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MARY HAWORTH

Mote’s Hostile Criticism ls Response Of Neurotic

DEAR \HRY HAWORTH: It am 1‘5. married over siv years and have two small children.

The problem is my hiisband.l who demeans me rout of3 \l'l'h little digs about: _ failings. .‘losiiy lt's wh en something didn't go right for him at work. but It is becoming more frequent and really 39“, Ling me dnii-n f

It's getting so ldon‘t want to: be around oth er people be- cause of the way he acts lo-' wards me in these moods he seems in feel it's a crime to be CollS'flf‘i‘aiP of me «at home or 'p piiblic‘.

i don't understand his badg-

eriiig about c o o kt n g. bnusckce p i n 1. looks. weight' i122 poundsi. the way I a

built. etc. I am not the world's, llf’sl cook or housekeeper. not the worst. either. Though ['1 don't always look my best at] home or when we are sliopplng.§ i take care to look nice when we. go out socially and u s u ally get compliments, .

My husband is a fairly good,I man He works hard, doesn'li threw his m on e 3' around.’ comes directly home fr om work and doesn't drink exceptl soc l a lly. He doesn't alwayal look like a prince to me. but I: don‘t criticize and i don't inter—- {era with the way he does his‘ job. v . I see only the good in him.:‘ though he has faults. lik e‘ varjfnnp. “"an can't he 3008M me as I am and see the good in- me" When we discuss this not and !

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is trying to impress me w i t h the need to look nice. etc.

My thought is, when I feel like looking it i c e, I will; his nagging will make no difference. except that the more he criticiz- es. the worse I feel and look t Bu lstill don't look as bad as he can uu derstand what's wrong and tell me what to do. B F.

ar Your husband‘s behavior. as described. is "re. ‘ jecting.“ It amounts to saying.. in the presence of others. that.‘ he declines to be identifie d with vou. .

As‘fnr what a”! him. m, what in: Girls AUX,“an Links and on the different problems of the V

lmpels him to act so destructiv-‘ the result that on-E

less of him than he professes to think of you). I gather that hc suffers from what used to bc‘ called an "inferiority com-i ex."

Also. the vintage of your mar- riage probably figures in the problem. too.

Marriage specialists report that most marriages tend to encounter stormy won t h e r along about the fifth year was oumlng they've stayed afloat until then).

By the fifth year. approxima tely. the initial brand of attrao-i tion that sparked the marriage' (puppy love, romantic love. sex magnetism. whatever) has begun to grow stale. If. by that time. the couple isn't matur- ing. as individuals and part- ners. into a different. more deeply integrated, more ration- a1 and social (less self - cent-i ered) relationship to each other i and to life than existed to star. ' their marriage may fall apart.1

ou've noted that you bus-i band seems increasingly moody about conditions at work. At ‘ such times he verbally beats you over the head about youi imperfections.

it fails: it he feels frustrated in his Job World: and perhaps he t is within when about

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tbs dumps h a sense of failure. he tends ides- pito appearances to the con- trary) to turn to you for Pgu~ support, as if you might afford assurance fin your own person) that ha is a strong. able. signifi- cant man. not at a social cip- her

But you seem blind to his neu- rotic needs of sort. Moreover, you are disposed to be innocent- ly content with yourself and him "as is." if he'd let you be.

anxious self - contempt is aired in toth of displeasure with

M' I At such times he probably feels a deep hunger a pipe dream) to be married rich, bright. beautiful. sweet, sophisticated. gifted, glamorous heaven - sent belt» mate who ass a t s eem his mtino mediocrity (as it seems to him). advice is. don't cringe defensively from is unreason. Take the story to a family rela- tiona counsellor for evaluation. mic assessment of you r version of the marriage. with speicalist help. is necessary to

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get to the heart of the conflict. can you deterrn l n e how to save the situation. it‘J ’0'. ; or how to safeguardg your own self < respect. MH. Mary awortb counsels through her column. not oy mail or porn 0 n a 1 interview. Writ. her in care of the Guard. in.

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Young Piglets Checked Before James Retires

"See you!" Cut-rm l t v. the sizable cat :v'ins brforc clin- pini: out at .lamcs‘ hecis into 1 e n i 2 hi H‘s twin? is grim. en. Outdoors. it “ill be over- laid with the silici‘ o.‘ ili'mlil'l'll‘. as are the spring - ti'a-‘s along which he will iiad.

3st round of his day,

We ~lt.iiild like to

l havP come with ii.m. but there is a coolness in the :iii'. w h l cii inclines one to remain by the

fire. He goes in sec all is well with the animals. as docs

also the younger farmer from his house across the lane. To add a hit of bedding here

there. and pause to appraise this or that one. of those that will before long. go out to the pastures \layhc they will giri one, to determine thus, whether or not satisfying gain is being ma 9

The barn - cats will nap on a.

sill, wak l n g to blink at the ights. The hzintunis in a pre- cise and attractive row will be asleep. high it on a water - pipe below the deck of a loft.

Be James comes awav

fo ‘he will open the shutters be- fore the hoise‘ stalls to out handfuls of grain in the man- gers. Seeing, we think. not so: . much th o s e we have now ‘ handy as they are about. buti some remembered friend - nf . ‘ an vears gone; she that

the whatever was that?" one of the young‘uns will ask.) Or the young more that would haul "for every inch that was

was" that never lived to grow up. Those, and others. from the young and more challenging days of his farming. James will see.

He will. we know, look in on thelitter of piglets. the rct-ent

isnowstot'm brought by lantern-

light. andbe grateful thin to-

: night. a pressure of a finger will

flood the piggcry with light.

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Anglican WA Elects Exec.

Holy (‘onimiiniott at St Pei cr's Cathedral was celebrated by Bishop \l',W [taxis prior in Friday's tension of F‘ F‘ l. Diocesan Board of Women's Auxiliary Anglican Church of Cannada.

Returning to St Paul‘s llall.‘ delegates received reports from Miss t‘arrie Thompson cniii'ci‘ii-

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WA. still in German camps. who are so appreciatn‘e of the inonfl. ey. food and interest given by the PEI. branches.

candlelmht’f” Ale x queried today.

"Odd times" we replied

"One can" he odded. “There \i hen the power was off for a while hecatt se 0 t a storm. .‘lftlllf‘t‘ read to and me by the light of one. And" he smiled “we enjoyed it!"

“S n o wdrops lost again!" Pana Starling. who had been. whistling clieerily in his breeze- way commented in the sun of this morning. “But they‘ll come back! Rec k on that was the poor man's fei-iilirer. that la at snowfall. we got

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e. I) Mama Stari ling callcd from indoors. l "Oh. that spring-3 cleaning?" smiling bit rut-fully as he turned away.; "This is certainly a beautifull night. F: l l e it" James offers,.i hanging up cap and jacket. calm an brig h t. Looks though we'll get day. tomorrowl" Until tomorrow — Diary —— Good - night.....

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Audrey Jenkins. Women's Editor; Phone 4-850!

farewell party honoring George Poole. was held on Mon- day evening April 20 at the home of Mrs. Mary Fox, Lower Mon- tague.

An address, read by Mrs Ce— cil Hicken, accompanied a me- mento from his friends.

The evening was spent in dan- cing with music furnisth y Joe Kearney. Mrs. Matilda Mur- phy and Gerard Murphy.

Refreshments were served.

was the Kensington Royal Canadian Le-

Mrs. Gordon Bryanton

WOMEN’S ORGANIZATIONS

I cleared from the afternoon tea.

1‘. I tor of the church and it was de-

Morgate Church Entered In Beautification Contest

Mrs Lorne Adams was devo- tional lcader at the April meet- in . Margate United Church Women. held in th e

The worship service opened with a hymn followed by scrip- ture reacting and meditation “Our Daily Work“. and prayer led by Mrs. Wilfred Pickering.

The president. Mrs. R o be rt Heancy opened the meeting with a meditation and roll call was an>\\'Pl‘Pd by a verse con- taining the word "go".

Secretary Mrs. Bruce Clark. read the minutes of the. previous mccting 'l‘he treasurer. Miss Vi- vian \l'oodside. reported $115.10

Willi total receipts of $321.16. Members voted to donate $200 toward the painting of the exte

nefit by attending our Women‘s Institute meetings".

It was decided to collect books for Riverside Hospital. also to send entries to the craft exhibit in Charlottetown.

A beautiful quilt top was hated to the Stanley Brown.

A letter was read from th -. Stanley Bridge committee. ask ing for numbers for their an- nual concert.

A paper on "Agriculture" was read by Mrs. Oscar MacKay and the questionaire discussed and filled in.

The May meeting will be held at the home of Mrs. Wilbur Mac Kay.

A program was presented by Mrs. Mont MacEwe'n and Mrs. Wilbur Mar-Kay.

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cided to enter the M a r g ate Church in the Beautification con- test.

Plans were made to cater to ._ .. l’l'. yros and T u x i 3 groups if they would like a ban- not.

Mr: Wilfred Pickering w h 0 presented tlit program on "Mis- sions". gave an interesting talk

life of the Northern lndians. Meeting closed with a hymn

CLINTON WI Mrs. Wilfred Pickering was hostess to the members of the Clinton Women's Institute in

Mrs. Maurice \i'ilkineuu. cliairg A m

man of the candidates dcpart— merit of the Dominion Rom-d. spoke o‘" the cl'fni‘ts uf candit'aL es secretaries whose Work is in- spii‘ing i'tilllf‘i‘ tliziri il'it»ll‘."l"‘:. in placing workers ill a founter hnzpital in Him: Kong. a secre- tai‘v fur a bishop in liirlia. and worker in an indian reservation

‘. in \vcsieru t‘auarla.

\li'< \i"lkiii\on made tlii‘sc people '..\'c ‘or her audience and stressed that quality is needed. people ‘illf‘ are willing to he s rants of ilicir people in the titer— sens field.

Rcli'cslinicuts \ici‘c sued by 9t Pctcr's t'atlicriral branches in the (‘atlicdral Hall.

liilccimn of officers i‘csiiltcd in three new members on the exec? utive: pl'(‘\lt'l(‘lll. Mrs. ll l.. Pal-1 . lst vice president. Mrs. G.B. Wbiimido candidates sec- retary. \lrs. .l.R. Davies, The. meeting concluded with groupl

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Alice Brooks. care of Guard "199""! of the New London Wo-

llrs. Harold Heaney presided and the secretarial report was, given by Mrs. William Cotton. l The sum of $2.00 was voted lo-l ward the Korea. orphan boy. and $3.00 for the (‘AC memtberfi

Household Hints

Make your own furniture pol. ish With equal parts of boiled linseed oil, turpentine and vine- gar.

Outdoor furnit u r e made of genuine reed. cane. bamboo or wicker n P e d s a good wetting

and splitting. but again until it has dried comple- tely.

Revive the finish of glazed chintz by adding a smal amount of candlcwax or para- ffin to boiling starch. Use when cool and iron chintz on the right side when nearly dry.

Eggs. milk and butter used) .- in rccipcs temperature.

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used books and magazines to harm "sing,

ncxt mcetm: for Riverside Hos-I pital Library.

The questionnaire from t he provincial convener of agricul-, tui'c. \lrs Louise Marchbank was road and filled in.

The \iay meeting will be held! at the home of the presrd e n t..' Mrs. licauey. Roll call will answered with an exchange of flower slips. flower seeds a nd

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bulbs. . Mrs. Thomas Sullivan present- 4 ed the program. , Refreshments were served by the hostess assisted by Mrs. Ivan Pickering.

BURTON WI Mrs. Lance Dalton was hos-

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‘ Take them from'f ship it was decided to bringi the refrigerator at least an hour '

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t gion Auxiliary at the regular

meeting held Monday evening,

ril 20.

, Mrs. Earle MacKay presided :' and conducted routine business. . A number of members signified i their intention to attend the an- t nual meetings to be held in

Charlottetown.

‘ It was decided to raise the

3' price of the pot luck supper Lo

‘ held on Tuesday, April 28, to $1.00. Several members offered

i to take small prizes for bingo to be played by those who do not

f, play cards. 1‘

i The April meeting of the New. oep

London United Church Womeu‘ was held in the church base-i ment with Mrs. eirum 80‘ Kay presiding. Mrs. John Mac

Gregor led the missionary prayer.

members responded to roll call with a verse of scrl

lure containing the word . Mrs. Louis Mac rea E ter regarding the allocation. 1 9 members decided to pur- ichase material to make chorr ' gowns for the Junior Choir. ‘ An invitation from Mrs. Wai- ; ford lilacEwen to meet at her ; home at Kensington, was ac cepted. l Mrs. .lessle Campbell present.

ed the chapter from the Women . of the New Testament. followed l by questions and answeres. l Meeting closed with the Lord's

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"Life". d 3 'et-

nan-rm mannaqu you -renownea

the Graham's Road trio and a i evangelist fishing for some of

Slemon Park duet. the Island's famous speckled trout.

Beginning Sunday with a wet-i coming p a r ty in their Hoteli lounge. wives of delegates toi the Fisheries Council of Can- ada annual meet 1 n g weref "wined and dined" with the hos-t pitality that has bec o m e that hallmark of Island hosts in this commemorative ar. j

Monday's functions included- a coffee party. noon reception; and dinner at the hotel. I

Province House was toured: by the more than 60 wives who! attended the functions. prior to! afternoon tea Tuesday at Gov-i ernment House where Mrs. J.B.l Esty. Wife of the Council's pre-i sident. received wi t Lieut. l Governor W. J. MacDona ldt and Mrs. MacDonald. ;

Pouring were Mrs. Leo 1205- l siter. Mrs. Eug e n 0 Mrs. James Burden and Mrs. Lorne Noonan.

Mrs. S. H. Bur h oe. Mrs. Ernie Carey. Mrs. Edward Gallant and Mrs. Walthen Gau->

det ushered the guests. .

In the evening delegates and. their guests danced to music by. Don Messer's Islanders.

A noon luncheon at the Bel- vedere Golf and Winter Club‘ was preceded by a sherry re-i ' Gemstone earrings. from the Handi c r aft Studio Workshop in Alberton were given to the guests as souv-l enlrs. I Delegates and w i v e s were . guests of the Ci ty at an early t evening reception.

e the dinner; sponsored by the P. E. I. Gov-I ernment in their honor.

Chairman of the women'si functions committee was Mrs. James Burden.

Following a global preaching mission. Rev. Dr. John Suther- land Bonnell and Mrs. Bonnell will return in J un e to their summer home. “Highlands” in Georgetown. where Billy Gra-l ham will be their guests for twa days following his one night preaching rally in Charlotte- town. Dr. Bonnell hopes to

A soloist. Margo Clark. Ken . sington. and a trio. Joyce Mur-‘ ‘ ray, Marilyn Campbell and [so . be] Macheod. Graham's R o a d

, were selected at the Lion‘s Ta- } lent Caravan. a concert held at i Kensinglon. to represent the ‘Kensington area in the Lion‘s i' Maritime Variety Concert. a show which will be held in Run- sington this year. . Winners of cash prizes in tho‘ ‘ solo class. were Margo Clark. l and Sharon Campbell. in the re citations class. Linda Sharpe. and Debbie MacArthur. instru- - mental music. Donald Murphy.

l OBITUARY i

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Dr. Ewen Gillis ‘ The late Dr. Gillie. who passcd away at the Royal ‘Columbian Hospital. New West- minster, . C. March 22, ll91i4. after a b.1‘crf illness. “‘2! in man of sterling character. high ideals and of philau lthropic nature. '

less to and also presided a-t Ap-i ril‘s Women's Institute meeting,

in Burton.

House cleaning hints were ziv- . en the response to roll call.

Committee reports were hard and correspondence included a; number of letters in response to a request for letter friends in al. western newspaper. 5

Two members volunteered to assist with the Retarded Chil- dren's fund collection.

\‘ext month's hostess to Mrs. Peter Dalton when members will exchange plant slips an d seeds.

Visitation committee appoint- ed was Mrs. Clifford Collicutt and Mrs. P. Dalton.

Refreshments were served.

VICTORIA WI In response to the roll call at the April meeting of the Victor- ia Women‘s Institute. members donated cards. magazines and books for the Riverside Hospi- tal.

Various committees submitted . reports and $10 was voted tot wards books for the ru r al school.