-lrcr: ' " ' ' No. 2501-A cute bloomer frock that ofiers such a smart chan l L’ ‘a . .. . ge n .. c" M V __ i " s _- l x y y y m 0 ers. It has kimono sleeves with flared back cuffs. The front and back of e , ,, i J Morebo then iavoiite indoor sport. They know, just as the gambler and the dress shows soft gathered fulness toward the center. Designed for sizes 1 cs. k ‘qwllnikfll-[l know, ‘that they are wrecking their happiness and ruining their 2. '4 and years. The 4-year size requires 2% yards o! 35-inch mater“; . at ‘iiifiifiiil.‘S335igiiii.it.i“i‘i.l‘iiaii“f.fiffifi; “rim " l‘ l g j e ‘v f d, V’ />A_' A g p run ie gain er. Be gextzegisfllle fxenfieeigezl; i; 553m‘: ti: $111 (Sig: EZ-zgerl-‘edq m if 4 ' [ somehow. the quarreling husband and wife get a kick out of hysterical preferred.) ' " mp8 or co (com I ' s ,,.,_ flscenecs and iii saying n. each other all the cruel things they can think of. ' ___. _. __ , __ l h ; ..,‘_,l‘l1ve_y‘ enjoy hurting each other lust as savages enjoy torturing their victims. in“ we “ever get 5 chm" w 59! the child. I appreciate how fine they . “ ' _. ___ , . ‘We bee" and H11 they have done for her, but don't you think the baby's g _ i v‘ elf this \VCl'\‘ not true. they would not engage in family spats, for them Pllice is with us? - SECOND WIFE, r p}; iicrci" a one that could not be avoided by the use of a little tact and dip- The 3°“! °f the child 511W“ b0 considered first of all. That should take l h e Yale» fir; l4 » ivlllflvy- _ V €;:lii‘id°“°° "V" the d°51Y°5 9f the srandparents and of you and your hus- i g l.‘ all, "i! . ' Yet daily we are all witness to the fact that a woman‘ will deliberately I“ a ca“ Where a wllmw" mlfflflli a Woman who resents the chum-en 5 , ill-say tuliel‘ husband the trim; that she knows is the nrlitinlzflword to him and °‘ h“ m‘ m"'“*ll=- "m" l5 Jealous of them and who will make i. cold and . ,1 ‘i: we ma“ “m, “mice arorethought Wm drag mm the conversation a topic hard stepmother, it is far better to leave the children with the grandparents

that. is perfectly aware tvill provoke a scene with his wife. .- Yet these very same people are diplomatic in their dealings with strang- _ ors and possess suilcient self-control to keep their, tempers and _t1ieir f tongues within bounds ‘in public. _ V _ _ l such being the case, the conclusion is unavoidable that battling mar- -~ ried-coulllfl‘. W110 so to the mat over every trifle, are having the time of their ilVPS when they do so, however disgusting the spectacle is to the innoc- mt byltI-ndsr- noanmv nix. ‘

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Dear Alisa Dix-J married a man who was a widower. when m; wife llicrl shc li-ft a baby girl which his father and mother took care of. » She is now 4 years old. I simply worship her and would like to have her to bring licr up. but the grandparents are so devoted to her that they are~n0t will- ing to gr. ~ licr up. Recently the grandparents have moved so far away

from its own fathenis to make it wholl It is only in daily association that the chai child who sees its father only occasionall SWBHBH‘. and for a youngster not to have guiding hand is to miss one of the greatest

if the grandparents want them.

But m a "Se "k6 Yours. where the second wife has a warm and loving

It is a piteous thing for old people to h

have set their hearts upon and who ls the 1 parents are rarely fit to rear children. or else they are too hard on them and they are too widely gulf of years to understand and guide young lives in a wo different from that of their youth.

They either spoil

ave to give up the child

Elothert heart and yearns for the children. it is ‘better that they should be l WE 11D in their own home and under their father's influence.

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ight of their lives, but gram-l.

them too much, separated by the rid that is totally

Fllrthermoie. for a child to be reared by its grandparents sepgrgtgd

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DOROTHY DIX.

y an orphan instead of a half-orphan.

ns of affection are forged. The y ls compelled to regard him as a father's love and tenderness and blessings" of life.

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Style‘ Chats

A Morning Smile

FASHION HlNT

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1 have come out cold-bloodediy dud advised the world not l... give caiidlcsticks this season for wedding presents. Now I suppose oak-robin WfllltSjO, know what I think should be given, inasmuch

"How to make my old short skirts conform to the new len th was a problem to me until l hit on this Elsie. I dropped the hems; and as the was darkerethan the rest

I -. 1 have Hspollefi the answer that has ,_been used for several I l filliéireogaesaiofigeienlgeizrrgctlzo%eheg t '~ ades- ‘ ' - the iamond Dyes pac rage.

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e. i; ,' y.‘ _ ,_ All, right, r11 tell you! A Cinderella washing: mwhine. on, 1 ndgeigstdafmnmvnd ID es for’ firs. '3 i{',l "now, you're saying things have conie to ‘a prettiih pass and all ' '~ m-une’ n" y‘ i i I that sortlof business. but no matter how higglecly-piggledy it may 3733's. tTllilegg $3.‘ staid Kignfiiig , l h: a sound, 1 advocate a washing machine for the modern bride. ‘This and “gve nevefhfailed to ve . i “t Cinderella is an electric vacuum affair and being only 19 inches c "m _’m°° new“ °° m‘ It ' ' —i tt d ash . l q w a . high, is small enough to use on the kitchen sink or in the bath- this; nriyvfghinan t‘; ale? gltiieaiildl a ,1 t. if; i , room. and its swell for doing those daily silks and stockings. (And rvdye 0r lml e_m with Diamond , .' l,- uv the by, 1 note this machine has established a diaper Washing DY“ Th°ynd° 9'“ n" "m" 1°“ .. i - T record-M in i5 minutes flat I'd hardly believe it Yessir) 8mm colors‘ - 1. ' n: . f —.- , ' - - _.._._-,,,;_, Mrs. 6.6., Levis, Quebec . I _ _ l . . .1 » -ll ~. ! 42-1.; I l 3G " ' " ., ‘ _ l . 1 i ~§ g. . i Q59. t . g . _ m i} _

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Applicant: “No, sir."

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One notruinp, two notnunp,

- Three notrump onward: 011M 1n ell-ted bmtii. Went down six hundred.

_ "Cl-ll "D to lime.” one said: Tether one soon obeyed; Both having overcalled. Went down six hundred.

Ibrward the game they Dllyid- Wastherg a men dismayed ? llo-though the others knew Someone had blundered. "Double." the soft reply;

‘Ihat was the reason why ‘Iheii-‘s but w do and die. Having botir ovemalled.

Went down six hundred.

Aces to right of them;

Queens to the left of them.

All their hopes sundered. Shattered their Kings that fell. For the foe played too well. Gave the Declsrer H—-

Put down six hundred.

~ But. did their courage fade?

. Still wilder calls they made. . All the Club wondered. Doubled the calls they made; They were the "light" brigade, Six times six hundred.

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While the villagers of Bandring- ham displayed flags to mark the oc- casion, the Queen on Monday quiet- ly celebrated her sixty-fourth birth- day with members of the Royal fam- ily and a few friends. Messages of congratulation from many parts of the world poured into the village and the Queen personally opened birth- day gifts from her children and grandchildren. There was no public ccei-eniony. Throughout the day the bells in a village church rang out in honor of the event. Nearby residents also extended their loyal greetings. The King accompanied the Queen on their customary walk through the beautiful gardens of the Sendring- ham estate. This was the first time in several years that the anniversary has been spent by the Queen here although sandringham is considered her favorite residence.

The press was particularly laud~

atory in recording the event. One

tained the best tradition of the late Queen Victoria. she had "created a tradition of her own--a tradition of active, beneficient public services in which she surpassed all royal prede- cessors." Queen Mary was born at Kensing- ton Palace on May 26, 1967, the daughter of the Duke of Teck and Mary Adelaide. She was first be- trothed in 1891 to the Duke of Clar- ence, eldest son of King Edward VII, but he died in 1892. She married the Duke of York in i893 and was crowned with him in Westminstet Abbey in 191i. on the death of Kins Edward.

O His Honor LieuL-Governor Dal- ton, is leaving Monday for Quebec to attend the dinner ‘mesday aboard the liner Empress of Britain recently out from Southampton. Right Hon. R. B. Bennett and Hon. lhnest La.- point have also accepted invitations to attend the dinner at which His Excellency the Governor-General will be the principal speaker.

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Congratulations were ‘extended to Prof. S. N. Earle, Charlottetowws beloved musician, on the occasion 0f. his astii birthday on aiiui-sdny. which was celebrated quietly with his fam-

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Miss Barbara strong of Windsor. who accompanied her uncle Mr. R. Dlmock, was the volmsest Rotary- Ann to attend the Conference and she was given a delightful time among her mother's numerous friends.

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m. n. o. timers. R8 Greenfield

Avenue, had as his welcome guests for the week Mr. and Mrs. Charles Ramsay of Saint John and Mr. and Mrs. Norman A. Healer of Backvllle. who came over for the Rotary Con- ference and amtly entailed the hw- pitality extended and the charminll natural beauty of the Garden Pro-

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Mrs. William arelisut 1m Tuesday go;- mum; going as the deleilf»! mm the aoyai Edward-Chev"! W the I. o. 15.2. Conference which has hadjsuch successful n-ieetinl! I11 W‘ wee!-

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The tea hostesses at Golf this af- ternoon will be Mrs. Pethick, Mrs. l‘. E. Smallwood. Mrs. W. A. Mahar- en, Mrs. J. P. Gordon, Mrs. 0. H. Beer.

O O O The hostesses for the King's Birth- day on Wednesday are Mrl. G. W- Wakeford, Min A. Earle, um Helen G. Wakefotd. Mrs. M,‘ C. Pineo, O O‘

Mr. and Mrs. O. Hughes of Mono-

_ Moorehead and Mrs. Legato will be

Many friends here wul be lnteleit. °d l" "w enticement announced in Monti-m of Gwendolen mouohllu, youngest daughter of tm 1m m, Dr. W. T. Herridge and the ilk Mn, 39mm. of (Mews. w Marcel Jun Btaiger, son of the late Mr. 1nd u“, J.‘!"rancois fiaiger, of Qenevg, 5y". zlerland. The marriage will take place quietly in Montreal on lirfday, Jung 5.

she is Iflllllllly recovering ‘im- with Mr. Hughes’ parents Mr. and

health after hsrnevers illness. O O O Mn. George A. Hughes, Prince Street. O O O '

The delightful weather added greatly to the success and pleasure of the Rotary (Ionferenoe which ter- minated on Thursday. Th; visitors were liberal in their praise of the . entertainment arranged for them and left for their homes with sou- venirs and pleasant uiemorie- of Prince miward Island.

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Miss Marjorie Cecilia Matthews whose marriage to Mr. David Moore- head de Conlay Legate is announc- ed for June 27th in Montreal, has

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The many friends of w. W. Reg. inald Aitken will be glad mjnqw that he il resting ‘easily after- h]; operation in the P. m. Island Hospit- al on Tillldly less. '

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already made friends for herself in Charlottetown having visited here with her fathmr and mother and fiance last summer. The happy young couple are planning part of their honeymoon here and a cordial welcome awaits them. Rev. R.

Miss Ml-Pieret Bent and Mr. Joe Lfl-nnm of Saint John motored to the city for the holiday week-end and were the guests cf Miss Bentsmoth. 8!‘. Mrs. Butt, 23 Greenfield Avenue.

O O O t Mr. Jack Ledwell has arrived home from. Queems University, Kingston, 0nt., to spend the summer with his Parents Dr. and Mrs. It. J. ledweil. having successfully passed his exam. lnitlqns in second year Medicine. O O O Miss Katherine MaoLennln. who graduated last year from the Royal Victoria Hospital, Montreal, is among the graduating Nurses from M00111 University this year. O O O

Mr. and Mrs. Maynard McDonald of Montague have returned from Montreal where Mr. McDonald was undergoiong medical treatment. His numerous friends will be glad to know that he is now steadily regain- ing his usual robust health.

in attendance at the marriage. Mr. Legate assisting at the ceremony. t O O

Mrs. Saunders, wife of Mr. Justice Saunders, and their daughter, Miss Mona Saunders, have returned from an extended visit to Youngstown, Ohio. and MontreaLAt Y- ungstowu. they were the guests of Mrs. Cleve- land (nee Ollie Saunders) who re- turned with them to spend the num- mer months at her home in Sum- merside. Her little son. Master Albert accompanied his mother.

O O O Mr. J. H. Malcolm, Manager of the Bank of Nova Scotia at Yarmouth. N. 8., and a former prominent resi- dent of this city has been promoted t.o the bank's office at Fredericton. N. 3., and is leaving for there in the very near future. O