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Woman? Realm -.-'- Social and Personal -:- l.Fashions-:-Lifetratorei'

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m“? m“ 9"! 0! his life. He never talks twine. Never speaks unless " ‘Pfiken to. , ‘

Never tells me any of his plans. 1 knew less of his snails than s. strenlor. but on the outside I hear he is quite a chstterbox, and when friends come to our house he monopolize; the c0nver5g- ition. l am not included in these talking sprees, so I have quit talking to him. I tried being very affectionate to him, but it was like adoring a. stick of wood. and now I am cold toward him. i don't think there is, any other woman, but if there ls, she is welcome to him. But why do you suppose he married me‘)

WCNDERING WIFE.

Answer:

. Many another woman, who has a husband ike yours, asks herself that question and finds no answer to it. Indeed. why men marry is one o fthe cross-wordpuzlles that nobody can solve, €or apparently a large number of men commit matrimony merely to re-

ent it. '

p 'l‘his seems such an unnecessary cruelty to some poor, innocent woman to take her away from her happy home or her good job Just to make he!‘ miserable. For no woman is in a more unfortunate position than the one who is tied for life to some man who doesn't IOVe i181‘. W110 157W kind to her and who takes out on her his spite at not being free and having to

Why esilrlty in his nature, and who wants to always bs going places and doing things and is bored to deutn at his own fireside? There are plenty of men on their hats the minute dinner is over and fare forth the theatre or a prize fight or to play poker with the do anything except spend the evnings with their wives.

The woman who is married to a man like that spends her long lonely

evenings wondering why he did it. If he didn't want a home, why did iie go to the expense of establishing one? If he didn't enjoy his wiles soc- iely, why did he pick her out for a. life companion? If he wanted to be free to go oil" with the boys every evening, why didn't he stay that way'.>_ Why did he take a girl out of a happy, cheerful home circle and dump her down in a houseby her lonesome‘! ‘Why didn't he let her marry some other man who would have given her the companionship she craved? an echo answers WHY?

Why does the philanderer marry? Why does the man who knows himself for a pettlcoat-chaser, and that he can never resist a pretty ‘We and that it isiit in him to be faithful to my woman, not pass up matri- mony and keep himself at liberty to flutter from flower to flower: why does he want to torture some hapless woman with Jealousy and break 11G!‘ heart, with his infidellties? Nobody knows.

does the stingy man, the men who begrudges the very food h.s

to the club or to boys. anywhere to

wile and children eat and what it costs to support them, marryll-ie knows and paprika and combine ‘chop beforehand that it costs as much to set up a family as it does to set up oughly. Fold in stiflly beaten egg doesn t he stay single whites.

a yacht, and if he isn’t willing to pay the price, why and keep hi1, money for himself instead of marrying and raising Chm over the bills? It keeps his wife guessing, but she never guesses the answer.

'Why does a man marry a woman he trusts so little that he never dis- cusses his business with her. or who bores him so much he can find noth- ing to say to her? Why does s man marry a women who apparently isn't a single thing. he wants in a wife and with whom he never speaks except to find fault? Why does s. man marry a women except that he loves her and enjoys her and admires her? Nobory knows. Least, of all the wile

Dear Miss Dix—I am engaged to a young man who is working hard and denying himself everything so that he can buy things for our home, he is so cross with me it makes me very blue and unhappy. After he has said cruel things to me he will come back the lleXl-__dfly and say he is sorry, that he is tired from overwork or his nerves art shot to piecos or that l drove him to sey what he did by being unhappy. This has happened so many times that 1 am beginning to ihlul; I am g| Jug on his nerves or something, and wondering what’ he will do after we are married. Will he treat me differently then?

PUZZLED.

Answer:

No. Marriage doesn't change a man. It just makes him more what

e If he is cross and fault-finding and hurts your feelings before

arrlage, after marriage you will be the scapegoat on which he will take ut all his temper and irritability, and he will find his chief indoor amuse- ment in saying to you the things he wouldn't dare to say to any man who wulclresent an insult.

The thing a wile has to live with is her husband's disposition. It is iotliis virtues, but his temperament that makes or mars her happiness. it iswhether he is o. grouch or a little ray ol sunshine around the house, whether he is pleasant and easy to get along with or as difficult in handle ts a sore-headed bear that matters to her. ’

And for a man to say he is sorry for having wounded your feelings doesirt heal the hurt. Nor does it keep him from doing it, another time.

If your fiance's irritability is really caused by his being overstrained, tell him that you will be satisfied to live simpler, for better ls a, dinner of herbs with a pleasant and amiable husband then a stalled ox with one who flavors the food with his criticisms,

Dear Dorothy Dlx-—ls it true that only the illiterate are jealous? Can And if so, how? JEAIDUS. Answer:

Jealousy has nothing to do with literacy. Many very highly edu- cated and intelligent people are victims of the green-eyed monster, but it always seems to me that they are lacking in common sense and the abil- ity to see things in the right proportion. Jealousy is a queer combin- ation of some of the worst traits in human nature. It is made up of selfishness, suspicion, evil imaginings and an inferiority complex, and the best way to combgt it is to face the fact that you are jealous of some one i‘ :--: '- ' ‘ ‘—-*- T """

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THE COOK'S CORNER

4 finely

eggs 1 teaspoon minced onion

2 teaspoons minced parsley

i beaten egg yolk

4 tablespoons butter Salt, pepper Buttered soft breadcrumbs

Crisp bacon, if desired

Cut eggplants in halves and soak in cold water for 2 hours. Cook in boiling, salted water until tender but not soft. Drain, then press out all Possible water. from shells, chop pulp fine and mix with chopped, hard-cooked eggs. Add minced parsley. Mix well, add beaten egg yolk, butter, salt taste. Turn into greased dish, cover with buttered soft bread- crumbs and bake in moderate oven. 350 degrees R, until browned. This makes luncheon or when accompanied by crisp bacon.

because you w or her all the low, moan ieve that you are so lift hold any one who loves you.

We propose that for this dish you heat any leftover white meat or suitable flaked flsh. in a good white sauce, and serve it iii a colorful iliig mould made as follows:

llé cups cooked carrots

ii cup soft breadcrumbs

3 well-beaten egg yolks

V.- cup rich milk

‘Ki cup liquid from carrots

1 teaspoon scraped onion

1 teaspoon salt ‘a teaspoon pepper ‘A teaspoon paprika

3 stlfily beaten egg whites

Mash cooked carrots. Add bread- crumbs. egg yolks. rich milk, carrot liquid, scraped onion, salt, pepper

Turn into greased ring mould. Set in pan of hot water. Bake in rath- er slower slow oven, 325 degrees 1'1. 1 hour or until knife centre comes out clean. Turn out cn heated platter and fill centre with a creamed, cooked meat or fish mix- ture.

E[gplll1t Scallop

The rion-nued eggplant should really ofler such inspiration to the cook that any who lays claim to artistry at all should turn out a very fine dish with such fine material. Fried eggplant is the inost usual form in which this vegetable up- Pelrs; scailoplng it may be a new thought. 2 medium-sized eggplants Boiling, salted water

chopped. hard-cooked

Remove pulp

onloii and minced and pepper to baking

crumbs are st delicious

supper main course,

Carrot Ring

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Happenings

5PM g or his happy and agree- able ye s in ottawa. the Governor General. when bidding farewell, stated that attractive as Ottawa is is a city, and pleasant as are its surioundlngs, it would not have so much to offer if it were not for its charming people. In leaving Can- ada. He: Excellency believed she was losing several thousand friends, who had extended their friendship from coast to coiut. “You have made our stay so happy, we just hate leaving Canada," she Sap-L Following tea, Their Excellencies bade farewell to each of the 300 members present; Her Excellency was charming in a smartly fash- ioned black satin dres", with smell black hat, and a handsome cape of silver fox furs. Lady Moyrg Pen. sonby wore a frock of rust colored crepe. with the neck outlined in gold chain effect. and a brown vel- our hat. O O His Honour. Lieutenant Governor DeBlois entertained ad dinner this week for Captain Pierze Toybet and officers of the Ville d'Y"s, who are being cordially welcomed to the ioclal activities of the city while their ship is in port. Exquisite roses added s. lovely touch of color to the dinner table. O O O

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Miss Marjorie Stewart of Ottawa is the guest of her brother Mr. David Stewart and Mrs. Stewart of Summerslde.

- O O O

Senator John McLean of Sourfs was receiving the congratulations of liLs relatives and friends Tues- day on the occasion of his 89th birthday.

O O

Mrs. Murdoth McKlnnon enter- tained very pleasantly at a fare- well bridge on Wednesday alter- noon for Mrs. Percy Pope. whose departure after a very much enjoy. ed summer visit is much regretted.

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Miss Helen McKle was widely entertained this wcck, her friends vleiitg with one another to honor lier prior to hfr marriage. On Mon- day Miss Esther Rettenbury and Miss Ruth Stewart had a ml cel- lnneous shower of lovely gifts for her. at Miss Stewart's home. On Wednesday. Mrs. Ivan Home was hosters to Miss McKie at a kitchen

ant to monopolize him or her. things that you can think of, and that you be- ie attractive that you cannot inspire affection or

shower of very useiul articles so

‘That you attribute to him

DOROTHY DIX,

Lord and Lady Bessb orough

of the Week

needed in good housekeeliifll» w" Betty Rogers asked her friends to ‘tested recipes" to im- show-

brink er, and if carefully followed m! will be well

h oom-to-be retail: sell-tor.‘ Mrr. Lewis invited her

guests to her parents home in Brighton on Thursday nisht Ind again the popular guest-of-honor was showered. this time with many dainty handkerchlefs of cambrlo

Bind ION. e e

Mrs. C. H. Black was among the hostesses entertaining very pleas- antiy at her home on Monday ev- enlng.

O O O

Mrs. J. Ci. Jamie-son left Monday morning on a visit to Halifax, le- companying her sister, Miss Tunn- aman. who has been her guest for several days.

O O

Mrs». Robert Nicholson left Mon- day morning to visit her son in Halifax.

O O O

Mix Isabelle McLeod of Regina and Miss Katherine H. McLeod of New Bedford, Mass. left yesterday morning on return home. after s. dclightul month's holiday with their mother. Mrs. Hugh McLeod and sister Miss Mabel McLeod. Grafton Street.

O O O

Miss Edith Shaw, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. l-LH. Shaw left this week for McDonald College, St. Anne de Bellvue.

e t e

Mrs. H. D. Blden of Amherst ls spending a week with her parents prior to leaving for her new home in Liverpool, N.B., where Mr. Biden has accepted a lucrative position.

O O

Mrs. George J. Rogers enter- tained at her lovely residence "Falrhoim" last week in honor of Mrs. Percy Pope who left Thurs- day afternoon for Staten Island wne:e she will spend the winter.

O O O

Mrs. J. A. McLeod of Toronto sent out invitations for an after- noon tee last Monday in honor of Miss Gladys Bell (formerly Mn; Owen of Summersidei ol the Ben Carlo Opera Company.

O O O

King George does not keep rigid- ly to the rule which King Edward enforced when the Court was in Scotland of wearing the Scottish dress whenever he left the Castle. The King wears the kllt of Royal Stuart tartan, on arrival at Bal-

later, but generally he wears knick-

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erbockers and stockings. They are, in foot. his favourite dross. with them he wears e felt Homburg list. The Princes emulate the King in this observance of dsess. The Queen always wears a ribbon of tastans when abroad in ‘aeotlend.

The many ilriends of Mr. Colin O. mums. Breekiey Point, will be glad to know that he is steadily improving in health and after ten weeks lxrthe PEI. Hospital is now convalescmg at the home of his daughter, Mrs. I. G. McLure before proceeding to Brackley Point. Mrs. MoLure has been spending a few days in the city with her husband.

When the King and Queen are in Scotland they always remember former oourtlers who have now re- tired from active Court life. it is understood that among the visitors in Bslnionl later in the season will be Sir Harry Streatfelld, who was the devoted secretary to Queen Alexandra. during her wldowhood days. Blsoer Agnes (Miss Keyser). who has not missed e. visit to Bal- moral for many years, also will make the journey again this year ll her health permits. Bister Agnes. of course, nursed King Edward. Bhe is a very privileged lady in the Royal Family. A suits of rooms is always kept for her st the Castle.

O O O

Miss Marjory Shaw and Miss Betty Holl were joint hostesses last Saturday at e. miscellaneous rhower for Miss Helen McKie at Miss Shaw's home. The gifts, all useful and ornamental kitchen utensils. were prettily wrapped, and as each one was held up to view the guests with pencil and paper marked what they thought the article was, the largest number of correct answers getting a suitable prize. There was lots of fun over the tea-cups and the evening c‘0s- ed with happiest congratulations.

O O O

Mfrs Lucy McLure of North Rus- tieo was a visitor in the cily Thurs- dsy the guest of her brother Mr. W. O. L. Mel/tire end Mrs. MoLure, Bonnehinley.

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Mrs. D. A. McKlnnon, a West Street, entertained very pleasantly. for friends at her pretty home on Wednesday evening.

O O O

Rev. Dr. aidney Bonnell. Mrs. £18"

and Family Leave Canada Today f0 r Home

cured. a final store of jam before

hands. The new owners of fewes- by Hall, sir Keith and Lady N-ut-

large scale. Red current which the Duke of_ Marlborough

black current and oflnbefry jelly with game. Some of these preserves

CONSOLAZHON Not deed, but borne beyond ‘file

shadows Into the full, clear light,

Donnell an dren, w o Va been spending the past few months at their summer cottage in Caven- dish, left Wednesday on their we! to New York City, where Mr. Both, ueii is pastor of the Fifth Avenue Presbyterian Church.

O O O

Miss Sybil Tani/on of summu- side was hostess last Thursday st five tables of bridge fn honour of Mks Ruth Muttsrt, who received e. veiw lovely guest prise to mark the happy occasion.

O O O

The tea. ‘osteases at the Golf Links this afternoon will be Mrs. G. H. Bunteln, Miss Aletha Laird. Mfrs Lulu Toombs. Mia‘ Rlllh vin- nlcombe, Miss Jessie Fullerton.

. . .

Mia-ses Wyatt of Summeside en- tertained yesterday afternoon at a. prettily arranged bridge and tel.

O O O

Mrs. Clifford Montgomery enter- tained yesterday afternoon at four tables of Bridge for Mlse Ruth Muttart. one of Summersldeb pop- ular October brides to be. Addi- tional guests curls in for the so- cial tea hour.

I O

Two Dukes who are jam eon- noisseurs have been making a holiday selection in Berkeley Bguare recently. The Duke of Kent, before leaving London. chose pots of a special seedless raspberry jam that comes from Lowesby Ball farm. The Duke of Marlborough has se-

the farm, which he started. changes

tall. do not intend to form 0n s 1911i’.

eats every morning for breakfast, is among the assortment chosen, and a marmalade made of grape fruit, lemon end orange, which is a favourite on the Blenheim break- fast table with Lord Blendford and his brothtrs. The Duchess likes to eat bramble jelly, and

will be sent to the Grocery in Mount Street, whore Napoleon was a custnlnei‘.

Mmsp-ti-“awr- 3r.

will be

11.; HOUSEWIFE and HER ACTIVITTBJ

rock willie ebe reeds and

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Not sieeoilll. but cum to iii

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Not still and moveiese. but _ ped from earth's room

To walk the King's highway.

Not deed. but pest all fear d

Andwith all suffering o'er, ,--

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To live forever more. [uni-i ‘ O DOUBLE DUTY IIOCKI i

Two-purpose dreues ere populii with Parlslans.

amen WALKING uses NONAGENAIIAN n!

Though she is more than bl years old Mrs. H. O. Ness of Dawson. Mina, who is plying s visit to her son. Ososr Ness, in Winnipeg. is still as epry and cheery as most people half her age.

She rises at 6 a. m. every day. She does an enormous amount work, keeping her own home end manager her own business affairs and is incidentally a great church worker and active in all community projects. Every evening, with very few exception she takes a brie! walk. It is this exercise, she says. that keeps her body so remarkably sugple and straight. -,

he wss born in Bergen, Norway. She is an inveterate traveller. In the too-mile motor trip with son from Dawson to Winnipeg, she would not let him break the trip for an overnight step. and when they sir-rived in Winnipeg. she slji most insisted on helping in untie the luggage from the ear.

F1181‘ All) FOR ltlNGLIlTs , smell metal curlers thst she ma) use st home are important to the girl who wears wringiets across tlfi buck of her nechrow have t or money to go to s beauty every other day to have locks curled up tightly, yet eyeryone oen nail s few minutes each night to snap 0Q useful little curles that do work while you sleep. ‘fhess are inexpensive, but most satisfactory.

Gloesoil Seems

When you have ironed en article and the seems have en ugly shin gloss where the iron has touched them, wring out s. piece of cheese. eloth from tepid water And wipe over the shiny-surface with light, quick strokes. No Plsee For a lug i. Never psi..- as man scatter rug at the top of a flight of stairs. Many bad accidents have occurred through this poorly pieced rug’! liven if the rug is tacked down it i-tdan usesapeirson maycetcn aieuir eet on its edge and cause e