ENGAGEMENTS ANNOUN/CED '

JANE JOHNSTONE HENNING BREDOW

Mayor Edwin C. Johnstone and Bredow, Berlin, Germany. Mrs. Johnstone announce the en— Marriage will be performed by gagement of their daughter Jane the Reverend Melvin Fisher con- to Henning. son of Mrs. Karl- sin of the bride-to-be at -'Ne,wcas- Ludwig Bredow, and the late Mr. tie, Ontario.

ANDREW W. HUMPHREY

Mr. and Mrs. F. Lloyd Jenkins,ilard Humphrey, son of Mr. and Winsloe, wish to announce the en— Mrs. Robert S. Humphrey, Ken. gagement of their daughter, Bea- sington, P.E.I. Marriage to take

BEATRICE A. JENKINS

trice Amelia R.T. to Andrew Wil- place Tuesday, June 10th.

PHYLLIS JANE MULHALL

Mr. and Mrs. Cyril J. Mul-h-all Liverpool, N.S., a-nnounce the en- gagement of their daughter Phyl- lis Jane, to Donald John Mac- Neill, son of Mrs. MacNeill and

of Charlottetown. will take place on Saturday, May. 17, in Zion United_ Church, Liver- pool. ‘ .

DONALD JOHN MacNEILL the late Dr. R. Donald MacNei1I,

The wedding

Helen Cox |s,Presiclent ~

Beta SigmotPh

The regular meeting of Alpha chapter of Beta Sigma Phi was held at the home of Mrs. Temple Hooper on Thursday evening.

The president, Mrs. J. 0. Horn- by presided over the meeting. Plans were finalized for the an- nual Talisman Tea, Tuesday, Which is being convened by Mrs. Larry Slaght and Mrs. Jer- Tl’ Veinot.

After the business meeting the president, Ms. J. 0. Hornby can- ___________________

KILLED AT FALLS

NIAGARA FALLS, Ont. (CP)— The battered body of a woman. believed to have gone over Ni- agara Falls, was found Thurs- day afloat in the Niagara River. Niagara parks police recovered the body near the Canadian side. They said she appeared to have been in the water only a short time. She was about 45 years of age and weighed about 135 pounds A watch, wedding ring and dia- Iﬂind ring were on the body.

i Sorority

ducted the installation of the following slate of officers for the coming year: President, Mrs. He- len Cox; vice - president, Mrs. Ray Surden; recording secretary, Mrs. -Sidney Stead; correspond- ing secretary, Mr. Gerald Fos- ter; trasurer, Mrs. L a r r y Veinot’; social director, Miss Lena McLure. '

The program-me v“E)epressing Yourself” was presented by each member giving a three m-inu-te talk. Lunch was served by the

hostess assisted by Mrs. . Wm. Thompson a n d Mrs. _ Ph'Y1l1S Brbwn. ,

, reference to Mrs.

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Lena Caroline McL.ure. Women‘: Editor. Phone Bill

Williom Booth Tribute To His

“Home Was Not Home Without Her" is the heading for an article by William Booth in the War Cry. It is a tribute to Mr. Booth.’s mother.

“I had a good mother," the Army Founder, William Booth wrote. “So good she has ever ap- peared to me that all I know of her life seemed a striking con- tradiction of the doctrine of hum- an depravity. In my youth I ful- ly accepted that doctrine, and I do not deny it now; but my pat- ient, self- sacrificing mothef al- ways appeared to be an excep- tion to the rule. I loved my mo- ther “Fron infancy to manhood I

5/IARY HAWORT

Both Are .- At Fault.

Dear Mary Haworth: I would

like your opinion on the follow- ing: I work as secretary to a man of moderate success and comfortable income. My job has some importance in its field, and carries responsibilities. So much for background. I find myself quietly annoyed when my boss, in speaking of his wife to me, invariably refers to her as Mrs. Brown. I have met her on numerous occasions, have been entertained in their home several times, and she always uses her first name when speak- ing to me on the telephone.

I can't help feeling that this puts -me in the servant class,‘ that he is talking down to me. (I don’t speak this,wa.y to the char- woman who cleans my aIJa1‘l»' ment.) What do you think‘? Is it a foolish notion on my part? A. B.

JUST A BIG STUFY ,

Dear A.B.: The boss is being a bit stuffy, perhaps; but he is still more right than wrong, in my opinion, in customarily designat- ing his wife as Mrs. Brown, when he mentions her to the office help.

'Undeniably y du are being stuffy, too, and showing a twinge of inferiority complex. in feeling snubbed by his habitually formal Brown—even granting that it is a Victorianism on his part that indicates you haven’t attained to the status of family friend (in his book). According to the old school

tradition of ‘genteel manners, a gentleman permits himself three grada-tions of reference, when designating his wife. The formal reference. u s u a 1 l y employed in the social arena, when speak- ing, to professional associates, casual social acquaintances, etc., is “my wife.” The third or cord-- ially intimate mode of reference. used in the inner circles of family and close friends is tlet’s say) “Bessie.”

In fairness to Mr. Brown, I think you must concede that you aren't in fact a~ member of the Browns‘ inner circle, but rather a business acquaintance of his; the girl who does his office Work-

Therefore, I feel you ought to let him be the judge of just how close he feels to you; and that you shouldn’t be hurt simply be- cause his manner implies that his wife is, to him, a person to be wrapt in reserve, in a world

Saturday, May 10, 1958 The Guardian Page 7

Poys A Mother

lived in her. Home was not home to me without her. I do not re- member any single act of wilful disobedience to her wishes. When my father died I was so pas- sionately attached to ‘my mother that I can recollect that, deeply though I felt his loss, my grief was all but forgotten by the thought that it was not my mo- tiher who had been taken from me. .

“And yet one of_ the regrets that has followed me to the pres- ent hour is that I did not with sufficient tenderness and assidui- ty, a-t the time. attempt the im- possible task of repaying the im- measurable debt I owed to that

mother's love."

apart from his office routine.

M. H.

~HELP FOR COLLEGE

Dear Mary Haworth: I am a girl, 24, unmarried, with a brother in his third year at col- lege, and a sister who wants to start college next year. I have my own apartment, so my ex- penses are high; but my father would like me to help my brother go to summer school this sum- mer, and thus graduatela year earlier, as he can't afford. to keep two children in college at once.

I have a willing heart, and gladly would help if I could-—but I somehow can’.t find an extra job, for my evenings and Satur- days. I have an office job, five days a week, that pays me just about enough to take care of my- self. Your advice will be much appreciated. E.M.

Dear E.M.: If you canfind an extra jobsthat makes it possible to help your brother through sum- mer school, that’s great. But if you'can’t, then be thankful that you are helping your folks in an- other way—by taking care of yourself financially. That’s a sub- stantial contribution to the situa- tion.

When times are hard, it is sensible to learn to take stresses in stride. not torturing yourself about’ things you can’t change. Have you heard Marian Ander- son’s reverent recordin-g of the spiritual: “He Holds the Whole World" In His Hands"? It is a ca.ll to faith. If you were to put the whole world in God’s hands, figuratively. and pray for His guidance in meeting your fam- i1y’s needs, doors to opportunity might open wide. -— M.H.

'Mary Haworth counsels only through her column; not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper.

COMPLETE ROLL The town hall at Shakespeare's birthplace, Stratford - on - Avon, records all town officials since 1553.

WIFE PRESERVERS

E.a:o.esa:u a-as

Easiest way to potty windows is to mix the puny with pain! the color of the frames. This eliminates the

the army

tedious job of painting afterwards.

By IDA BAILEY ALLEN

Recently I was one of a five- member panel invited to discuss candy «and its plaice aumong rﬁoods at the yearly convention of the Retail Candy Store Institute. You will be interested in some of the q-uestions that were asked.

Question: Is c andy to be classed as a illood?

Answer: Ga-ndvy deﬁnitely is a ﬁood in the cambohydnate group. When it is eaten as part of the day’s calorie nation, it becomes part of the diet, I it when it is eaten as an extra, it becomes an accessory.

Question: How many calories does a piece of candy conrtain? CALORIES VARY

Answer: This depends on the kind of candy and the size of the piece.

-Chocolate-covered candles con- tain a higher percentage of ca]- onies, because of the ‘ﬁat content of chocolate, than candies con: taining no chocolate.

Candies are not as high in ca]- ory values as many people think.

In in regular one-«pound assort- ment, which includes 44 pieces to the box, each yields, on the aver- age, only 47- calories. Im a minia- ture assortment. about 70 pieces to the pound, each piece yrie1dis— only 27 calories.

Question; Is it a good plan for reducers to eat a piece of candy before meals to “dull” appetite?

Answer: Oandiy wrill “dull” -the appetite and less food will be eaten. _But the sugar of candy is so quickly absorbed into the bftdiy. that hunger soon reappears and _a snack invarisaibily tiollxovws, S0. 1'11 all. more calories are

TO A BELOVED MOTHER

A tribute for Mother’: Day in memory of Mrs. Daniel J. Mc- Cormack, Georgetown (a n d Boughton Island) from her chil- dren submitted by daughter (Gen) Mrs. James D. Lanigan, Cam- bridge, P.E.I.) _

0, precious Mother! from us you [have gone

Your dear, loved voice is stilled

The days are dark and cheerless, now,

The nights with loneliness filled.

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Your dear familiar sunny smile No more on earth we'll see,

For God has called you home . again, I

His Holy Will must be.

We hold you close in silent prayer In‘night’s stillness, breathe your name, ' Was ever a Mother‘: love like yours, . For each of us the same.

God made you wondrous fair. dear one,

With heart as pure as gold,

And we who knew and loved you best ‘

That treasure saw unfold.

Your outstretched hand a-tgopen door ’ Blessed all who [came your way, Your spirit brave and courage

rare‘ Turned darkest night today.

You made of life a wondrous thing.

God’s plan you carried through,

Our home was‘ blessed with warmth and love

Because God -gave us you.

You believed not in looking back.

The past was over and done.

Its memories cherished, you gaz- ed with faith

\ Into each Rising Sun.

The erring ones you censured not, The worthy, lauded ever.

You taught us’ this great precept ' here “The needy turn from never.”

You were so thoughtful, kind arid good,

You were one among the few,

Remembering, always, "the little

weight suits.

Monday, May 12”‘

All wool Tropical W0I‘St€dS 01'

priced much below usual.

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in the most humid Weathefl M of muted plain shades and soft- _ grey and brown. Save dollars on these

9 mm. to 5:45 pm.

Men’s Better 0ua|iy Summer Weight

MADE -TO-MEASURE

Smart men will be cool and comfortable I'hrough'1'he hot Summer. . . in these light-

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Concly Colories Lower Thom Usuolly Reolizeol

eaten. .

Question: When is the best time to eat candy?

Answer: As a dessert or after any meal. Children, who are very active and utilize a great deal of energy, often benefit from a small amount of candy along with their glass of milk in the after- noon aliter school.

T0ml0IlI‘l0W’~S Dinner — Spring cvoleslaaw, lamb-green bean stew with potatoes, hot biscuits, fresh fruit cup, chocolate cookies, cof- fee, tea or milk.

All measurements are level re- cipes proportioned to serve 4 to 6.

Sopni-ng Coleslaw: To 3 c. tine- -sihnedded, crisp green or savory caibobwage add 3% c. creamy French dressing. Then toss in 1 c. shred- dedatender raw spinach leaves and ‘ii c. shredded scallions with 1 in. of the green top.

Lamb-Green Bean Stew: Re- move the skin, fat and bones from 3 lamb shoulder. Cut the meat ll!lll3O bite-sized pieces. Melt 3 tbsp. butter -or margarine in a heavy, large saucepan. Add the lamb. Slow-saiute 10 min, or until light brown.

Add 1 chcrpoped peeled onion and l_ lib. shredded gnee'n ibeans. Con- tinue sauteeing 10 min. more. The add 1/2 c. canned tomato, 5 h3'1'V6d. peeled medium-sized po- tatoes, 1 c. water and 1 crushed bouillon cube. Add 1% tsp. salt, 3iHd_ ‘/4. tsp. vpepper.

Simmer-cook 1 hr. or until both vegetables and lamb are tender. Serve on and with hot biscuits,

Trick of the Chef:

For special seasoning. add ‘A

tsp. mint ﬂakes when making lamb stew. ,

things" They meant so much to you.

You ’gaVe your all to those you loved

To help them on life’s way.

And yet for those a measure full

Who from life's path might. stray.

Your life to us it always seemed

Was like the trackless sea,

Though ravages of tim e passed

They left no mark on thee.-

had

Your joys were shared with all you knew,

Your sufferings made not known,

We know in God’s Home you shall reap

The need in life "you've sown.

So on this Mother's Day, dear one

Our gifts of prayer we give

And you will smile on us and know,

Ever — in our hearts you live.

Not roses white for you we’ll wear, -

But rosaries we’ll say, .

For bylMary’s Holy Rosary

We know you've found “The Way."

Rest in Peace, sweet Mother!..

And when the cares of earth are o'er

With God and His heaven

We will meet. to part no more.

Blessed _ in

FIRST SUBWAY Steam engines were used on the world’s first underground rail- way. a four-mi-le stretch opened in London,‘ England, in 1863.

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$ALLsl'NG ALL MOTHERS by E. M. MacEwen

Mother‘s Day. what poignant memories it stirs in our hearts, especially those of us who have long since said goodbye to our Mothers. How privileged are they who still have the great pleasure of honoring their mothers on Mo- ther’s Day. Mothers are not only the worlds greatest diplomats, they are also the world’s biggest investors, perheips not in tepms of money but the investments by mothers in devotion, sacrifice and time can never be measured in dollars and cents, and mothers never collect revenues, even when a bit of appreciation is lacking, a mothers devotion never changes, she hides her disappointment be- hind a smile. There: is a beauti- ful old legend two mothers met at the foot of the Saviour’s cross, they looked into each others eyes, saw the light of divine love and forgiveness. They emibraced, one was the mother of our Blessed Lord.‘ The other the mother of Isca-riot. Mot-hers understand. MRS. WM. Mac«E»WEN 78 School Street.

TIGNISH

Mr.- C.F. Morrissey, Tignish, has entered Western hospital, Al- berton, on the advice of his doc- tor to have a routine check-up. Mr. Morrissey had been quite ill several years ago, but is now en.

check-up every few months will ~. insure this condition.

Mr. David Harper who had been employed with Eatons of Canada, at Toronto, in the book- keeping departiment since last summer, has returned to the home of his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Fred Harper, Christopher Cross, where he will remain for the spring and summer months, assisting his fa- ther with the work on the farm.

Mr. Charles Hogan, Summer - side, is visiting with his brother, Mr. Frank Hogan, Sea Cow Pond.

Mr. J. Arsenault, Egmont Bay, was a visitor-to Tignish last week and an overnight guest of Mr. and Mrs. James Gallant.

Mr. Raymond Gallant returned

to his home in Palmer Road from Prince County Hospital Where he spent several days while under- going surgery.

The fishermen of Tignish got off to a good start at noon April 30th, although the wind had been blowing a stiff breeze from the south-east, in the early day, and chances of leaving the shore were very slim, mother nature gave her help and the wind swung a-

round to the north-west about ten- '

thirty. With the change of wind the fishing sites changed from scenes of quiet to ones of hustle and bustle; baiting and loading of _

-traps into boats began immedia-;

tely and each and every man was all ready, boat engines were all runniing smoothly. ' DK

Orchestra Lowell I-Iuestis

MIDNIGHT DANCE SUNDAY