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DOROTHY DIX SAYS- Middle-Aged Love

Readers Maintain Nothing Left After Physical Passion Wane:

DEAR MISS DIX: We firmly believe that what the older genera- tion calls love is merely sex. Our elders try to convince us that :he affection that they hold for each other as man and wife is love, out we maintain that it ls merely friendship. We believe that the mly true love which exists is the love a mother has for her chil- dren. Please give us your unprejudiced opinion ns to whether love is or is not just sex.

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Of course, the love of parents for their children is perhaps the most unselfish love in ‘the world because. as a general thing, it gives all without asking return. and it forgives all and endures all.

But even mother love does not always stand the test for pure affection. For it is n not uncommon tiling for a mother to ruin her chiicl‘s life in order to keep him or her with her.

The love between a man and woman is even more ' a combination of mixed emotions. Undoubtedly sex glays a large part in it, Probably the first thing that. always draws l man and woman together is physical attraction, and sometimes this Jhysical attraction passes.

DULL AFFAIR , /

Young pcoplr who think of love only in terms of fiery passion ‘hlnk the love of a middle-aged married couple is a dull and drab affair. They see a man and a woman growing old and stout and commonplace-looking, who make no outward display of their feelings toward each other, and the youngsters think that the fire is out on the altar. They think that Darby and Joan have ceased to love each other and that the tie between them is merely one of habit.

They do not know that such n couple is still living in s romance whose colors have never faded, and that their love for each other compared to s boy's and girl's love is as wine to water. The sex attraction they had for each other to begin with has grown into the spiritual and intellectual need that they have for each other. Their love has stood the test of time, and it is stronger because it has lived through trials and tribulations. through tempests and stress that no lesser passion could have survived.

And that, my children, is the love of tho middle-aged that you scorn. Heaven send it to you whQ your time comes.

DEAR DOROTHY DIX: I am fat snd 47. Have worked hard, scrimped and saved so that, my husband and I might have comfort In our old age. Well, we have arrived. The strain has lessened, life easier, nest egg laid aside and I find myself an unwanted wife. For the last three years my husband snd I have been continuaib together day and night, and while ho isn't mean to me and tries to hide the fact that he doesn't love me sny more I know that he ts tired of me. Should I try to harden myself so ss not to care or get out? We have children, but they are married and gone.

MISERABLE WIFE

ANSWER: Get out, but only temporarily. Have no foolish talk of divoroo or separation or dead love or what-not. For what ails you and your husband ls that you have been together too much and too continually, and you are fed up on each other. Any woman and any mun would feel that way about each other if they were together day and night for three years without n break or a respite. Human nature ilmply cannot stand it.

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However there are some cases of pneumonia where the virus or tiny organism is sbls to resist or with- stand penicillin, and where the sulfa drugs srs likewise unable to help. This then was the problem until still another drug (an antl- biotlc. because it kills living organ- isms) wss discovered. called. stroll- tounycin. which has helped many cases of pneumonia. snd tuberculos- is which were resistsnt to sulfa drugs and penicillin.

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2 medium onions. thinly slice-d l 5 msdiucn tomatoes. peeled and

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1% cups grated cheese

Salt and pepper to taste

1 cup tine dry bread crumbs or

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2 tablespoons butter

Slice egg-plant ii inch thick. Pare skin thinly, cut slices into 1,4, inch cubes, making about 6 cups diced egg-plant. Melt the ‘,4 cup fat and fry the egg-plant slowly for 5 minutes. .In greased casserole place alternate layers of egg-plant, onion, tomatoes and 1 cup of the grated cheese. Season each layer with 581% and DBPDM. Mix remaining cheese with the bread crumbs and sprinkle over top of vegetables. not with butter. Bake in a. moderately hot oven. 375 dellrees r2, until vege- tables are tender and top browned, about 1 hour. Yield: six servings.

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1. What. is wrong with this sen- tence? “They havo‘ralsod'\four children."

2. What is the correct pronunc- lstion of "magazine"?

3. Which one of these words is mliifklled? Cartilage, cspltulstion. cssseroll. caramel.

4. What does tho word “avid" mean‘! 5. What is s word beginning

with sme that. means "willing to yield or submit"? '

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1_- 51W. “They have reared four children." "raised four hogs." 2.

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Sharman and the young British nobleman.

Vlrﬂlh L. Sweet vacationing 1n Italy, accompanied by the young bachelor Earl of West-

eports of an engagement between Singer Fran Warren was

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A. Chop two onions; place two crux-res of butter in a pan and melt slowly; then put the onions in and fry until well done; pour a quart of boilln water into the pan and season. o improve the flavor. add sliced bread and finely cllillﬂlled swlss theese.

Q. How can I remove rust stains from the kitchen sin-k? _

A. Pour a. few drops of vinegar on the stains: leave there for about ﬁfteen minutes. and then scour the sink in the usual manner. g

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Q. Should a man hold the arm of a. woman companion while walk- ing along the street?

A. No; and neither should she cling to his arm. However. a man should assist an elderly woman by taking her arm, unless she appears to resent such attention, and he may guide any woman companion in crossing streets or assist her in ascending or descending stops. by laying his hand lightly on her arm

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CHAPTER X1

I What Sierra found perturbing about the Europiums was not that the Charlottenburg was in the throes of promotion, but the out- ward manifestations of her new enthusiasm were on tho ridiculous side. The daily procession of tho members of the Europium troupe, which Charlottenburg was assem- bling on a shoestring of an ides and investment, as they arrived st Twenty-one East with their drap- eries, which they woro hanging beneath their topcoats, was what Kitty called murderously funny. Not, she would hasten to explain, because the Europiums were more than mildly absurd, but because of the incredulous whst-hsve-we-

Q. When passing your plate for s second helping- of some dish, what should be dons with the sil- ver? F .

A. Always leave the sliver on the plate...

Q. Is" it all right for s divorcee to have s maidcf-honor snd two brldeslmslds at her second mar- rlage’!

A. No: she should have no more than one attendant st her second marriage.

For Tuesday, October 18

THE indications are for a very strenuous and aimbltiotls urge to get in line to put over greatly de- sired projects, probably on entirely new and basic ideas. in which ini- tiative and outside cooperation are demanded. While the proposition may have merit and be soundly de- veloped it may be difficult to in- ﬂuence capital or secure other col- laboration. Make the approach tact- ful rather than forceful. Be logical,

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Those whose birthday it is. mayl be impelled by an ambitious urge w launch new projects. possibly on basic or experimental lines. In this it may be difficult to secure vital influence from high places or to obtain required capital for expan- sion and promotion. Determination and due preparedness may assure funds or cooperation if tact snd the gentle approach bu used rather than sledge hammer blows. 1n- genuity, skill. and novelty may

The following are some health rules for reducing: Eat but one serving at a meal. Eat slowly and mastic-ate thoroughly. Eat nothing between meals. and especially svold the midnight "snack." Eat but one starchy vegetable st s meal. it being better to avoid even that one. Est butter, cream. past- ries. candy, salad oil, cakes and all things containing quantities of 5088i‘! very sparingly. or better. not st l .

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A child born on this day may pos- sess much creative talent and in- genuity and yet may detest proper collaboration by impatient. extra- vagant or tsctless drives.

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The visitor from the ciiy stopped in at the village general store and

Principal gccent is on last syllable,

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asked, "Have you anything in the shape of automobile tires?" ,, “Yep," sold the storekseper. ﬂhlfepreservers. funeral wreaths, Idoughnuts snd rubber bands."

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Use brown or blue paper for wrapping white garments to be stored. The chloride of limo in white paper is apt to destroy the color of the garment. causing it to

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sliced bananas that have been diPPBd into pineapple or grape- fruit juice for from 15 to 30 seconds snd then removed, keep their no‘.- ursl color for several hours.

here expression they elicited from the passers-by. .

“That's the look." explained tho Charlottenburg, "which X um counting on to bring paying cus- tomers to the box office."

You stumbled over Europiums in the hallways of Twenty-one East, seated in clumps on the stairs, practicing their stylized postures before all possible mir- rors.

The Charlottenburg‘: part of the Mullane-Charlottenburg five-thou- sand-dollar coup had gone into Europlum, the Indian rope trick- ster project having dissolved into the Indian who arrived but with- out the trick.

The Europiums had moved into the Charlottenburg orbit through circuitous procedures starting with s Greek candy dealer on Third Avenue, where shs purchased the jelly beans shs habitually kept in s desk drawer against s short nervous cough. "The name itself is an investment I'll gamble onl ‘Chsrlottenburg, lnc. presents the Europiumsl"

"But what does it mean, Char- lottenburgl"

"So far as I can determine, it doesn't mean s thing except to l metsllurglst who dabble: in metal- lic elements of the rare earth group, That's part of its value. It's one of those plush horse words. No mutter what it moans, it sounds- continentsl, sophlsticst-. ed, cultural. Have you seen the Europiums? Obligation to lee them will go with the elegant word. I'm gambling on box office to bear me out."

"She'll probably put them over the way she did her Morning Ma- tinees." remarked Sierra to Kitty as they stood in the lower hall in wraps. the evening of the "first American" appearance of the Eu- ropiums.

"f could wish," complained Kitty

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