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Dorothy Dix Saye-

Untrue Husband

Wife Should Think Long Before lilvorolng Occasional Phiiallderar i

name mes mx; 1 am e. woman 21 years of ace. with We will children. My husband is e. good provider. I have a nice home, the very ‘best of everything, and he claims to love both the children and me very much. Says he is happy and he would's have us part for anything in the world.

Yet every now and then he breaks my heart by having affairs with other women. He says that all men are unfaithful to their wives and every once in a while step out with other women. I love my husband and would be perfectly happy with him if he were only faithful to me, but his disloyalty keeps me stirred up. I have nowhere to go and no one to depend on if I leaveMliirlA.

ANSWER: Your problem is one of the inten- Jly personal ones that you must decide for your- self. No stranger has a right to intermeddle in a matter that involves you and your children's whole future lives.

Your decision nust depend largely upon your temperament and whether you are an. ertrovert or an intovert. For the course of action that might be wise for a Woman who was strong and self-reliant and realistic in her attitude towards life would be disastrous if she were morbid and sensitive and given to brooding andlooking on the dark side of life.

3 THINK WELL

My only advice to you is to think long and carefully before you make your decision. If you divorce your husband because he is a gay philanderer, you have much to lose. A good home, a comfortable in- come. desirable friends and, above all, the ability to give your children the advantages of a fine education and a recognized place in society~ all of which are good things not to be lightly thrown away. Also, your husband loves you in his way, and his being a gay bothario who flirts around with many women is not the menace to your marriage that it would be if he were deeply in love with some one woman and wanted to marry her.

So it may be that your pr‘de is more hurt than your heart. Give that. aspect of the affair serious consideration before you break up your marriage. Don't forget ihrlt that type of man is nearly alwarys sobered by the years. Age and putting on weight and touch of rheumatism. now and then. do not condllce to woman-chasing, and he is sure to come back home to Mother and the kids, if Mother has the patience to wait and thinks he is worth having.

l DEAR DOROTHY DIX: My wife and I are having trouble ovel where we should live. she insists that we shall live in her own home town and refuses to go to my old home. where I have so much better opportunity of making a living. Here I only earn $31 a week and as we have one child and are expecting another soon that is not enough to live on, but I can get back my old job at home where I can make $60 a wreck. ~ -l

i What shall I do?

i A wolumm HUSBAND. i

ANSWER: Your wife is being entirely unreasonable in her attitude. and you should not let her force you to stick to a poor job. when you can get a better one. because she does not want to move away from her family and old friends. A wolnarl who. is not willing to buck up :5:- liltusband by going where fortune calls rum is certainly a poor sor‘.

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. ____________i_ ' DEAR DOROTHY DIX: What do you think of a man who lives on l woman. who never does a lick of work. or make any return for her supporting him except to tell her how much he loves herlDo you think that is real love?

,1 LONG BEACH. ANSWER: No. It is greed and laziness. Real love makes a man get t and hustle so that he can support his wife in comfort. He doesn't hetrher work her fingers to the bone while he tells her how he adores I think e. male parasite is the lowest and most

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Modern Etiquette

By Robert-a Lee

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By Genevieve Ramble ) For Friday, November 23

GENERAL conditions of a con. structive nature may not be read as propitious, since the outlay and risks of resources, funds or our," 1mDortant considerations. may de. velop certain dubious or strange phases. The hidden, strange and ob. scure are at the root and source of B11 Plans and propositions; there- 701‘? Every safeguard or angle should be submitted to water-tight test. or every loophole for defeat carefully analysed. Shun all fol-ms of risk‘ and extravagance. A hid. den factor may benefit.

"3115 101151)’ in a public place? A. No person

his own home. mark of good breeding.

sidered the height of vulgarity.

speak first?

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Those whose birthd it i b. . .. aux’; , "» a ‘iv-e- é some strange. unique or subtle l strategy might be the means of successful constructive work. 1. What is wrong with this 5m-

against the hazard of a dubious complicated or suspicious under. current. It is possible that a hunch. intuition of spiritual lead might

and we enjoyed it." 2. What is the correct pronunc- latlon if’ "valiant"?

turn into profitable channels, 3. Which one of these words is asalnst false prophecy." providing misspelled? Furlougll, fusillade, a conservation of assets and ene-r- fuedalism. gles. with restrained extravagance, 4. Wlhat does the word "ablrh" ambition and want of splurge. mean?

A child born on this day may 5. What ls a word beginning

achieve success by strategy, unlqug talents. or subtle factors, against Want of cooperation and practical Its extravaganccs

with vo that means "greedy in eat- ing"?

may be costly. ANSWERS 1. Say. "The food was very taste- ful." 2. Pronounce val-yant, bath a's as in at, second a. unstressed. 3. Feudallkn. 4. To destroy the self- Dﬂésesslon of; to confuse; discon- cert "But there were at Least th-ree persons in the room whom nothing could abash." 5. Voracious.

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Ellen 'e Diary

p; u Island Farmer's Wile .

It was still so dusky that we needed e light, when Jen-lee and I came to the kitchen this mom- illg. Outdoors it was calm and still, and rather lonely, I decided. as the countryside waited for day to break above the hills to the East. It was much too early yet for the wedding- Indeed there was plenty time to knead my bread into a siz- aole loaf for its second rising, as well as to prepare and have the breakfast over before the strains cf The National Anthem called me to James’ armchair beside the Ra- dio. And if James consld ed it in: duty then to go to the barns “to throw the things a. bite" and to become so engrossed in his work that he missed most of the doings in London Town, it was his lose. I think now that I was glad bl was absent when the festivities started. I should not like him to have seen the mist which came suddenly in blur my vision.

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Eyes misted not so much on ac- count of the wedding, touching ceremonies that I find those, bu’. rather because on this as on every occasion I find the British people so admirable. Here was a nation. that had been bombed and tested solely; had been sadly bereft and was bound still by the rigors of the war not so long past and yet_ here they were. many of them having remained standing all night in the cl-ld and chill of the fog to catch v/hat would be only a fleeting gilmpse of their Princess and her Sailor lad on this great day. Truly l marvellous race, and by their thunderous ovations showing their loyalty and affection on an occa slorl which evidently was of as much interest to them as if she were e. member of ones own fam- , _,)_ As I suppose she was’ he, .31’ Andfsuspect that other win- ‘Wnh and sympathy and a“ haw some bri res of today and many old- mg been wen proved by the harm er ones, like Jeanie ill the house

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altogether bewitching in tone and timbre. And James, poor fellow nad another question one doubtless that since he first heard of it, had been of concern. for nothing must mar the fairy tale marriage. “And how, Ellen.did the horses act in the procession \vith all that cheer- ing and the band music and noise?" "Perfectly, James" I said "perfect-

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n“ the pluwmg not done’ l Until tomorrow — Diary -Good- Ellen!" 1 should like to have ' "181"-

ileen there in the crowd who waited so patiently. I should like to have seen the Queen Mother, she who has had her share of bereavements and trials, as a brave, lovely fig- uie she arrived at the church for ‘ me ceremonsh “In the age of olues are leading over elegant

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NEED NEW LOOK UNABLE TO BUY

watch the women hurrying along tne streets of any city, and you'll admit they could do with. a new look that has nothing to do with fashions, comments an American writer.

The new look that would do the most for today's women comes only from a relaxed, unhurried atzitude toward life.

The old look_ that women have

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been wearing on their faces ever

since thev began crowding their m?» lives too full of meaningless activi-

ties, comes from hurrying too REASON

much, worrying over trifles. and trying to "keep up."

Watch the faces 0f the women pushing their way through crowds, dashing from one errand or ap- pointment to another. and you'll see expressions of complete absorp- tkm - tense. frowning unhappy- lnoking.

They would wear different, hep- pler-lfmklhg faces if they would slow down their pace of living-

That new look of quiet calm would do more for them than hour! spent in beauty salons.

lull Can't Help

"Bo hie married life isn't happy? Whats the trouble- ember married to May?"

“N0. it’: more like Labor I married to the day of rest."

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New Stenographer: "l-low do spell ‘graphic’ - with one ‘f two?”

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mouths covered but not conceal by lipstick.

They really need a new look but not the kind they can buy.

The smartest llat or the sleek- est coiffure doesn't do much to help a tired-looking. worried. discon- tented face. Yet there are many

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seen the Queen-so kindly and EU?- gracious though I ,. ‘ she ‘ would be much like any other

bride's mother this morning, ovi- wardly serene but troubled a little and wondering about so many tnrlgs: would everything come oil’ as nicely as planned? There was no doubt the Princess was extreme- iy lovely but . . . would the years be kind to this elder daughter of has? lt is no secret that marriage is a sort of a gamble. No one can p".esume to foretell what the road cf life, however smooth it may be, will disclose or how well and truly or how long two may walk therein. And so naturally very proud of it, yet humble and a little sad she would be and perhaps worry- lng some about the day's details. and praying that it all might be beautiful and perfect. I O

I should like to have seen the ivory-clad bride, not so much to have looked upon the wedding giwn as to have caught the seren- ity and rare beauty of her face and the grace and charm of manner that is hers. And by the way of a talisman. I should have treasur- ed the smile which paused be- tween the two when they met at the altar. It would be tender and truetfui ~ in perfect accord. And lure, I thought even u the least of their euhjocts. Royalty bows before Him, who holds the twalns happiness "In the hollow of Bis hand" and who ever brings a blus- lng and a sanction in the marriage of true hearts.‘ ' . -

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