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F Woman's Realm -.- Social and Personal -.-- Fashions Avoid Love “Nest ” Dorothy Dix Says

i Returns From South Sea Paradise Of Illict Amours With Warning To Ail.

A 1 Dorothy Dix Letter Box 1 ‘ Shall a Girl of 1‘7 Center Her Interest on One IVOmQn ca” B0y?—Is a Child Better‘ Off With its

Own Relatives Than With a Kind ’ a "miracle war-key” Stepmother? ‘ ~

Dear Miss Dix—I am a girl o! 17 and have a boy friend ill; same age. G We are both in junior year In high school. He takes me to and from I school and we eat our dinners together at the noon hour and have dates ~ ' three‘ times a week. We do not go with any one

else. We plan to llllll-l-y ill ihrcc yeflrs- My filth"? i brings you quicker) whtter washlngsiat less cost.’ 1 and mother soy I should not have all my dates with l '

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1301171711? 91X- WWFEXI IIBWMNPEY- elope, They know they’ii never z-woman, known throughout the Na- wggry or oar-h other, They only‘ 111011 101‘ her writings 0n 11011195119 never get enough of ellch otheln] and ethical subjects, has returned They're 5ure_ Hgavun is a 5pm.; 9 ’ from ‘In-lliti, the South Sela Para- wrhere they can iovc~—lo\'0-1ove1 41159 111 1111c” 311191115» wnvmced1witllout criticism of neighbors or

‘ 11111! 1116 “101/8 11981." 55 1311 1n511t1P1interfcrcnce. And so they ilec in I A llorl. "doesn't click." Tam“ ’

, mm and should m, be gngnged, Just good iriends; Q sung are u", one w” you buy soap-folgdon’: for- Softens hard up“! Alisa Dix, whose writings appear ~nrsre uroy prove wllnt I've al~ Wm he is through school. Should 1 date with‘ lest ofn washiu soap. lfyou gel. I! 8811111. nfot soap,you re oxydohnakua" ‘mm. w“ 51115’ 111 111° 51187111911- 1319' ways believed. Tlllli, is, that love l5‘ 111m Mono? Is it wise for us to be engaged? "P011111 1010" W Y 01d" P” “any Paymg or‘ " Ineven thestnbbornuthrd 11111111 (111 1191' 1171111111 1101110 111111 111° only the dessert, of tile lllPTll of life. r . .. SCHOOLGIRL“ Boa scan-you exumneed cs5 Iflhe suds fall in the wash- W818i‘, 0|‘ lll l0" Wilfiflllld- dis

15S c1‘ the expatriate lovers shellThe minute you m. to n“. on (h... ‘ilfld scclrul impeete provided final sen you get sick of p; And 3-,,“ cm) PluI-li‘ 01 1101' 1110-10118 ¢°11191111W11get sicker of love than you can {let tilnt sldlcll fruits turn bitter to their); anything e150 m n11 hm worm 1115111- Iuspcciully ii‘ you're CilflillUll to it l'l1 A Young 130111719 Went nous”

"Always I have believed,” said1n lore “ESL "hunting. Tile llldy liked one they

wor -look to the suds and uh u, d- f," ha k | _.. enedb dirlyclothec, I NEW”: , yoéihwill final lhhe answer. f ' and griyjztmnf dffljagor-e. gives 53%m0l13l'1¢|l,uV6lIfll. Certainly it most unwise for a boy and e111 Ivor aéfiaw a); biiglaililerso: snll. Ox dol su stand u are,‘ h". ‘hi’. 01 17 10 11¢ 111°1115‘1"°5 d°““1 with a long engagu- thcignewjdiseover gOxgdol and wor- longest-thy,‘ ho d Ox dol in aim ly Wonderful mam They n“. m0 young to know their ownl Y» Y 1 up the dart and float ll away. forydhhes m5 your bud. _

n new-type soap with truly mds- Ted 1"“ a’ 1"“ “m” °‘ 1"‘ 111"" “"111 amazin 1 = ower h nu will! ll llllllilll ufofoa . .. .. , . ,, , , g . . m l m ,. g gill’ - _ Soak! clot es u" e e you fiflfzoélzllfe-d lttsiraibc casein You only new 1° "m1 4m“ 1 “Ci-i 1“o“n‘o ‘iiz-tiinolgddiiiltie anad minds al-o expanding. and their tastes cilunglng every dilly» ""5 l it is a real soap sensation _ _ even your delicate things. ll -~ ~ - 1 “5HBibie to learn that. solomoll was‘ 1119M ‘W5 n” u ' o more idea of what sort o1 husband and W118 11195’ W11 “'5” w 1 everywhere. No rubbing 1s needed with is made from on] ‘he Pun“ 111’ 591*" 8111711811 01 111E111 111 111y,‘the WiSOSt or the biblical kings._ $116 cvuldlft see where her own .2“ grow“ up than they have what style of hat or dress they W111 11'1"“- For Oxydol is diflerent- Oxydol —- It 8001i! 01011168

, andfinest mate ale-u on _\L‘Lll'S oi‘ ilctive newspaper work. lnflmember his words? 1st“, mo‘ would fit in. _._--?- 11 15 Bllpfirlllltirgfidfivith pure, 10v01_ lllld wliileflifla ever; would expect from u" Jab 1i.»u')lll:lliy.’ VI dont know. Pvc nev- hvglh flagnns, comfort me n'illl’jl_ 1131101151 c-“Cvatgrf: $22,128.21: At 17 they should have all the girl mid boy 11'1°11<1$_111cy desire], b": I rich song) for 50% snore suds 1:19 "1105! 11111‘! Y1_8a1gi1l°11:n'5:i g5‘; of Ivor-y 59g , lfgfplen. adapt ‘MHM Bu‘: If I had to guess iamms’ for I m" 5101: of 101T" A1111 why’ madam’ M i. they should enter into entongling alliances with home, ‘lhey should eav ‘ 1hr“; o; c;- 5.0a p n1 an“. l u_n s-nm so c y did’ too, for an“. ‘ad I“ 1“ """1“‘““111 1110115111111 A1111 I what $O10111011'5 111°H$fl11<1 \\'1\'1‘5 (1111 ‘weds 11011115 11105” 113115’ themselvrs free to look the opposite sex ovcl and slzc it up in order that ]g|e(1form_||v¢ lefgu 511mg qulc ly loo. babieflv “on”; h le.'“ in‘ 1111"“ 011° 111111 P11911911 1 171°11‘1;‘to him, one woman lll one love nest‘ “$1111. 1V5 111111111’ 10 111"’? 11 19W 1°

i when the time does come to make a. liie choicethey W111 have a W111“? "Wwflh and ""11"" "11 Its rich, lively suds stay on them softer, and dalntle! 5H1“ m”? are no“ 11m Cmhd’ 1°’ 1°11" <11‘ 111W ma“ wday’ ‘ 1 111m“, at mo ‘Um! Spcakcr,“ the nus‘ knowledge and experience or men and women to guide 1119111 111 111513113 ‘ 0111679‘ the 'ob until thelaal particle and whiter. . ' I dorm 1am“: Tjlflq? never was a | "hand put in. their selection‘ ch00,” the soap that of in i, rUMmL . Ask yo!“- mdny [or rlrh- lllzlt didn't, have some ex-i “u” than-d‘, Om, Amum. _______ ~ dae! must W0rk fheblg-slzedo and 111 ill-WINS. ' d but one sweetheart have not _ blue P; Q.

The boy and girl who have never ha , 0 do] suds d f “What “roman. in heaven's nmnev the apple car-t and sets up a love only missed a lot oi fun, they have missed a lot of education in the art: zYlmrd workabllgzfli for‘ yourogk Ilmzlauch ‘ ' pyrrrry 1,0“, Nest; There 1mm“ she jg drunk on “mo. 1105;, m? nngwpl’ 15 simple. and science of lovc and how to test it. It. is only 111°” ‘V110 “we had a shortening the time Yflu ~ ftasdehqui u”. h?’ Yffllllld pd. ' . , mints a nmn flifillilld‘ dozen light; uttdcks of love who know when they are at 11151 5111111511 11°91?“ spend over ‘he washtub. “e5 “V917 w.‘ u “I laud known it in nly heart. all tho ilrllsc qil the tllne? The M19311 $11151 .1..1ll(!(l Pl‘(1l)1(‘l'|l5

. by tile $111111 mflmdy- Weak old-type suds g. u“. Bu: if ever I wanted con- illllil in zvwllnll. if - thPy V911 11101 ‘*1’-

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( . to, specific proof, I found it at truth, is n mun who gets out of the.‘ rum (all: H‘! F1 C11- AML bcfigvl) mp, my dear, {t girl 0f 17 mEil-IBS the 11115118116 011191‘ Yul-mg g y

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1 cleanhecausethey‘ uick- . pie in Tahiti. There are lllOrg house 1;. g g F‘ ‘ . ill ill. m ‘tr- \ l-ulyt. Ami a love me when She 1M5 any one boy mpllopolilze her. If silo does this, 5110] b, fiyz|eawaytoulil1llsuds_ labor, makes dlshwanhlrlgciglfi

1‘ 1 1 1119"» 1mm 11111" I “"111 is" ' "1111 ' - “ 711‘ '~-‘1-1‘“‘1' 1111115 1° 9C1’ sllllpiy shuts the door in tile illcc of good times and of her chances of! "men _ - Procler&Gnmblo 111 11111" 011101’ ‘"11’ S901 111‘ ' 1" 5 »‘ "11 l - d1 111 1111‘ ulukillg u better match. she yin-its 11c: tll):‘=1‘1l11.(‘1)‘ 111 1111? P1111“ 011119 Look for gudg when ‘ 11070111010311- And I112 mcn 11nd lvvmcnfllull‘: i= ll". ~ " i "l-r (ll-vi; lll11‘.'L‘il.<, will‘ B11111 1190111" buy w whom she ilils given illl ilcr duLOs ‘.\l\i1 ii he (locslft cllosc Lo Luke

ll lilulll are ns swk of love as almrrrry H mm ~51 4» when till-y kick over a 1m. about 51m 15 punk,

civic) would be sick ii‘ you fed‘ iililtyfyrluce spud h lllru-hvllll r,» to start it love nest thnti GUARANTEE

rlullcl a dict of undiluted nlolassesiw-gll] 1.5m m- v HIT! nothing else. l “lilllllllll 1:1 {LEO sh v01". '..ll'»- ._l:;_

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nest starts with every Any girl who does ‘this lacks even almost lllllllfl.“ intelligcflce. be‘

‘l!’ 111111 P10111911‘ 1119111311“ Eillbi: she has burned all of her Widgcs and leit herself noun)‘ of gFHCC- 1 _ . -l oll top oi that a lot oi m1 rctruat. She has driven luvay all the other boys and if the one boy L and pl-oblellis nil its she m5 1e; can“; on her doorstep gets tired of camping there and wund- l

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to kick ever the 1111005 811d 810W. ‘vacations from mull other if liv- ‘own! ‘erg on or if he sees solnc new girl who attracts him and he fol-sakes hcr l T u E C » D5 whimtlgaglku

10-11111; 0118 01‘ tWO Wfdckcd 110m95"ing togctheljis 1o b0 oven tolerable. l “If ully marl-led man or woman for the stranger or if he is sent off to scllool or goes away t0 W011i. Why; 0 L E T E worhudh bflurhr;

behind them. I can understand why/When You flee to n love nest in thinks he or she is in love with she is simply ieit stranded with nobody to take her out or give her n good ; . 0/ I w-wkjuumnm.

11<1v flco to Papcete, if they've 201111111111. you can't cell away n-olu somebody (-150 lhcrve got a lot time. noUsnnoLn S0AP 4711M "'°""°i’.""'°""

1111-‘ P1111? 01' 1119 P11551120» T116 5011111 each other. Yolflvo got lloiiling iolllPitCl‘ cllilllCt‘ of lasting happiness ‘"1313 111' T115 315511119 9F "o!" 59A!’ ' "or, w "a ,0“ Sen. 15.. ‘

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SPOTS left in this world that are full V‘ nlztkg love. I as]: any mall in the ‘same offal-ts m please that they'll do so evefy dgy, and you see a lot of them sitting at home sucking their _ of qlnlllollr. lviaybo it‘s because sojcnllporclry dl-unkncss o; being ‘inhlse outside milfflflgg to get and thumbs when the other girls are ofl amusing themselves. Also you see‘ 'Q_ what is the proper dress for“ A. N“

icw pbfipli? in proportion to the love’ 1o {ry to picture illmscli COlll-1kccl) a, sweetheart. And they’11 be mom have to humiliate themselves by asking some Tom, Dick or Harry, , ma“ attending the I opera’ or an Q u everything sewed m i p”,

world's population ever get out ‘pulled ‘to mnkc ardent love to one ‘ building something splendid on a to take them to a place and you see the lordly air with which some Tom, 1 evening wedding? " sons fight at table that u» put down

thorn. There's always more glamour wonmll, day lifter day, night after ‘Sfilitl foundation, instead of going Dick or Harry treats such a, girl because he knows she is dependent upon n "n". l‘. A. Fun dress L‘ required‘ over run‘ would" of n and ‘ _ to u spot you haven't seen. night, with no other real lnicrcstHnto n. gamble with the certainty hlm 5nd that. u he doesn't ask her to g0 to the picture show nobody @1511

Ads fire 0110 01 1-110 fewlrlo but ent, drink, swiln, fish nndflf they pllt into their marriage the Isa-t a gm silly to put herself in that position? Yet you see girls‘

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‘xlnd I'll so this f0!‘ Tfllflfl- Ifi1mltsicie of ectin and drlnkin in: hut th deck ls stocked 881111181 1 » Q- what 5111mm promptly b: 9mm? duh" "moved m)?! Y g 9 1 e W111- sent, upon receiving an nnounce A. Serve from left m remove lives up to its reputation for sheer his lire. The idea makes me, a them. ~ Q- 1-‘1 it permissible for one to ment otabirth? from right.

bcalltv. Nobody can starvg there. If woman, shudder, “I wish they could see what I d ms who begin gum: together m the“ school days Pick up n dropped knife or fork if A. A note of congratulation and Q- I! 8t 8- 17111186 111111311 I m?‘ you're a beach-climber, without a "Picture yourself condelnnnll 1301551“? at Papcete. A man and a. L015 of b°ys an g Th b e each other Everything that was them is only m“, Servant or U, one,“ feucmmom " , km i: passed would “me be 1;“ ‘mm 1n your pockets’ you simply go1-11a1is ‘)1 kissmg ‘me “Oman “11111110111311 “T11 bred’ educated’ from a get “red o‘ each other‘ '1 9y olliionshl has worn itself out and they hostess is serving? ‘ Q Should soup be already on unfolded at one side on table, o! .40 a tree and Dick your meals. No1the ardor she expects-mic lirdoi- o; ‘great Eastern city. who wrecked fresh and beauiiuluiltdhgheclgsllzimglillt pub]; gossip has bracketed them so A. Yes, and “vimout Showing any tam-e when guests enter dmmg- placed m l”?

jllol bills. You can sleep outdoorsfthu first time you kissed her. It's both {heir homes and fled to ""111 511111111 P I kin ma" e m mar, gwgy, Vcfy often they embarrassment. room? ’ A. Placed on lap.

nll illc year round No deadly wildliulluman. ' Pdpecic ten years ago. she with her 1°” mgether may ac at b 5,8,5‘, it is expected o; them when they -—--»- ~- --—-———--—-— llllinmls. The best fishing and husband's baby in her arms. The even marry in the end $11115 whom? Th“ is one reaso-Il why than

slvllnlllg in tile world. No teic- See Dlslllusion as End 1llally was on the ship with me, a. have already 10st an ‘as e 1m‘ we h

phones. no rudio, no daily news- 1youllg schoolgirl, coming back from “e 5° many flat‘ dun ma" “F”

t I ' 718F811 Your only contact with civi- “Love nests are predoomcd to cndlillo States to visit her mother. I 1 B N I . . lintlou is that steamer every in disiliusion. Most of all DECIIUSGIDUVCI‘ saw sadder, more disilluslon- And h; is because so many girls are foolish enough to let one boy 0 l

UliPlllV-slfvcn or twenty-eight days. they are based on the erroneous flS-|(‘(1 eyes o1‘ a sadder, more dislllus- monopolize them that there are so many old maids. For when the boy . slunplion that, the feverish, pas-‘lollcd face than I saw on that get, wed he can always kiss and ride away and find a new Lady Love, ’ l f h Love Only Desert sionaie love of the honeymoon islschoolgirl. And I never saw a. man bug; the forsaken girl finds it pretty hard to get once more in the running O C . something that, lasts. It can't last.1,zznd woman more fed up with each and to let other men know that Torn, Dick o": Harry has decided not to “And, of course, you know the Ii; has its place in tho scheme of1othcr than that girPs mother and rake up his option on her hand and heart after all and that she is open fmlnc or mind of a. man and s things, When yolvvc in yourthc man with whom she eloped ten to other pflers. ' woman whose amorous temperature twenties it's fine and natural andfllenrs ago. has risen to the point where they're splendid to love like that. But when , , _ ,, 5g, d r dont play tavorltes for the next three years. Have a. ‘wining w wreck a home m‘ two and you edlgoe trod“ in“ foruest mm t); u Never works" 800d timndywitel? dll the boys and remember that competition is the life o! years eyon ‘s as gro osque m _ DOROTHY DIX expect that sort of love as it would "Limitless leisure, limitless liquor, 111M191“ 1°“ 1“ 1“ bu‘ e5‘ _ _ _ l. ’ _ . be for a’ ma“ or ‘vomm? that ageinnnuess love-not a responsmuty Dear Miss Dix-There is no situation under heaven which brings to start having the (llseases of in the word-the world well lost for Wm more jealousy and unhappiness than marrying a man who is ab childhood all over agnin-chicken- love-just as they had dreamed it wgd a ‘Ether I have three sbepchudren and three of my own and I pox and mumps and measles and and wrecked their fives to get n‘- do n21; pretend-that I love my husband's children as I do my own. I am colic and teething. and it was dust and ashes and bit- jealous o‘ the way my husband watches my eldest stepdaughter ‘vlth "And 1n the heart of every loveWemess 1n 1111311 mmmm‘ They were ddorln e es I resent the fact that my stepson resembles his father nest is buried u stick of dynamite. sick oi’ it. They were sick oi each .3 y ' d d I knov that I Wm be m m“, when lp°hyiufh1nk 7°" w’ ‘m1’ m" That is it is in i110 power or the other. 'I'l1eii’ love nests were full 0i.’ 111°“ ma“ my own so“ 0C5 and t 2th h e yet I d‘? 1 L by back cu s. ' . these stepchildren are grown an ou o c ous , o ny (u y ' - . th l TPY 1'11 W111‘ YD" 1d" "vm1 ma“ and ihe “Oimn both to h“‘11",f"°“°"‘ Ems that aceraied them cheertullyand well. But in strict hollesty the cillldren have been 111mm gami- “f{"§1‘1‘°°"‘ “‘r’>‘"°°~°f ‘ime unforgwablc “mm in ‘moments’; em HOW‘ T 8y we“ sated Wm‘ deprived of the love of a blood relative whom they devotedly love by my dirt? 0w. u in some ‘ompclfln of ngcr. Sh fill twit him with 15895- .. kiusllsge (lroaul. . . wvolk it in around hug“? rum”? If” 1m fie m" {wit} “AS I looked at them I thought entrance into their family and I think they would have been better of! >'0\11'1105¢-1r1d1111'¢111'=<111 KCBP 11111111112 ' m‘ _ I _ h ' ‘ i, 10f m 1d No g m, “H with her. Don't you think that in most eases children would be better . —W111°11 111° 111"» '11.‘ 1’.1’°1‘1‘”‘1' 1°11 hm‘ with 1mm“ ‘WW1 1m career’ e 0 “e pr er ' envenlOfl with their mother's relatives than they are with their stepmothers? . away. Now your skulls really clean. . And mch knows lilo other is tcll- save us from the aere-woii-and . ,1 , HONEST STEPMOTHER. Buy a 1-11‘ Q1 PflmPflsn M“??? lng the truth, lfrom our hearts desire.’ C11=3111l9d""1'"3"1“17‘ 0M7 ' “It's easier for aging men to kid] ‘They 111111 Dflid 8 terrible price

n IVUICIIISQIVCS. if tiley’vc got a littleivr their heart's de51re- T119? had Answer: o M I 111011iy- They 0M1 3011 W011»; Z1115 ‘E01; 1191 111111 11119? Weft‘ 81°11 01 11r- Ot course ,it is impossible for any stepmother to love stepchildren as

PRO DUCTS FOR BEAUTY wholl mukc believe Lllfy love them ‘sick us children who had surged she does her own. 'I‘ll:lt is against natule. And, of course, it is a sad —W1111c 111111» 11101169‘ lasts. But the lilcmsclvce on 081K11- thing for any child to bc deprived oi the real mother love that only its ' 1 1lTlOlflPllL a. nmtllre person kicks over “The lovenest never clicks." own mother can give it, but that misfortune happens to many children, ' and whether when this catastrophe occurs to the child it is better for it to be left with its mothers people or to be turned over to a stepmothci-Zs care, is a problem whose solution depends upon the individual case.

Sevengv per cent. of tbs day’: work and flay is done in the four ‘ 1}. morning boars before noon. So pbjlsician: ' " advise "Start tbe day

with a bat, sustaining

breakfast. ”

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Very often it is better for the child to stay with a grandmother or an aunt who will give it u devotion that no stepmother can ieei for it, but BUTTERSOOTOH PIE ggpln very often a doting grandmother ol aunt ls not fitted to rear the child. Sometimes they love it not wisely, but too well and spoil it. Very Cook a cup oi’ brown sugar over often they are too old, too narrow. mo provincial and their influence is the ilre until melted and a light disastrous in forming a young rife,