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THE cum {LOITETOWN GUARDIAN

Woman’.s Realm i-.--Social and PtarsonaI -:-i Fashions y-.-:_-

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‘Dorothy Dix Letter Bo;

Should Couple With Two Children Take Life = Easy or Save for the Future?-Is it ' Married Daughter’s Duty to Live With Her Mother? —- N0 Ac- counting for Tastes

Dear Miss Dlx—We are a young couple in our 20s, married two small children, very much in love with each other and happy. Our problem Is financial. We started on a shoestring and Jim has plugged along like

the millions of other good husbands, the kind that wear old tics forever and with whom a new suit is an event. I do all oi‘ my work and wear bargain frocks. But we both play golf and bridge and go to the movies and attend concerts and s0 on.

Now Jim has taken out a D0116)‘ 0f $5000 and with careful niziiztiging I can help liiin buy another llli-lifllllCC policy for $10,000. 'i‘liis would mcaii that in tiur curly Gus we would b: token care of. rklmll we do it or sixill be sptiid the money on things. that we .iic gt-tziiig aloni; vcry" well without? shall I iie Jun (iuwn to the grind of keeplfll; B ('1ll‘i'ltil average in living for the ‘Slliit: of this iii-

“i111 m. 1mm mt- fui- ptniigx-giiiicliiiig‘? MRS. JIM.

* and l advise you to t~il\'l3 trliilc you are young ti comfortable whcn you arc old.

nplc are young they d0 not head niuch but youth. 'l‘liat i. is cntiugh and those who have it are millionaires if they rl-v. Nottiiiig that you can buy after y/uu are 5a) can 8W6 ' that C‘i'l‘l‘\".llillg gives you at 20. When S011 ha"? U"! ii u li.iin snntixvicli is nmrc oi J toast than tlic most costly’ ptplic lllltl have lost your rclzsh for 100d.

¢.i)i)- ,..t' Ul _' banquet l.\ tifit-i" you aic d,

far more obligations to her stranger and niore inexplicable

has parents than a son has, and this is the

because it is over the birth of a son that

All the btuiitv shops in the world can't girc an old woiiitin the com- ]l.l'xt\_lil of a schoolgirl. nor euii all ilic finery of the Rue dc lt-t Paix make l.i~

l ty u.» ';i slini yoniiu flapper docs in a inariccd-dowii fr0<>l2 ~.nitiit ioiiiiicr. Nor c l any billionaires buy the lore and hap- l an liiipcctuilotis girl and boy give each other tor nothing. my titar Mrs. Jiiii, it you and your husband have love and babies ., ftlU-VL gut all the good things that ‘arc coining to you » i‘ i. so thing to do l" to save up for that tiay when you llillt iii pa)‘ cash titer the coiiiiit-i‘ for all you i;t't. For age CUHIHS ;,i u,- it i’. u.» i.l_('1)l|]l living. and no puopli- Ln the world arc no forlorn i tilt: old people ulio are ilcpeiitlciit.

x as so niaiziy" otiitr people do, tliut you will ~ ‘t- its you gt: Ill-J iig. anti tlistyotir cliildicii will tiikc ilt-lii-"vc inc, Ali's. Jim, children are bivkcn ‘in, 1-m- onc thing not many children are fin- t it. >‘l_l)lik)i" -.-;r l)ill'(.'lli.'.>. Tucy get married and it is about i ti» ro prol. lc for their own families. Also, while your son lite: wiigiit be triiiliig to take care of you, there are their wives and llilS izids Lu COllSl[lt‘i' and not many soiis-iii-laiv and ‘daughters-in- law Willlt to be burdened ulih their husbands‘ or wives’ parents.

Look about you. l-Iow niziny old people do you know who are happy living with their iii-lzivws? Not one in a thousand. The happy and contented old people are those who have laid up something for their age and who live in their own homes and maintain their own independence. Between grandpa and grandma with gifts to give and 'moncy to help with, and grandpa and grandma who have to be fed and clothed, there is the difference between a welcome occasional guest and an old mini or woiniiii of the sea on backs that want to be rid of their load.

Nor have parents any right to become parasites on then-children it 1t is possible to avoid it. They have no zight to spend all they make on iiirltilggcrices and luxuries with the deliberate intention of forcing their children to support them when they are no longer able to work. It isn't honest. It isirt; fair. Because only too often the children are stagger- an; along under all the load they are able to bear and the addition of JllUlllPTG and father's weight to it crushes them.

to be endured with what,

philosophy and resignation one can summon for the occasion. Also, mothers especially invariably bestow most of their affection and petting on their sons.

Yet in spilt‘. ol this it is the girl w goat. She is cxpcctctl to stay at home fatlici- if they are sick or to bear thcin co ivlien they are old it. is to daughter's hoiis

Certainly iii your particular case y and establish your own liome and lea puny for mother. 1t is as much their She czuft ncctl the u/holc family aroun

But the thing that always impresses me most, i5 5mg; mothers, who love their children and desire the to live with them when the chi iurai impulse to build their o

; daughter fails l

ho is elected to be the family. and take care of mother and

mpany if they are lonely, and

e they go to live and not son's.

ou have it perfast right to go on‘

vc brother and his wife for com-

place to cherish her as it is yours.

d her all the time.

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‘Why do tr happiness, force them ldren want to follow their perfectly nat- wn homes? It is no indication that a in love for her mother because she and her husband want to be. by themselves in their own hom e, with their own things about them, and able to indulge their own individual tastes and habits.

their own homes or else go and house. 1t is time we broke throu with their children.

sh the foolish idea that parents had to live

DOROTHY DIX.

I paint, powder, smoke, ad two

Dear Dorothy Dix——I

r get drunk, swear and tell dirty stories, yet I have h

Pmlflosals of marriage from eligible young

So my advice, Mrs. Jim, is to ta ke out. that extra policy. There is men during the last month. Can you explain this. 55131131113, ncihnig you can buy with the money that you will get the same amount Only on the grgund that; gym-e 15 no “counting m‘, tasws iii pli‘ ‘UFO out of as you will out of the knowledge that you are safe- ‘ Donal-HY- Dix

[Ziliiliilllll your age, and that when you are old and feeble you will not lsanc to iintl out how steep are another man's stairs, VlTl) puts- it, no": how bitter is the bread of’ dependence.

DOROTHY DIX.

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I I IA MornzngSmile Dz-ai- Miss Dix-Is it an -- nitci‘ u. " l "I see, Miss Founder, that you ‘have spelt ‘receive’ with an ‘e1’ 1n one place and an ‘le’ in another." "I'm 801W. sir. one of them was a

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'11‘ he Sons of Patrick

In!» the mists of the Pagan ls- land '

B; aring God's message great Pat- rick came;

Till e Druid altars on plain and highland

I‘! at the sound of his mighty mime!

sun was the conquest-with

lhoarta upwelling The Faith they took, and to God

‘hey swore: l ‘fling-precious spark from their bomms‘ dwelling. Man's gulle or torture should

sn Ltch no more.

And over since, while the wmfld wonders

This stietidfast people their strength reycni. ' As TiriiaJEartlfs kingdoms and em- piips- sunders,

They mama by Patrick in rank: o! steal!

The nations mock them. Ckirti-Stk» tormentors; “Dcscmdfl they cry, "from your crcus tot shame; Abjurc gtrii: Faith-see that bnters ~ The grants of pleasure and wealth and ftmie!"

wide

like

the. road

Like theme that passed where the Cross JIJSC dimly

Their wit: beards wagging-a “Whizt fools!" they say; But the SDflS of Patrick answv t‘ grimly;

"Our God we've chosen-the price we'll may.

make

"Ever abtaist us the foes‘ commo-

tion,

The angutgh sweat on our brows ne'er \d\'.y;

Our martlgifis bones strew the land and onion,

Lone dcsents echo our exiles’ cry.

“Unto our Ziicarts is earth's pride forbiddfn. '

Unto our hands is its gold denied; We do not question the Purpose hidden-w

Let Him who fashioned our souls decide!

“Yet. tliouglu once more -to us choice wcne given. And the loiu aeons were backward rolled, We'd walk agtain before Earth and Heaven The blood-slimmed ' walked of cldi" -—James B. Dollard >>‘ ° ' ' SAINT raatincic AND HIS m; IFDUENCE

pathway we

The zeal ctf gnen is ofttlmes the megs c 01' {their success. And were the success oi’. Saint Patrick meas- ured in any wiw by his zeal, sure- ly tiiit zeal ware swat

Of late years ‘it has been a most amusing thing- to see the manner in which various reiiglous bodies have sought ton claim Saint Patrick

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strides the people saw their land become the center of learning and

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over had lived. Yet it goes without saying that if Patrick is a myth, he certainly is l1 most persistent culture, a very mart of education, one, a most unmytliical myth, a from which sparkled the divine most real reality. Volumes might be ,rays of Catholicity. ' Out amongst written of the reputed birthplace oi‘ l pagan peoples went the Irish the Saint, his curly years, on the ‘monks to spread the good tidings 'conjecturcs about such events and cf (Iiirist. The monks at home in the shadowy beginnings of his their abbeys and prlorlcs spent a missionary career. Patrick is not vast part o! their time gathering only the Saint of Ireland; he is together the sacred lore, tradition the Saint of the whole world, for and the ‘poetic effusions of the from the fustnesses of Ireland ,Keltic.soul and made them the su- went forth over Europe, Asia, Af- [cred heritage for other generations. rica, not to say Australia, goodly Where was Saint Patrick born? men and women who brought the History is divided on the point. sacred flame of the same filth But from various sources it is which Patrick hailed as his, to the thought by many that Britain was hearts of the world. his birth-place. He la said to have

The ancient records of the Irish been a nephew of Saint Martin of are mrcserved with pride and Tours. His early name is given as pointed to with iiwc by the sclio- lsuccat. His father is said to have lars who have spent time lit their {been named Galphurnlus and his care and in their study. Scrircelyqmother, Conchessa. He is said to another race has brought forth | have had igslster, Luplta by name. from the dim past their records. Whether Amorlc Gaul, or Dunbar- nor yet has another race the equal ton, in Scotland are really the pla- in beauty and accuracy of the ces ct his birth will never‘ be folk-lore of the Irish. The glory of known. Suffice it for our purpose the sword which held sway in Ire- to know that as n. youth he was land and Scotland before the c0m- taken prisoner by a band of Irish

ing of Patrick. gave way to the raiders and brought to some place glory of letters and the glory of in County Antrim. in Ireland, the spiritual life. With great where he was sold to one Milchu.

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