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Happy Wife Dreams Of Who Got Away

DEAR MARY HAWORTHI ly Consider myself a happily 'mar- ried woman. as I have a wonder-l ful husband and everything a.

needs for complete satis-' far long There is just one fly in ,- . .

bled walk leading to the front door. of the quaint old Lippit homestead, at the Far r's Museum of Co-' opt-rstnwn. New York. From the barn and grounds came .. the carkie of hens. honking of! r geese. riuaeking of ducks. the rau- cous call of the peacocks. Nearby, ; sheep were grazing and cows. ' lying in the fields. were chewing their ends.

Housekeeping In 1820

y Ily knock was answered by Miss 1 Virginia Parsiow, a young woman

who keeps house in the old home as they did in 1820.

"We're ready for you.'' aim smiled. "Here's a long linen tie- on apron like mine. hand-woven. too. Now we'll go to the kitchen."

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' 'l'li(-re. on the big, hand-made ' ' kitchen table. we started yeast l he bread to bake in the ready Ilf”lIf'fI brick beehive oven and E ni-sod gineersnaps by an old-time' . recipe. The cookies were placed r . ' K I .. I . I

an iron Dutch was but swung over the glowing fire on the heari.

Century Ago

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I hope that when you are mo- toring in the vicinity of Coopers- town. you and your family will take time out to visit the Lippit Farm House. a living replica of home-life more than a century ago.

Old-Time Gingersnaps: To 16 c. softened shortening. cream in H3 c. brown sugar and U! c. molas- ses. Sift together 2V: c. enriched flour. 16 tsp. salt. lb tsp. baking soda and IV; tsp. ground ginger.

Add alternately to the first mix-

X Hot or Iced Coffee or Tea

ture with 113 c. milk. Let stand 30 min. Then roll thin. Cut into rounds. Place on an oiled pan and. bake 10 min. in a moderate oven.i 350 degrees F.

Cucumber-Scallion Saladettes Roast Pork Loin with Potatoes String Beans New Beets Raspberry Sherbet Milk Fish was a mainstay food in Col- onial days. Small herring, smelts and alewives. packed in pottery cracks. were spiced. covered with vinegar and slow-baked for hours in the brick ovens. ready to keep and use for weeks. Today, our nearest approach to old-time potted fish is sardines.

'l'0MORROW'S DINNER.

Chilled or Hot Cream :1 Tomato Soup Potato-Egg-Salad Loa! Maine Sardine Platter

Lemon Wedges Deep Custard Pic Iced Coffee or Tea Milk

Deep Custard Pie: Line a deep 9" pie-plate with American pie pastry. Dust with 1 tsp. fine dry

Hot or

on hand-made pans and baked in bread crumbs; press in lightly so;

WHILE A DELICIOUS AROMA WAIT! from the iron pots hanging over the open fireplace. Virginia Psrslow prepares old-time dishes.

the crust will be crisp and not soggy when the pie is baked.

For the filling. beat 8 eggs with it 0. sugar. Va tsp. salt, and Us tsp. nutmeg. Add 1 c. cold milk. Pour into the crust-lined plate. Grate over a little nutmeg.

Place in a hot oven. 400 degrees I".. for 10 min. to set the crust. Then reduce the heat to 350 de- grees F.. and.eontinue to bake 35-40 min.. or until a sharp knife when inserted near the center comes out clean.

The pic should be lightly brown- ed on top. At no time should the oven be so hot that the pie filling boils while baking. Cool at once.

Chill and serve the day it is maden "lover of yourself, dressed in mas- .qIl9l'fi(IE. Sometimes you f a n c y'

TRIOID OF THE CHEF

Add a dusting of minced fresh dill to sardines.

ELLEN'S

Buttercup: nod by the stream-

airle there for the children to

v , ., gather. to hold then the golden cups beneath young chins and

, query with happy. wondering

”- smiles: "Do you like butter. or

don't you?" New daisies unfold those engaging white petals made for girlhood to pluck shyly with a whispcrcri: "Rich mart, poor man. hr-gznr-nimi..." There too aro pnlt-lies of fragile whitc-flow- erin: rhickwet-fl. tangles of wild vetch mid. at the moment. I hawthorn hedge in exquisite bloom All there in that meadow up "at the other form" where . thr flocks of sheep pasture. - To fl'I."lI spot. this afternoon. 'when last turnip drllll hld hcen ,srcdrrl and smoothed. our farm- or: went to the shearing. And -I.I"'l'f' too. not as our conscience reminded us. that we really earn-' . ed such leisure. but because in -3 recent ycrirs we had not looked lntim:ii(-ly at the sight. we after Iuppcr rnnio with the rest.

The sun had set by then and lll-"l twill" siimiiiery veiling wliiih ltl'P('r'flPN the falling of the pnriile lll'lII'1Ilf was commencing to dim the far hills. It was that serene hour of riay when every thins: about is caught and held in the hush and magic of ap- proachin dusk. .

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3; Earlier--at the beginning ofths z:-' work, a number of; own, 1."-lb. '.' kins in .. ompaniment had been planned in a corner of the pasture find the little track eamctol stop there on the roadside close by. , "Guest I'd better give the -'-shears a bit of a sharpening" James said. allghtlng from 2 rear of the vehicle when with threq grandchildren he had rid- den "second". Along the fluids then having fordsl bnnlcol tbs mlllltream Jsniis came from his lane to join th- . It was "this uinrasc-cm cu" ....................................,.....

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From coast to coast our country. Canada. presents an endless pos- orama of scenic resources--sandy noun beaches and narrow coast- ll fiords; ruu

DIARY

by an Island Farmerls Wife

of the owes that was presently caught and expertly turned on backs on the sod. and the even- ing-shearing began. In little bil- lows of white. like the fetching slimmer clouds which but us off here and there on fanciful

5. Kg. .12 The Guardian Thursday, June 30,1955 :3; u:-rs la! y Two Recipes To Try . . From An 1820 Kitchen 1! I sy Ida Bailey Allen years: Marigold: and zinnias were SUNDAY DINNER J bursting into bloom along the peb-' '

3 eight ' happily married.

'-I dream constantly .4 John, who quite literally lsf "tits on who got away." i

I can't deny that I loved Johnl Very much at one time. but he: always managed to steer clear of the marriage question. He must have enjoyed my company. how-. ever. as he hung around for threei but the fact remains thati he never did propose.

I wasn't getting anywiiere. pin-, lug away for John; so I met andi married my husband. That was years ago. I said I wasi and I am. Ifi billy A could star dreaming at night.

You'd think Eight years of love and kindness with my husband would erase these foolish thoughts of John; yet I Waken each morn- ing depressed and longing to see him again. Which is impossible as well as ridiculous. since he too

'is now married and living on the'

coast, Is there some simple ex- planation for all this? C. Y. -

Heart Sickness Compounds Itself

DEAF. C. Y.: Your letter is typed on a largish single sheet of paper. The lower third of the page is missing-raggedly torn. off. You were chucking out a postscript. but the opening lines are still readable, along the rag- gedy edge of the torn paper.

It is interesting that in this post- script you were putting your finger on much of tbs reason for your "displ person" feelings in marriage. In your husband's arms. you were saying. you some- times find yourself imagining that he is John. a fantasy that pleases you. Then you add "how shameful this-," at which point the postscript disappears-into your wsstehasket. I p. s.

Evidently you want help. in correcting a mistake you know you are making; yet you feel so guilty about the mistake that you can't speak of it. and probably won't let yourself think of It of- ten. So you beg the question here-

MR. AND MRS. K. W. DENNIS

Apple blossoms and ferns provid- ed the decorative I ettin g in

Bedequo United Church on June roses.

her wrists, and matching veil. She carried a bridal bouquet of red

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There h nothlll QILIIIICIIU enthusiasm for alimzm, like being able to slip sin tab the next smaller dress slat.

Unhappily. some overweight: reduce six to sight pounds. thi become discouraged bccausotbls amount of illllllt I001 III! Id changed their drain line. Their goal was within sight. but they didn't know it. End they realized that another four to six pounds off would have brought them with- in the weight reuse of the nut smaller size...tl1ls Would IIIVI been all the incentive needed to keep on, . g

The standard number of Dolllldl between dress sizes is ten to six- teen. depending on stature. It :.;so helps to know the number of inches off that will allow you to slip smoothly into that smaller. younger size.

In general, the dIIIGl'OlICe.fl'Ol!'I one size to the next in misses sizes is 195 inches thljollill "33 -bust. waist. abdomen and .lllP lmeasurement. In women's sizes -through 36, there is a 2 inch dif- ference in all measureme 'I be- tween one size and the next. In lm-ggr sizes, there is a 254 inch difference through the waist and abdominal extension-for tbats where tbs figure spreads.

The tape measure gives the un- biased facts about your figure- The object of the tape test” is to

l JusiTwoInchss Stand Between You And Smaller Dress SIZO

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for let it out an inch. You do have to breathe. Then slip Ill! taps down a few inches and circle around the curve of the abdomen.

To get the full mess - on hips.

1 egg , 1 tbs. each ginger. olnnmol I93 allsplco

iii cups flour

V4 cup corn starch .BolI lard, sugar and molasses to- gether. Add while hot 2 cups Sour.

Dissolve soda in vines-r III! add. When cool. stir in OIL 3m spices. corn starch and ccousll flour to make stiff dough and roll.

Ions stack up. ,It'I lymmtifyflllt makes for a beautiful figure. whether you are normally I319 12 or an 18p The chest and bull measurement is the rinse 03 your structure. The waistline should be 8 to I inches smaller than the bust circumference; ab- domen, 1 to 11.5 inches mailer: and hips. IV: to 2 inches iarser

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HOUSEHOLD HINT

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Words Of The Wise

is and condition: times I yesr, and " our: film years.

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is at 3 pm. for the marriage of Hazel Jane. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Frank L. Jewell. to Keith William Dennis. son of Mr. and Mrs. William .1. Dennis of Port Hill. The wedding wan performed by Rev. George K. Ward.

The soloist for the occasion was Miss Audrey Woodside and the wedding music was played hy.Mrs. Walter Craig. organist.

Given in marriage by her brother Lloyd, the bride chose a floor- length gown of white nylon over taffeta. the bodice of which was adorned with pearls. with Peter Pan collar and long tapering sleeves which came to points over

honor. wore , strapless gown of bile green nylon

and headdress. She carried a bouquet of pink roses.

Mr. Elmer MacLean was the best man and the ushers werei Messrs. Davis Jewell and Edgar

T o u r is t Lodge for 36 guests. where Mrs. Stewart Waugh was in charge of the guest book.

For a tour of the Maritime: the bride wore a coral wool suit with

navy and white accessories and a cornga of yellow roses.

Holden-Haslam

with. by adopting an innocent

air of mystification about your

frustration. St. Paul's Anglican Church. The sense of shame that your Charlottetown, P. E. I.. was the

g postscript hints at has to do with

a sense of committing sin-as if you have sensations of being lit- erally unfaithful to your hus- band when you embraco the illusion that he is John. How- ever. this sense of sin is an Il- lusion too. You are tormented by an emotionally sick version of neurotleally mixed-up behavior. In short. your emotional sickness compounds itself.

Wrong Consists h Fooling self

Essentially the wrong you are doing is this-you just aren't re- lating yourself to real life. You aren't even aware of your hus- band's reality. his real self, though dependently committed to his care. Figurativeiy you are feeding on husks. when close by are the potentials of a healthful diet.

You are drifting in a fog of narcissism in a fantasy world of childish erotic self-engrossment. in which you are the phantoml

how it would ho. if you were John. making love to you. This morbid and frustrating bias is a hangover from a love-starved ugly childhood. in which you strove to warm yourself with cocked-up Imaginary ardor. Un- consciously you are still self-en- closod and compulsiveiy selI-lov- .. instead of relaxing into real exchange of devotional aware- ness with your good husband. John grips your fancy not be- cause of affinity but because the experience with him epitomized

all the frustration that had gone

ex.lbefore. Thus in your dreams he cu,-giant 9.. woo; gen bgck from personlfles all the love the the shears, . . Most of it would go malllfe you Vv'lint8d.

im- "that got

to market to make comforts for way"; and thus on walking you

northern winters, it came rnlnd-blankets and suits sweaters and intriguing baby- wear.

"They're putting a fair-good sod on this field" James offered.

"Yes" the younger farmer agreed, "and they're great ones to clear away weeds!"

"They're nice thinc.s" Ja mic said. "They're animals I like."

In the ditch at the rear of the truck Granddaughter. Gage and Mack husied themselves in the absorbed in fashioning castles and forts and whatnot, chattering all the while.

"I'm going In put a sign on my castle" we heard Granddaughter. much older" in her ways than the other two chuckle. ''It will be'' she mimicked our repeated re- rnlnde merrily "watch mit. Dears. for the passing cars and

the trucks!"

And it came I2) mind that 9! was of scenes like these. folks busy and content at every-day doings. children happy at pur- suits of work and play of which this great Dominion of ours is comprised. which of course the farming attended by other re- sources and industries which com- bine to make it it fine and well- loved land. And how h ".2!

"All the world over are sights

.lhat thrill us" someone has said.

"Some result from man's handi- work; some are Nature's own,

ed rlvcr canyons

pd qntct gently-flowing streams:

to y think and for himself. but for what he sig-

of him with longing-not

nlfies to your unconscious. My advice is wake up psychological- ly and live. Read "Love And Marriage" Illarpersi by Alex- ander Magoun. to get the pitch of reality. M. II. Mary llaworth Counsels through her column. not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of the Charlottetown Guardian.

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scene of a lovely wedding on Sat- urday. June 4, at 2 o'clock when Norma Lee. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Haslam was united in the holy bonds of matrimony to Donald Richard Holden. grand- son of Mr. and Mrs. Clifford Hol- den. Shelburne, N. S. The double ring ceremony was performed by Rev. Canon .1. T. Ibbott.

The church was beautifully de- corated for the occasion with ferns. yellow and red tulips and white cahililies. The guest pews were marked with dainty bows of white satin.

During the signing of the re- gister the Church choir rendered "0 Perfect Love", "The Voice that Breathed 0'er Eden" and "The Bridal Chorus" from Lohen- grin were played by the church organist. Mrs. V. 1.. Dingwell.

The bridc.given in marriage by her father. chose for her wedding a floor-length gown of white bro- caded nylon tulle over a bouffant skirt of net and satin which fea- tured flited bodice and-matching bolero jacket with long sleeves ta- pering to points over her wrists. Her headdress was a sequined tiara from which fell an elbow- length veil of tulle illusion. She carried a cascade of American Beauty Roses.

The maid of honour. Miss Belly

of pale yellow with embroidered net over taffeta and crlnoline. I-Ier headdress and mitts were of matching net and she carried a bouquet of mauve csrnations.

The bridesmaids. Miss Edna Elizabeth Haslam and Miss Eve- lyn MacEwen. were attired in sim- ilar gowns of lime green and shrimp and carried bouquets of Y9"””' end NIWHY Sold roses re- spectively.

Miss Marilyn Weeks and Miss Janet Madsen. Westmount, Que. bet. as flower girls were attired in street-vength blue frosted or- Sandy dresses with sashes at the back and carred nosegays of pink carnatlons.

with short sleeves-

Sl. Pauis Anglican Church -

Murphy, wore a waltz-length gown 0"”

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The best man was Dr. George 0. Fisher and ushering the guests to their seats were Messrs. Ken- neth W. Yen. and Lewis J. Has- lam. The bride's mother was attir- ed in a navy blue dress with navy and white accessories and mink neckpiece. Her Corsage was of Better Time roses.

Following the ceremony in re-i ception was held at Villa Waters for approximately 100 guests. The bride": table was centered with a three tler wedding cake topped with a miniature bride and groom. The table was attractively deco- rated with coloured tulips and spring flowers.

Miss Thelma Campbell was in charge of the Guest Book.

Friends of the bride who assist- ed in serving were Miss Shirley Dunning. Miss Adele Jardine. Miss Ireta Stevenson, Mrs. Robert Wat- son and Miss Jessie MacEwen.

The newly-weds then left on honeymoon trip to Montreal. New gork. Boston and Shelburnc. N.

The bride's going away en- semble waii a navy blue box style suit trimmed with white linen and navy and white acessnries. She wore a corsage of red carnations.

Mr. and Mrs. Holden have taken up residence at 51 Richmond , Street. City. Mr. Holden is em- ployed with the C. N. R. Express e.

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LONDON (AP)-The archbishop of Canterbury Tuesday called for country-wide prayers to be offered .luly 17 for the success of the four- power talks in Geneva. "The con- ference mtght, by God's gracep itive a new and hopeful turn toi the history of our times." the arch- '

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