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Page 8. The Guardian Monday, Nov. 14, 1955

MARY IAWOITIIS MAIL

Dispute Question Of Daughter Attending Party

wife and I are in disagreement con- cerning I social policy for our 16-

LI'l"S EAT M?

Seasoning Accenluales Flavor Of Shrimp Slew

By Ian B-II-y Allen

"Shrimp leads all shellfish popularity in this country." served the Chef. "Perhaps because it is so widely available; perhaps- because it has been featured inl many eating places; also perhapsl because it is really a good buy for. with the money.

”Fresh shrimp contain no waste except the light shell. Two pounds will make I satisfying dish for 6 persons with enough for second ser- vings.

"For example, Madame.

in Then. beat

do not boil. 2 heaping tbsp. flaky rice.

salted or meats if desired.

T0.VIORROW'S DINNER

; Shrimp Stew on Flaky Rice

1 h F Stewed Apricots

1 egg yolk with 1 ab. tbsp. cream or undiiuted evaporat- ed milk; stir in. Cook-stir V: min.;

Serve in bowls, each containing

For special occasions. garnish roasted almondl

Deviled Ham and Egg Saladettes

Tea Milk 1,

year-old daughter. When Cami was about 14. she started going with I boy who was then about two years ahead of her in school. He has developed into her "Steady". --which is okay. He is a nice boy and we all like him.

Now he is in college. and they are corresponding. and he dates her when he is home from school. Carol still has two years ahead of her in high school.

A question has arisen about Car- o1's attending weekend social ev- ents at John's school. She has ibeen asked and wants to go. Girls are invited from Friday evening through Sunday evening. and the boys' fraternity house is turned over to them. under the jurisdict- ion of a house mother.

lAGAIlN'ST GOING

As Carol's father. I feel she is

flee . lhrimp stew you created yester- n , . too young. at 16. for this sort of day was delicious-yet it is quick aria” inicelssteadblegl giid mutt: thing; that her proper province at and easy to make. A veritible ex-, shrimp mew. present is attending dances and

ample of A gourmet food. which to this Chef means a dish so pre- guts. pared that the natural fine flavors halves and textures of the lnEl'('dlCnlS are ynlksg 'coent"med- mm" ma" ""'5k"d IZJ4 oz I can deviled ham. '5 tbsp. W Iddlml W0 WP"-V "W5 3"” horseradish-mustard and 1 tbsp. other seasonings. mayonnaiseg

Shrimp Stew: C""k- Flt?” 3"” Slice the tops from 6 small tom- d9V'm wt lb” Wm!” ahrlmp in aides" hollow out half the pulp- "” sheui "E use 2 3 "ll pkg5' dust the interior of the tomatoes (W193 Sheuedv deV9""3d Shrinm lwith salt. pepper and monosodium

In a 2 qt. saucepan. combine 1 c glmammeg thin sliced celery. 2. c. thin slicrtl PM W. em: halves together in "ed"! 3”” P9999” 1 ml" Sm”! pairs and stand them up in the peeled 9"l””- 2 lbs" h','"”- if i tomatoes Place in nests of letuce "'9' salt 15 '59 momsudmm Elm" leaves. Garnish the top of each amate. 4 drops tabasco and 295; egg Wm. . sprig M parsreyg to tmmmz walerr Simmer 15 ml"i Pass French or Russian dress- or until the vegetables are barely hm fork-tender.

Cut the shrimp in halt-ra. or quarters if large, and add. Sim- mer 3 min.

Hard-cook 6 eggs;

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Add '4 tsp dried dill to liquid for shrimp stew.

KEEPINTRIM

r Remodeling Program

5! Id: Joni Kain

Excess weight is uilv ll unis-31-:.l-alp in l'ilPllnE - I have not been on so gradually as in to" I15 lntnlabl! tn do If alone I get no moral complacency It's only human not support at home. The budifl l! are to drift along comfortably until limited but l could stretch it and sacrifice. What is your advice?"

The mistake you have made, and it is a common one. is to try to

reducing action. This is the Case with today's homemaker turned

bush” w”man' Mm i'"pI"r"s ”diet" instead of using the science help in pulling her flL'.llTP out of of numnnn to lose W . .. me dumps" lpounds. Rigid dieting has sapped

"In the last ten years I have- put on 25 pounds. slowly and un- nurprlsingly. Being a busy house- wife. raising a family, and H('llt'F in community affairs. I prctty much accepted this extra wright - not. happily. but it seemed to take more concerted attention to lose than I was able to give to the task.

ilftccenily l have taken ii inh Ind find in my horror that I am frumpy and look much older than my contemporaries. I feel that l have simply been left bcbinri In the last three months I have tried In spurts and starts to diet. but it

your enegy just at the time more energy is needed to carry on. No wonder you feel discouraged.

Start over fresh get excited about iihat you are going to do. Accept the challenge. Picture how you want to look and feel. Vision comes first. then action follows.

Plan your meals around protein foods which pull their own weight. Donlt skip breakfast: include an egg. At. lunch have an extra thick filling of moat in the sandwich- Dodge fats all along the line. and take care to keep dinner within 500 calories.

Mark down your measurements

never lasts more than a wok. and set a soul of three months I am riiscoiiragcrl but ilc'cr- l0 SN back in beautiful shape. To mined to get back in sluipc I am slim off bulges. ease into stetch- embarrnsed to admit to nnyrmp bend-swing movements. Five min-

lutcs of specific cxercies. taken re-

gularly. will work wonders.

It is never a bad idea to have a supervised program. if the bud- get permits. if not, how about bol- stering your morale through I slimming club? Most important - believe that you can do it, and go at this with joyous enthusiasm. Let's hear from you three months from now!

that I used to be a model. ”Will a reducing salon nr a model i school set me straight" I need

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Deviled Ham and Egg Salad- cut in crosswise and scoop out the

Mash and blend with 1

functions in her own group here. However. I have no objections to her attending Johnls college dan- ces occasionally on a one-evening basis -- as the college isn't too far from our home. V

l4think the college group is in little beyond her. John is just start!

. ELLEN'S DIARY

Ry the trees lincd bare agaiiist "Thou I'll be aitifl to say how unit the fall skies. and the leaves brown or not, you're doing " Even by lhisy

ing college and he himself mustl be among the youngest of the crowd. And Carol's being two years behind him makes it seem out-of-i keeping for her to attend these. two-day programs. 1 My wife doesn't feel as I do. She. going for the weekends. Naturally this isnt yery conductive to happy relationships at home. What do you think? Carol always has been very well behaved and levelcaded.

l W.P 1

ISN'T MASCULINE

DEAR WP." I think all good parents -- devoted. intelligent soc- ially aware -- search sobcrly for the right answer to this kind of question. And I think that you and your wife are registering a per- fectly natural differcnce of opin- ion. in the throes of trying to reach an appropriate decision. It is a difference in viewpoint that issues from your being a man.. and she being a woman; your be- ing the father and she the mother. It is substantially the difference between the masculine and femin- ine ouilook in man-woman exper- ience. So don't let the difference engender bad feeling: rather. be philosophic and open-minded in trying to learn from each other, how to augment Carol's growth while protecting her also. Well-married women are real- ists enough about human nature in be glad. when their daughters are sufficiently attractive and ad. mired to be asked to properly chaperoned weekends, Because in- stinctively they want a good mar. riage for their daughter too - or at leasl- opportunities for her to turn down offers. in the event she prefers another vocation. And the campus weekend is truly a comp-

DEAR MARY HAWORTH: lily-

The bride is the former Miss Mar an cut their wedding cake follow 534"” Ma-V (;3”a'”' daughl” h

Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Keough ,

Yilr. and Mrs. Joseph B. Gallant. St. Louis. The groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Koughan, John ston's River. The couple are res

ing their recent marriage at the Immaculate Conception Church” Palmer Road. The ceremony was

lGlamorous Granny

i kin, a gamorous red-haired grand-

Slays Young Today

By DOROTHY ROE

New YORK lAPt-The way to stay young and look your best II to keep busy. says Margaret Rud-

motlier whose latest honor is the award of the Medallion of Honor roam the women's International Exposition.

Mrs. Rudkin. who started with n loaf of home-baked bread and built an international business, slyr

"My own glndmother had re- tired to her shawl and her rocking chair at my age, and wore her bonnet and best black silk dress only on Sundays."

Mu. Rudkin. on the other hand. ll given to frivolous Paris hate and spike heels. keeps up with the latest in art and literature and manages a far-flung business em- pire with acomplished ease.

KNOWS EMPLOYEES

Despite her fantastic success. however. she knows every em- ployee at her Pepperidge Farms in Norwalk. Conn.. and personally supervises the old-fashioned ingre- dients and hand processes that go into her bread.

Mrs. Rudkin has a granddaugh-

performed by Rev. Patrick Walsh.-

iding in Cliarloiti-town.

ter Margaret Rudkin. aged 10 V -W" months. daughter of her son Henry J. Says grandma: ”She's simply

iwonderful, has red hair just like

-is perfectly agreeable to Carol's and old underfoot. these days we ideal. vie had done at least cred--Mme 0' llle "1051 8l8m0f0US Eel

are keenly aware of another ycai"si italil) wcll. passing. We found that same sciiti- Tlic old lliifl hccii good. What mcnt echoed this cvciiing whcn w'cl3b””l ill” "PW W" W”"d'"'Cd?

. would il be bcticr" Tlic best yet. were In attendance at that mcct-

- possibly-in cvery way" Would we 1'11 0' ll"? W-I 0' "'9 C0mmU"”-V- be privileged. to meet throughout which maks the close of another

g the coming year beneath peaceful year's work. And it seemed as

skies? To attend to the continuing though there in that pleasant liv- Peaui,-Hi pm-suns of hump and ing room of s farmhouse down he c,,u,,m--3 0,. was 9....” mm. that River Road, we were closing a

, hated cloud ”no bigger than a 1'00? 0'1 3 P1309 3 llme dun 3"” man's hand" appearing in the East worn. and opening a portal into

g I whence only new ilaybrcaics of I bfyolld all Slllmlli and "CW promise should come. to trust for- But before crossing that thres-

. I lnrn duties upon us?" And now. ll0lll- W9 ll"RPliP'l R Willi? "1 "'9 our President smiled." what about old. it had been a satisfying placc mp Nan, .-.; mpelfng for next Til"? V" Md 33l"9-d anmh" monili'”” So we stepped one after -year": experience In world"! vicar the other over the threshold mm 3llll.V l0S9”'l9l” N" m9l'"b" had W9 that beyond-nf-a-place all shining lost to that ”long time” to oc- and new Clslml "3 V31" l0"Sl"K5 "Id '9' Thus. closing a door hr-hind us. 3795- T039111?” W? lmd Plalmedr our W I. entered its new year. That and h"PEd- and malmged WV "arid was what the younger farmer was ed affairs and good works. lhnilghidbing when we Came h,,m,3 ml of course we may not envision iheilomz azwopemng 5 new Season. V31"? Of ”1959- 0" W955 which another springtime. with his plow- W53 "'9 greatest "V 193” ing. Over the fields. the tractor

W9 had 5-Vmpalhlzed l"39”"" lent its cnmpaniable beams to the and been interested. the one in the. dark of the famlands abwt p,-,,, 0""?r'3 dlmcumcs 5'"-'1 -l”3'5- w"lscntly it will turn homcward and

liment. from the boys' angle. They invite their nicest. or most beloved girl friends to do them credit be- fore their peers. And what is more Poignantly painful to the sympath- etic parent. than to have is wall-. flower daughter. withering on the vine? PATERNAI. TRUST DWI!!! fathers. on the o t h e r hand. tend to be Jealous gugrd. inns of I winsome daughter, as if unconsciously appraising all mas- culine nature as potentially lcaund. Telly where the fair sex is con- cerned -- especially in the rlptide of youth. Of course. you seem to feel that John can be trusted with Carol. at least while you keep a latch. lllrlllit check on their dates. But as for trusting Carol out of your sight. overnight. in in dating sir. nation that you can't regulate -- well your present dubiety says that you dont trust her to please you in contrast. her mother does trust her. to behave with prudence and moral propriety. Of the two '"'"'"”" Hlllllldes. your wife's is more helpful to the dolesceni My adivce is to stop arguing ?'9"' MXINY in terms of general- IIIPS Search yourself for the exact "35""-S Why you prefer to have Carol stay home. What is it. ex- actly. that you fear for her. If if-ll? Rocs As you dredge up your ears. discuss them explicitly with your wife. and listen attentively to her responses. That way. you'll W getting down to cases. in dec- ldllll. Jointly. whether it is (or is mill a good risk to let Carol ac- cent the weekend invitations.

MR.

Mary I-Iaworth counsels through her-column. not by mail or perm". at interview. Write to her in care of this newspaper.

had talked much. and laughed. aiiddm, mun SH” sih.(.r.5(., by NM,

odd times we suspect been closelemb(,r' Wm be am as we now go

to shedding a tear. and been re- "5 rest.

freshed and inspired by all of lift Unm mmm.,.(,w.... ma,-y ....(',.,od.

And back of everything to prove night”.

the practicability and foresight of

our budgeting we had been ablcl

to put by. a little of what Oltl”

husbands would call ”the cold

hard cash" to have against anyl Good scissors and shears can be

emergency. or rainy d8.V. OF PX- easily damaged by improper use

ceedtnglv worthwhile local prnlert- in cutting cardboard. paper. heavy

that might suddenly demand such cord and wire. This is likely not

assistance. ,only to rliill them but also to cause ''I'm not interested in what yoii'-3 the blades to come out of adiiist-

ve madc-tell me what you've say-i mciit. Never use the points in pry-

ed!" an astute old-time farmer lng anything open. This can bend

was wont to say with a iwinklc.i or break the points.

line. and I'm going to see to it

that she has a career. I'd like to

see her go to Harvard business school." Mrs. Rudkin feels that the

world's happiest women as well as

that way from keeping busy. not growing bored. having more than they can do niosi of the time. Says shc:

"When you're in business you have to be on your toes. look your best and spend less time at it. When you have to do these things. you do them. and manage to be efficient about it.

"I think women's worst enemy is boredom. which comes of not having enough to do. I might add that I never have had that

A wedding trip to Toronto. Niag- Irl Falls and Boston. Mass., fol- lowed the marriage of Margaret Nadine. daughtr at Mr. and Mrs. Bennett Deighun. Bradalbane. to Finley Charles. son of Mr. and Mrs. William D. Fraser. Whim Road. Rev. E. L. Murray performed the double ring ceremony in St. James Church. Summerfieid. on Oct. 15 sanctuary was Rev. Justin Mac- Donald. Charlottetown.

mixed autumn flowers and leaves.

ching lace bolero jacket. This was fashioned with long sleeves lope- ing to points over the wrists and

pearls held her chapel veil and she carried a white prayer book with red Sweetheart roses and stream- ers of lilies-of-the-valley and forget- me-nofs.

trouble."

Miss Mary Deighan. sister of the

The church was decorated with:

Given in marriage by her fath-. er. the bride wore a full-length: . gm". Styled with p..in(..,5s lines mi lcr Gillan, Charlottetown. was san-

nylon pearl-sccdcd tuilc with mat-Y Flll3T.V USllE!F-

WED lN DOUBLE RlNG CEREMONY

bride. was maid of honor in I cook- tail-length gown of shrimp not over taffeta. Mrs. Loyola Delghan, brl maid. wore an ice-blue gown in the same style. The gowns were styled with matching bolero jack- ets and the attendants wore match- ing headbands and mitts. Their white prayer books were topped with yellow 'mums. and streamers

,t 330 am, A150 present in me, of lilies-of-the-valley and forget-me

nots.

Mr. Cyril Bernard. Charlottetown was groomsman and Mr. John Fra- ser. brother of the groom. and Mr. Loyola Deighan. brother of the bride. were ushers. Master Ches-

Mrs. Wilfred McAleer. ilope Riv- er. was organist. Mr. Wilfred Mc- Alecr. assisted by Colleen and Flor-

stand-up-ncckline. A bridal tiara of once McAleer. sang many hymns.

For her daughter's wedding. the bride's mother chose a tailored navy blue suit with light blue and pink accessories and n corsage of pink carnatlons. I-Ier costume was topped with I squirrel neck-piece.

The mother of the groom wore a navy blue suit with shaded red vel. ved and white accessories. Her corsage was of white Carnations,

A reception followed at Mulberry Lodge for forty guests. The table was decorated with mixed glariiolt

in autumn shades. centred with . two-tiered wedding cake which wagi topped by a miniature bride and groom. The toast to the bride ms proposed by Rev. E. L. Miii-myg During the afternoon music and dancing were enjoyed at the hm... of the bride's parents where a hut fet luncheon was served in ihc lb- ning.

For iravlling. the bride (l4llilll'( a wool worsted suit of Chincsn rcr with black fleck. anus and him-l accessories and n corsage of Wllllf carnations.

The bride is I laboratory lci-h nichian with the Dept. of licaltl and the groom is cmployei. uul Imperial Oil Ltd. Mr. and Iilrs Fraser will reside in Charlottetown (Photo by D. W. Sears. The Real 4 Studio.)

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