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'lh .h, This precious little one - year “*' , old is Dandra Flynn and her . birthday was on Saturday, De - camber 27th.. 1958. Sandra’s bea- ‘V . I h e do 0 . n Brlgo Ier Knight Born PL. :51!“ “H A verteran officer whose life-

span co-incided with that of his native Canada, Brigadier Fred

Confederation Yr. On P.E.l.

in 1932 from the men's social work in Montreal.

During the largely - attended

an " Knight (R) was called Home $151333; 962909 C(ctitnfluctledJ by the .. I . .. q ' l _ 601‘ any, cone . Wise- i ﬂ gmmaomgghf: f‘iglaty‘ Dece‘m man, tributes were paid by Sr_. . .. i y days of - . h . . . ‘A’. . . Maior F. Tilley. Brock Avenue, ll. his mnety first birthday. A well- . I loved Salvationist the Brigadier Well? the departed Wanner had ~~l — ‘ . ’ soldiered, and also by SrAlViajor . had reached his 67th. year of _ . . I ~ h . ﬁmemhyp F- Walhkm (R). a sourm‘law. who u a“ . ' ‘ represented the homily. Said Maj- hu a The promoted warmor was born 0,;- wamm, ‘fAs a child of 3 Km . “i - th? year Of Confed’erahoni and the Brigadier was well born and I. . ‘ . hishuﬁlhplace was Charlottetown, W611 bred, and of a most kindly - ﬂ ‘ Prln’c‘e Edward Igla‘nd‘z When? lhe disposition. His spiritual percepv ‘ articles _of Confederation uniting mm lasted 1mm death was swal; n u . the provmces were signed in 199i. lowed up in View. ms (“paw u h I He‘Wa'S a member 0f the Tepn‘ nine flrom this world meant a glor. u. ‘ torial Staflf ‘Sonigster Brigade and ions welcome in Heaven". ~- i ,Onchestra in Toronto, of which The Sta,“ Secretam,’ (301mm T. w“ ‘ group but few officers that com- Mummy, led the singing of uMy “'uh " Pnis'ed it remain “dam The BTi'g" Shepherd," and SrACapatain E. '~.' . Adler and the late Envoy, (.Profes- Tuck sang "A Light came wt 0; n ~s ' 901') W. A. Hawley were boys to- Darkness,” The Obie; Secretary '- “d ' gamer in Charlottetown, and 135* extendedthe condolences of Com- lﬂ'} year at a ﬁfimﬂ'y reunions he sang missioner and Mrs. W. Booth to n - ﬂ. , film-Envoy's well - known com- Mrs. Knight and the bereaved 3*- ' position. “Shall Wuvfh'a’l‘l L meet family, which includes Freda ' Jesus. by and by? (Mrs. Sr.-Mlajor Watkin) and 0 , The Brigadier spent twelve Myrtle (Mns. S. Nook, Chicago). 5 years of his otiicership in the Grandchildren are Captain- F. Maritimes in field work. begin . Watkin. C'h-atham. Ont, Mfrs. 1st. w ‘ bin at Kentville. N‘.S. with Mrs. Lieut. R. Coles, Weston, Mani, b w Kmigght, (Captain Annie Wight — and F. Watkin. Toronto. ‘ u w w man) he commanded Lippincott, At the graveside in the Army b h '. and other corps in Ontario. Then plot, Mt. Pleasant Cemetery, the ” tollowed appointments as division Chief Secretary read the Scrum - ~ g V al commander of North Bay and ture portion and committal ser: ‘1‘ 4. Saint John Divisions. He retiregl vice. m u at" i . ' II - - at... , MARY HAWORTH “a” - Th i‘ " _ ~Wife Could Use ese "'"‘ F' H I fl Id In: -- Ive e p u eds

Dear Mary‘ Haworth: Is it pos- . sible that women can fall out of love with their husbands and (I , assume) vice versa? llf so, What u ‘have they been able to do about it? We. my husband and I. have '. W0 wonderful children who love fus both equally. Because of their / youth and innocence, they do not understand what has been going ;‘ on. . 0n the heels of a recent 50- ealled "reconciliation" we fin that we no longer thrill to one -. another": touch; no longer do‘we .. Cane for each other‘s caresses. In . Short. there‘s no physical attrac- ; tion. ANOTHER, WOMAN . This 1 a t e s t “reconciliation” v was a case of trying again—mot j ﬁm‘ the ﬁrst time. 'llhe preth- ‘ary trouble involved “another Woman”- and our children were * l1he only reason for not dissolvmg ' our marriage. . .Ben was supposed to give up "llhis woman for the sake of the children—and my giving him an— other chance, because of them- However, I find that, in this pro- cess, I have lost all faith and . trust in him. > 5 Presently, the situation looks 300d on the surface; but the > shock was too much for me. and . I feel that I no longer love him. .Are We required to live the rest % Of our lives not really caring for ' one another, staying only for the ‘ children; hating, more and more. the conjugal intimacy permitted 01113’ due to necessity? C.J. . DON’T SEEK SOLUTIONS _ 1 Dear C.J.: When an unha‘llplly married pair whine that they are slaying together because of the children. the logical retort 15: “Corrie out from behind the false whiskers." _ When whiners stay together: 31' * most always it is for personally . selfish, clinging, face-saving, elf- ‘ pedient reasons that arent really other-centered al all: 1“

lel‘ms of putting otliers‘ happi- ‘ “85! ahead of. their own.

They are just drilling. faking

V the "safer" way — for laC‘k 0f

courage. integrity and faith in ﬂheir ability to rise out of a mis- take, by taking cleancut action conCorning if, H

I“ is Of course a fact «if ll‘lC M l Wham percentage o1 mis-

d thing by oifspring. And they real-

mated couples do settle heroic- ally for disappointment, and con- tinue as partners for reasons of conscience—because they regard marriage as an indissolulble con- tract “until death do us part.” NEW ROAD OPEN

But in such case, they don't wear martyrdom on their sleeve; nor cite innocent children as the tie-thatlbinds. Rather, they duti- tully accept their inalienable re- sponsibility for doing the decent

ize (by instinct and common sense) that family life, to be good for children, must contain 'good for the parents also—or.primar— ily. I ' ‘

So, they study their Situation, to determine how to introduce good into the family relationship, on the parental level—in deliber— ate ways that might not have occurred to them, if the joys of congeniality had flourished spon- taneously.

Such is the challenge confront- ing you. A new road to maturity (beckons. But have you the Vision and stamina to pursue it, profit- ably? Can you turn from the past, with its easy th‘l‘ll‘ls‘qf phys- ical passion and self-gratification, and invest mind and spirit—and not merely body—in promoting kind~hearted “togetherness” (ex- use the expression.) _

c On the wife’s part this might include: 1. Renouncing a sense of injury and resentment .over past hurts. 2. Taking fresh intere est in the house, to make it com- fortable and attractive, in line with the husband‘s taste, .per- liaps. 3. Becoming beautifully gracious (as in courting days) in routine interchange With hus— band. 4. Finding God. as the source of grace. and developing habitual patterns of daily wor- ship. 5. . GroWing outward into Life (after taking root in grace), \by working modestly With somal groups (clubs, etc.) that pro— mote good causes.

When you get away from mor- bid preoccupation With self and personal feelings. by these tech- niques. the air is Cleared‘for a revival of “love"—attraction to ‘ rtner. M.H. will); Haworth counsel‘s through her column, not by‘ mail or per— sonal interview, Write her in care

HAVE IT! However the-little forefinger of I

the right hand is covered with icing indicating that from the

start it knew what to do! The

Lena Caroline Mch, Women's Editor, Phone 8506

The Guardian, Charlottetown, Tues, Dec. 30, 1958 55

HAPPENINGS

Mr. and Mrs. Donald G. Mac- millan, Brighton Road. obseer ed their eighth wedding anniverw sary with friends at their home on Sunday, December 2811!.

vice at Trinity United church. Mr. Maciaean is a son of the Rev. A. T. and Mrs. MacLean and Mr. Seller is a son of Mr. and Mrs. Russell Seller.

Mr. and Mrs. G. T. Medioth of Halifax. who have been here for the Christmas holiday. have returned home. While in Char - lottetown Mr. and Mrs. Med - forth were the guests of Mr.

Mr. Ian MaoLean and Mr. Rus- been spending Christmas and sell Seller, theological students Xew Year‘s \Vllh their sister, from Halifax. Nova Scotia. as - Mrs. Ian Burnett, Mr. Burnett Sisted at the Sunday evening ser- and flamily.

face will soon have a generous

will and all that goes with them are quite wonderful occasions.

supply of icing. too. and Sandra' be certain that birthday

and Mrs. A. R. Gillis.

Mr. and Mrs. A. Gordon Banks of Halifax returned Friday. They had been the guests Christmas holidays of Mrs. Banks sisters. Miss Jean Maontillan and Miss Marion Macmillan.

for the

for the holiday season. Major

Kelly is registered at the Queen Hotel.

Miss Jean Brown and Miss Va- lerie Brown of Montreal havcl

The many friends of Mrs. Char- les Hamm of Victory Avenue will be sorry lo hear that she met with a painful accident in her home. Mrs. Hnmm is now a pa. tient in the Prince Edward 15-, land Hospital. ’ l

Miss Elizabeth Gill. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. D. .l. Gill. who attending Ottawa Teachers’ College. is home for the holidays. Accompanying Miss Gill was Miss Suk ch Lam of Hon: Kong who is taking an art: degree at Carlo-l ton University, Ottawa.

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Mr. and Mrs William P. Jon- es and daughters. Charlotte Ann and Sharon arrived home fr 0 in

Ho. \lclvin Ellis. Aldvrshnl. \'.S. spent the u‘coknnd a' the homo of his parents Mr. and Mrs. Luther Ellis. ‘

Mr. and Mrs. H. S. Burlcigh ucrc recent visitors to Summer- side.

The A.Y.P.A. hold a Christ- mas tea in Ellcrslie L. 0. L. Hall on Wednesday evening.

Mrs. Janetfa Ogden, Elmsdale spent the Christmas holidays Vismng her pamnts, Mr. and Mrs. Harold Gillls.

Mr. and Mrs. Ernest Paynter.

Summerside. were recent visit- ors of her parents Mr. and Mrs. Jack Coughlin. Mr. and Mrs. William Parker Summerside. were Christmas visitors of her sister and bro- ther-nndaw. Mr. and Mrs. James Burleigh.

Mr. and Mrs. Claude Hayes are spending the Christmas holidays in Ontario visiting theirl son and daughter-in-law, Mr. and Mrs. Ernest Hayes.

Miss Willina Gillis. who is employed in Summerside is spending the Christmas holidays at the home of her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Theodore Gillis.

Miss Liuion Miller. Summer- sldc. spem Christmas with her

parents. Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Millar.

Miss Evelyn Morrison. Sum- merstde spent the Girislmu

holidays with her parents.‘ Mr. and Mrs. Rod Morrison.

Mr. and Mrs. James Morrison and family. Summorsldc. spent the Christmas holidays with

Samuel Hood. Euston Sf.

Mr David Likely. a student at Kings College. Windsor. is spending the holidays with his

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and furry. Sleek and handsome

while the vest, which comes from

SURFACE CONTRASTS

in fabric and lex- France,

soft lure marks many ensembles. This l piece of furry delight, a pouf of} two . piece outﬁt is both sleek lBelgian hare, “boule ~de-neige"

ls a whisper -

—snowball. to us. It's a smart

is the imported English ﬂannel. duo in beige and mink brown or

in solid royal blue with gray.

Mr. and Mrs. Mr. and

their parents. John Morrison and

'Mrs. John Bigger. Tyne Valley. days visiting her parents.

Miss Brnesacen England, Sum-, merslde, is spean the Christ-‘ mas holidays visiting her grand- parents, Mr. and Mrs. Alfred Machean. Mr. and Mrs. Arnold Gillis and family. Summerside were recent visitors of his parents. Mr. and ‘, Mrs. Ellsworth Gillis. 1 Mr. Wesley Adams. student at} Mmm Allison. Sackville. N.B., is mending the holidays visiting

Major Frederick Keely direc - Springfield Mass to ' '

. . . I . . . spend the parents, Mr. and Mrs. J. A. Like- his M . . . . ‘7'“ °' W "Mum tor of physical education at Aca- Christmas holidays with M rs. ly. West Street. David will be mrdwm. r and m Ber ' PM“ 7“ m w a” ma Universny, is in the provmce Jones' parents, Mr. and M rsnreturnlng January 6th. . Mine Patsy Hutchinson. ped-

Ient in the Polio Clinic. Glar- lonetnwn. is spending the holl- Mr.

and Mrs. Emmett Hutchinsm. Miss Verna Hutchinson. Sum- merside was a recent visitor at

llier parents, Mr. and Mrs. By-

ron Hutchinson.

EILEEN’S BEAUTY SALON . (Opposite Ellen's) Open daily. also Tuesday ‘ Thursday nights.

IDA BAILEY ALLEN -

During the holidays most fa-m- ilies with teenagers give at least one informal party. lit the wea- ther is cold it might be a Kitchen Buffet supper after an after— noon‘s skating or skiing. [if it is warm. the party .could be a sup~ per buﬂfet followed by games and dancing.

HEARTY MENU

in any case. the menu should be hearty and. if the teenagers are not too sophisticated it should include the inevitable frankfurt— ers and doughnuts.

KITCHEN BUFFET SUPPER

(For teenagers or family party)

Herring-potato salad; Boston baked beans; pickles; celery; grilled, frankfurtens in toasted rolls; ﬂruit compote sherbet top- ping; broiled doughnuts; soft drinks. milk, coffee. 1

If the kitchen is large and at- tractive, set up the buffet table with paper plates, cups, napkins and necessary tableware. Hot floods, and beverages can be served by the young host or host- ess from electnic hot plates or direct from the range. Salad and cold drinks should be nearby with dessert served from a third table to avoid crowding. TIP TO ELDERS

As for.parents—be more or less out of sight, but available in case you're needed. Don‘t try to be the life of the party!

All measurements are level: recipes for 8 to 10. Herring-Potailoe Salad: Over 4. salt herrings. pour cold water to cover. Let stand overnight to re— move excess salt. Drain: dry on paper towels. Remove fillets of

Try Kitchen Buffet Idea For Holiday Teen Parties

herring ﬁrom bones. Cut homing in 1A" dice. Dice 8 small canned

Observe 25th

The beautiful home of Mrs. Minnie MacLeod, Kensington, was the scene of a very plea- sant event when the relatives and close friends of Mr. and Mrs. Andrew Bain who h a v e re- cently taken up residence in Kensington for the winter as — sembled to celebrate with them their twenty-fifth wedding anniv- ersary.

When all had assembled Mr. and Mrs. Bain were escorted to the, seat of honor by Mr. and Mrs. Hall Burt. Mr. Robert Adams, nephew of the bride. came forward and read an ad- dress on behalf of the relatives and friends while Miss Marion

The crash of a vehicle perhaps followed by the shrill sirens of the ambulance will too often put a damper on the happy ring of Christmas bells. Public spiritL ed organizations or individuals everywhere, realize the need and importance of reminding motor- ists to exercise care at a time when road conditions. weather and other inﬂuences make driv- ing more hazardous

in an effort to reduce traffic accidents, Tea Council of Canada is sponsoring its fifth annual Road Safety campaign. This year’s “lf you Drive—DrinkTea campaign is being enthusiastical— ly backed by service clubs. safe» tv councns. as well as govern- mental and munitipal authorit- ies across the country.

Netspapers featiu‘ed safety as a public service during the month of December . To the hos- tess goes the responsibility of assisting menfolk in abiding to

of this nciwcpmn

Mr. And Mrs. Andrew Bain

Hostesses Assist With Christmas Safety Rules

safety rides. And I om can be.

beets, 5 cold boiled medium po- tatoes and 1 c. cooked veal diced small. Grate one peeled small white onion and chop three sprigs parsley. Add all to the herring.

With 12 c. salad oil, mix 1 tsp. salt. ’lk tsp. pepper, 1£2 tsp. dry mustard. 1.4: tbsp. sugar and Vic. mild vinegar. Stir: loss into the salad mixture. Add 12 c. stock or boulillon. Refrigerate. Mound in a shallow lettuce - lined bowl. Mark the top into four sections: spread each with fine-chopped hard - cooked eggs, to c: fine- chopped beets. pickled relish and minced parsley.

Real Boston baked beans: Pick over and rinse 2 lbs. Yankee or pea' beans. Place in a Set. sauce- pan. Pour in boiling water to cover. Let stand 50 min; boil 5 min. Drain and rinse with cold water to give firmness. Mix in 1-3 c. .dark molasses, 11% tsp. dry mustard, 1’2 tsp. pepper. 2 tsp. salt, and 1 minced good - sized onion.

Scrape and score the surface and rind of V4 lb. fat sa-lt pork. Place in bottom of 4-qt. beanpot or casserole. Turn in seasoned beans. Fill with hot water to cover.

Bake five hrs. in a slow oven. 325-350 degreees F. Bring pork to the surface: continue to cook un- covered until brown and crisp. llf beans are very dry, add water at the end of 4 hrs.

Serves 12.

CHEF BROILS DOUGHNU'IS

Following through the idea of dessert miniatures or smaller portions featured this week in the column, split plain doughnuts in halves. dust with cinnamon- sugar and broil 4" tram the heat. Serve warm.

Anniversary

Cousins niece of the bride pre- sented them with a suitable gift.

Although taken by surprise Mr. Bain made a fitting reply on be- half of his wife. thanking all pre- sent for their kindness and good wishes.

The remainder of the evening was spent in games and conver- sation. A beautifully decorated bride‘s cake made and present- ed by Mrs. Ingham MacNeill niece of the bride was cut by the bride and groom.

A delicious lunch was served. Those assisting were: Mrs. Maur- ice Cousins, Mrs. Vernon Cou - sins. Mrs. Ingham MacNeill. Miss Mary Adams and MiSs Marlon Cousins.

more festive and gay when one

had no worries about getting home. WA'I‘E‘RTLOO,’ Ont. GP There

were some frantic moments in in Waterloo home Christmas day when a betrothed couple found they had only half a marriage licence. It was torn during the unwrapping of Christmas pres- ents and half was lost among the tinsel and wrappings. The city clerk played Cupid Friday by is- suing the couple another licence.

CLEANING UP

YARMOUTH. SS. 'CPl — A spemal meeting of the Hebron garden club here made plans for cleaning up and beautifying the cemetery at. Hebron Memorial Baptist Church. The cemetery

has n01 been used for more than 50 lame.

Today's Food Shopper gets more volue ‘" m ‘°°d

product: than OW before. Supplying her increasing needs and satisfying her love of values is one of the biggest jobs ia the country, Yet the nation's $4 biﬁion

food-distribution business does it daily and does I

well.

Tbrwgh better methods of processing, worebOuslng

and marketing, Canada’s food firms offer shoppers

biggest values, greatest variety, and highest nourish-

ment benefits.

Published in the interest

of more effective advertising by

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