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PAGE TWO THE GUARDIAN MAY 1, 195i) 55 Modern Etiquette g fiHousehold Scrapbook? By Robert: Lee i lly norm-ui Lee 5 "A9. ' I

Q. Is it all right for a. man to Quill!

smoke his cigar or cigarette while in a public elevator?

A. No: ordinarily. he should discard it before entering the ele- vator, but if it is a "fresh smoke." he may keep it carefully cupped in his hand while on the elevawrv provided. of course that the eleva- tor is not too crowded. thus in- creasing his Ci'lilI1('t”S of offending Ir scorching someone.

Q. Should a wedding invitation Ind a wedding anr.-auncement be rent to the same person?

A. No; when an invitation is rent to a person. it is not neces-

sary to mail him an Blll'lOlll2l3c- nent later. Q. Should a man always rise

when a woman asks to be excused from the table during a metal?

A. Yes; he also rises when she returns and holds her chair for her, if she happens to be seated near him.

x- . I 2 Thai Body Of Young; ' By Junio-n W. Barton, ltl.D. k tExxkX DASE Eek 3'..!',E'X'aG EMOTIONAL DlSTl'RBANCES

MAY (MUSE SKIN AILMENTS

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To launder quilts. make a sen- erous lather with pure soap and 8 little washing soda and ammonia in enough modei-ately hot water to cover the quilt, and soak it for half an hour. Press the dirt out with a wooden potato masher or a cro- quet mallet. Do not ruib or wring Rinse in the same manner. Hang on the line to drip. and shake often. When partly dry. beat light ly with a rattan carpet beater to lighten the filling. Repeat several times.

Black Straw

To clean a black straw hat and restore the faded color, mix well together two-thirds olive oil and one-third jet black ink and go over the hat with a small brush.

Sticking Windows

When one experiences trouble in the raising and lowering of the windows, try rubbing a bit of par- affin on the window ropes, and considerable improvement will be noted.

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Q. How can I remove old var-

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"in dermatology (disease of thej skint. as in t,i.hcl' branches of, medicine, we must never lose sight' of the fact that the patient who seeks our aid is an individual fel- low-human. lie is not merely a! case of eczema or psoriasis, but a person who is surf.-riiig from it syrnptomfomplex, which we call: such and such. He is not like a Ford car or an Ingersoll watch, arii assemblage of standardized inter- changcable and replaceable parts.l There is somcthiiig more to lllllll than a set of mind and cliemlcal'

riish from furniture that is 'to be rcnr.-ishcd?

A. Put three tablespocnfuls of cooking soda into a quart of water and apply generously with a rough cloth. Sandpaper will then remove the varnish very easily.

How can I relieve nerves?

A remedy for tlrcd nerves. that is often effective, is to place a hot water bottle at the base of the spine. This is hlso a remedy for insomnia.

Q. How can I rernove rust that

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(bod), parts, were Lg 3150 . Depihas formed on the porcelain sink nonality, soul or whatever you W bathtubs , I . zhoose to call it, which constantlyi A' Rub me. Stains mm item" lmrcduces unknown factors 0,. ml, scne. Ilust stains that are caused ables. if this were not so the prac- by 1”” muqets can b9 removed Lice of medicine, instead of being; with lemon Juice 0' Vlncgan

an art would be a mechanical per- "T - . . B?N 'X formance similar to an autoniaticl wVK'K7? TNMM"

J - stoker." (7) I am quoting in full. Dr. D. E. ll., j The Siwrs Say ' ' E Slareland. Vancouver. 8. C.. in. . , . r The Canadian Medical AS50('li1-' ): By henevlew Ktmble t

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Dr. Cleveland points out that the skin. his appearance, is always on the patients nilrrd as it is always exposed to his own observation.

someone has heen unkind enough to say that when 1 physic- ian does not know what is causing

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For Tuesday, May 1 EXCl3LI.ENT- auspices for in- creased accomplishment. possibly in surprising or pmullar relations or objectives. are shown in this day's astrological forecast. While

zertaln symptoms he tells the pat- ient that they are due to "nerves." We know that the irerves-emo- tional disturbances -- cause many sudden changes or smiptoms in us such as rapid heart, gooseflesli from fright. desire to urinate, ex- cessive penpiralicn and others. some months ago. Dr. M. G. Brun- uer. l'nive-rsity of' Illinois in "Archive: of Dermatology and Syp- lillology," stated that the emotions caused CllCIli;.'ES in the skin be. cause tiiesc emotions cause an in- creased flow of adrenalin-like sub- stances. It is this secretion from the a:l:'erial glands that has such dramatic cffects upon' many, if not all, of the body processes. It raises the blood pressure. is used to re- vive the heart that. has stopped beating. is used more than any other drug in nose and sintu all- ments, and enters to some extent into Acth, the new wonder drug for arthritis.

Generally speaking. when emo- tional disturbances cause skin re- actions it is because of some frus- tration in the life, past. or present, of the patient which may affect the tissues and make him more snnsitive or allergic to various sub-

stances. ALLERGY Send today for Dr. Barton's helpful booklet entitled "Allergy"

which means being allergic or sen- sitive to various foods and other substanrcsi. send 10 cents and a 3-cent stamp, to cover cost of handling and mailing, to The Bell Syndicate, Inc, in care of this newspaper, Post Office Box 99. Station G. New York 1!), N. Y.. and ask for your copy.

the highest results may arise from an inner drive, in which the un- usual or fantastic may be stressed by impulses or nmntioiis, at the same time the.e is a change from

some repulse, mlscue nr subtle rather than open antagonism. Confidence. a rare stroke. may

prove spectacular in end results.

Those whose birthday it is are notified that a subtle. novel or peculiar urge or impression may turn the tide of opposition or en- mity ill) which pride and pocket- book are in danger: into spectac- ular levels of surprise and accom- plishment. Keen insight, alert- ness and a firm faith in inner urges or unaccountable drives or compulsions, could promote a crisis of gratification and happi- ness. Feelings and emotions may prove dependable and workaible. Fall back of strategy or "hunches" in such crises.

A child born on this day, while subject to crucial situations in its affairs, feelings. and substantial assets. may defeat such menace by

its astute, subtle and intuitive forces. gi Morning Smile E4

TAKE IT BACK

"Don't you like the new darling?" inquired the man.

"Like it?" countered the little woman.

"After all the trouble I went to learn how to shift gears, and you come home and tell me this car doesn't have any.”

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After the manner of I petulent child. who pout: and smiles by turns. or a tempermental miss en- joying her varied moods. so A ril withdrew her favors of yester ay. which had made the Sabbath so lovely, and returning to a former indifference today offered a dreary day. Flurries of snow above the hills; troubled waters in the niillpond below the front meadow; muddy paths about the yards and dampness against the panes . . . We particularly recall the latter since we were moved to clean. windows in spells of leisure today. our incentives being a voice on the "line" as we waited at James' expressed wish to call Rob for him, which said: "Done! Why I was done long ago - except for ends of fixing up!" and Jeanie imsy at hers, and come to the place where freshly laundered curtains hang at the windows.

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And it came to mind as we ap- plied the cleaning agent and "sur- veyed the landscape o'er" that Jamie would be disappointed not to find the sun climbing over his hilltop this morning. But accept- ing the clouds and g.'ayne.xs, '.lS nc slipped suspenders over young shoulders. he would be off down stairs and out presently to look for such gifts as the night inlght have brought. These appear now in stables or piggeries, and lacking any new arrivals there, a straw;-' nest in a corner of the poultry- house is bound to yield an egg these days an intriguing af- fair compared with other gather- ings from there. Akin to those of ilic r.;cent Easlertide and pre- sented by the pair of ducks, she a modestly govvned matron, but knowing, and he. the handsome green-necked escort that with her waded and fished and loved the Spring streamleis and puddles about ihe yards. "It's blue!" the younger lad reported of a first find. when the family from Rob's Joined us at supper on Saturday afternoon "blue-and big!" .

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Granddaughter, delighted with li:r privilege. brings in pointed speckled eggs these days, holding them carefully between pink palms -or whiles the time she inusl wait the event of the laying by taking expectant trips to the poul- try-house at intervals. "I just be- lieve." she twinkled this afternoon when the period of waiting was becoming tedious "that old tur- key's been so long. it won't be an egg I'll find in the nest, but a baby turkey!" The sparrows work- ing as busily as any housewife at her seasonal cleaning are tucking strawy nests in convenient places in the "ivy" that clings to the house. and on a broad caves-nook, a pair of them have set up house- keeping. They tuo will own speck- led eggs for us to destroy in sea- son - and destroying sigh for the broken dreams of these small in- duslrious, but frowned-upon crea-

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"You could never guess uliat birds I saw this morning!" grand- daughter said blithely coming in through the day with a sizable silky-haired black dog on a leash at her heels. "Wild geese?" ”Noi -but I did see loLs of them this Spring!" she replied. "Ducks then?" "No - not ducks either!" "Then it must have been the crane -the heron - bird that's come back to fish in the millpond?" we offered. "No - but I saw him. and isn't he funny?" she smiled. "Was it the wood-pecker at the telephone pole?" She shook her head. "I knew you couldn't guess", she commented smugly. "My father (this to make it dra- matic!) and I saw 1 mother and daddy pheasant in the field over there". she nodded. "when we were hauling manure this morning. And you never saw a more beautiful bird than he is - she's smaller, and has no bright feathers like he has. Why he's very pretty!"

It is however an owl that calls lonily into tonight's dark, so James says. "Calling for fine weather!" James at the door laughs to Mr. C. homing. "Yes, I'd say we'll likely get a fine day tomorrow . . . we could do with a few to dry things up - not that we want the crop- ping too soon! There's a lot to be done yet before we're ready for that. But it will come in it's own time - we can neither hurry it, not delay it! Well, good-night . . . and Safe Home!" So the family at this house at Alderlea come to day's end.

Until tomorrow -- Diary-Good- night . . . .

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PINEAPPLE BAR! FILLING:

V. cup sugar

1 tablespoon cornstarch 1 cup cnished pineapple 1 teaspoon lemon juice

CRUST:

1 cup sifted all-purpose flour

1 teaspoon salt

1 cup brown sugar. firmly packed

21,, cups quick cooking rolled cats

1 cup shortening

Combine sugar and cornstarch; add pineapple tundriiinedi. and cook slowly until thick and clear. Add lemon juice. and cool.

Sift flour and salt. add sugar and rolled oats. cut in shortening. "Iii for pastry. Place half this crumb mixture in a well greased 9 x 13- inch pan. Put down smoothly. sprud with cooled pineapple mix- ture. sprinkle with ruislning

crumbs. patting smooth. . Bake in moderate oven (351!!! for approximately 46 minutes. Co'.'

mixture in pan, then cut into ban. autmiettc in lemon! direction.

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Woman Reproaches Husband For Business Reserves

DEAR MISS DIX: I am a married man with a wife and four children. I have been fairly succen'ui. but recently I have had re- verses which necessitated selling our home and which have forced me to deprive my wife of some of the things to which she has been ac- customed. My wife is furious over the situation. She nag: at me all the time. reproachea me for bad management and criticizes me even to the children. This has got me into such a nervous Stllifle that I have about lost all confidence in my- se

Do you think she is giving me a fair deal. par- ticularly an I am devoted to her and the children and have no,thought but for their welfare?

JOSEPH F.

ANSWER: I think that your wife is giving you a rotten deal and that she in the poorest sort of sport. Any woman is a sliirker and a qultter who doesn't stand by her husband in his mis- fortune and share his ill luck with -as good a grace as she did his prosperity. LACKS SENSE

Also. she knows that she not only has lack of heart but lack of sense. because by her conduct she is doing everything possible to kill the goose that lays the golden egg and keep you from ever getting on your feet again. For she in breaking down your morale. and when that is gone everything is lost. I

To have a business venture go awry, to lose money. even to have to give up your home is bad. of course, but it is only a passing mil-! fortune to those who take it in the right spirit. Often it is a blessing in disguise, because we learn wisdom from our failures. and when we; find ourselves blocked in one direction we turn in another. 4

But it is only the man who does not get discouraged who can pro- fit by his losses. He must keep his heart high. He must still have faith in himself. and It is very difficult to do this if he has a melan- choly wife at home who whines over her misfortunes and wetrblankets every plan and saps his courage by her prophecies of disaster. .

The woman who wants her husband to succeed must hold up his! hands. She must breathe freah courage and hope into him. She must make him feel that she has faith in him. For that kind of a wife a man can go out and fight the world and conquer. y I

But the woman who sends her husband to the battle with his ears full of her lamentations over his failure and his heart bitter with the sense of her disloyalty has no fight left in him. Fair-weather. wives are no better than fair-weather friends.

I am very much in love with a man who ex- pects me to marry him. but he is a drunkard. If I quit him. he will be at my heels and I won't be able to forget him. If I marry him. I will be a wreck. I have lost out once in the game of love and I know the pain. but whether it would he better to be an old maid. for lam pust 30. with a heart longing for some one to love. or to, marry our: who will be sure to cause me suffering. is a problem Ii czinnot solve.

LOTTIE I

ANSWER: Well. Lottie. the difference between being an old maid and It drunkard's wife is the difference between a pin prick and a major operation. One will be a passing pain and the other an agony that will tear at your very vltais.

Suppose you don't marry. A lot worse things can happen to a woman than that in these days when women can support themselves in comfort and be financially independent: when they can have their own little homes and their own friends. V

Suppose sometimes you are lonely. The old maid doesnt have the licart-breaklng. torturing loneliness of the wife who sits ul? Wailing for ft drunken husband to come home at night Sllllpose Y0" 410 i-rave love. Do you think that the woman who has a sot for It husband gets much joy out of his maudlln affection. or iliui she even ('nres for the love of the weakling that she has to fish CU! 01 ii" gutter? , ,

Suppose you do long for-children. Would you be willing I0 Com; mil the crime of giving innocent little children a drunken father. can you think of any suffering that a woman can be called upon to endure greater than seeing her children half slurred. rugged. drag- ged down into the depths of poverty and misery by ii drunken father!

Consider lhcse'things well before you marry a drunkurd just be-

DEAR MISS DIX:

Facts Hy F. l. 'MuArthur

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, A peculiar sect sprang up in

England in 1645. the members of

I which professed themselves incap-

. able of shining and in the c I- tion of Father Adam before and Eve were driven from the Garden of Eden. They were given the name of "Renters", because of their violent lestlculatiom and silly utterances.

l Cooking. as a hobby. appeals to

lmany men. The late Bob Davis, a well-known newspaper man. was a famous amateur chef, and his recipes are eagerly sought after by many housewives. Bob Davis was well-known to this scribe as

i he paid many visits to our beauti-

, ful Garden of the Gulf. When not

i cooking. Davis liked to fish. His favorite stream was the old Dunk River.

Children's stories were told in India over 3000 years ago. or a thousand years before Jesus Christ. came into the world. These stories were first told in Sanskrit. the sacred language of the people of India. Today we are able to read them in English and clever little stories they are. with a moral at the end. "Don't count your chickens before they are halcned" and "The great are often selfish' in their patronage of those who help them" are examples of how- these 3000 year old tales ended.

Three important arks are meri- tioned in the Bible. namely: Noah's Ark. the material of which is un- known tgopher being untranslat- ed): the Ark of the Covenant. which was ruade of skitlcm wood overlaid with gold: and the Ark in which the infant Moses was laid and hidden in the Nile River. Egyptian mothers still use this kind of ark and swim across the Nile, pushing the Ark with its in- fant occupant in front of them

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The tallest trees in the world are found in California and Aus- tralia. The Californla giant is called the "Sequol", while Aus- tralia's giant is the "Eucalyptus." . Both species have been known to

reach a height of 500 feet. If you

ever pay a visit to California, go to CBIBVEFBS County and there you'll see a g eve of the famous monarchs of the forest. The esti- mated age of these trees is be- tween two and three thousand years.

The largest of all flowers grows

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