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with fetching white treceriee. frost now autographs a window . . . The hands of the clock on the wall indicate the near, ap- proach of midnight - an eerie time or night we recall when "folks affirm. if ever, specters walk. At the thought, a shiver, relic of the ' uneasy young years. tingles the flesh. We listen with a” certain apprehension. Is that only the rat- tle of wind in the bones of , the lawn trees? And is that vague and rather fearsome sound but a rose- trellis of Jamie's fashioning, tap- tap. tapping the sunpoi-ch wall?
The little-girl of us listens; the adult smiles and relaxes. How in- tensiflcd often beyond recognition or determination, in the-dark are the familiar noises of dayl The shaggy black dog that divides now his time between Alderlea and - this home "in the road" opens an eye lazily to regard us, then head unllfted from forepaws returns- to hLs dreams. A but!-colored kit- cat. white-vested and -nosed puns a sleepy refrain on the couch. The fire crackles cheerily; the kettle sings. Pleasant we find this hour, quiet and rather un- hurried. "Nevertheless, just you wait 'till midnight pauses in the sky, Ellen" the little-girl part of
Husband Complains Of
T . Undemonstraiive Wife
DEAR. MISS DIX: lim a man of 30 with a wife of 25 and two children. In our four years of marriage, here are the things my wife has failed to do;
1. She has never paid me a compliment or offered any encourage-' ment uhatsoever.
2. She has never admitted a wrong. or apologized.
3. She has never inquired about my job.
4. She has never shown any open affection whatsoexer.
The only time I get a kiss from her is when I kiss her first. In other words, it's always me first. She only says she loves me when I ask her. She is very moody, and has little to say when we are alone. In company, however, she talks a lot. She's a good cook and a,very good mother. She's a fine housekeeper and has everything just so around the house.
Do you think a man can be happy with A woman like that? There is no other man or wo- man involved. I still love my wife. but am sure my feelings wonit continue unless she isimore rc-
sponsive. I never go out by myself, seldom drink. us nods Ominous” "and W" Se W I V and see that she has a personal allowance for 1 -! 1 Y0 9- , t6 s- ,;i- . , - - ). clothes, etc. What more can I do'.' - . - Lh M135 De m1 L -k . . - -- - . shown above are the principals Claude Woodington, Mi. nnd Mrs.land e es a a at in and .. , . . . , . MIKE of 1f3.f;55.J;”i,2jj25 (1:31 heivmimiiig in a pretty wedding at Kensingtoniclalr Mayhew; Ken Pettlgrew and Freda Mayhew. Mrs. Clnir is lhg Muriel mu” Imsii ER: This '5 3 swimhs Wm?” wrm at E ,.ege,,1 1,edg11m .115 in e 3 on Saturday afternoon. November Ellsworth Campbell. Front row. left former Jean Larkin. ' hushi-ls of letters about their husbands lack of fesged he wo..1d"'e,:11,Z'; ecf1onI,11; 8th. Back row, left to right, areito right are, Mrs. Ken Pettigrew, Edwlr I-Ieckbert Studio 4
affection, but rarely does a man have the same complaint about his wife!
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roll mention that your wife has had a poor family background: perhaps her aloofness stems from seeing her own mother rebuffed by a callous husband. Subconsciously, she may have determined that Ihe will not be equally vulnerable.
Your uifc's immediate need is for some older and wiser woman to enlighten her as to the risk she is, taking with a good marriage. No man likes to come home to a frigid atmosphere, no matter how tidy it is or how wcll-cooked the dinner. A warm smile. a cheery word is the greeting he wants. Apparently, your spouse feels that her duty as a wife is fulfilled by an adequate dispatch of her domestic chores. 'Tis true, a skillful housewife is the salt of the earth, etc.. but that is just one of the many roles is successful wife must fill. the Anagance Ridge United Church bossed sheer over taffeta. the neck out of their reach. But there are Companion, counselor, advisnr, confidante. sometimes mothcr-confes- when Rev. KarlF. Drew performed of which was low and rounded no mysterious creatures about to m155pe11,,d7 sor. friend and admirer-these are just. a few of the parts a wife the double ring ceremony uniting with tight-fitting bodice and full fear. The birds in their nests and mom,p111'y monmone. must live almost every day. The success of her home and marriage in l'h8l”l'l&E6 H8281 Lulu E11100-. skill. H91" Elbow 19118111 mills Well? about the trees in summer aren't 1 Whgt do” me word --ascend.
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brightly lit stairs than trust hlm- , self to the mystery of moonlight ggx, thei!-e. ”tNothing," we continued wdwwfawwcy 1 con iden ly, "indoors or ut." i ' "But there is.” he Qreasoned. Be”er Enduh . keeping B, bare ste aheadl 1.; ”I'here's that animal wiih a ring " .' 0' Wm in his nose in the stable -- and perhaps you don't know about - it? There's one in the flock of 1. What is wrong with this sen- 11,Q1;1.,:V(,I"l:i,.,1.ivelie (iii-1 irigvhiiefgllieiynii sheep. Q1-arrdnddy said it was tence? "I disremembey what you A GAY and R5111! day on which mmcee? she is 8 stmnger in WW” just as well to be aware of? " said about this matter." "youth may have M mugs. A11 and mm M our mends or ma- A pietty fall wedding of interest Miss Elliott was wearing a balle- "Oh 3'65." We agreed. ”but every 2. What is the correct pr0nllllC- things relating to them in the uves have met he, as yet” to many friends was soleninized at rina-length gown of yellow em- farm-child knows enough to keep lation of ”icon"? ' way of em0ll0llili. l'0lmlmi9 and M" A. Not a shower. Guests should 3. Which one of these words is fectional engagements 3” "llder never be asked to bring gifts to one M018-558-5. molifllolhlmv hltlh Stimuli 10” K99" 3cm” who is a stranger to them. On the 'I'hEl'i"5 l3lL10.Vm9m' mid Vethaps other hand. it would be very nice g frlvolity. parties, engagemeiits. wed- mx. you to Ewe a party mm A depends upon her adaptability in using them. dB-llzlhi-61' of MI. HF-d.Ml'S. Cv0l'dDll 0? matching l'll8laEl"l!li- She WON? afraid of anything at nightenor ,, ., dln1;s.All business incident to these shower, 1” honor of the 81,1. for rm sure, Mike, that your wife is anxious to preserve her mar- 8. Elliott. poi Anagance Ridge. N a band of yellow flowers in her the kittens in the barns." we- add- 3”" ""””'15 0 d be 111,111.11 claim major attention. the "Arts of the purpose 0, 1,,m,,1uc1,,g he, .10 riage; perhaps she just needs someone to bring these vital truths 13-. and William Allhllf M111. Olliy hill and Carried ll 1105633)? Of Yel" ed. - 5' "what 8' Ybr mu? 601;. Venus" quickened and fanngd by your 1-e11,11ve5 and 11-lends. home to hm: Can you find among your friends or relations somc- 50” of M13 and M” Ray Mm' low loses and White mums Cheryl "I know” he nodded "but" he Zdglqedgvthat means no 3 the inciting flare of Mercury Wings. Q, 3115; what are me 1,111-pug” 01
one in whom the little woman can place her Confidence? Your Job Ki.t:J.S1in'lzht(t5)n(;C:3a.si:7O.nI.Lhe cmlrch was Sf1ali)':tuEit'tE);';e;l:g1;p:;1l:1lggtig stir?!-if confided. nsomeumes Im not we ANSWERS Family ties are strengthened. g dhmm. nVFpk1nt7 Continued on page 9 11 CD131 11 mm 1,8511 1- 1-. r A use brave by do '! I uess" he com- For the Birthday IL T0 WIDE -he mouth before . 9 9 5” 0 mu” iwsegay it Pink 7 5- . tar 5 9 ' d b b .. or drinking from the water glass in l colored gladioli and other fall The bride: mother Ware a navy men e in a low tone," if you had 1. Say. "I o no remcm er. t I t ' ' . , 1 1 V V 1 . . 1 V .. 3. .. 1 1, v 01. Those whose birthday 1 3 may that the glass may not be smeared.
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cc 5 0,131 C1 0 saw one afternoon on our way loqulalism. 2. Pronounce i-kon. i as I Y 1 V pink bouquet aofersed erases?" wmfe wig: "om school. yOu,d be scared mo!” 11., 1ce,o as in on. accent first sy1- activities and aspirniloiriiscccnitterllerl Q. it hen giving it bridge-plllli - UB1”, that was R nice man and 151,19. 3. Mcncpolyu 4, Domination; in the home, with all t oce a aft which follows a luncheon. is the ' control "He gained ascendancy by concerning purely -500151 elli0lr- hostess expected to serve any "eats"
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performed under an arch of fall whne leaves intertwined with sweetpeas. The pews reserved for g1-oomvs m0111e1- wore 1, W81 1,1111, the guests were marked with llny dress with black accesoriea and a kind to children" we replied. "And b0llql-leis Of -SVVECEPCES llhd fem corsage bouquet of pink roses. The wasn't he-and wagon and all- Sheer
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tied with white satin ribbon. - ' cl tn M . T - l'k l t - t f nce." L. Latescent. . .Mrs. Jack Stockton presided at l!1l;;ii)ms:m;g)iel,nwI'1di'-be iinmatirie crge Iiaiiv-ts:lne:,se'-i IAT:duIa'hBoCu s opleazgiii R -----e--.. Megrlmfent. 1CElEIbl'al.'l;)0i'iBs. ll)eavi'oti1i:S th . D ' th Q i f . -- - 9 ' .. c an ormn unc n c 9 Organ unng e sign ng 0 mess mm mauve and black EC mule he had! ARAB LEAGUE around the domestic scene with the indulgence and festivities.
WEEK'S SEW THRIITY
the register the groom's grand- ' 1 ,, father, Tyndall Semplc. guest solo- ;ee?1s:,;,ie:1,1Eer:1 8' Corsage bouquet of 'M”-Vbe' me wungst” sh”? clamor of youth for culture and all A child born on thissday 13 End
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MAKE IT from I feed-bag! This ism San .. .. 11 --but 1 did ' 11k tn 1 k 1 1, 1 .- . . , g 0 Perfect Love, ac- F 11 s 1,1, . . 8.9- 1 hi, 6 9 00 0 ed - 1945 - 1111 E 1' 1,” catering to their deveiopmen cousivblessed with atlllbtites and Charming "pm" ” desigmd m be companied by Mrs. Reagh suds- mono vyxnlild eafegfzgng gicizge him! AIld' he Sald With finality, 1,0,3... s,ucii1.cAi;,1e;,:a, gsyypna. the highlighted. "Let joy be uncon- aspirations for a pleasant and
fined" is a suitable motto for such prosperous life.
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yards of 39-inch fabric! Yardage is b",'13(1:nd-mg ”331:”imde were he, bride's parents. Friends of the 1" am" 517'” Mm” "mu 14- 15 youngest sister Miss Joyce Elliott brldet servedl Lat” me bride "M M medium 18' 20' Y"” can 5” ai 3 as bridesmaid ' and little Cheryl gmomkn mr 3 hmeymw" m be glance how popular this W111 be Clark mecelof the groom as spent in Cape Breton. For travel. !" 8W5 01' b31335! P3"-em 4373 f1ower.girl. James Clark wasybest. ling the hr”? wme 3 turqumse 1"C1"d95 9- i-”"5fel' 101' l-hi? PEHSY man. Ray Branscombe and Her- gabmdme mm with an amumfl pocket. Send for this pattern right pen, E1-and ushered, "999 kamered hi” md bmw” Veil IWWI Given in marriage by her fath- Mm Shoes and bag in brown er, the bride wore a ballerlna- suede" she 3150 W0” brown squir- Thls pattern easy to use, simple kngm gown of Wmfe nylon net rel furs and a corsage bouquet of to ”W' 15 tested hr in H” wm' over satin. The strapless bodice pink mack
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jacket having ti. Queen Anne col- lar and long sleeves extending in points over the hands. Her fin- gertip veil of nylon net fell from a band of matching material studded with tiny pearls and caught at t.he back with li1y-of- the-valley .She carried a nosegay of pink roses.
in Moncton. where the groom is on the office staff of a packing company. Prior to her marriage the bride was also on the staff of the same company.
In recent weeks the bride has been entertained at several func- tions at which time she was pre- sented with an array of gifts.
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By June: W. Barton. M.D. ta
Gir.aiArn;ics, A srecinurv
It is admitted that this is an age of specialists in the medical pro- fession and it is true that a phy- slclan who spends "all" his time at one particular branch of medicine is likely to know more about it than one who treats and diagnoses various" ailments.
On the other hand. a specialist who from his year or two years after graduation has not treated general ailments, cannot have the background to understand fully how many of these other ailments affect his specialty. There is one specialty, however, which is so new
years of general practice before he is fully qualified as a specialist 1 am. of course. referring to geria- trics. the study and treatment of the elderly and aging.
In Geriatrics. the official journai of the American Geriatrics society. Dr. Walter C. Alvarez, the editor, who for many years was senloi medical consultant of the Mayo Clinic states:
"In many ways the best man to become 1 gerlatriclan is the gener- al practitioner. However. the geria- trician must always be a good in- ternist. and diagnoatician. So. often when an older man or woman he- gins to fail in health it is for from easy to find the email cancer, the old focus of iuuerculosla that has become active again, or the blood- vessel that has plugged up a silent area in the brain. or the large gall- stone that is working its way into .the bowel. To find such things the ph, A i n must have a high degree of diagnostic skill such as comes only after many years of experience in the consultant practice of inter- nal medicine."
Among other needs of the equip- ment of I geriatriclan. Dr.. Alvarez mentions the recognition of heart ailments and their effect upon me health and the life span. He must know well the troubles that come with ndvanlcng arteriosclerosis i (hardening of the arteries) particu- I iarly in the brain. He must recog- l nlze the little strokes of the heart l and brain. how they resemble and
regular strokes (coronary throm- bosis and apoplexy. ' He must be somewhat of a skin specialist to be able to recomlze early skin cancer
or skin conditions that are likely to
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Cough Remedies
An excellent remedy for relieving coughs is made bylmixlrig honey and lemon juice. To relieve a. violent spasm of whooping cough. allow a lump of butter to melt in a glass of warm milk and give it to the patient.
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To keep new tinware from rust- ing rub the surface with lard and thoroughly heat in the oven before using. It will not rust no matter how much it is placed in water
whitewashed Walls
If you wish to paper walls that are whitewashed. wash the walls with strong vinegar before applying the paper. It will make the paper stick
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How can I lengthen the life of my shoes?
A. Stuffing the shoes with tissue paper after each wearing is a much better treatment for them than shoe trees. as this serves not only to keep the shoes in their proper shape but soaks up any foot per- spiration which may have been left in the shoes.
Q. How can I test thii freshness of a. ham?
A. Run 1 clean knife into it. close to the center knuckle. The ham is good if the knife comes out sweet and odorless, but it is not. fit for eating it the knife is smeary and has a strong odor.
. Q. How can I treat an oily skin?
A. An excellent. remedy for oily skln'is to bathe it daily in hot cas- tlle soap suds. Then rinse. first in not followed by cold water.
become cancers. And, naturally. he must be familiar with an the forms of rheumatism and arthrlrtls that are so common in the aged and aging. He must know about telling eyes and care. about obesity and diabetes. and whether an eld- erly petient should undergo oper- etlon.
!inally.the gerletrlclan must he I lood. -kindly, sensible and was psychiatrist: know how to handle
grandpa who starts setting fires and grandma, suffering from great depression:
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