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NupiioI Vows Al September

Baskets of white gladioli and mums and tall candelabra flanked the r of Calvary Temple in Charlottetovm for the September ceremony uniti n g in marriage Betty Frances Bell of this City and David Stan- ley Wheeler of Newfoundl a n d. Rev. Charles Benn officiated.

Soloist Fred Day of Murr a y Harbor was accompanied by Mrs. Day as he sang “A Wed- ding Prayer" during the cere- mony. Together. as a duet dur- ing the signing of the register. they sang “Savior Like A Shepherd Lead Them”.

Given in marriage by her lather. the bride was weari n g a full length gown of white vel- vat fashioned with scalloped neckline. Her shoulder length Veil. edged with brocade. was held in place by a tiara of pearls and rhinestones. With her cor- Sage she carried a white Bible.

Maid of honor Beverle y Adams was wearing an aqua brocade sheath with overskirt. and matching rosette headdress with veil.

Elizabeth Douse of Charlot- tetown and Jean Wheeler Windsor. d.. were brides- maids in identical sheath dres- ses of turquoise peau - de - soie and similar headdresses to that of Miss Adams. The flowar girl was Debbie Benn, and the ring bearer Jerry Birt.

red Wheeler of Windsor. Nfl'd. attended his brother as ‘best man. Other attendants were Loman Bell. the bride's brother; George MacWilllams, her cousin; and Merrill Reid, all of Charlottetown.

Ushering were Lloyd Perry Wil- liam Kelly of Marshfield P.E.I.

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Exchonged Ceremony

At the reception which was held in the lower church hall. the bride’s mother received wearing a sheath of gold bro- cade. matching hat and brown shoes. and corsage of yellow roses. The groom's mot chose a sheath dress with jac- ket of beige lace. pink hat, black accessories and corsage of pink roses.

Aqua and white streamers and bells and baskets of mixed flowers decorated the hall and the bride‘s table was centered with a three tiered wedding

Benn proposed the toast to the bride which was res- ponded.t.o by the groom Mar jorie Adams was soloist dur- ing the reception and a duct was sung by Carla Watts a n d Marilyn MacLean. The guest book was circulated by M r s . William Kelly. Several solos were sung by the pastor. Mr.

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For travel] in g the chose a grey Wool dress. accessories and corsage pink roses.

Mr. and Mrs. Wheeler are re- siding in Peterbor o u gh. Ont. where the groom is studying at Eastern Pentecostal Bible Col- lege in preparation for the min- istry.

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Audrey Jenkins. Women's Editor; Phone 4-8506

Mr. and Mrs. Frank A, Ram- say. New London and Mr. and Mrs. Hillard Woodside Clinton have returned from a pleasant visit with friends in Halifax.

Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Annear. Montague are visiting relatives and friends in Woburn. Mass.

Mayor Bruce Yeo. Montague. is on a business trip to Saint John. New Brunswick.

Mr. and Mrs. R. D. McKin- non left Alberton on Thursday to visit relatives in the vicinity of Boston.

Sandra and Myrtle MacGre- gor. students at Prince of Wales College and Moncton Bible Training School respectively. spent the Thanksgiving holiday at the home of their parents. Mr. and Mrs Stuart MacGregor. East Baltic.

Stephen Arsenault. son of Mr. and Mrs. Leonce Arsenault. St. Eleanors. has returned to Port Hawkesbury. N.S.. where he is attending school.

Mr. and Mrs. Earle Riley left by bus on Friday tor Boston. . and Michigan. where they will spend a couple of weeks visiting relatives before returning to their home in Cal gary. Alberta Mr. and Mrs. Riley have been guests of Mr. and Mrs. Bruce Riley, Baltic for the past week.

Mr. and Mrs. James L. Le- Page of Hunter River will be at home to relatives and friends on Wednesday. Oct. 21 from 3-5 pm. and 7-11 pm.

Benjamin Oulton of Sault St, Marie, Ontario. visited briefly at the home of his brother. Wil- lard ‘0ulton, Alberton. last week.

Mr and Mrs. G. M. a Leod and two daughters. Chris-

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‘ anna and Heather left on Mon-

day for their home in Dart- mouth. N.S. after spending the week end in Baltic. the guests of John and Miss Grace Riley.

Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Seward. Halifax. N.S. spent the Thanks- giving holiday weekend at the home of Mrs. Seward's mother. Mrs. Lillian Gillis. Forest Hill, and other members of her family.

Sylvia Gard. student at M o u n t Allison Uniersl t v. spent a recent weekend with her parents, Mr. a Keith Gard, Mill River.

M s, Ray Foley. Alberton. left on Friday to visit relatives in Mass. ‘

Mrs. Austin Rix returned to her former home near Alberton.

The choir of the East P oI nt United Baptist Church held a party at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Stuart MacGregor. East Baltic in honor of their daugh- ter Myrtle. who is a student at the Mono-ton Bible Training School. en a presenation was made to her from the choir and an enjoyable evening spent

game, contests and music.

Mr. and Mrs. Colin Westaway and son. Alan. Eastern Pas- sage. N. 8.. nt 8 recent week- end in Montague, guests of Mrs. Westaway’s parents, Mr. a n d Mrs. Leonard Gillis.

Mr. and Mrs. Ke i th Fraser. Halifax. N.S.. were wecke n d visitors to Montague and New Perth.

Jean Ann Munro. Wollaston. Mass. spent the weekend her home in Whim Road.

MR.ANDM

RS. J .L. BRAGG

iBrdgg-Ivlcchecln Ceremony ESolemnized Al Summerside

A wedding of wide inter e st was solemnized in Trinity Uni- ted Church. Summerside. when Dr. C. R. Webber united in

that has somehow got between you and .

Thus. while he is resting (or trying to) on the couch after sup- per. watching .you are. in effect. harping or nagging at him (that's how he feels it) with a lot of edgy conversation about property upkeep. etc.. which you introduce not so muc because you need his judgment. actually. as because you are hoping to inveigle him into a cozy exchange of ideas.

Your unconscious real purpose at such times. I think. is to try to reach him where he lives (as the phrase is): to evoke from him a responsive spark of real interest in your domestic con- cern of the moment. so that once more you'll have an ex- perience of sharing with him—- if only a shared problem or shared “headache.” in place of 'positively shared love and at- fection (which he robably in- itiated in his more. "considerate" day )

In my judgment. you need im- mediate first-hand specialist in- struction from a psychiatrically oriented medical doctor. in the A-B-C's of adjuting (with deep understanding) to the require- ments of living. helpfully. with a semi-invalid spouse. He is semi- invalid at present in his emo- tional constitution. even though able to get about physically in a somewhat restricted way.

A now. your overall at- titude towards your husband is

ra . one of dissatisfied acEusatory

pressure and demand. In es- “'"". you are crying for ac-

DEAIR MARY EAWOIRTH: My husband and I have problems which I can hardly explain. much less solve. I hope you can help

We are both 45 and both had been married before. 1 was a full - time employee of govern- ment when we married and John was very considerate then.

We adopted a child. a girl, who

MARY HAWORTH

The Evidence Suggests Husband Is Depressed

will be 10 in December. Last fall I retired on disability and. with John's consent. I provide fos- ter home care (for pay) to a little girl the same age as ours. All my retirement pay and fee ter-care earnings go for family maintenance and upkeep of the car. while John takes from to f twice-a—month paycheck (as a railway employe) just for coffee and beer allow-

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sncc. He puts $115 in the bank each payday for the house and insurance payments.

Despite two heart attacks he is still able to work. He comes home punctually this past year. then goes to a nearby beer joint for an hour. after which he has r with us and lies on the

watching TV until

WP couch - time.

On his days off. he sleeps late. reads the paper. has breakfast (which I fix for him). bathes. dresses. goes to see his mother. then to a couple of beer joints and return about the lame hour as on work days.

1 know he needs plenty of rest. so I don't fuss about his lying down every night. nor do I ask around the house on workdays.

But when I have something to discuss with him. hedwon't an»

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thin he either ignores the question or cusses me out.

My nerves are . asked if he wants a divorce and all he says is: what you

want to."

- I am angel but I've tried to please him and do as he wishes. But there are I need his help it. What am I to do?

N.K. DEAR N.K.: As I get the pic- ture. your husband is somewhat depressed nowadays (emotional- ly withdrawn is another term for it). probably as a by- not of the two heart attacks. And. as a result. he may he disinclin ed (at least temporarily) wards sexual lovemaking. which causes you to feel unwanted. re- jected. insecure. unattractive and the like in the wife- . I would surmise. further. that as a consequence of ma mutual-

aro over-reacting. Saint John. NJ. on Friday spending time at

some bhwallfi

ceptance. for love. for reas- surance as his sex partner. But you are putting your grievance in terms of his alleged indifference to domestic problems. his selfish- ness with money. etc.. which are mostly peripheral or beside the point

M. . Mary Haworlh counsels thr- ough her column. not by mail or

care of (The Guardian). I

personal interview. Write her in} Douglas

marriage Verna Judith Mac- Lean and John Lewis Bragg. The bride is the daughter or Mr. and Mrs. Allison Philip MaoLean. h bridegroom who is a graduate of Mount Alli- son University, is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Elmer Bragg of Collingwood. Nova Scotia. Standards of white and yel- low gladioli and emerald deco- rated the church for the occas- 'n. Mrs. Eric Sheen was or- ganist and directed the' Girls' Choir which sang "The Lord Is My Shepher " at the beginn-

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Young Couple Is Honored

Friends and relatives met at the. home of Mr. and Mrs. Her- bert Gill. Pleasant Valley re~ centiy. the occasion being a shower for the couple’s only daughter. Carol. who was mar- ried recently to Beverly Mac- Allister

Joan Smih‘i escorted the bride to her seat of honor, while Mrs. Sheldon Abbott played the Wedding March.

Gail Smith and Karen Weeks Icarried in the gifts. Others as- sisting were Mrs. Roy Mac- Lennan. Juanita Weeks and Dianne Smith. Lunch was rved

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shower was held for the newly- weds at the home of Borden MacAllister in New London. Pink streamers decorated line living room. The. bridal cho- rus was played by Mrs. Wilbur

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Eunice Burgoyne and Ken- neth Burgoyne carried in the; baskets of gifts. The gifts were} opened by Mrs. Maynard Sim- pson and Nan Crabb. while

rs. Merrill Sim-pson and Mrs. Ian MacCoubrey read the verses.

Betty Bertram and Arlene arranged the gifts. Refreshments were servled.

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lng of the ceremony and "T h e Wedding Hymn" by Mozart du- ring the signing of tlhe register.

Given in marriage by her fa- ther. the bride wore a gown of silk organza over taffeta. The bodice of Guipure French Lace, was fitted and styled with s scalloped neckline and short sleeves. The floor length sheath skirt was a-line. The gown was enhanced by a detac- hable train accentuated with Guipure lace outlining the full length of the train.

Her headdress of orchid and pearl held a shoulder length veil of English illusion tulle. She carried a cascade of white glad dioli florettes and trailing strands of var.

Mrs. John McKiggan. Hali- fax. sister of the bride. was matron of honour. J an e Gra- ham. Halifax. was bridesmaid and Karen Rodd. cousin of the bride was junior bridesmaid. They were similarin gowned in street length dresses of peau- de - sole in shades of teal blue. turquoise and wedgewood green with matching pill boxes. Their

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The First Of Fall Litters Arrives In The Piggery

Overcast. this day was...We Itie mother recall now how Iov- look back now along its paths .er were the waiting days a h e from an evening with neither i spent in the orchard —— the blue stars nor moonlight. Lights In lsky and scented winds. the the windows of the stables indi- I blossoms and drifting petals. cate that there is delayed (-hor- .the summer - c o u c h in ing at Alderlea. because of to- :shade of the old spruces there day's pressing fieldwork. Those now that she is confined indoors? in the piggery tell the knowing, ;Or with the velvet of her babes that the first one of the fall lit- downin soft against her bosom. ters has come. Would this lii- would she be discovering that.

cousln of the groom Halifax and ‘there is nothing world-over. no Alan Rodd. cousin of the bride. happiness 0‘ 937th better For the reCeption at Clin to n i "015? Heights, the bride's mother} were a gown of persian blue rib- 1 that door to speak to Peter this bodice and straight skirt. and a . at him “Berlin. . hat of matching color. Her COTS-é “May I 001119 "1 )Nllh Vol! ‘0 age was miniature carnati o n II em?" I“? WPStwned~ ‘And and pink S w e e theart roses. ,‘ YOU need“ l SPY "- lo "19- I kiwi" Mrs_ Bragg wore an im on. 1 when we are in there we mustn t ed. two - piece model of Medite- _ rranean blue crepe. mink stole. y- James 5mm?“- and a feathered hat. Her corsage : Palm"! the YOURS head- was of yellow Sweetheart roses. I Now that Fall holidays The brides book was circul-. being observed in the little aired by Janet Bragg. niece of school down the River Road. the groom. out number of farm-workers has At the bride's table which ‘vbeen considerably increased. was centered by a three tie r l Mack. Alex and Peter .we r e wedding Cake. {93 was poured among those who jomed in har— by Mrs John Anderson am, vesting the crop of. mangels Mrs. Wallace Rodd, aunts of “(185” These grew "1 4‘ Pate" the bride. The toast to the of field beyond the stumpland. bride, proposed by David Rodd. where in years gone at this sea- was responded to by the groom. 30"» W“ the 31""de maple For a honeymoon in New grove. We could fancy that York and Toronto, Mrs. Bragg MEG "I “‘9 COW ' kllld 985m“ '1 E chose a French beige bowie . With her kith and kin nearby. no- suit with mink trim and brown “"8 th? P")th 1“ hand. “Udged .hat and accessories_ with cor. her neighbor and smiled widely. Isage of Coppercliff roses. “See! They) arethharvestins .ghe t.f_t ‘ .y man . n e eary sle, M3“.nd°M.§W§.gg§*gra‘;;}'-§gg . isn't it? Why, they haven't com— and Mrs. Douglas Bragg and Sitet‘umeikaimibglmifl on; ~ a oes n ica . Janfl’ Mrs' wmsmn Bragg' could mean" the other replied

Lorraine Bragg. Gerald Gid- .. . . dens! Collingwood. M”. Deb that they re taking advantage ofa day when they cantcom-

momt Townsend, ’l‘ruro; Mr ., .. and Mrs. Harry E. Ripley. Mrs Mae} or sh” mandated 1‘ Annie Ripley, Colin Ripley. Mr. could be away“ and I s h I H and Mrs_ Ra‘s t o n Rip 1e y ’ be rated as among the number of those present’ at the approa-

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