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There is Only One Thing to do and That ' is to be Firln in Your Demands for _t ,1 Less Frequent Visits From Them

Iothingligv 5110!‘! common : ' , w mffuibem ape voice of inexpereince.

' mony is over they find to their ale Just as much wed to

each other.

wives where they get on and on.

them dissatisfied with their bargains.

And there are other ill-laws who take the boys and girls their child- ren marry lrlto their affections and treatihem as lf they were their very own. ‘There are in-laws who never meddle in ' always stand ready to help. 'Ihere are l-n-laws who buck their own children up to do_t.helr duty and are largely responsible for making tnelr daughters good wives and their sons husbands who k€€5 their wives on theu' knees heaven for heir luck in getting theln.

But whatever faults or virtues the families of the newlyweds have. there‘ is ‘one trait that they seem to have in common, and that is a mana tor visiting their children that amount to a positive obsession. never cement to stay at home and apparently it never cccurs to them to go anywhere except to Mamles or 'Iom‘s, Tney are forever popular in- morninS. noon and night-without the slightest regard for the conven- ience of the poor newlyweds, or how much they are running up trle grocery bill, or how bitter are the thoughts ut Torn at having to sleep on a cot in the bathroom because Mother has flopped down in his bred.

Seemingly it never dawns on the minds of their families that Mamie and Tom got married iii order to be able to live by lflCHl-CAVGS‘ and be alone together, and that they would like to have a little prlvocy. and their house to themselvess without being cluttered up by relatives. one of these poor unfortunate victims of their ln-laws sends me this 50S tail. l-le says:

"We have been married about two years and live in a two-room apartment; My wiles peoiue llve six miles in tlie tcunarv nlLl her fsinel‘ find sister come in town ior work every day and they eat l..ll.cll l..tll u.. lliey corlie_ so early ln the morning that i have p; Llfeg; in mg kits-lien and they sit around while we eat breaklast, 0n sunmlys they all (less-end 11Don tls ,so that we never have any ol the privacy that ones liclii; nould afford in which to rest. -

“I do not want to be unreasonable or inhospitable and I realize that marriage is a glVE-flllii-IBKC’DICDOSILlOII, but I lhllrl‘; we would l.\3.\\: a much better chance at happiness if my wiles family would let us alone a little and understand that it is best for a young married couple to lite their own ll\‘€S. in their owii home and not be thrown with either oi the.r families too much.

its Up With Too Many Relatives? Then

than to hear a prospective bride or bride- aniaety; I Ian not marrying Mamie’: family or Tom's

e r after the cere- surprlse that the)’ other’; fathers and mothers and sisters and brothers as they are to

Now sometimes in-laws are nurses and some- times they are blessings. There are trouble-mak- ing mothers-in-law wno. according to statislics. a1’ first-aid to more divorces than all other cau.es combined. There are bcssy motners-ln-law wllo feel that they have a right to run their sons’ and daugh- ters’ homes and tell their children's husbands and There are moth- ers-m-law whose chief indoor sport is picking flaws in their children's husbands and wives and making

their children's pies, but

‘lhey ale i

, Dorothy 0t. COUNTY CLUB

~ By HOLLOWAY HORN

THE cook's CORNER

aunt's secretary."

“At. what hour did you call?"

“About half-past eight, I should 5a ..

"land you saw Mia: Stcnrilng?" “Yes”

"Will you please tell us what took place?"

"We walked in the woods. It was a beautiful night-a night I shall always remember. I hrlc. ask- ed her to marry mei Last night she gave me my final answer."

' hope was n satisfactory one?"

"She refused. We parted where we had met, a little after ten, I think."

"You were with her the whole time?" Ddlllniorc put lri.

"Yes. lt was a wonderful night."

“You said you disliked the ot- mosphere of the club, Mr. Par- niinter. What reason have you?"

"Can we account for tastes? I (llslike mauve and magenta intense- ly, but I crlnnol explain ivhy."

“What was it vou disliked ln the club?"

‘The whole atmosphere the visitors were parasites and the very atmosphere cf the place un- healthy. The old men who came from time to time had the appear- aiice-aiid probably the morals — of Satyrs I hated to think that Miss Stenning was in the Raine room with them."

"Till-is all very well, Mr. Par- inintei- but if you could keep a little more closely to the matter ln hand. What terms were you on with _vollr aunt?"

"We were friendly. I am. I trust, friendly with everyone. She railaci- resented mv attitude about ‘nor money."

"I can understand that," said Diicros drily. "Did she ever offer

"I have not. been rude to my wife's people, but I have shown them]

that I was not overanxious to have them wltli won't take the hint. We are moving soon to a nicer and larger ap.il'.~ menl and I am afraid that this is going to make cad matters worse and at our place. What would you advise me to do: '

Well, I would certainly advise you to move into a smaller instead of a larger apartment, because if you don't your worst tears will be realized. Your in-laws will never go home at all, and it is a cinch that your sisters- in-law and their dates will keep you awake hall the night. rurtncrmore, I would suggest to you that you observe the tactics that women use iii defending themselves against their iii-laws. You never see a husband's family have the run ot the house. Maybe the wife feeds them on cold shoulder is the reason they don} c.om'e for a second helping,

Here's An Idea From The Long-Ago

Dear Miss Dix-I don't. hold with what you say about women not hating to be called old maids. Matrimony ls a woman's sphere, and ll‘ she doesn't get a husband she feels that she has failed, no matter what else she has accomplished. Speaking for myself, I would marry any kind of a man if lie could even gasp out "yes" at the altar lust to have lVLR-s. attached to my name. Look at the dignity ls gives one. Go into any shop 111111 011 111W 59¢ B qlflet-lookl spinster asking to have her purchases sent ome. The clerk writes " rs.” and looks up to get the name. The customer says “Miss" Brownand the color rushes to her cheeks at the clerk's contemptuous look. Why? Because she hasn't a husband.

VERBUM SAP.

Answer:

Well, doesn't this sound like something that came out of the hair trunk in the attic? It has been years and years and years since I have heard a woman declaring that she would marry any kind of a man just m write MRS. in front of her name. I thought my sex had outgrown that particular bit of idiocy.

Of course, time was when a husband was a badge of respectabilliy that a woman had to flaunt in public. But nowadays whether a woman is proud of her husband and honored to bear his name depends on the manner of man he is.

If you think that just being able to put Mrs. before her name con- fers such a distinction on a. woman, how do you account for it that so many of the prominent women call themselves Miss even after they are married? ,

O O O t O O

I Keep Your Respectalillliy

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that 1101' sisters will come to spend lneu- nlghls and even have their dates l

l. Dear Dorothy Dix-I have been married for ten years t0 a 1111111

aiding vitamins. F menus can be prepared easily and quickly

fresh water or sea FISH. MIAITMINT o! IISIIIIES. orrAvlA.

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You'll enjoy it because it is tasty . . . ciously tender . . . and so full of health-

KI enjoy it because it will save you time, worry and work. There are over 6O kinds of Canadian Food Fish and Shellfish from which countless satisfying

You'll enjoy it because the whole family will really “do justice" to your meals. And they'll never tire of the variety of delicious dishes that can be made with

to help you?"

"Yes. But I refused. Doubtless she meant lt in a kind spirit. but my flowers do not need money of that kind. You should come and see my isrm: at the moment the cdrly cllrysanthemurrts are a joy. On Friday night I sent ncewlv tuo hundred dozen bunches to Cvvent Garden."

"Indeed," said Ducros vaguely.

“What kind of a man is your cousin, Mr. Parnllnter?" Dolllmore =ked

ivas a llian at all?"

"His name is John?" said blandly.

"To me. a man must have dign- ity or lie ceases to be a. man and sinks to the animals. My cousin is normally stupe-fled with alcohol. My aunt foolishly allotted him a thousand pounds a year, and by so doing made it quite certain that the state of stupefactlon would continue, He might have had a chance 1f he had had to work for his living. As it was. he had no chance."

Dolll-more

(covyrizht) Doliini listened ltb ‘Rut’ probably true" aid Dur- 1 lb infill» on“, ore w eu- ' s . - in: surprise. but Duel-oi . 1 qt- chowvd onion his approach: "You were in e "I understand be has been in l Dt- 111MB" club last night, Mr. Parminter?" prison." Dolllmorc pursued. 1-2 lb. brown will‘ "I wasn't in the club-I dislike "Yes. He nearly killed a man in 1 tableqpoon salt the whole atmosphere of the para- a drunken brawl. He was sent i teaspoon 8111891’ sltc place for too much-but I did down from his University and lat- 1_ teaspoon cinnem call hero." ei- deported from the United 1-2 teaspoon allaplce "rur what purpose?" states." 1- wwwvn flow " "To see Storming — my “He's been in the states then?" Chop the rhubarb. and onion.

combine with the other ingredients

Dommom asked smrpm until desired consistency

‘Obviously, or he couldn't have and boil

been deported therefrom. But he's ls obtained. . a dull, uninteresting person to m!” ellfllmb" gun discuss. Why not come over to my 1 lii- w “mum i" garden with me loi- all iloul- or 1 qt. chewed

ce so? Flowers are so much more in- 1 q‘- °h°PP°d °m°m

3 pints vinegar tefiéfiflmgafffl-id we llllvevrt tulle," 2 sreen WDWIB cheered said Dollimore. "Later on, I should 3 lbs. sugar _

like to very much. At the moment! we have this Job of work on hand. I'm afraid. Do you know why your cousin was deported?"

salt. ‘

-Boil the above together until ten- der. Then make a mixture of one maspoon turmeric, 3-4 cup flour. and 3 teaspoons mustard, and

"No. But ln all reliability lt “k . a. due m drlnk-—d ctly or in- enouzh @0111 111119831‘ "1 111 ° , glrlcuy}. paste; add alillihgflk the VBQBEBILLS

“Have you his Paris addres?" and _boil_ tin __, <1 -__é_

the mistake in this 0899i, "We haven't found it yet-

WHEN DElgliglglVllS FACE D . '1‘ i “A round of golf often gives one

The flower-grower thought: “I H . _ ._ n belieie 1 have." He felt in lils poc-- ldeafeficéoolllmore slgges ed, a Br kel and produced a small ncte- 11 5 -

“Then for goodness’ sake have one after lulwli. A quiet medul- uonhfter a good meal often K-Ve-‘i lne loeas."

They met again in the early W1?- hihg and uollllnore ioundmnls senior 011108!‘ l-atner depressed z" me 6018f “as Dean on the ‘phone, he said.

"On": I had three birdies this afternoon."

book. the flakes of which he turned slowly.

"rlere we are!" he said. "I-lcicl Latouri Rue St. Roch, I had to go to Paris some time ago 11nd mV aunt asked me to look him up. The Rue st Roch is a little street leading off the Avenue de FOrfira."

"Did you go there?" -

"Oh. yes. I had Promised my syo and our young womml" aunt that I would. It was quite a. u y 1., ilwrm‘ do small hotel." | Ducms Browne“ any y‘ The

I we do?—tnat's the question- chief offered to send Clirruthers down."

“And you saw him?"

“éYes. There was an American wlh him-a mos ilnprepossessinz ,, _ l. 1d Dom. Illlfi. I thought. Tliev were both mag“ ..“f,§u5‘},n§,°,f,’d'wh§2 1 flunk intoxcated, and they were both‘ u WAS either lnemandez or one o; very rude. I duly reported the re- ms pals and in scum way that sllilrtlof my visit to my ullfortunate- Son is maxed up mm W.

' said ‘

.. -- ' h a place like "Thank you very much, we ca“? seam -» goclgrtlgggkes he made a note lli his I mlffiesfilg§fe§wsfffio§fi°nqf 522331;“; “"I idolil‘ think we need troulble' frguitfhehergpk $353,511.53’; Ffifnffif vou any more." said Duel-cs. "I . fge‘ a wa one m-ng am fibnged i” you‘ it has been ‘ fsezcirttalnc. ' Iwasha Oxardew won't velllslivoi€tzlfsélngefgitli rm ab,“ » come here again while weare here. the flower-grower said. He kn°ws we ‘etheré, “t°w',l.kllieonbfii| "I'm not to sure." said Dolll- W111 11"“? 5"" ‘is war-Mk V”, "w" Llilnlegtielfatx; ‘ills chief toenionowi “W d e t n e oddltieg" ' sac EUCIQOS Iyrtlihin visitor had i ggegrlllelgagzfier "the inquest“ Talk gone. "No wonder that. young wo- .. man turned him down." i Ffilmandfizh “wig ..““1;fiat 1,1233%.’ “I should like to see his flowers i lief,‘ 9P6“ 1 5,,“ ‘a mmmure one of these days. He struck me HQ“ Wlad °i d5‘? m want to ‘a _ as being that rare thing—a. conl-. 1m 5a - 1 f!‘ bk b t’ u?“ plstely honest man. Simple, ofpeal" 1° g9 “hgrpéat 60kt me course. but honest." bus “e55 a5 Jiésbla o“ fie nc _' “He's either absolutely simple or Almwt’ evefy if hé“ e f “l? as deep as the sea," said Ducros celled 131m “L? ex‘ Dsfglewgkg tilliugiitruliy. "at first 1 thought he 111°°nde , 1 Y s" was diplly. but he soon altered that ‘"9 clear“ n“ °“ '

impression." "It is very unfortunate for you. .. .. _ I agree. Who do you think did it. mega ls an idealist, said Doll! Mr‘ Nmandez?”

"You said it was someone in that list. I don't want to criticize you in any way, but the whole place is open to you. You can search arty- where you care."

"I know that," said Ducros. "But it's unlikely that the man who did

fwel-now what do we do? Vlhat did they teach you in that College to do when you hall done it all and drawn blank."

“We were taught that the cri- mlnal—particularly the milrderer-

aivmys made one mktake." “Thaw very comgfrtmg‘ where-s Llllgwfilllilxg keep anflhing incriminat.

whom I love dearly and to whom I have been a good wife. rificed my own wishes to his in everything we have done.

him in his profession. home. have found out that he known it but myself.

me I woul though the thought of

Answer -

D111“ d0 lt- Y°11 W°111d Eel 110 hflllpfness cut of revenglng yourself on make you the more miserable. because if you betrayed him as he has betrayed You can live without him and world in the face. hut vmi c'"‘rl not "v:- without your awn The shame of having degraded yourself to his level would kill you.

DOROTHY DIX.

your husband. It would only pest.

I have made him an attractive and pleasant I have kept myself a good-looking, interesting woman. has been unfaithful to me and everybody has So I have ccme to the conclusion that if I went , out and made the fool out of my husband that he has been making out of - d. at least have the satisfaction of being even with him, al-

doing this repels me.

\ (To be Continued) ICED TEA

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What do you think? GRLSEDA.

vou. you would lose your self-res- hold up your head and lock the self-respect.

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How foolish that dream will seem when you wake up! But YOU B" wrong. say psychologists, to dismiss i it too lightly. For in your lilllest | dream may be a sign or symbol from i your unconscéouslilnind. warning you that all is no we .

Do you dream of a world all land Ind aklygrnot n living thing besides

curse .

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clues to problems that threaten your happiness. '

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i Activities _ ‘Iloved, is really a biennial but in

mu e grown as an annual. u the usegtdxey if started indoors early

BINIDIOTION

"mi lii ornforting warmth oi the aunetliet our bodv WNW"- m- tae cool of the waters t-hlt r1111

tilru shadowy 111N194.

bum bureau that brush my foaxoemvgith their fin-

we. “F” mn o! the thrush left there until sprind. In the cold m$1fi§°iflgil§ lingers sections when tlieweather turns m; the long breath, e deep frosty, fill up the frame wlth- dry breath, the breath of a heart leaves and cover with boards for without cere- winter ctlon. In mild districts no will give tlllillils llaa ldOfo Thee. tile iiigs OIII be put out in tile God of the Open beds. where they are to bloom. in

-—Henry Van Dike. the Fall

Panties will continue to bloom all the season if the dead flowers are removed and no seed pods al- lowed to form. If you wish to ob- tain extra large blooms pinch off Jle first buds that ar. may seem a sacrifice bu one ls rc- paid with larger blooms, afterwards.

There are a number of varieties of pansles, the finest varieties as a. rule are shy breeders which accounts for the difference ln price of the various sorts. A good mix- ture is the best for an ordinary garden.

Many people have trouble with pansies for they do not give them good eno h soil or the right loca-. tlon. Parlses love a rich soil and some shade. They may be trotllled with winter killing or in many cases spring killing. Unless some protection is given the alternate thawing and freezing of late spring spells their doom. Mulch